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When To Ask?

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Hi

 

Just wanted to check when the best time is to ask about specifics when booking an escort, should I request certain things before we meet or wait until I get there, I dont want to kill the vibe but need to know I will get what I want before I book. Only recently started but getting addicted!

 

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J

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It depends on what you are looking for such as the lady dressed in a certain way, or a request for specific services

 

As I look for fairly specific services that are generally offered by all escorts, I always confirm that they offer XYZ services before making a booking.  On arrival, I reconfirm that they are available if I have not seen her before.  This approach certainly works for me, and none of the ladies have told me that I sound like a pervert for asking. 

 

From what I have read on this and other forums, Ladies would prefer that punters are able to communicate what they want to ensure that any appointment is a mutually enjoyable one, they after all, are not mind readers!!

 

Good luck and enjoy your new hobby!!

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With a wg I've not met before, I firstly check her preferred means of initial contact (which could be anything from email, text, phone call etc.

If it's an email I send a general enquiry suggesting a couple of dates/ times to see when she's available. Assuming she replies I'll confirm services then. Depending on how I feel comms are going I might ask to call her and will reconfirm during the call.

You'll probably get a few different answers but the above has worked well for me. Then again my tastes are fairly vanilla as the only essentials for me are OWO, kissing (pref DFK) & RO.

I do think it's worth checking what services you're after before meeting, some always reconfirm on arrival before handing over the cash.

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If it's a deal breaker, then ask upfront before making the booking.

 

If it's for clothing or any other preference which she made need to prepare, then as much notice as possible - preferably before the day itself, if not certainly not less than 1 hour prior. Nothing worse than planning what to wear for the day, then at the last minute being asked for xyz which you have to then may not have time to go find. It also gives her chance to say "No I can't or don't want to do that".

 

A few men don't realise that a particular style of lingerie/stockings, shoes, don't go with the other things requested.

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I think you should ask before you book. When you are sending an email and she agrees to a date or agrees she will book you then follow through and ask with your requests.

As you could be wasting her time by booking her and waiting til you get to the door to confirm things you didn't ask for before hand! :) x

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Thanks for your help, think I got it now! :)

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If it's services then on email beforehand so you and her knows your expectations and if they can be fulfilled during the session. As for general chit-chat, they're best conducted during the booking and also so you don't come across as a TW.

-W

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I always ask for the 'specific' services I require at the time of booking.  If she is unable to do any of the services, I move on to a girl who can.  If she says at her discretion, I also go elsewhere.  If you agree to discretion, she can refuse any of your services on the day, and she doesn't have to give a reason why.  There are endless girls that are well reviewed and will give you everything you want, so there's nothing to worry about.

 

I would say don't hand any money over until you're happy with everything.  A brief chat when she arrives should be very helpful to you.

 

I've found it's best to give plenty of notice for anything that can be time consuming, from role play ideas to clothing and footwear requests.

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I always ask for the 'specific' services I require at the time of booking.  If she is unable to do any of the services, I move on to a girl who can.  If she says at her discretion, I also go elsewhere.  If you agree to discretion, she can refuse any of your services on the day, and she doesn't have to give a reason why.  There are endless girls that are well reviewed and will give you everything you want, so there's nothing to worry about.

 

I would say don't hand any money over until you're happy with everything.  A brief chat when she arrives should be very helpful to you.

 

I've found it's best to give plenty of notice for anything that can be time consuming, from role play ideas to clothing and footwear requests.

 

Indeed, that is the best as lots of girls can change their priorities..... or need to, just as any other guy.  The worst is to change your mind when the other person is on his/her way to you.

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