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I have been at this for a good few years now and I am always interested in how different everyone can be, both WGs and clients. 

 

I see that so many clients are interested in the range of services provided, some have very particular criteria in mind, anal, owo, cim , cof, tea bagging, ws etc,etc. These seem to be the guiding factor, rather than the overall experience to be had . I wonder if I am any different, maybe not as I wont book a girl unless she provides FK and RO but honestly, I see those as absolutely bog standard . I don't really see them as 'services'.

 

The emphasis seems to be on the mechanics and range of the  services rather than the experience. Give me a beautiful woman who can make you feel like a million dollars any day over a WG with a long list of favs .

 

How critical is a long list of services for you ?

 

 

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I want kissing and reverse oral for definite, french kissing preferably. After that I'm not too bothered. Oral without and or CIM would be nice but not a deal-breaker.

Maybe my list will grow the more girls I see but I doubt it. I've never been into porn star type stuff.

Given the choice I'd prefer a friendly girl I can have a little rapport with rather than a colder experience with a never ending likes list.

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I have basic requirements which i like to be part of the experience.

Except for my regular, I rarely see the same girl twice. My reg i punt with solely for the experience of being with HER, i then choose a particular girl i want to enjoy a specific service with - could be anal or watersports or maybe even if its young & blonde (so not a service per sé)

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A long list of services is totally unimportant to me. A really good vanilla GFE is far more important and the only two ladies who ever provided that became my regulars in turn in more than ten years of punting.

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it's hard to find a proper "wolf banger" nowadays....

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I want kissing and reverse oral for definite, french kissing preferably. After that I'm not too bothered. Oral without and or CIM would be nice but not a deal-breaker.

Maybe my list will grow the more girls I see but I doubt it. I've never been into porn star type stuff.

Given the choice I'd prefer a friendly girl I can have a little rapport with rather than a colder experience with a never ending likes list.

 

 

This is the key imo. It sounds easy but its not. I think the older the lady is , the more rapport there will be.Although, you can have a nice pleasant time with a girl who is making an effort to be friendly and cordial, you realise the difference when you meet a girl who has the ability and more importantly , who wants to connect directly with you. If she is a stunner as well, then it is truly happy days.

 

 

 

 

I have basic requirements which i like to be part of the experience.

Except for my regular, I rarely see the same girl twice. My reg i punt with solely for the experience of being with HER, i then choose a particular girl i want to enjoy a specific service with - could be anal or watersports or maybe even if its young & blonde (so not a service per sé)

 

I have never had a regular because I have enjoyed the thrill of meeting different types of ladies but I am beginning to change now and wonder if I should 'settle down' and book the same lady ! :)

 

 

 

A long list of services is totally unimportant to me. A really good vanilla GFE is far more important and the only two ladies who ever provided that became my regulars in turn in more than ten years of punting.

 

Yep, I may follow the same road. You have a special quality experience with them that is difficult to replace.

 

 

it's hard to find a proper "wolf banger" nowadays....

 

I used to be a werewolf but I'm not NOwwhhhhhhhhhh ! 

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I have been at this for a good few years now and I am always interested in how different everyone can be, both WGs and clients. 

 

I see that so many clients are interested in the range of services provided, some have very particular criteria in mind, anal, owo, cim , cof, tea bagging, ws etc,etc. These seem to be the guiding factor, rather than the overall experience to be had . I wonder if I am any different, maybe not as I wont book a girl unless she provides FK and RO but honestly, I see those as absolutely bog standard . I don't really see them as 'services'.

 

The emphasis seems to be on the mechanics and range of the  services rather than the experience. Give me a beautiful woman who can make you feel like a million dollars any day over a WG with a long list of favs .

 

How critical is a long list of services for you ?

 

Indeed there are lots of guys who think like you and will not care about a long list of services: presence and general attitude is what these guys care about.  They do not have the time to read lots of profiles or research reviews: they simply go with their instincts.  And after having a conversation with such a guy you think: 'yes please'.

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My only minimum requirement is the lady speaks good English.  Otherwise I am not too bothered about services.  I want to walk home after a visit feeling I've spent time with a beautiful girl.  The last thing I'd want is to reduce it to crossing off particular services just because a website says they are available.  Could anything feel less human than that?

 

I've often visited ladies who offer more elaborate services than I've ever taken advantage of, simply because the GFE between us develops in such a way it would not have felt natural for me to want them. 

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For me, each girl 'must' be able to provide an excellent GFE, and be into the specific things I enjoy in the bedroom.  Over the years, I've 'refused' to book a fair few girls, because they couldn't do everything I wanted.  I'll 'never' be a go with the flow person, so to me, these particular girls are useless!

 

I've found there's 'always' an excellent choice of girls that do enjoy the same things as me in the bedroom.  I've 'highly' enjoyed every meet I've had.  I @ least partly put this down to being very picky when deciding which girls to book.

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I'm not overly bothered with specialised services. I dislike the more specialised services like WS, BSDM, etc

 

I like a nice looking, clean, friendly lady, who doesn't smoke - ideally speaks decent English. I do prefer bookings with ladies who do OWO; CIM/CIF is always nice but never a deal breaker. A good GFE is ideal.

 

Back in't day, OWO/CIM was unheard of and quite taboo if requested. Today OWO seems quite vanilla! lol

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While there is a monetary and service element to a booking. There is also a human element to it all. The last thing I seek upon leaving is a list of services ticked off in my mind.

My most enjoyable punts have always been where services have been provided by the lady with out being prompted. It is where the lady is relaxed in my company and appearing to derive equal pleasure. If she is enjoying the meeting then she always ensures it is pleasurable for us both.

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While I agree with the OPs idea about the experience, these days I like a good list of services since there are few things more off putting than being told "no" mid session.  While I have no interest in WS or A-levels,  I like the sort of girl who seems into it.  Too many services are WAY better than not enough.  I was back to a girl i had seen regularly some time ago, and she said no to putting in a finger while I was giving RO.  While I respect her choice - and in theory it makes no difference-, the moment she told me was a bit awkward.  I might go back, but when I see her next, this tiny moment will be in my memory.

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Maybe my list will grow the more girls I see but I doubt it. I've never been into porn star type stuff.

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Exactly this. Even after years of punting my enjoys list grows, just recently two ladies without request have given me prostate massage and now this is something I will definitely look for. Over the years anal, watersports, OWO, CIM have all been added this way purely by ladies spontaneously offering these and me going away thinking Wow! Edited by AnotherFrank

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I feel that a good attitude is more important than an extensive list of "services". I like to chat on the phone during the booking process and during the chat I can get an idea of her attitude, and also ask about the activities I hope we shall enjoy together.

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I must say I do like to see a reasonably extensive list of services on the basis that even if I don't want most of them at least i know that the girl is capable and broad minded!  That said as the years have gone by I have come to expect owo - cant see the point with a condom, and if this isn't on offer would be very much less likely to book.

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The attitude of the girl is more important than a long list. Kissing  reverse oral and sex are the most important and after that as long as she is enthusiatic I'm not bothered..

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I have been at this for a good few years now and I am always interested in how different everyone can be, both WGs and clients. 

 

I see that so many clients are interested in the range of services provided, some have very particular criteria in mind, anal, owo, cim , cof, tea bagging, ws etc,etc. These seem to be the guiding factor, rather than the overall experience to be had . I wonder if I am any different, maybe not as I wont book a girl unless she provides FK and RO but honestly, I see those as absolutely bog standard . I don't really see them as 'services'.

 

The emphasis seems to be on the mechanics and range of the  services rather than the experience. Give me a beautiful woman who can make you feel like a million dollars any day over a WG with a long list of favs .

Doesn't have to be a long list. Locality, female, escort, incalls, then cim, French kissing, reverse oral. Icing is snowballing.

 

How critical is a long list of services for you ?

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The attitude of the girl is more important than a long list. Kissing  reverse oral and sex are the most important and after that as long as she is enthusiatic I'm not bothered..

Agree with this completely. If I have a great rapport with a girl with the right attitude (also stunning and highly skilled I might add!) those services are enough to make me happy.

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Had a punt recently. The girl advertises only massage services but from her reviews and fees charged it was clear that at the very least, sex would be included. After the shower I ask what she has in store for me. 'what would you like ' was the reply. So if I asked if she 'kissed'. No was the reply as you can see from services. Hmm, ok she could well be right ( technically ) but sex isn't one of her services either . In fact, only massage services are published . So I asked for a massage and she informed me that sex would also be included.  

 

Anyway, we got on with it and in fact it proved to be an enjoyable booking as she turned out to be very teasing and sensual and OW and RO were availed of. I have heard from her since with the 'enjoyable, lovely guy ' stuff and looking forward to seeing me again. Problem is  I just wont book again. As a client, where there is no kissing, let alone FK  , you feel awkward, a second class citizen. I don't think she picked on me, I think it is her policy.This girl is anxious for the business but has only been involved  for a short time. I would guess that it will adversely affect any potential repeat business . Of course, its up to her to decide on her services and I respected that but I wont be back. Should I tell her why or not bother ? 

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The attitude of the girl is more important than a long list. Kissing  reverse oral and sex are the most important and after that as long as she is enthusiatic I'm not bothered..

 

I'm with you on that. Things need to flow and be as "normal as possible". I think I would feel really awkward about no FK; a connection would be missing and if there isn't any, I might as well use my own hand.

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I'm with you on that. Things need to flow and be as "normal as possible". I think I would feel really awkward about no FK; a connection would be missing and if there isn't any, I might as well use my own hand.

Precisely. I love a good snog as part of the meet.

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I like French Kissing and Reverse Oral the most, and/or their variations like getting my tongue sucked (a fair amount of WGs like to suck my tongue, giving it a blowjob), and facesitting (without smouldering and SM style) and tonguefucking.

 

Some WGs also have additional roleplay and other games. I like them, but they are not required, so they are not dealbreakers.

 

To put it short, it is mainly GFE with some PSE (Porn-Star Experience) traits. What matters most to me are the individual services and not what categories the services belong to (GFE, PSE, A-level, etc.).

 

I am definitely not interested in extremes like scatting, pissing sex, giving anal to a WG (finger, penis or tongue).

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a long list of services (on the purple site) is just to attract punters in my opinion. I personally look for a good command of english, a nice body, a-levels and cims!

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I'd say no - my list of must haves is quite short - kissing, oral/RO, COB/CIM - and to my mind could be incorporated simply in the phrase "accommodating GFE" or some such but then my short list may be different to your short list.  Maybe a list of no-gos would be better but that would give the girl a sort of negative attitude, wouldn't it?

 

Overall, I'm looking for a friendly, enthusiastic partner, who wants to give me as much sexy fun as possible in the time we have together.

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a long list of services (on the purple site) is just to attract punters in my opinion. I personally look for a good command of english, a nice body, a-levels and cims!

 

I don't think so, but hey, you might have experienced what most of the people have not, so I will not be surprised to hear anything really.

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