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Why Do Wgs Get So Fussed About Punters Reading Their Profile?

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It's OK, I'm already wearing my flak jacket before asking this question.

 

Why do ladies seem so bothered that people should read all their profile before making contact or ask questions already answered in them? After all, a profile is nothing more than an advert for the lady herself. Surely, the fact that it has resulted in a phone call that may eventually lead to a booking is a result in itself.

 

If the same lady were buying a new car, for example, she would not expect to read the whole spec of the machine before setting foot in a showroom and talking to the salesman. How many times must a prospective customer ask a salesman how many miles a particular model of car does to the gallon. Yet, she could easily have found this out for herself. by looking at the details in a brochure. The salesman doesn't get upset about it and tell the customer that she could have read it if she'd looked at the brochure properly : he is glad of the opportunity to engage the prospective customer in conversation and enhance the bond between seller and prospective buyer.

 

In the case of a WG, she is her own saleswoman. So, why doesn't the same logic apply, rather than the lady complaining, as we see here frequently, that the prospective punter hasn't read her profile properly. After all, we are all potential customers, and, probably, don't like the criticism of our own breed  Even worse are the profiles which say, in effect : 'Don't bother phoning if you haven't read the whole profile';. I never read beyond that, and never phone.

 

Sure, the lady might be busy, but, so are other salesmen, and it doesn't stop them interacting with their customers.

 

What is the logic for the attitude? If it comes through to likely customers, as it does to me, what good can it do them? Suffering in silence id surely a better approach?

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If you are so busy that you can't take 5 minutes to read a profile, where do you find the time to call a WG?

My profile is more informative and tells punters when I'm working and what days, it also tells them the best way to contact me and that I only see white males and I have an age restriction. If punters can't be arsed to read this and I have to tell them when they are calling up then they've just wasted time haven't they?

The whole point of reading a profile is to see if she is for you. If you don't read the girls profile how do you expect to gage her personality or find out what she's like from her profile? You can't just rely on reviews.

If someone contacts me asking questions that could be answered by reading my profile (which isn't even long, you could read it in about 2 minutes) then I don't bother proceeding with a booking because clearly they can't be that interested in me and are more just looking at a bunch of profiles and calling to see who's available.

I tend to book clients who email me in detail and mention what I have written on my profile which shows they actually have an interest in ME and didn't just get a hard on from my pictures and call my number.

If the boot was on the other foot and you posted a Reverse Booking and made it very specific and nobody bothered to read it would you be pleased? Or if you decided you wanted specific services from a WG and stated this in an email very detailed and she chose to ignore it and said "Oh I didn't read your email, you've booked me so it's fine" would you be okay with that?

You wouldn't. Respect works both ways and I respect clients who take little time out their day to fully read my profile and read my requirements. People who call me up "When you free, Can you send me some details, When are you available, Do you see the mature gentleman" will never ever get a booking off me. If they're too lazy to read my profile they can't be that great of a client either.

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Precisely my point about attitude.

 

Respect doesn't come into it. Your profile is an ad : people should be able to choose to read it or not.

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To use your car metaphor, I don't think one is expected to have 'read the whole manual' but one IS expected to have an idea of what they want. If you specifically want a Mercedes with four doors that comes in blue, you wouldn't phone up every salesman in town asking if they have that; you would do a little research to find a place that has what you are looking for. Then you would ask your questions.

 

If you're looking for a WG that offers OWO and is available with little notice, at least scan the advert to see if she offers what you want. It's not about reading every word, but it is about more than liking a girl's photos. 

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Precisely my point about attitude.

Respect doesn't come into it. Your profile is an ad : people should be able to choose to read it or not.

And of course they can choose.

And those who choose not to read it, I can choose not to book :)

Yes a profile is an ad, and if you're interested in an advertisement, logically you read it to see if it suits what you're looking for don't you?

How do you know the WG you want to see doesn't have any age, race, size restrictions if you don't read the profile? How do you know the WG you want to see is going to be available the day you book if you don't read the profile?

Do you read reviews? If so, why do you read reviews of girls and not their profiles? Why do you have such a problem with reading a WGs profile? I just don't get it.

If I am interested in say a car advertised, I will read every bit of information given to ensure its what I want, because I don't then want a wasted journey to go look at it and find out it wasn't what I wanted.

As I did previous, if you post a Reverse Booking and all the girls who bid haven't read it would you be happy about that? Or if you send off an email to a girl you want to see and you want a specific type of booking and she doesn't bother to read your email but still books you and says "Oh I didn't read your email, didn't need to"

You'd be okay with that then?

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Precisely my point about attitude.

 

Respect doesn't come into it. Your profile is an ad : people should be able to choose to read it or not.

 

It is an ad, but it's an ad for something specific. You don't phone up a shoe salesman and ask if they sell trousers? Not all WG sell the same things, hence why reading the ad at least a LITTLE is kinda important. 

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I think a lot of the time and in reality, most punters can't be arsed to read a profile full of caveats, dos and don'ts. Most people in everyday life never read the 'Push' sign on a door and try to pull it open lol

 

Perhaps WGs don't like callers who ask too many questions because they're busy working, travelling in a public place or with family? Also they might question whether the caller is getting a kick (or wank) out of asking what a woman will do or don't do over the phone.

 

I think respect and balance works both ways for sure.

 

Seeing a WG isn't exactly the same as going to a Mercedez Benz showroom, but there's the hope you'd at least get a half decent ride ;)

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I think a lot of the time and in reality, most punters can't be arsed to read a profile full of caveats, dos and don'ts. Most people in everyday life never read the 'Push' sign on a door and try to pull it open lol

Perhaps WGs don't like callers who ask too many questions because they're busy working, travelling in a public place or with family? Also they might question whether the caller is getting a kick (or wank) out of asking what a woman will do or don't do over the phone.

I think respect and balance works both ways for sure.

Seeing a WG isn't exactly the same as going to a Mercedez Benz showroom, but there's the hope you'd at least get a half decent ride ;)

I agree with the bunch of do's and don't's! I've seen some profiles which are more like a novel!

But I think if a profile is short, sweet and informative what is the harm in reading it to see if a girl has requirements and gage her personality from what she has written? I have been told many times by clients that even though they love my pictures, the way I describe myself and how bubbly I come across in my profile is what made them book me, which is nice to know they actually read it.

For me, I don't like when clients ask a bunch of questions that are stated on my profile full stop, busy or not. My likes list, stats, and when I work is all on my profile so when I get clients asking for these things I tell them to read my profile or I just ignore them. As in my eyes if a client can't be arsed to read my profile they can't be that serious about booking me.

I agree respect and balance works both ways. In my opinion if a client can be arsed to flick through Adultwork to even find a girl to book, they can take 5 mins to read a profile. :)

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You can't compare arranging an appointment with an escort to buying a car, or any other analogy. Sales people are paid basic salaries for their time - we're not. Plus they don't run the risk of having someone jerking off on the other end of the phone. I spent a long time condensing the information down on my website to be fully informative and concise, rather than writing essays. I believe that if a prospective client doesn't agree to the reasonable request of familiarising himself with the information I have provided then I worry as to what boundaries he'll insist on flouting during his time with me. I like to make sure clients are fully informed, so that there's no risk of them showing up and going "oh but I thought you did x,y,z". I can't rely on them covering all they need to know via their questions, so at least if I have made it clear that they must read my FAQ page (which takes no longer than 2 mins) then I have been completely transparent with regards to what's on offer, do's and don'ts, and acceptable attitude. I don't wish to spend my days sounding like a broken record answering questions that are very easily located on my website. Genuine clients never have an issue with reading my website. The only people who do are those who harbour a disrespectful and entitled attitude - exactly the ilk I do not wish to encounter.

I wish there was more understanding for the crap we put up with as escorts. Those who do get this appreciate why we are seemingly stricter than the likes of sales people. I always remain business like on the phone, as I am not providing free wank fodder to those who see themselves above paying for premium rate chat lines. I'm not going to reel off a list of services with a husky tone on the off chance a freebie hunter may be converted to wishing to pay hundreds of pounds to see me! Sod that.

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And I don't know about everyone else so can only speak for myself, but I like to know what I'm getting for my money. Even when I buy something for a tenner on ebay I read the ad thoroughly!

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I agree with the bunch of do's and don't's! I've seen some profiles which are more like a novel!

But I think if a profile is short, sweet and informative what is the harm in reading it to see if a girl has requirements and gage her personality from what she has written? I have been told many times by clients that even though they love my pictures, the way I describe myself and how bubbly I come across in my profile is what made them book me, which is nice to know they actually read it.

For me, I don't like when clients ask a bunch of questions that are stated on my profile full stop, busy or not. My likes list, stats, and when I work is all on my profile so when I get clients asking for these things I tell them to read my profile or I just ignore them. As in my eyes if a client can't be arsed to read my profile they can't be that serious about booking me.

I agree respect and balance works both ways. In my opinion if a client can be arsed to flick through Adultwork to even find a girl to book, they can take 5 mins to read a profile. :)

I agree. Luckily most genuine punters do read profiles and respect a WGs time. I know I do, but then I am perfect. :) *coughcough*

 

Then you get the punter newbie, who's nervous, or one who's had bad previous experiences. They might prefer to speak with a lady over the phone before a booking, to break the ice or check her attitude and double check she does what she does. Some WGs profiles are incorrect in their do's and don'ts.

 

I think the art of phone conversation is going down the drain with all this texting/emailing lark - which is good for reading someone the riot act, but not necessarily great for building a more personal rapport. After all, the Escorting business is a personal service business.

 

Balance, grasshopper. Balance.

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You can't compare arranging an appointment with an escort to buying a car, or any other analogy. Sales people are paid basic salaries for their time - we're not. Plus they don't run the risk of having someone jerking off on the other end of the phone. I spent a long time condensing the information down on my website to be fully informative and concise, rather than writing essays. I believe that if a prospective client doesn't agree to the reasonable request of familiarising himself with the information I have provided then I worry as to what boundaries he'll insist on flouting during his time with me. I like to make sure clients are fully informed, so that there's no risk of them showing up and going "oh but I thought you did x,y,z". I can't rely on them covering all they need to know via their questions, so at least if I have made it clear that they must read my FAQ page (which takes no longer than 2 mins) then I have been completely transparent with regards to what's on offer, do's and don'ts, and acceptable attitude. I don't wish to spend my days sounding like a broken record answering questions that are very easily located on my website. Genuine clients never have an issue with reading my website. The only people who do are those who harbour a disrespectful and entitled attitude - exactly the ilk I do not wish to encounter.

I wish there was more understanding for the crap we put up with as escorts. Those who do get this appreciate why we are seemingly stricter than the likes of sales people. I always remain business like on the phone, as I am not providing free wank fodder to those who see themselves above paying for premium rate chat lines. I'm not going to reel off a list of services with a husky tone on the off chance a freebie hunter may be converted to wishing to pay hundreds of pounds to see me! Sod that.

 

Well said Jasmine. :)

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And I don't know about everyone else so can only speak for myself, but I like to know what I'm getting for my money. Even when I buy something for a tenner on ebay I read the ad thoroughly!

I'm the same Jasmine, I read everything! :D

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I agree. Luckily most genuine punters do read profiles and respect a WGs time. I know I do, but then I am perfect. :) *coughcough*

 

Then you get the punter newbie, who's nervous, or one who's had bad previous experiences. They might prefer to speak with a lady over the phone before a booking, to break the ice or check her attitude and double check she does what she does. Some WGs profiles are incorrect in their do's and don'ts.

 

I think the art of phone conversation is going down the drain with all this texting/emailing lark - which is good for reading someone the riot act, but not necessarily great for building a more personal rapport. After all, the Escorting business is a personal service business.

 

Balance, grasshopper. Balance.

That is okay, provided they let you know they've read the information and would just like to check it's accurate. I completely understand that there are naughty escorts who claim they do all services just to get clients through the door. That kind of question doesn't involve a response from the escort saying "I do this that and the other", it's more a "yes I do as advertised on my website", which wouldn't provide a cheeky sod with enough to get off on if he was after wank chat. If someone calls acknowledging they've read my site then I would immediately regard them as genuine.

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Precisely my point about attitude.

 

Respect doesn't come into it. Your profile is an ad : people should be able to choose to read it or not.

Yes men can choose to read it or not but surely you can understand why we get pissed off when guys phone and ask the same basic questions that are right there on our profile,how much, which town, how old are you, what services do you offer. If a guy has ten minutes to spare on the phone asking these questions then by default he has ten minutes to have a quick read of the basics. We put time and effort into making sure we have all the information that a guy needs right there at the click of his keypad. Its not just an advert, its a guide for you to see if we are the sort of of woman you want to meet. Its annoying as hell. No you dont go into a showroom and have read all the specs but you at least know the colour, mileage and brand of car you are seeking. Its really that basic

 

I dont expect men to remember everything written on my profiile but a  perusal of  salient points I would have thought is just basic common sense and would surely save them time in the long run as well as us.

 

Lost count of the number of guys who ask "what town are you in" errr my websites has Milton Keynes Escort in the flipping header haha

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That is okay, provided they let you know they've read the information and would just like to check it's accurate. I completely understand that there are naughty escorts who claim they do all services just to get clients through the door. That kind of question doesn't involve a response from the escort saying "I do this that and the other", it's more a "yes I do as advertised on my website", which wouldn't provide a cheeky sod with enough to get off on if he was after wank chat. If someone calls acknowledging they've read my site then I would immediately regard them as genuine.

Yeah those dirty boys!

 

Can you say "wank" again please? :P *jokeeee*

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Yeah those dirty boys!

 

Can you say "wank" again please? :P *jokeeee*

Can you call and I'll say it as many times as you like, along with describing what I'd like to do to you ;) Also ask sensible questions like "how many times can I cum in a 15 min quickie booking" "what ya rates" "is dat you in da pics". We love calls like that.

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It is an ad, but it's an ad for something specific. You don't phone up a shoe salesman and ask if they sell trousers? Not all WG sell the same things, hence why reading the ad at least a LITTLE is kinda important. 

I did that once............ but now I am on the medication things have calmed down.

 

A man called Gary keeps texting me asking if I want some Scottish sausage................ for all he knows I may be a veggie...... nowhere on my website do I mention sausage!

 

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The op can be proud he has started a nice healthy thread..... as for me...........  I don't answer any but the bare minimum of questions over the phone if the answers are listed on my adverts.  Laziness is the answer George............ and the fact that some men just want to hear a naughty woman on the phone saying words like "mouth" and "anal"

 

a very big :rolleyes:

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That is okay, provided they let you know they've read the information and would just like to check it's accurate. I completely understand that there are naughty escorts who claim they do all services just to get clients through the door. That kind of question doesn't involve a response from the escort saying "I do this that and the other", it's more a "yes I do as advertised on my website", which wouldn't provide a cheeky sod with enough to get off on if he was after wank chat. If someone calls acknowledging they've read my site then I would immediately regard them as genuine.

This happens all the time, although happened more often back in the days of pre-internet booking, where you spoke to a maid or agency on the phone.

 

All services, how vague what does that mean? It means anything, everything or nothing much at all.

 

No excuses these days though as most list specifics, but there's still a risk to taking someone's profile info as gospel. Hence the phone calls.

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Can you call and I'll say it as many times as you like, along with describing what I'd like to do to you ;) Also ask sensible questions like "how many times can I cum in a 15 min quickie booking" "what ya rates" "is dat you in da pics". We love calls like that.

 

I hope you asked if their name was Clark Kent? lol

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The long and short of it for me is the guys who seem to know sod all about me tend to be timewasters or no shows.I write from 5 years experience and I once was that patient little flower that essentially read my entire profile for these idiots out over the phone and hey presto the booking never materialised because lets face it,someone who just looks at the pics and rings is not invested in the slightest.Genuine clients nervous or not at least check where you are,if they can afford you and if you do the service they are after.I don't decide I want to go to a new restaurant and then ring up and ask them to read the menu out,no I have a look at the website first decide I like the look of it all then book a table.I try not to get annoyed with the habitual window shoppers but what I do is ask them to go back read my profile and even my reviews if they want that extra reassurance that what they are reading is acurate then thet are welcome to ring back by all means.This is for both our benefits.I do not want the drama of someone coming to my apartment and doing a walk out because they actually didn't have a clue about me and find I'm not for them.As has been pointed out if you have 10 mins to ring and play 20 qyestions you have time to quickly read a profile otherwise I assume you just enjoy spending time ringing round and being awkward.

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I'm the same Jasmine, I read everything! :D

thats rare

I know people dont read their car insurance stuff. 

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I guess if ladies are getting enough custom they can afford to be pickey

 

I think a girl who is struggling to get enough clients may have to be a little more pragmatic.

 

but as someone said above, a rant bollocking a prospective client must surely put a lot off.

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thats rare

I know people dont read their car insurance stuff.

Yes people don't usually red the 1000+ pages of small print, but they are informed enough to know what they've purchased meets their requirements. The argument we have as escorts is that unless our websites are read then we risk endless people showing up expecting things that aren't on offer, and as I said earlier we can't rely on their verbal questions covering all that needs to be known. And also as other ladies have pointed out, if they have the time to call and ask plenty of questions they certainly had the time to read them in the first place.

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I guess if ladies are getting enough custom they can afford to be pickey

I think a girl who is struggling to get enough clients may have to be a little more pragmatic.

but as someone said above, a rant bollocking a prospective client must surely put a lot off.

It's not about being picky, it's about the type of client we are willing to meet. The majority of escorts I know want to meet respectful gents. It gets things off on a good footing when the simple request to familiarise themselves with the information kindly provided for their benefit is read and understood. In my opinion a prospective client is able to read and respect boundaries. The first being that it is a must for them to ensure that they are fully informed.

If an escort isn't getting much work then I don't see how chatting for free and telling men about what services she offers is going to improve her business. That's soul destroying. Not profitable.

I never rant, I merely say "take a look at the information on my website and call back if you wish to go ahead with an appointment". I could count on one hand the amount that have ever done this :rolleyes: which just goes to show all they were after was a free chat.

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