Ryan74656

Newbie Punter Advice, Please!

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Hi all!

I'm entirely new to the punting scene, although I've done a bit of research here and there in the past. I'm early 30's, experienced, but since I've never punted before, I'm looking for recommendations for a sensitive, understanding professional who could - ease me into things (no pun intended). Preferably someone who speaks good English, is pretty for a first timer who doesn't want to be turned off the whole thing first time out of the gate, and maybe a first time punt that isn't going to cost half a year's salary. I'm in SE London, so anything within that general area would be a bonus! - is this asking too much?

Any help?

Thanks in Advance,

Ryan

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I don't have any recommendations (sorry).

But maybe try Adultwork? You can pick and choose properly then!

Just go to the search box, and put it as any specifics as you like from dress size, to height, to nationality to the hourly rate!

Hope that helps a little bit x

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I really don't think that saying "look on Adultwork" is much good as advice in this situation.  A newbie may not have the necessary skills to weed out the many fake profiles, spot the realistic photos from the photoshopped ones, read between the lines of feedback, and so on and so forth.  Above all, Adultwork is not much use as a resource when it comes to the intangibles of a punt like a WG who is "sensitive" and "understanding", things that Ryan put at the absolute centre of his request for information.

 

In general, in a case like this, I would say you do want an independent rather than an agency girl, someone who you can communicate with directly beforehand and say what you want and lay out any concerns.

 

For a specific recommendation, the person who first springs to mind is Charlotte Deering.  Her own website can be found at http://mysexysecretlife.comand she is on Adultwork as MySecretLife.  English, affectionate, sensitive, understanding and just a lovely human being, I think she would be an ideal choice for a first-time punter.  Though she does only have limited availability so check her calendar either on her website or her AW page to make sure you can make your diaries match before you contact her.

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I would say do look at Adultwork as you cannot learn how to make proper sense of it until you try.

 

You can search by location and then when you see some who appeal you can look at their feedback, look if they have reviews on the report section on Punternet and also look at reviews on UK Punting. I would warn that the rest of the UKP forum can open eyes to the more master/slave side of men's approach to punting but the reviews tend to show less of this aspect.

 

On either forum, if you want to ask if others have seen an escort of interest, always include a link to the woman's page or you will get criticised rather than helped.

 

Good luck

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I really don't think that saying "look on Adultwork" is much good as advice in this situation. A newbie may not have the necessary skills to weed out the many fake profiles, spot the realistic photos from the photoshopped ones, read between the lines of feedback, and so on and so forth. Above all, Adultwork is not much use as a resource when it comes to the intangibles of a punt like a WG who is "sensitive" and "understanding", things that Ryan put at the absolute centre of his request for information.

In general, in a case like this, I would say you do want an independent rather than an agency girl, someone who you can communicate with directly beforehand and say what you want and lay out any concerns.

For a specific recommendation, the person who first springs to mind is Charlotte Deering. Her own website can be found at http://mysexysecretlife.comand she is on Adultwork as MySecretLife. English, affectionate, sensitive, understanding and just a lovely human being, I think she would be an ideal choice for a first-time punter. Though she does only have limited availability so check her calendar either on her website or her AW page to make sure you can make your diaries match before you contact her.

As I said hope that helps. If he finds a well reviews girl and puts her profile details on here or UkPunting to check to see if she has reviews I am sure he can then see if she's fake or not. It's not really rocket science.

Hence me telling him if he pops his requirements in the search box he will find a fair few profiles. I can't see anyone else giving him much better advice than "Look on Adultwork at this girls profile" so I would say my advice was perfectly okay.

An independent is best and if you need any help with who's "fake" and who's not I am happy to help you on that Ryan as I'm quite good with spotting the fakes!

Again, hope that helps, as nobody else has given anymore extensive advice x

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Adultwork can be a great resource, but unfortunately it's full of fake profiles and you do need to be careful. Short of personal recommendations from someone on here, as mentioned, make sure you check here and other forums for reports or feedback - or post a question on here.

Don't rely exclusively on AW feedback, and if you do use it, also check into the feedback of people who leave it. If you find it's just a closed circle between a certain wg and a certain punter, beware. Once you've used the site for a while and seen a couple of girls, you'll soon pick up who seems genuine as regards feedback left for wg's. In my area for example there are several punters who've left feedback for girls I've seen, so if I see they've left feedback for a girl I haven't seen at least I know she's likely to be genuine.

Good luck in your search - it's part of the fun :)

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My 2ps worth.

Read the reviews on here and go for a well established lady close to you . id say for a 1st booking book an hour not less or longer!

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Welcome. I'm sure you will get some really good advice from this board.

 

I would not think, at this stage, you have enough experience for AW. Trying to find a successful liaison for your first adventure is quite demanding for someone who doesn't know the ins and outs of the site. There are a lot of good, genuine ladies there, but, there are a lot of un-genuine ones. The last thing you want, first time, is to get it wrong. Someone else has said that you need to get experience of the site, and that's right. But, in my view, not just yet. Getting it wrong in the early stages will put you off, but, getting it right will open a whole new world to you.

 

Perhaps you might need to be a bit more forthcoming about exactly what you are looking for. But, if you are, in my view for what it's worth, sit back and wait for the advice of someone on here who will tell you about a lady they know that will tick all your boxes and give you a fantastic experience. Good advice is given on this site, and there is very little poor information. Wait for an experienced poster to point you in the right direction, and enjoy yourself.

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Welcome to the forum.

 

To get the best advice a bit more detail would be helpful. Things like what would turn you on or off, would you like to see a lady who is younger/older or the same age as yourself, for example. There is something out there for everyone, especially in London so please don't be afraid to be more specific in terms of personal preferences, looks or services. Stating  your maximum budget would also be useful. 

 

Once you have chosen who to see my advice would be to go with the flow for the first time, and try not to think about it too much in advance. Anxiety can be a real passion killer. 

 

I wish you luck in your search.

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AW is great, but there are too many sub standard options on there. For a first time, pay 150 minimum and go with a well known agency. Make sure they have a lot of positive reviews on this site. That way you can't go wrong and then when you're more confident, explore the wonders that AW has to offer. It's just not worth having a bad first time and never coming back.

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Certainly independent and someone with good reviews who is loving, caring a good listener who you will feel comfortable with.  Nerves can get the better of you so its important to meet someone that is relaxed and put you at ease.  Perhaps steer clear of AW  for the first time and agencies and go for an independent with a good web site like the one mentioned above.  AW has good offerings and I expect agencies do as well but personally I wouldn't for a first.  Also I would put a firm limit on the budget as well.

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Why dont you have a look at the reviews here on Pnet.  Then you can decide for yourself.  There are quite a lot of experienced gentleman here who leave reviews on a regular basis and I am sure they will not mind you dropping them a message also.

 

Chloe x

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Why dont you have a look at the reviews here on Pnet. Then you can decide for yourself. There are quite a lot of experienced gentleman here who leave reviews on a regular basis and I am sure they will not mind you dropping them a message also.

Chloe x

Well said Chloe :)

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Oh Hamiltons are a well established Agency by the way and thanks for your heads up.  They are a regular poster here and I believe also have reviews on the site if I am not mistaken :)

 

Chloe x

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Thanks everyone - ladies and the men! My reasons for trying this are numerous, as with many first time punts I'm sure. I do a demanding job, my free time is far more limited than it used to be, hence my desire to experience the pleasure of a charming woman's company, without having the time to establish a relationship, for now. Someone slightly younger than myself - say mid to late 20's would be preferable; but as some as mentioned, anxiety can be a real passion killer - and I'm sure my first time I'll be a little anxious - hence my preference for a WG skilled at helping me relax and putting me at ease. So, English language skills are obviously a must for this - as is experience, I think. Someone that understands I'm new and not familiar with all of the etiquette, shall we say. And someone that understands for - for say an hour's punt - a wam, bam, thank-you misses might not be as valuable as a little bit of conversation and relaxing first. I've heard there are some wonderful, warm women out there. I just need to find one. I'm looking for £100 - £120..?

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So definitely independents at that price, loads of great ones but you'll need to research or get a good recommendation. Your location is not mine so sorry

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Thanks everyone - ladies and the men! My reasons for trying this are numerous, as with many first time punts I'm sure. I do a demanding job, my free time is far more limited than it used to be, hence my desire to experience the pleasure of a charming woman's company, without having the time to establish a relationship, for now. Someone slightly younger than myself - say mid to late 20's would be preferable; but as some as mentioned, anxiety can be a real passion killer - and I'm sure my first time I'll be a little anxious - hence my preference for a WG skilled at helping me relax and putting me at ease. So, English language skills are obviously a must for this - as is experience, I think. Someone that understands I'm new and not familiar with all of the etiquette, shall we say. And someone that understands for - for say an hour's punt - a wam, bam, thank-you misses might not be as valuable as a little bit of conversation and relaxing first. I've heard there are some wonderful, warm women out there. I just need to find one. I'm looking for £100 - £120..?

 

I think you are optimistic to think you can find what you want, at that price, in London.  You say you don't want a wam, bam, thank you ma'am experience but you are looking in a wam, bam price range.  You say you want decent English language skills but 100-120 in London is putting you solidly in EE territory where English skills are variable to say the least.

 

The nearest I can suggest to what you want at the price you want is Ellie_12_Rose on AW who is in her late 20s, pretty and curvy, and she is a thoroughly nice person, friendly and understanding; she doesn't run a conveyor belt through her bedroom door and does only see a very limited number of clients on any one day so she is able to be patient and relaxed with you; she is Eastern European but does speak good English.  She offers a decent service.  She is not everything punting can be but then I don't think you are going to find that at your price range.  And even she is a fraction over what you were looking for at £130 for the hour.  Still that is the closest fit to all your criteria that I can come up with.  Maybe someone else can do better.

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I think something to bear in mind as well is that you may find Agency Escorts listed at £120 even £100 for incalls but this is usually just to get thre customers in.  You are then bombarded with a list of extra fees for pretty much everything so make sure you do your homework on this also.

 

Good luck.

 

Chloe x

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I'd say for your first time, pay 150 and have a great experience. Then experiment with cheaper AW options. Why risk the first time being shit for the sake of an extra 30 quid. You'll likely get charged more than that with extras by the cheaper girls anyway.

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I'd say for your first time, pay 150 and have a great experience. Then experiment with cheaper AW options. Why risk the first time being shit for the sake of an extra 30 quid. You'll likely get charged more than that with extras by the cheaper girls anyway.

ER excuse me.. im 120 per hour and im nots shit or charging extras ....as i doubt many girls here will agree with me that 150 and hour is no different to a 120 per hour girl !!

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ER excuse me.. im 120 per hour and im nots shit or charging extras ....as i doubt many girls here will agree with me that 150 and hour is no different to a 120 per hour girl !!

well said Rebecca xx

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sorry for awful spelling bloody phone!

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ER excuse me.. im 120 per hour and im nots shit or charging extras ....as i doubt many girls here will agree with me that 150 and hour is no different to a 120 per hour girl !!

Absolutely agree.

I'm also £120 an hour, far from shit and don't charge a single extra.

But I've seen £150 girls who do, so please elaborate on your ever so rubbish assumption Zack?!

Some people seem to think paying more means you get more, how stupid are they :D

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ER excuse me.. im 120 per hour and im nots shit or charging extras ....as i doubt many girls here will agree with me that 150 and hour is no different to a 120 per hour girl !!

 

You aren't London-based though, Rebecca, and nor is TYE.  Zackkenn was talking about the London scene which is what Ryan is asking about.  Things are cheaper in the provinces but i would say Zackkenn is about right in his comments when it comes to London.

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You aren't London-based though, Rebecca, and nor is TYE. Zackkenn was talking about the London scene which is what Ryan is asking about. Things are cheaper in the provinces but i would say Zackkenn is about right in his comments when it comes to London.

Maybe he should be more specific next time.

I still think what he says is rubbish, I know three girls (probably more but these I know off the top of my head) who escort in London, all under £150 an hour and don't charge any extras.

Platinum Cindy, Michelle Independent & Natasha Horny.

He's generalising probably from his own poor research and poor punts he's had, there are plenty of girls in London under £150 who aren't "shit" and don't all charge extras, unless he, or you have tried them all to know this? :D

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