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Called After 2Am

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In a nutshell...girl at a parlour became my regular after we seemed to hit it off. Recently her usual days became erratic and when I did get to see her, she said she was thinking of finishing. She suggested I give her my number so she could contact me if and when she went independent. So I did.

 

She texts me that evening as I'm heading home from seeing her. I call the parlour a few weeks later and she isn't in, despite what online rota says. I drop her quick text to ask when she'll be in again. She tries to call me whilst I'm at work, so I text back to apologise for not being able to take call and ask when she's free next.

 

Few days later get text saying she's not in parlour any more and if I could get a hotel we could still meet on an independent basis. I'm fine with this, a few texts go both ways, and I look at hotels where she suggests.

 

A week or so later I text her to ask about when convenient and get a text back from her, but from a different number saying she's lost her phone and would now be on this new number, but that she was away for a few weeks. I text her back on the new number to say fine, and check it was ok to still contact her. She texts back that she'll be in touch when she's back. Although I wonder how she responded to my original text if she had lost her first phone, I leave it there.

 

Get a call after 2am a few nights later from the number that turns out to be her old number, although didn't know as I hadn't stored it under a name. A bloke asks if he could speak to a guy with a different name to mine. I suggest he has wrong number, then he asks if I'd been sending texts to an escort by the ladies name. A little shocked I say no, and he says it's this number. Again I say he has wrong number and he gets a bit garbled but tells me it would 'be in my interest' to not contact her again. I tell him I know nothing, how dare he call me after 2am and that if he calls and threatens me again I'll pass his number to the police. He tells me not to contact her again and hangs up.

 

Obviously if she gets in touch from this point she will be ignored. Reason I post this is that the caller did know something about me, which I'll not mention, although he got my name completely wrong. I think he did some internet digging, using my number as a starting place, and found something that could plausibly trace me to my place of work. I am a tad concerned about privacy, although unmarried and very single. I'm almost certain it's just a jealous ex or something that has come across her texts after checking her phone, but you never know. Just wondered if anyone had experienced anything similar in the past?

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Ive not experienced anything like this but my advice would be to block both numbers you have for the girl and avoid all future contact.

You really dont need the possible aggro this could lead to just for "paid for sex"

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What a nightmare, and sorry to hear about your problems.

Sounds like you did the right thing by denying everything, and by saying you'll not have contact with her again. You did far better than I'd have done! What a twat that guy is.

If you think you can be traced via your mobile number I assume you don't use a punting phone? I'm not having a go by saying that as I use my personal number myself for a couple of wg's I keep in touch with and there's always the potential for something like this to happen, and it clearly shows the benefits of having one. I've had a couple of lucky escapes when things I've done have nearly come back to bite me on the backside, but nothing as bad as what's happened to you.

One final thing if you don't want her to make any further contact, I think I'd be changing my mobile number and starting a new AW profile (assuming you have one and she knows it).

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I feel for you.

the reason most of us pay is so we can walk away without agro. 

if you cannot change your number, just block their number (s)

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Maybe before blocking her numbers send a quick text to her new one explaining what has happened.I say this as maybe the fella that called you may have been her current bf,ex and didn;t/doesn't like her working.It could also have been an obsessed punter who swiped her phone and is now scaring all the "bad" men off to keep her for himself.If it is the latter the text at least gives her a heads up that she has a crazy problem so could hopefully make steps to deal with it.

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I could be wrong but it looks like her 'manager' wants to control every aspect of her life...... or maybe she went back to her manager (after thinking she is experienced enough to organise bookings on her own but did not make the amount of money she thought she could make it alone) and he wanted to check all her contacts she 'dared' make without telling him.

 

It is all about money and the greediness of both parties.  Probably it would be best to avoid that place in the future as it might promote the same kind of 'managements'.  Good luck anyways.

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I could be wrong but it looks like her 'manager' wants to control every aspect of her life...... or maybe she went back to her manager (after thinking she is experienced enough to organise bookings on her own but did not make the amount of money she thought she could make it alone) and he wanted to check all her contacts she 'dared' make without telling him.

 

It is all about money and the greediness of both parties.  Probably it would be best to avoid that place in the future as it might promote the same kind of 'managements'.  Good luck anyways.

So her you think it may be her "manager" phoning people up,warning them off from ever contacting/booking her again?Sorry but that sounds like a if Paddy was her manager joke.

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Never thought I'd need a separate phone, being single and all, but you live and learn. If she does get back in touch there'll be no reply. Shame, she had the most awesome rear and being with her was like being with a GF.

 

C'est la vie.

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So her you think it may be her "manager" phoning people up,warning them off from ever contacting/booking her again?Sorry but that sounds like a if Paddy was her manager joke.

 

I never said 'warning'.  I came across such people by mistake in the past and what they care about is control and the amount of money they can make of anyone.

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I never said 'warning'.  I came across such people by mistake in the past and what they care about is control and the amount of money they can make of anyone.

The op however does state he was warned off of her,to not ontact or see her anymore "he gets a bit garbled but tells me it would 'be in my interest' to not contact her again".

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Yeh sounds like a bf or even husband who has found out about this. Nothing wrong with trying to organise a indi meet but she seemed disorganised from start like most wg are who work indi and havent been doing it for long

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