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Asking For Health Checks On Backpage

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As the subject suggests, is there any point asking for that kind of thing or should Backpage just be avoided? Agencies seem safer, but Backpage has its advantages. Key fear of backpage is the health issue, more than anything else.

 

If someone doesn't look like how they advertised themselves they aren't seeing me no matter where they came from.

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what is a lab? like a dog? i prefer springer spaniels myself.....

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Hahah I like terriers.

 

Health tests/checks. Science background...

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Please explain how Backpage and agency escorts differ regarding health?

 

I have no idea what you mean by labs.

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I'm guessing you mean sexual health results? Any responsible escort will be tested exceptionally regularly - it could destroy our way of life if we passed on any nasties so we take it very seriously - personally I find this kind of approach very offensive - like we're some sub species of human - almost lepers perhaps? If you approach any escort with a good reputation and a healthy sense of self esteem they won't be seeing you no matter what they look like.

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I'm guessing you mean sexual health results? Any responsible escort will be tested exceptionally regularly - it could destroy our way of life if we passed on any nasties so we take it very seriously - personally I find this kind of approach very offensive - like we're some sub species of human - almost lepers perhaps? If you approach any escort with a good reputation and a healthy sense of self esteem they won't be seeing you no matter what they look like.

Ah that's what he meant?! How out of order.

 

He's a troll isn't he, I just can't believe a "normal" person would post like this. Doesn't paint him in a good light at all.

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A troll or an individual who wants to see an escort but lacks any degree of emotional intelligence. Not good either way.

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Backpage like and other search engine has to be treated with caution, however there are many gems to be found within the minefield, just look at my post in the London thread just now as an example....

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So girls are £600 an hour on backpage???

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Troll's are a nuisance and irritating or he is suffering from a low EQ and a new condition called 'quite OCD' I probably shouldn't but I did laugh at his on-line chat up lines: see below:

 

I hate to break it to the charming Fay that the ladies primary concern is that your: clean, punctual, polite, pay and leave in a timely fashion - they don't give a flying fig about height, level of fitness, or even if you wear a suit! :)

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Hi all,

 

So, I am new here but am keeping this as short as possible. I'm 24 (male/straight/White), from London, and I've had an odd life. I have nevertheless found myself in a good career with relatively low expenses (more on that below).

I am an introvert with an IQ of 142, and I think everything through to ridiculous detail. I am fit (gym and sprint-training, very clean, tailored suits, 5'11, low body fat) and fairly good looking, I have had girls chase me only to realise that I have absolutely no interest in them... and meanwhile I still can't seem to get truly amazing girls interested in me, whether online or elsewhere.

On the other hand, a friend of mine is 6'6 and has parents who are multimillionaires...girls I stare at, swoon for him. I've taken to calling this the Cluster**** Circle of General Unattainability.

 

It does not help that I am also quite OCD and don't like crowds (the idea of picking up random girls in bars actually makes me uncomfortable). I have had relationships in the past but they've never worked out in the long term.

 

So I've started looking into escorts. You know the moment that you first discover this world, and the whole CONCEPT of it...exciting huh...

It's not like I'm going to stop trying to up my game, improve my appearance and increase my social position...escorts are no long term solution and I'm a fairly happy guy with a bright future.

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Hahah I like terriers.

 

Health tests/checks. Science background...

 

I have amended the topic heading, removed Labs and inserted health checks.

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Any potential punter who asked me for proof of my health checks would be told to sod right off!

 

Most clinics don't give out certificates anyway and what is the point- someone could have a clean health check then go and shag 20 men bareback the next day.

 

You can only look after yourself by making choices on how safe you want your sex. 

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HappyPunter - 'I hate to break it to the charming Fay that the ladies primary concern is that your: clean, punctual, polite, pay and leave in a timely fashion - they don't give a flying fig about height, level of fitness, or even if you wear a suit!'

 

Thanks for taking the time to post, and I am slightly surprised I admit...I expected that anyone would care about those things given the cirumstances. Do most people agree with you on that?

Asking awkward and hard questions is far easier on the net than in person, such is the world.

 

As for any insults thrown at me, it is really no problem. I am not a troll through, just someone who seeks answers but has limited time. Low EQ? Perhaps, though I would never ask this without the anonymity that my internet provides.

 

Thanks to everyone else who has replied here, as well.

 

Chloe - no, I was looking at agencies, and that is the highest that I've seen in the UK.

 

JKay - great, but this is more or less answered I think, because there is a general hostility to the question that I raised which underlines the answer 'no, providers would not offer this information'.

 

Minxy - I see escorts as safer than random girls anyway. I get your point, I was just curious.

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..honestly FM - trust me, I have no doubt that you think you are am Adonis and I feel sure you probably are - but one of the refreshing aspects of meeting an escort is, and this in itself is I grant you rather remarkable, is the lady doesn't care one iota what you look like, my experience is that old fashioned virtues like: respect, manners, prompt payment, cleanliness, are what tick boxes - at its very core such a meeting is a professional and business arrangement underpinned by a transaction and that transaction can purchase, I think, a remarkable and outstanding level of service and yes sex!! 

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I thought he was referring to health checks on using the back passage!  Back passage not for me I'm afraid...

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i just thought he was on about dogs.. hm think i need sleep

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surreal thread, heheh. What's the moon doing?

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..honestly FM - trust me, I have no doubt that you think you are am Adonis and I feel sure you probably are - but one of the refreshing aspects of meeting an escort is, and this in itself is I grant you rather remarkable, is the lady doesn't care one iota what you look like, my experience is that old fashioned virtues like: respect, manners, prompt payment, cleanliness, are what tick boxes - at its very core such a meeting is a professional and business arrangement underpinned by a transaction and that transaction can purchase, I think, a remarkable and outstanding level of service and yes sex!! 

 

I agree with you 100% Good sex, in my honest opinion is not about vanity or ego - just the genuine desire to connect and have a damn good time with another human being.

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"Fear of health issue"....... maybe the Ladies should be asking clients FayreMerry for 2 to verifiable  certificates of a  clean bill of health  (physically as well as mentality).

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As the subject suggests, is there any point asking for that kind of thing or should Backpage just be avoided? Agencies seem safer, but Backpage has its advantages. Key fear of backpage is the health issue, more than anything else.

 

If someone doesn't look like how they advertised themselves they aren't seeing me no matter where they came from.

Go for it, ask for health details, expect to have to arrive with your own personal medical certs and files also though. You are no virgin, you are just as much at risk of an sti as any escort

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Moose - what you see here does not represent my mentality in its entirety. I see this as a good outlet for questions which make people think I'm crazy because I can't ask them in person and would not do so because I respect people too much.

 

Chloe, Moose - I would be happy to provide such certs despite my undeniably limited sexual experience, but I am starting to understand this subculture much better now and think that it would do nothing but harm any relationship that I was trying to cultivate both on business and personal-interaction levels. Comes down to risk appetite, I think.

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Moose - what you see here does not represent my mentality in its entirety. I see this as a good outlet for questions which make people think I'm crazy because I can't ask them in person and would not do so because I respect people too much.

 

Chloe, Moose - I would be happy to provide such certs despite my undeniably limited sexual experience, but I am starting to understand this subculture much better now and think that it would do nothing but harm any relationship that I was trying to cultivate both on business and personal-interaction levels. Comes down to risk appetite, I think.

The simple fact is that certs really are only worth anything as evidence that someone does keep an eye on their health and nothing more. You get tested. Fine, thing is most punters and escorts could then walk out of the gum clinic and straight off for a shag or to a booking, thus rendering the results completley obselete before you have even recieved them. Certs are only a guarantee if you book someone for a week or two, both get tested at the start of the booking then have sex once you have spent the entire week together till the results come in...so...

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