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Spicing Up Your Punt

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I generally seem to find that punting has become like a routine and sometimes boring.

 

You see the lady have some foreplay ,get some oral, have 69 and then finish with sex.

 

I'm now looking for something different a punt where there is added excitement, surprise element and away from the norm.

 

What have you done to spice up your meeting with the lady?

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Have you tried dating? :lol:

 

Can be quite exciting, and certainly more satisfying if you do get laid!

 

I find variety is the spice of life. Not sticking to one particular WG is always good for me, though it's nice to have a safe fall back with a girl you know well.

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There are many things you can do, step out your comfort zone and book someone totally different.

Or try something you've never done before, maybe BDSM? Or something else? But things like that are best done with a regular.

If it's becoming like a routine and boring for you it could be that the SP isn't putting in much effort as it should never be that way. X

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Have you tried dating? :lol:

 

Can be quite exciting, and certainly more satisfying if you do get laid!

 

I find variety is the spice of life. Not sticking to one particular WG is always good for me, though it's nice to have a safe fall back with a girl you know well.

I'd second that. Maybe what is becoming boring is the lack of the chase, the guaranteed "score"? With dating there is the risk of rejection, of course, but when you are allowed into a new lady's boudoir, that has to be more exciting and flattering than paying for it. You can either venture into the straight world and meet women or, if you are married/committed and don't want the complications and obligations that come with dating, how about trying new stuff?

 

Tie and tease with a blindfold, duo bookings with two ladies doing lesbian stuff, while you sit in an armchair and watch, sipping a good single malt? A lady dressed in thigh boots in a dungeon, but getting up to vanilla stuff in front of the mirrors, surrounded by whips and chains? Go dogging? See a gorgeous transsexual for a change? Maybe you need to find yourself a few WGs with a lively imagination. Some of us love to mix it up, too. Routine isn't sexy. There is so much variety out there, there's no excuse for letting punts go stale and predictable.

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Go for an outcall to a sex dungeon instead of a regular hotel / apartment booking - plenty of toys and equipment to play with

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I think boredom definitely sets in if you're not chasing and simply paying for the end reward. The reward pleasure dampens after a while if it's too easy. Men & women are used to the thrill of the chase. As a punter, sometimes we miss that flirtation build up and level of risk of never knowing what'd happen next.

 

Adding a scenario to a booking - getting her to dress up a certain way, food play, showering and like others have suggested, BDSM, tie n tease. Edging is also a great way of building the tension. Start off with a slow sensual massage and build up to a final, more explosive ending.

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I generally seem to find that punting has become like a routine and sometimes boring.

 

You see the lady have some foreplay ,get some oral, have 69 and then finish with sex.

 

I'm now looking for something different a punt where there is added excitement, surprise element and away from the norm.

 

What have you done to spice up your meeting with the lady?

Oooh you want some spice?   How about nibbling on a scotch bonnet just before oral?  :D

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Or slightly less dangerous - a JD and Coke blow job as expertly performed by Platinum Cindy

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Oooh you want some spice? How about nibbling on a scotch bonnet just before oral? :D

Spice up your life!

Haha :D

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Or dress up as a spice girl!

 

Which one though?
:huh:

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Or stick a red hot chilli up your bum!!!

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I generally seem to find that punting has become like a routine and sometimes boring.

 

You see the lady have some foreplay ,get some oral, have 69 and then finish with sex.

 

I'm now looking for something different a punt where there is added excitement, surprise element and away from the norm.

 

What have you done to spice up your meeting with the lady?

I've found role play definitely adds to the fun!  Always a new idea to try.

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Hmm, some cumin or saffron sounds exotic. Perhaps salt and pepper would suffice ;P ?

 

Lately, I feel the same way. The first few times, hell the first year was amazing. Now, punting has lost a bit of flavour.

 

-W

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If you are finding it tedious maybe take a break and come back eager.

But yesterday I saw czech girl sallysullivan in Worcester. (On aw)

She started doing bj on me while I stood, then did a massive cum when I did oral. Nice 69 then she did an awesome cowgirl grind. Then a lovely cuddle. Whats to be bored with that?

But she said she used to work in fkk clubs in Wein and S Germany.

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I generally seem to find that punting has become like a routine and sometimes boring.

 

You see the lady have some foreplay ,get some oral, have 69 and then finish with sex.

 

I'm now looking for something different a punt where there is added excitement, surprise element and away from the norm.

 

What have you done to spice up your meeting with the lady?

Try being better in bed?

 

(fanny tries to get the hang of this promotion business, fails dismally) 

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Try being better in bed?

 

(fanny tries to get the hang of this promotion business, fails dismally) 

 

 

A homepage link would be good !

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I generally seem to find that punting has become like a routine and sometimes boring.

 

You see the lady have some foreplay ,get some oral, have 69 and then finish with sex.

 

I'm now looking for something different a punt where there is added excitement, surprise element and away from the norm.

 

What have you done to spice up your meeting with the lady?

 

I kinda agree with you here. Asking the WG to do this, that or the other takes away from the experience. Its good when the lady takes the lead and tries something....practically never happens unfortunately. Most just look at you blankly .

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The way i see it, is if you're bored of sex, you're bored of life!

 

I think the real issue here is compatibility. We as punters might assume all WGs have a similar outlook/method when it comes to servicing their clients. Every woman i've been with is very different and you should try to not have too high expectations when punting.

 

If you're a submissive man, who likes a strong woman to take the lead and have their wicked way with ya - I'd shop around more before I book - try to find a woman who perhaps is into domination - but is willing to take the lead and not necessarily want to hit you with a cricket bat or take the cheese grater to your man bits. I'm sure there's plenty of WGs (most of whom probably frequent these forums) with a good strong willed sense of adventure and willing to take control of your willing winkles! :P

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I generally seem to find that punting has become like a routine and sometimes boring.

 

You see the lady have some foreplay ,get some oral, have 69 and then finish with sex.

 

I'm now looking for something different a punt where there is added excitement, surprise element and away from the norm.

 

What have you done to spice up your meeting with the lady?

You could always get her to get someone to hide in the apartment and jump out on you Kato style.That would definately add a supprise element.I should add,don't try that the reverse way round.Hiding in the wardrobe,jumping out shouting supprise as she gets back in the room is a good way to get yourself stabbed with a nail file or anything else sharp that comes to hand and hurts like a bugger.

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You could always get her to get someone to hide in the apartment and jump out on you Kato style.That would definately add a supprise element.I should add,don't try that the reverse way round.Hiding in the wardrobe,jumping out shouting supprise as she gets back in the room is a good way to get yourself stabbed with a nail file or anything else sharp that comes to hand and hurts like a bugger.

 

Love this! It really made laugh - thank you!

 

You'd be surprised what a formidable weapon a Doc Johnson double ended dildo can be ....  Not that I'd advocate using it as such obviously! Just stay out of the wardrobe ....

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Finding the right girl is key. If you find someone who you have sexual chemistry with and who is open to experimenting then you're set.

I used to keep things fresh by never sticking with one WG for more than a couple of punts, however I now have a regular who I never get bored of seeing; after my first few visits she introduced roleplay into our sessions and is always coming up with new ideas and scenarios. She also knows what I like and will often try a new trick or try and improve her performance in one way or another.

Most times she will lead, however last time I surprised her by taking charge mid-punt, practised some light tie & tease on her and then introduced some ice-cold fruit jelly cubes into proceedings which I'd stashed in her fridge when she wasn't looking. It was a thrill to turn the tables on her for a change and she told me afterwards she'd really had fun.

Be creative. Talk about your fantasies. Have fun.

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personally I hate role play (i find it just silly - but each to their own)....

 

i found a good way to spice it up is to get a girl to find their favourite porn movie (a good way to know what the girls actually likes as well) and then act it out as it happens on screen - rarely have i gotten more than 10-15 mins in before it just turning in to my own fuckfest....

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...a lady recently asked me to perform watersports on her ....she doesn't offer this service but said she hadn't experienced it before...and I said, I have never given it before...so it was a first for both of us and judging by how enjoyable it was it wont be the last for either of us.

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The most spicy punts are punts where the WG does things spontaneously (without me asking her) or she asks me whether it is okay that she does this or that. Most of them are tonguesucking while French kissing, and facesitting, sometimes she rims me, without my request. Sometimes roleplay and dirty talk.

 

A spicy thing also is when she pushes her vagina against my face so that my tongue goes deeper.

 

By this it is very clear what she wants, while she doesn't need a lot of words to explain her preferences.

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