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Have you, or would you buy a 'specific' piece of clothing or footwear for the girl to wear during your meet if she didn't have it already?  Or would you be happy enough with what she has?

 

Would you also buy certain sex toys or bondage items for your meet, if she didn't have these already also?  Or would you make do with what she's got?

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Have you, or would you buy a 'specific' piece of clothing or footwear for the girl to wear during your meet if she didn't have it already?  Or would you be happy enough with what she has?

 

Would you also buy certain sex toys or bondage items for your meet, if she didn't have these already also?  Or would you make do with what she's got?

 

 

Met a girl the other day. Asked if she had  high heels other than the ones she had on. She said NO as she was touring. If I was to see her again , I would buy her a pair that I like. :P

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They rarely have what i like so i regularly take outfits etc to avoid disappointment. To date no one has ever refused to model and outfit i have sourced.

 

Getting the size can be tricky though - sometimes one size does not fit all.

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The girls that I've seen that have been escorting for a 'while', have an impressive range of shoes and clothes etc..  'Some' new girls I've seen that have been escorting 'under' a year have far less choice.

 

Since I started seeing escorts, my requests for them to wear different shoes, outfits etc. have become more frequent.

 

Fashion 'changes' so frequently as well, so it's expensive for the girls.

 

If I wanted to see a girl wear 'specific' shoes or clothing, then I would buy it for her.

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Specifics are so annoying. I'm fine with someone saying can you wear stockings and suspenders or please have high heels on but it's when they get really specific it's ridiculous. Why on earth does a particular colour skirt or a certain style of stiletto make a man have a better time then without?

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Specifics are so annoying. I'm fine with someone saying can you wear stockings and suspenders or please have high heels on but it's when they get really specific it's ridiculous. Why on earth does a particular colour skirt or a certain style of stiletto make a man have a better time then without?

It doesn't.

It's just they choose to be picky and hard work because they can, or think they can.

I don't mind dress requests either but when it goes from "Can you wear secretary style attire" to "I would like you to wear red lipstick, your hair up, a black skirt, red top, heels no shorter than 4 inches, and tasteful makeup" I don't bother. People who send requests like that are almost always timewasters! :)

I've had clients buy me things to wear as well, and it's most of the time some sort of tacky stripper attire from Ann Summers! I do classy, not trashy haha.

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The girls that I've seen that have been escorting for a 'while', have an impressive range of shoes and clothes etc..  'Some' new girls I've seen that have been escorting 'under' a year have far less choice.

 

Since I started seeing escorts, my requests for them to wear different shoes, outfits etc. have become more frequent.

 

Fashion 'changes' so frequently as well, so it's expensive for the girls.

 

If I wanted to see a girl wear 'specific' shoes or clothing, then I would buy it for her.

I don't buy in response to fashion. Some of my favourite shoes are 5 years old, a current favourite probably older than that. As far as I'm aware they look very smart. Most of the men I see tend to trust my choice, or see me because they like the whole package rather than dress me as a doll. I also get to learn which particular styles individual clients like. That doesn't mean I don't respond to dress requests, but I don't like wearing something I know won't suit me.

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Specifics are so annoying. I'm fine with someone saying can you wear stockings and suspenders or please have high heels on but it's when they get really specific it's ridiculous. Why on earth does a particular colour skirt or a certain style of stiletto make a man have a better time then without?

 

I wonder if there's sometimes an autism dimension to some of this, especially on the need to have a certain colour.

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The impression I get are that there are many reasons for requests, not least being that some Escorts dress down, and do not wear the nice lingerie, and attractive clothing that for many of us is standard. I've heard tales of ladies wearing tracksuit bottoms, and also had a couple of clients declare "I like seeing you because you wear lingerie, and are well presented", when I've asked but surely others do?They have replied that no, not everyone.

 

Some men do like a particular colour, or have gone through life holding black and red as their fantasy. I like a variety of colours and once I've gotten someone's confidence may try them out.

 

Does anyone still have a secretary?Or even one who dresses in smart suit or shift dress plus heels and jacket?That is one of the styles I do dress in, as well as summer flirty and generally just anything that looks stylish. In the meantime I've not a clue what fashion is doing, but I keep seeing shift dresses recycling. ;)

 

Other reasons could be control, and I don't think that's limited to paid sex, or men or women in particular.

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Specifics are so annoying. I'm fine with someone saying can you wear stockings and suspenders or please have high heels on but it's when they get really specific it's ridiculous. Why on earth does a particular colour skirt or a certain style of stiletto make a man have a better time then without?

 

Because we are very visual. If I know in advance that a lady only wears black high heels, I wont book her. Normally that doesn't pose a problem as most girls have more than one pair with them thankfully.

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Jenny at Debbies -sadly retired - in tan hold-ups....

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Met a girl the other day. Asked if she had  high heels other than the ones she had on. She said NO as she was touring. If I was to see her again , I would buy her a pair that I like. :P

 

Buying her a new pair would be a nice surprise, yet if she does not travel with a huge luggage, she might need a new one.  I seem to travel around the world with max 12kg in a small suitcase and in so many occasions I wanted to buy some beautiful shoes yet I could not as they would take precious space in my suitcase.

 

Nice thought though from you.

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I had a request...stockings and red lipstick, easy enough to do so he got it. If its easy then yes but if its something I would have to buy specifically for that booking then sometimes I do sometimes I dont. I wont go to a lot of expense for someone that I have never met before so may not even turn up.

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I wonder if there's sometimes an autism dimension to some of this, especially on the need to have a certain colour.

There must be that aspect to it.I think a big factor as well is control.Being in control of every aspect,having the person do/dress exactly as you chosen.Then theres those who just get over picky as they figure they're paying a "massive" amount so figure they should get exactly what they want and make extra demands so they feel they've got their monies worth

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Buying her a new pair would be a nice surprise, yet if she does not travel with a huge luggage, she might need a new one.  I seem to travel around the world with max 12kg in a small suitcase and in so many occasions I wanted to buy some beautiful shoes yet I could not as they would take precious space in my suitcase.

 

Nice thought though from you.

 

 

I could of course always take them away with me after the booking, for the next girl ! :P

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Jenny at Debbies -sadly retired - in tan hold-ups....

 

 

So few girls with top class legs seem to wear them . :(

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So few girls with top class legs seem to wear them . :(

I think that the other thing to remember is that not everyone thinks the same items look good on the same person.

So when you are saying it's a shame ladies with good legs, big boobs, small boobs, whatever don't wear a certain style of dress or lingerie or shoes, well the next man might hate that and have a different preference - and of course the lady may hate wearing it.

 

 If she buys and wears something most men and she likes, she is more likely to be successful.

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I could of course always take them away with me after the booking, for the next girl ! :P

 

Ha ha, cheeky!!!!  Normally guys do that with their metal toys...... and then sterilise them when wife is not around.

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I think that the other thing to remember is that not everyone thinks the same items look good on the same person.

So when you are saying it's a shame ladies with good legs, big boobs, small boobs, whatever don't wear a certain style of dress or lingerie or shoes, well the next man might hate that and have a different preference - and of course the lady may hate wearing it.

 

 If she buys and wears something most men and she likes, she is more likely to be successful.

 

Of course and that's why most ladies will have a pair of black heels, quite understandable.  

 

There are very few men , I would suggest who would hate tan hold ups on a lady with lovely legs though. If so,they should stand up and be counted ! 

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Ha ha, cheeky!!!!  Normally guys do that with their metal toys...... and then sterilise them when wife is not around.

 

 

TMI ! :eek:

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So few girls with top class legs seem to wear them . :(

Lara Latex perhaps, but the number of men she is getting through at the moment would be a right turn off...

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Lara Latex perhaps, but the number of men she is getting through at the moment would be a right turn off...

 

Which proves the point that we all perceive facts so differently  :D

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There are very few men , I would suggest who would hate tan hold ups on a lady with lovely legs though. If so,they should stand up and be counted ! 

 

Me. I don't like stockings on a lady at all. It just shows--we are all different.

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I have a pretty diverse closet (I am obsessed with colourful lingerie, so I have so many colours) and I do not mind specific requests. But like many of the other girls here, if the requests start getting too specific and I don't have the item they want to hand, I kind of expect them to provide it. To be fair, this is a very rare occurrence; usually requests only get as specific as 'red lipstick'!

 

I think it's lovely though for a gent to bring the thing they want to see us wear though. :) Certainly no problems there.

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