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Have any of you become more open minded overall since starting meets?

 

Do any of you now enjoy services you thought you wouldn't?

 

Have any of you discovered new types of play that you enjoy, that you would never have even thought of, if you hadn't started punting? 

 

Has anyone's sexual confidence increased from the experiences?

 

Girls, have you increased or decreased your services since starting?

 

 

 

 

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Cetrtainly, although me and the ex had a regular and varied sex life there were some things we never tried. You do need time to find your feet and grow in confidence when you start doing this but now I'm pretty comfortable with it all.

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Yes to all but the last one of the above

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Watersports always crossed my mind but it wasnt even worth mentioning at home. Tried it with a wg not long ago and loved it.

RO is a big thing for me but my wife doesnt like it so i have really indulged since starting punting.

As yet i havent really opened up much but certainly feel more liberated

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Definitely have become much more open minded which combined with a confidence in asking for certain services has led to some great punts over the years.  After all it is my money, so I make sure that confirm the more specialist services before a punt.

 

I used to be fairly vanilla both at home and when punting, but now actively seek out ladies who provide watersports, anal play, and strapon services.  At home there is no chance of CIM, let alone anal play!!!

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Have any of you become more open minded overall since starting meets?

 

Do any of you now enjoy services you thought you wouldn't?

 

Have any of you discovered new types of play that you enjoy, that you would never have even thought of, if you hadn't started punting? 

 

Has anyone's sexual confidence increased from the experiences?

 

Girls, have you increased or decreased your services since starting?

 

I recently enjoyed hot dogging with a lady something different but it is more enjoyable with ladies who have nicely shaped bum. <_<:P

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Yes I now enjoy vanilla services where as before I was getting card board missionary and no oral services!!

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I recently enjoyed hot dogging with a lady something different but it is more enjoyable with ladies who have nicely shaped bum. <_<:P

 

Hmmm, hot dogging is great with proper nuru and other slippery services. :wub:

 

-W

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100% yes....tried so many things and I guess therein lies the utter pleasure of punting with different ladies - different experiences etc.

 

My favourites are:

 

Spanking (giving and receiving) - never thought I was kinky like this

Facesitting - OMG love this

Footworship - totally smitten by ladies feet.

Anal: can't get enough and simply adore this pleasure (giving of course).

To mention only a few!

 

So yes certainly have become very open minded but feel I have only just begun - I like pushing my limits and enjoy meetings ladies who like to explore this - honestly sometimes I think punting is like an extreme sport! :)

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When i started I simply wanted to resurrect a failing sex life but my horizons have certainly be broadened.  I wouldn't say my sexual confidence has increased as I don't think I had a problem before,  luckily any diminishing bedroom abilities that come with age have been compensated for by that self ease which also comes with age.

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I wouldnt say open minded.It has helped in other ways.When not drunk i am genrally painfully shy and find it hard talking in front of groups or new people(oddly enough apart from at work)Since starting this i find it much easier.They do say that a good way to defeat your fears is to deliberately put yourself in uncomfortable situations and afet lieing there naked,chatting to a strange naked lady(i mean strange as in someone you hadn't met before not odd strange)chatting in a social,clothed environment is suddenly tha much easier

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Thanks for all the comments ;)

 

I'm way more open minded than I was before I started!  There are some things I still refuse to do though.

 

I was never shy in the bedroom, though my confidence has still noticeably increased from the experience of trying new things!

 

I could never return to vanilla sex.

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Pretty fortunate with my sexual partners and we were very "open minded" indeed...but there are a few things I enjoyed more in this world which will remain a secret until the end of time...

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Watersports always crossed my mind but it wasnt even worth mentioning at home. Tried it with a wg not long ago and loved it.

RO is a big thing for me but my wife doesnt like it so i have really indulged since starting punting.

As yet i havent really opened up much but certainly feel more liberated

I've never tried giving or receiving watersports.  If I ever tried this, it would have to be giving and receiving wee.

 

For years, I had no interest in RO.  I used to think a fanny was not the most beautiful part of a girls body.  Fast forward a few years, and I now have the view that if I really 'fancy' her then her fanny is beautiful!  I enjoy RO with girls that are 'truly' my type.

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I was a pervert before i started, and this has just allowed me to act my kinks out, some I've found I like (anal & rimming), some don't do much for me (strapons) and some I've done once and probably won't be repeating (watersports).

 

I've been introduced new things since i've punted (tea and Ice blow jobs) but I wouldn't say Ive been introduced to anything that I would describe as making me either more perverted or open mnded, the same however can't be said for porn which has definitely depraved and corrupted me :blink:

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100% yes....tried so many things and I guess therein lies the utter pleasure of punting with different ladies - different experiences etc.

 

My favourites are:

 

Spanking (giving and receiving) - never thought I was kinky like this

Facesitting - OMG love this

Footworship - totally smitten by ladies feet.

Anal: can't get enough and simply adore this pleasure (giving of course).

To mention only a few!

 

So yes certainly have become very open minded but feel I have only just begun - I like pushing my limits and enjoy meetings ladies who like to explore this - honestly sometimes I think punting is like an extreme sport! :)

My arse gets grabbed a lot, and I grab the girls arses, I haven't specifically experienced spanking though.

 

Never been face sat on.  I don't fancy it either.

 

I like the shape of girls that have really elegant feet.  I don't worship their feet though, as I prefer them to wear high heels etc. that hold and show off her feet in that sexy position!

 

I've had girls asking me to fuck them in the arse.  Fucking her arse hole is definitely fun!  I'm actually surprised by how many girls want this.

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I recently enjoyed hot dogging with a lady something different but it is more enjoyable with ladies who have nicely shaped bum. <_<:P

 

Is 'hot dogging' something similar to 'hide the sausage'  ?   :)

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I've become more relaxed about sex and in general interactions with women. I've had a good range of sexual experiences in my personal (i.e. non-paying) life but always felt some pressure, trying to be nice and caring (i.e. 'fluffy'! :D ) and to not screw up the experience for either of us. That's all well and good and I'm sure it was appreciated by my partners but it made the whole experience a bit more hard work for me, although the rewards were sometimes great!

In the wonderful world of paid-for sex, I don't feel that pressure. That's not to say that I behave like a selfish, ill-mannered pig - I don't! - but as a paying customer, I don't feel that I have to go the extra mile to please her, unless I happen to feel like it. I can simply relax and allow her to do her job: giving me pleasure. The knowledge that I can buy that experience any time I like has made me more relaxed around women in general.

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Is 'hot dogging' something similar to 'hide the sausage'  ?   :)

I guess you could hide it if her cheeks are big enough. The general idea is to have the sausage between the buns!

Mustard is optional and generally not recommended.

-W

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I was a pervert before i started, and this has just allowed me to act my kinks out, some I've found I like (anal & rimming), some don't do much for me (strapons) and some I've done once and probably won't be repeating (watersports).

 

I've been introduced new things since i've punted (tea and Ice blow jobs) but I wouldn't say Ive been introduced to anything that I would describe as making me either more perverted or open mnded, the same however can't be said for porn which has definitely depraved and corrupted me :blink:

I love rimming! Again, has to be giving and receiving.

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When I was young I was sexually abused by women and had a lifelong fear of being trapped during sex. Recently a wg tied me to the bed and blew me. I expected yo be turned into a nervous wreck, screaming to be released. But it was oddly pleasant.

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When I was young I was sexually abused by women and had a lifelong fear of being trapped during sex. Recently a wg tied me to the bed and blew me. I expected yo be turned into a nervous wreck, screaming to be released. But it was oddly pleasant.

 

And you asked her to make sure she does not miss a knot for you to escape, right?   :D

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Definitely have become much more open minded which combined with a confidence in asking for certain services has led to some great punts over the years.  After all it is my money, so I make sure that confirm the more specialist services before a punt.

 

I used to be fairly vanilla both at home and when punting, but now actively seek out ladies who provide watersports, anal play, and strapon services.  At home there is no chance of CIM, let alone anal play!!!

I'm not too fussed about CIM.  As long as she's happy to give OWO, I'm satisfied.  If a girl doesn't swallow, but does CIM, I'd prefer to cum on her face or body instead.

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I did not even check to see if there was a bloke dressed as Batman in the wardrobe; Annabelle!

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Yes I now enjoy vanilla services where as before I was getting card board missionary and no oral services!!

LOL!  Makes me realise how crap the sex was with civvy girls! 

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