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Too Nice To Be A Punter?

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Hi All,

 

I have just had my 3rd meet and possible the worst experience ever. I arranged for an out call to my home. On the day of the meet the escort called and said that because of travel she would need an extra £20 for travel expenses making the visit £170. Is this normal? Her out call price is more than incall so doesn't this take into account the additional expenses?  When she got here she asked for £3 for the taxi. No knowing she didn't have transport I offered her a lift back at the start of the meet, Anyway first a little about myself and why I am using escorts.

 

When I was 3 I had prostate cancer. They had to remove my bladder and prostate. This means I have a urestomy bag and unable to get an erection. I use a strap and like a GFE as the meets are about feeling normal and that closeness. This was all mentioned in my original email and I asked her to confirm none of this was a problem. I understand girls who have a problem with this and this is why I am always up front. But these meets for me are about for a few short minutes. 

 

So how the meet went...... Money was handed over pretty much as soon as she walked through the door. We sat down in the lounge and I tried to make small talk to which she told me she could really do with out this tonight as I've been up with my daughter since 5 and she needed to pick her up from my mate who is babysitting. She also told me she had loads of University course work due in for Monday that she needed to do on. Not realising that all Univeristys I am aware of are broken up for the holidays and she also didn't realise that I part studied law at University so she couldn't tell me the topic of the essay or had no real knowledge one law. Not that this matters I'm not arraing a meet to talk about fake University assignments. This is funny however as when I asked what days she was available she was really keen it was today. She was really keen to get upstairs but told me she didn't receive oral or kiss. (Not a GFE then to me). So I attached the strap on and we started after about 2 minutes she said or i don't like the plastic its made of even though there was a condom on top. I asked then if i could use my fingers and she said no as it makes her bleed. So we are now 7 minutes into the 90 minute week lying in the bed. She then asks if I could take her to McDonalds as she hasn't eaten and is really hungry.I agreed and drove her to the local McDonalds. She ate her chesse burger and asked if I could take her home. I agreed. She then asked to borrow my phone to make a quick call as she had no credit. Again I agreed. I drove her to a place near her flat as she owed sombody money (maybe a pimp who knows). I dropped her off and drove home feeling like absolute shit.

 

Am i to soft to be punting. What would of others do? £170 for a 15 minute meet for a not massively attractive girl. She's just texted while typing this saying that shes hopes I enjoyed the meet, Hmmmmm     

 

Msmith

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You've been had. Firstly any Escort should be telling you upfront, at point of accepting the booking how much any extras will be, not right at the last minute. It's also not your responsibility to feed her. I often travel with food which some clients have found odd, one even found it insulting, but as far as I'm concerned it's up to me to keep myself fed and watered unless previously agreed otherwise.

 

You aren't too nice, you are too daft and she is also taking the P.

 

Would you do all of this for any other person doing working on or at your home?Perhaps you would!

 

By the way some students do have course work to complete over the summer break, I'm one of them.

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What should I do in the future demand my money back? Refuse to let her leave until the 90 minutes is up?

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In life the only behaviours you can control are your own. You would seem to have behaved like a gentleman throughout and so have nothing to reprimand yourself over.

There are ladies who specialise in clients who have special needs and these ladies are especially kind, patient and understanding.

You seem to have your standards that govern your behavior. You just need to find the right ladies who are equally professional in their approach to such clients.

Don't despair! There will be others here who will be able to direct you to providers with the right attitude and service to match your needs.

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What a horrible escort its workers like that that give us nice girls a bad name

 

In  this game you need to be tough this comes from both sides of the fence are there are scammers either side, op stick to well reviewed girls and you sould be ok .x

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Wow...op nice guys are appreciated by nice women. Sounds like the one you met wasn't nice.

No you shouldn't pay extra for travel at last minute as it should have been mentioned at time of booking.

Sounds like you met a complete piss taker and you need to add a negative review on the review section so other guys are not sucked in by this scam artist too.

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What should I do in the future demand my money back? Refuse to let her leave until the 90 minutes is up?

 

Best thing you can do in the future is research before the booking.  

Has the lady got field reports, google her number for reports elsewhere, feedback etc.

Look closely at any FB - are the reports from people who have feedback themselves.

 

Best thing you can do afterwards is to leave a review, though if you've hosted the lady at home I can understand why that may not be an option you're comfortable with.

 

Regarding refusing to let her leave - would you really consider that?

 

> .......not massively attractive girl ....... for me personality is much more important than looks, someone with something to say, I avoid profiles which only have professional photos.

 

Question - who bought the burgers and what did you have?

 

CG

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How did your first 2 meets go? How did you select them?

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It looks like she took you for a ride.  She sensed you are too nice and milked everything she could of you.  She should be embarrassed for abusing your trust like that.  

 

Indeed girls have outcall fees higher, sometime by £50 or even £100 (illogically) to cover their travelling expenses.  No extra money should be given in these cases unless they have to take a plane to reach you.

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  Thought this thread was going to be about guys like me .  When younger always getting told they were too nice to be a punter and why do they punt when they have good looks , great personality  , confidence and money . 

 

   Seriously  many sp  's   asked me this question  [ they don't anymore though  ]  Again these days I dress down a little  , raincoat , braces and flat cap  , so I can blend in more .

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Msmith, I'm really sorry to hear that you had this experience. As EnglishRebecca said, girls like this give the rest of us a bad name and I'm really sorry for that. I imagine given your needs that this made the experience even worse. :( 

 

You are definitely not 'too nice' and I promise you that a WG worth her salt would be very grateful to your kindness and sweet demeanour. I know I am always grateful and appreciative to guys who are sweet and nice to me, and I always make sure to tell them! 

 

As another poster said as well, there are definitely girls out there who specialise in/welcome special needs and disabilities (I am one of them!) as opposed to turning their nose up. I imagine there a better punts out there waiting for you!

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What a horrid woman!

She has totally abused your trust and kind heartedness.

 

As said, ensure you pick a well reviewed genuine escort next time. Maybe ask here for recommendations. 

 

This woman isn't an escort, she is a con artist. 

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I think you should leave a negative review and if I were you I would I would name and shame on here too

 

She sounds like an absolute cow.

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  Thought this thread was going to be about guys like me .  When younger always getting told they were too nice to be a punter and why do they punt when they have good looks , great personality  , confidence and money . 

 

   Seriously  many sp  's   asked me this question  [ they don't anymore though  ]  Again these days I dress down a little  , raincoat , braces and flat cap  , so I can blend in more .

I find this insulting, how can someone be 'too nice'?

 

Sometimes it's been said to me, and that is equally baffling.Surely seeing someone who is nice is the whole point?

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I find this insulting, how can someone be 'too nice'?

 

Sometimes it's been said to me, and that is equally baffling.Surely seeing someone who is nice is the whole point?

 

 

 

 Long time ago  , but the meaning was why do you have to pay for it when surely you can get it for free .  Maybe young wg who don't always realize that sometimes guys pay to be able to walk away after . 

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The lady (and experience) you describe cannot even be classified as an escort one, total piss-take IMHO...should this ever happen again, show her the door via the toe end of your boot!!!

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What a vile woman. Forget her and book with someone who respects your needs

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Thanks guys, Other experiences have been mixed. First was an incall to a Romanian who was a lot different than her profile pictures. Second experience was alot better but she was a more mature escort and only being 25 I wasn't overly attracted to her.

 

As for:

 

 

Regarding refusing to let her leave - would you really consider that?

 

 

 

No way. That was in response to Strawberrys question of would I let this happen if it were somebody doing other work on my house. I would force anybody to do anything they didn't want to. I even gave the girl a lift home.

 

The whole experience has left me feeling ashamed and a little embarrassed I feel loathed to leave a bad review as the girl in question know where I live and wouldn't want anything to happen as a result. There was alarm bells ringing when she asked me to call and starting asking what I did and to tell her about myself. On previous experience this hasn't happened. It was the way she was asking just didn't seem right.  

 

I would like to say thanks your support however its helped a lot to move on from this experience. Whether I have the courage to use AW again I don't know. They say time is a great healer.  

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What I meant was would you take the person out for lunch, drive them around, let them use your telephone at request?

 

I certainly wouldn't imprison them!

 

I've now got the Monty Python milkman sketch running through my mind.

 

Is there a pile of various skeletons in your back room?

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I find this insulting, how can someone be 'too nice'?

 

Sometimes it's been said to me, and that is equally baffling.Surely seeing someone who is nice is the whole point?

"Nice" is a word used to cover so many meanings.  In this context some use it implying that escorts or clients of escorts are less than nice, i.e. seedy, immoral.

 

Obviously the OP doesn't mean that, he means considerate and gentlemanly.

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I think you should leave a negative review and if I were you I would I would name and shame on here too

 

She sounds like an absolute cow.

cows are milked

 

in the case he was the cow

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sounds like you are a decent obliging chap who would go out of his way to help someone

 

there are unscrupulous people out there

 

given your dreadful problem - are you sure paid sex is the right way to go? could be more trouble than its worth - as your experience seems to demonstrate

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In the Xenophobes guide to the English, the book said we wield the word "nice" like a stiletto. It is always followed by "but".

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Hi All,

 

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Am i to soft to be punting. What would of others do? £170 for a 15 minute meet for a not massively attractive girl. She's just texted while typing this saying that shes hopes I enjoyed the meet, Hmmmmm     

 

Msmith

 

No you're not too "soft" to be punting. 

The WGs that I know appreciate nice, kind, polite clients. 

Do not ever think that you will be treated better if you're a bit of an as*hole. 

Most WGs will make extra effort to keep clients like happy. 

 

Your only mistake is not telling us who this low life creature is. 

 

But don't worry, WGs like this end up being visited by the dirtiest and rudest clients. It's actually these sort of clients that 

enjoy WGs like this so that they can satisfy their rape fantasies. I am not being bad. I mean what I have written. 

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The OP got ripped off, and perhaps was led too far driving her to Mcd's etc because of his inexperience, but there was NOTHING he could have done about it once she arrived at his home.

 

I'm not wet behind the ears when it comes to this pass time, I've had hundreds of punts now. However, an outcall to your place comes with added risk. I've been similarly ripped off.

 

As is the norm, you'll hand over the fee before the action starts. If she chooses to rip you off from that point, your money is gone. What are you going to do, steal her handbag? Call plod? Trap her in your property? You've just got to shrug your shoulders and try to forget about it.

 

You can't even post a negative review, she knows where you live obviously. The fear of possible reprisals is far more important than anything you'd stand to gain by posting a negative review. They could do anything, post shit through your letterbox, vandalise your car, or worse. It just ain't worth it. Could be drug dealers controlling her, who knows. 

 

The OP being inexperienced needs to make sure he only books escorts with gold plated feedback, with some reviews ideally from other punters with disabilities. 

 

The escorts posting on here will clearly be biased towards the very professional types. However there are plenty of escorts who will try it on if they think they can get away with it. If they smell weakness as in the OP, they will push for more and more. Much in the same way as the majority of punters posting on here will be lovely clients to deal with, but there are plenty of arse hole punters about also. 

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