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Spotted By A Wg In Public

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I am sure this topic has come up a few times before. But a couple of days ago I was stood at a bus stop and a Thai WG I used to see was there as well. I clocked her. She clocked me. But I looked away. I was on my own. After a few seconds, she started calling me by my punting name. I nodded and said hello, and we swapped pleasantries - "where are you going" etc. We both caught the same bus but I sat downstairs. She left a couple of stops before me, and smiled and waved when she got off. I did the same.

 

Now, I don't know how I feel about this. I suspect that if I'd been with my family she wouldn't have said a word. But my gut feeling is telling me she should have said nothing even though I was alone. What does anyone else think?

 

I should add that thinking about it afterwards, i did get a slight thrill from seeing her in her non-working clothes and outside of the flat she works in. I actually quite fancied fucking her. But hey ho......

 

 

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Hmmm. I would have figured that unless something was previously agreed upon, that at very most a nod and smile be exchanged and nothing more. If that. If it were me, I would just not engage at all, and pretend like I didn't see him or recognize him. 

 

This feels like the right thing to do for me as it maintains a certain level of professionalism and discreetness, but that's just me.

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Unless something has been agreed previously, and even then I might not remember the exact situation, I always default to walking past. I sometimes give a very small smile, or acknowledgement via eye contact if someone appears alone, but it's so slight only the person on the other end of the glance would notice.

 

If a client says "Hello", or cocks their head, then I do the same as if they are a vague acquaintance. Much of the time I'm in my own world and don't notice at all.

 

People who spend time with me are aware I carry confidences in several walks of life, so know not to ask nor think about it!

 

Without being in the OPs situation I can't comment much apart from it does sound as if she was indiscrete.

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That's indiscreet. I have seen clients out in public both on their own and with their family and I've noticed them but haven't made any sort of gesture unless they have done so first.

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Everyone will have their own také on matters but for me its not an issue at all...If you're courteous in the real world why change...

This obviously all applies if both parties are on there own...

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Poor form. The fact that you saw each other but you didn't acknowledge her should have been a hint not to shout your name at a bus stop. You were on your own but you could have been meeting a friend or partner on the bus.

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No..never speak to each other in public. I once saw an escort I worked with in a womens clothes shop. Scooted around a bit till I was sure she was on her own and as I was walking out I said "hiya" just as her boyfriend shot in through the shop door and gave me a look as if to say "who the fuck are you" ..nope, never ever ever

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No harm done, but yes I think she should've been a lot more discreet, but you were alone.

 

I too have seen WGs out in public and have been recognised - a few times we have acknowledged each other, but only a nod, smile and a wave as I walked past. I can see how it could've been a thrill, especially as she saw you were on your own and being friendly enough to call you by your name. Coulda shoulda woulda would definitely go through my mind if that did happen though, almost like chatting to a girl on the road/pub/park/supermarket, just as long as it didn't happen amongst friends/family.

 

If it happens again and you're alone, chat her up and you might get lucky ;)

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No..never speak to each other in public. I once saw an escort I worked with in a womens clothes shop. Scooted around a bit till I was sure she was on her own and as I was walking out I said "hiya" just as her boyfriend shot in through the shop door and gave me a look as if to say "who the fuck are you" ..nope, never ever ever

 

That's a kind of interesting one! I'd never given much thought to the idea of running into another escort I knew randomly, but I suppose I'm also friends with most of the other escorts I know well/work with. Still, bit of a strange one!

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Does sound a tad indiscreet.Still,could have been worse.She could have pointed then shrieked,invasion of the bodysnatcher style(The Donald Sutherland version) :)

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Everyone will have their own také on matters but for me its not an issue at all...If you're courteous in the real world why change...

This obviously all applies if both parties are on there own...

'I'm' totally fine with a girl I've met before, saying "hey" to me, if she sees me out and about.  I'd 'never' say anything to her first though.

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I would never make the first approach and speak to a client if out and about. I was once tapped on the shoulder while browsing through the clothes in River Island....... I turned and there he was.... a young and very cheeky client.  He was grinning widely and moved closer and whispered hiya darlin' in my ear.

 

I was polite and asked what he was doing in the ladies department..........

 

"Oh the girlfriend is just over there looking at shoes"

 

Brains?  I think he had left them on my bed.................

 

Ok his other half was nearby and he got a kick out of it.... what if MY other half had been a few feet away?  He was not to know I don't have one.

 

Twattish behaviour seems to come naturally to some folk.

 

:rolleyes:

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So, let's get this right. You were at a bus stop, presumably on your own - ie there was no-one else there who knew you apart from the Thai girl. Also, presumably, she wasn't carrying a big sign saying  something like "I fuck for money". 

 

Where's the problem?

 

There isn't one as far as I can see although I would take exactly the opposite view if the girl had called you by your punting alias in the presence of a friend or family member who wasn't aware of your "hobby".

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   Interesting reactions  .  I think it's relevant here that the op says the wg was Thai  [ even though every TWG , I have known in the uk travels by taxi not bus ] .

 

   She was only being polite , in thai culture there's not the same stigma about being a wg . She wouldn't think to not acknowledge the op  .  Thai's don't have the same fcuked up view of sex that we do here in the west that was drilled into us over years and years by the church .

 

   I met one in the street in London who stopped to make polite conversation and again while having lunch in a restaurant one came over to say hello .  I wasn't alone that day either I was with our very own Tiggy  . I'm sure he should remember it well . 

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   Interesting reactions  .  I think it's relevant here that the op says the wg was Thai  [ even though every TWG , I have known in the uk travels by taxi not bus ] .

 

   She was only being polite , in thai culture there's not the same stigma about being a wg . She wouldn't think to not acknowledge the op  .  Thai's don't have the same fcuked up view of sex that we do here in the west that was drilled into us over years and years by the church .

 

   I met one in the street in London who stopped to make polite conversation and again while having lunch in a restaurant one came over to say hello .  I wasn't alone that day either I was with our very own Tiggy  . I'm sure he should remember it well . 

 

Interesting! You bring up a really good point about stigma/normalcy in Thai society. I suppose they may view it the same as running into any other type of client on the street. 

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Oh FFS you were both on your own. how impolite it would be to not acknowledge each other

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Interesting! You bring up a really good point about stigma/normalcy in Thai society. I suppose they may view it the same as running into any other type of client on the street. 

 

 

 

 

 Exactly  this .   And I believe because Thailand was never colonized by the do gooders posing as missionary's they were never brainwashed into thinking there's anything wrong with selling sex .  

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Interesting reactions . I think it's relevant here that the op says the wg was Thai [ even though every TWG , I have known in the uk travels by taxi not bus ] .

She was only being polite , in thai culture there's not the same stigma about being a wg . She wouldn't think to not acknowledge the op . Thai's don't have the same fcuked up view of sex that we do here in the west that was drilled into us over years and years by the church .

I met one in the street in London who stopped to make polite conversation and again while having lunch in a restaurant one came over to say hello . I wasn't alone that day either I was with our very own Tiggy . I'm sure he should remember it well .

I don't think a respectable Thai wife would be happy to know her husband is seeing escorts any more than a British one lol it's illegal there isn't it so really they are slightly less liberal than here.

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I perfectly understand other people's concern about their privacy.

 

For me, however, it would not matter at all but unlike some i would leave any extended conversation to the lady in case she wasn't comfortable with the situation.

 

I tend to be very friendly and chatty in a punt (fed up ladies demur here) and would happily continue that outdoors as long as no embarrassment could result for the lady.

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Thanks for all the replies. The point about Thai culture is interesting and hadn't occurred to me. Like I said, I wasn't angry or offended. I was just curious. But I would have felt differently if she'd done it and I was with someone.

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Oh FFS you were both on your own. how impolite it would be to not acknowledge each other

 

In most cases you cannot be 100% sure the person is on his/her own. Chloe's example is very striking.

 

The worst breach of etiquette here I ever encountered was a few years back. There used to be a very good erotic massage joint in Paddington called Kharma, run by an exuberant Italian lady called Barbara (now moved into a different kind of business, I believe). I was once walking in the area when I heard my name called - rather insistently. I turned and there was Barbara coming smiling up. "Me and the girls were just having a coffee and wondered if you'd like to join us." Sure enough, there were two of the girls at an outside table, and they waved happily at me. Actually, it would have been almost 100% safe, but I was in a hurry for some reason or other, so I hummed and hawed a bit, until Barbara said "Oh, it's not a problem, is it?" No, no, no, no, I reassured her.

The conversation had been going on at normal decibel levels until this point, but even Barbara thought it best to lower her voice for the next bit: "Because we have a new girl now, you know. And she's. Very. Broad. Minded."

No one who knew Barbara will have any difficulty imagining the scene.

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In most cases you cannot be 100% sure the person is on his/her own. Chloe's example is very striking.

The worst breach of etiquette here I ever encountered was a few years back. There used to be a very good erotic massage joint in Paddington called Kharma, run by an exuberant Italian lady called Barbara (now moved into a different kind of business, I believe. I was once walking in the area when I heard my name called - rather insistently. I turned and there was Barbara coming smiling up. "Me and the girls were just having a coffee and wondered if you'd like to join us." Sure enough, there were two of the girls at an outside table, and they waved happily at me. Actually, it would have been almost 100% safe, but I was in a hurry for some reason or other, so I hummed and hawed a bit, until Barbara said "Oh, it's not a problem, is it?" No, no, no, no, I reassured her.

The conversation had been going on at normal decibel levels until this point, but even Barbara thought it best to lower her voice for the next bit: "Because we have a new girl now, you know. And she's. Very. Broad. Minded."

No one who knew Barbara will have any difficulty imagining the scene.

I agree you can never be sure if they are on their own. It's happened to me before.

I was browsing away in a section in Selfridges and a man called my escort name a few times to get my attention, I didn't even acknowledge him because at the time my best friend who I was with who was looking at clothes a few feet away from me, didn't know what I did. (She does now).

It was awful, I just went on like I couldn't hear him, then a few days later he texted me mentioning it was him, and that he wanted to make a booking. Safe to say I didn't see him again, I'm all about discretion and wouldn't go around calling my clients by their punting name regardless of whether they are alone or not and I would expect my clients to do the same with me.

Each to their own though.

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I don't think a respectable Thai wife would be happy to know her husband is seeing escorts any more than a British one lol it's illegal there isn't it so really they are slightly less liberal than here.

 

 

 

 

 No she wouldn't .  But there wouldn't be much she could do about it  . Not like here instant thoughts of divorce and taking him to the cleaners .

 

   She would be more bothered about the amount of money he spent on punting and her losing face should her friends find out .

 

   Yes it is illegal  in Thailand ,  this is just a front to international expectations . I was thinking mostly of the general public attitude to whoring there , where it's better to have that job than no job . There is no welfare system to support , as you probably know  .

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Having done a little research before taking up this new hobby I decided to use my own first name rather than a false one as I've read sme do. I don't really see the point. For a start the escort doesn't know if it's your real name or not, and even so I don't see the problem unless you have a really unusual first name.

If someone was being indiscreet and came up and said hello while I was out with someone, I'd rather they used my real name. Then it would be far easier to make a feasible excuse as to how I knew them.

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Having done a little research before taking up this new hobby I decided to use my own first name rather than a false one as I've read sme do. I don't really see the point. For a start the escort doesn't know if it's your real name or not, and even so I don't see the problem unless you have a really unusual first name.

If someone was being indiscreet and came up and said hello while I was out with someone, I'd rather they used my real name. Then it would be far easier to make a feasible excuse as to how I knew them.

That's you, but many clients don't want escorts knowing their real name. Some may have distinctive first names, hence why using a fake name works.

I can understand that because I for one have a very distinctive name so an escort name works for me.

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