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I saw a WG twice in the last two or so weeks. I am single and live alone in an upmarket part of RG. 

Mistake 1: No punting phone, used my personal phone to arrange details.

 

She came to my pad and had a really hot experience. WG drove herself to my pad, parked in my driveway nice, dressing was discrete. 

WG is an intelligible lady, able to hold a proper conversation and the sex was good. First encounter I booked 2 hours followed by an overnight which was equally good. For the overnight I prepared a culinary delight, probably went overboard, my fault! In the morning more sex followed by breakfast in bed. WG has indicated that she is willing to see me for less her usual charge or even free!

 

Now she keeps texting me at odd times: 

 

''how are you babe''....No please don't check I haven't booked you

''what are you doing''....Non of your business

''can I come over''.........I have other business, This weekend I had to lie that I am away visiting friends

''missing you''...............We are not in love: professional relationship. 

 

Even texts me when my team scores!

How do I respond to these unwanted texts without being blunt.

 

I don't know perhaps other WGs can help here, is it because she has time on her hands or something is up. I really wanted her to be my regular but having second thoughts.  Has anyone out there had a similar experience? 

 

Thanx in advance

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You're single, live alone, what's the problem?

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I am just concerned whether this behaviour is normal and acceptable.

 

Worried about professional boundaries :cool:

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Really unprofessional of her....can you not just block her number?

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Don't blame yourself for going overboard. She's the one in the wrong here. Escorts should never send unsolicited texts. We know clients know where we are should they want to see us. By her saying she'd see you for free implies that she's certainly very keen on you! Perhaps she's fed up with the job and sees you as a potential boyfriend who is able to support her. Even if you enjoy her company I'd recommend not seeing her again, as she's already blurring boundaries. The escort-client relationship is meant to be clean cut, and as a paying client that's what you deserve to have, and unless pre agreed communication should be restricted only to discussing appointment arrangements.

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Just text her..

 

"please stop texting me as I am very busy. I had a great time with you will contact you should I wish to make another booking"

 

Thats very polite, friendly even, but to the point. She shouldnt be texting you. She knows you are single I guess so thinks its okay. I would nip it in the bud in as friendly a manner as possible and if she keeps texting after that just completely ignore the texts and put her on block

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Good advice, Chloe. On a lighter note, on another thread, Kodiak is looking for someone to take on holiday. This lady's approach of blurring the boundaries would appear an ideal solution to his problem : she may  well jump at the chance, and, at the same time, get Trickstar3 off the hook. Two problems solved in one.

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Looks like you treated her to the full "boyfriend experience" and got her a bit confused. Let me guess, champagne, candle light, telling her how gorgeous and intelligent she is?

She's either feeding your fantasy of "I am the great seducer, and even WGs fall in love with me", or she misunderstands, and has a bit of a crush on you.

 

I made that mistake once, and inadvertently overstepped a boundary. Charming and cultured client, got very regular over the course of a year or two, didn't treat me like a paid gig, presented himself as a single man about town, made me French Toast in his very grand flat in Kensington, held my hand and peered into my eyes. No sign of a female presence in the apartment. When I went on holiday he said: gonna miss you, send me a card....

 

Like a mug, I did send him a card. Nothing romantic or incriminating, no "wish you were here". When I got back from holiday he rang, went totally ballistic at me for invading his privacy and never saw me again. Must admit, I was really shocked. He clearly needed to create this whole romance boll*cks because he didn't like to think of himself as a 'punter', and used me to stroke his ego, not just his cock. Very confusing - we're human, too.

 

Mind you, this happeded after about 2 dozen meets, not after the second one.

 

Like Chloe says, send her a non-angry "don't call me, I'll call you" text. She ought to get the message loud and clear. Oh, and maybe get a punting SIM? If you don't, she's not the only one blurring the boundaries. 

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Very unprofessional behaviour. I would politely asked to stop texting as it is disturbing your personal life.

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This is probably more heavy handed than you wish to go (and will depend on whether you want to see her again) however I thought it worth mentioning as both clients and working girls can suffer from such behaviour and it can be extremely stressful, especially as you may feel helpless to stop it however you do have some legal standing; you could invoke The Protection From Harassment Act 1997"  which states that it is a criminal offence if you:

 

Cause alarm, harassment or distress more than once as a result of an action you conduct against another person. The conduct might be verbal or non-verbal and it doesn’t have to be the same type of action on each occasion – if the person feels alarmed, harassed or distressed by your actions, then it is deemed harassment, even if that was not your intention

 

The maximum sentence under the Act for this offence is 7 years imprisonment.

 

In order to invoke the act simply contact her with words to this affect: Please stop making contact. Any further contact will be considered harassment, as defined in "The Protection From Harassment Act 1997".  As a result of this email/message, you are now aware that your actions are harassing, and The Act now applies to any further communication you initiate.

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Perhaps she's fed up with the job and sees you as a potential boyfriend who is able to support her. Even if you enjoy her company I'd recommend not seeing her again, as she's already blurring boundaries. The escort-client relationship is meant to be clean cut, and as a paying client that's what you deserve to have, and unless pre agreed communication should be restricted only to discussing appointment arrangements.

Exactly this. It is possible to have social communications with an escort between bookings but she's stepped over the line here.

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Unless its a very cynical tout...

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Unprofessional.

A good way would have been to ask her if she had the wrong number. Then if not explain you do not wish to have a relationship and wish to keep it to business only.

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But why do you all want to destroy their love!!!! :wub:

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I say treat this the same way a WG would with a needy client. Make your boundaries clear and tell her you only want to make contact if you want to book. But perhaps best to not even see her for a booking as she's clearly keen on you and might turn into a nightmare!

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Do you have any bunnies?

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She's either desperate for business or half in love with you or possibly a nutter,. 

 

Agree withe the others- a curt Please don't contact me again text should be enough. 

 

Then ignore. If she carries on being pesty don't respond to her at all. Each time you respond you are feeding her desire for contact. If you ignore her she'll eventually get bored. 

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Am i the only one,on reading the thread title was expecting something more like the ending of the benny hill show?

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Am i the only one,on reading the thread title was expecting something more like the ending of the benny hill show?

 

And the OP has not even been back after everybody have been giving so much advice.. 

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And the OP has not even been back after everybody have been giving so much advice.. 

Well it is back to school for many this week  :mellow:

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You see this a lot in Thailand they are there for the money but they are always on the look out for a good catch they get a catch but will always look for something bigger and better they will do anything for a easy life and more importantly money,

You can take the girl out of the bar but never the bar out of the girl, lovely old cliche from Thailand

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And the OP has not even been back after everybody have been giving so much advice.. 

 

The OP is perhaps Duncan Norville?  Got to be old as me to understand the reference "Chase me"

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Another newbie poster, another ridiculous Agony Aunt scenario.

 

This one has nicked the plot-line from Fatal Attraction.

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Chloe had excellent advice but I will take the other side. Let's not forget this is a human being on the receiving end of you 'pouring it on a bit strong' and maybe you vibed out that you were into her and wanted more. Maybe she's vulnerable from ending a relationship or just felt something with you unlike other clients.

I'm not saying she should be contacting you, I'm just saying maybe cut her some slack and be kind. Soft let down to tell her maybe it's better if you contact her first and that you wish to keep things at a business level. If I know women, she will probably terminate any contact and block your number as well.

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You see this a lot in Thailand they are there for the money but they are always on the look out for a good catch they get a catch but will always look for something bigger and better they will do anything for a easy life and more importantly money,

You can take the girl out of the bar but never the bar out of the girl, lovely old cliche from Thailand

 

This reminds me about a documentary on the Australian embassy in Bangkok and how a very decent Aussie miner had his passport taken by a Thai girl when he refused to give her money to open a bar for girls.  He was funding her for a long time hoping to get married and she took all his money as she had more 'sponsors' to support her family in a way that is very common there.  She was so full of anger and shouting up to the very end: no shame whatsoever.

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