FayreMerry

Additional Photo Requests...the Reality?

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I feel bad for posting this question. Unfortunately, I need to ask.

 

I place an enormous value on physical appearances. I cannot help it. It is the main reason that I am now looking at this world.

 

I am happy to accept heavy screening as a client, including photos of me etc.

 

How much screening will an escort accept? What if I wanted photos proving that she looked as she advertised that she looked? What if I wanted photos of her in ways which were not advertised openly? A girl would need to look good everywhere to make me donate >£600 per hour. Escorts keep commenting that in the end this is a business arrangement: time for money. I agree with that, more or less.

 

How would most escorts react to that kind of request? I would never want to be seen as some guy who wants free photos before going away, but fear that I might end up being seen that way...

 

Regards,

 

Fayre Merry

 

 

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No escort with their head screwed on is going to send anyone pics that they dont have published why on earth would they im sure i speak for more than myself when i say we get numerous men asking for extra pics every day . free wank material so they can feel special that they got an extra.. um no!

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I agree with English Rebecca.  You will be seen that way since you ARE that way.  Book her or don't.

 

And no one cares about photos of you.  

 

But of course you should not 'donate' £600.  £150 per hour is generous. 

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No escort with their head screwed on is going to send anyone pics that they dont have published why on earth would they im sure i speak for more than myself when i say we get numerous men asking for extra pics every day . free wank material so they can feel special that they got an extra.. um no!

Yeah I expected as much. Pity.

I am very very new to this Rebecca.

 

 

 

I agree with English Rebecca.  You will be seen that way since you ARE that way.  Book her or don't.

 

And no one cares about photos of you.  

 

But of course you should not 'donate' £600.  £150 per hour is generous. 

 

Top-end or nothing pal. There are girls at £300+ and they look GOOD.

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You are living in a dream world, as Rebecca said no escort is going to send anyone pictures they don't have published.

Some of us have experienced stalkers and guys plastering our pictures online, so in your dreams sunshine.

 

We do not care what you look like as long as you meet our requirements and are clean, your appearance is of no interest. You will never get a booking with the attitude you currently have to escorting you will just get every single escort who you contact to block you, blacklist you and probably post your number on another forum and to other girls informing them you are a timewaster.

 

If you are uncertain about a girl picture and appearance, don't book her. 

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Yeah, anyone asking me to 'prove' something would get a very short thrift. 

 

And what kind of fool pays £600 an hour?!

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Yeah, anyone asking me to 'prove' something would get a very short thrift. 

 

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Involving the infayremerry I shouldn't wonder ;)

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Ebony - 'You will never get a booking with the attitude you currently have to escorting you will just get every single escort who you contact to block you, blacklist you and probably post your number on another forum and to other girls informing them you are a timewaster.'

 

My attitude is that of someone who asks awkward questions on the internet so I can avoid the problem of pissing people off when they actually discuss things with me. Thank you for your reply, it as actually helpful.

 

Minxy - I'm surprised again, do you not think it is reasonable for someone who doesn't know you to want to confirm stuff? I know a man who could use photo editing to make me look like Christian Bale (though it might take a while, hah).

 

Pabalum - Fayre Merry in the infayremerry with wounds delivered by 6 inch heels, it looks like...

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How would you know that the photos are of her?

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..... And I was under the impression that donations are a voluntary payment.

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Ebony - 'You will never get a booking with the attitude you currently have to escorting you will just get every single escort who you contact to block you, blacklist you and probably post your number on another forum and to other girls informing them you are a timewaster.'

 

My attitude is that of someone who asks awkward questions on the internet so I can avoid the problem of pissing people off when they actually discuss things with me. Thank you for your reply, it as actually helpful.

 

Minxy - I'm surprised again, do you not think it is reasonable for someone who doesn't know you to want to confirm stuff? I know a man who could use photo editing to make me look like Christian Bale (though it might take a while, hah).

 

Pabalum - Fayre Merry in the infayremerry with wounds delivered by 6 inch heels, it looks like...

Its pointless, if you are worrying about editing then it may surprise you to hear but girls can edit their own pictures too, they can take a selfie on their phone then upload it into a photo editing app and do incredible things to that image lol...no girl is going to send you pictures that you could upload onto the internet and make money from or just share around. We put our pictures on our websites for a reason..the reason is that we can CHOSE which images we wish to be made public.

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The other reality is that if the Escort has clients who will visit her with the photos she does display, why would she then want to send extras?

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Minxy - I'm surprised again, do you not think it is reasonable for someone who doesn't know you to want to confirm stuff? I know a man who could use photo editing to make me look like Christian Bale (though it might take a while, hah).

 

No, because I have all the pictures on my website I want released into the world! There are enough reviews of me about to confirm I am what I both say I am and how I look. Which is why you need to find yourself an escort that is highly recommended and reviewed to ensure you get the type of woman you want. Also, don't count agency reviews, they aren't going to publish the less good ones remember!

 

I don't mind if a potential client wants to 'confirm stuff' though, such as stats or what services I do, that of course is acceptable. 

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If you are so fussy and paranoid why not go for girls that are well reviewed.Its also fairly obvious if someones photos are heavily airbrushed or photoshopped.Its up to you as a client to do your research on a lady you are potentially interested by reading carefully her profile etc and what other gents might have to say about her.Within reason as service providers we can do our best to reassure but not by jumping through hoops and sending special pics for a guy who probably still won't book when we could be in actual bookings with a genuine guy.Oh and rate means nothing regarding looks and service.I know ladies who are on posh agency books but also have their own indy profiles where they charge £150 an hour.

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If you are uncertain about a girl picture and appearance, don't book her. 

yes, TYE, I agree 100% - I've learnt too many times to be wary of any girls who carefully hide a part of their bodies. I don't care about facial features a lot but some may and I can completely understand why many prefer to hide their faces, for discretion. But there is almost always, no always, a reason why a girl hides or distorts views a view of, for instance, their stomach.

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I feel bad for posting this question. Unfortunately, I need to ask.

 

I place an enormous value on physical appearances. I cannot help it. It is the main reason that I am now looking at this world.

 

I am happy to accept heavy screening as a client, including photos of me etc.

 

How much screening will an escort accept? What if I wanted photos proving that she looked as she advertised that she looked? What if I wanted photos of her in ways which were not advertised openly? A girl would need to look good everywhere to make me donate >£600 per hour. Escorts keep commenting that in the end this is a business arrangement: time for money. I agree with that, more or less.

 

How would most escorts react to that kind of request? I would never want to be seen as some guy who wants free photos before going away, but fear that I might end up being seen that way...

 

Regards,

 

Fayre Merry

99% of escorts will not consider your screening methods.

 

It is very easy to see which photos have been retouched, especially escort agency ones, which are mostly retouched within an inch of their life! Most indies take photos on their phones/cameras and some do retouch their photos quite badly in 99p phone apps. A lot of indies on AW, also tend to have pics which are small, blurry or under/over exposed, so you can't see all the detail in high resolution glory, but enough to get a general gist. It's done on purpose for the most part.

 

Saying that, my experience with ladies, both at agencies and who are independent - with a handful of exceptions - are the ladies in the photos, but you have to set your mind to realistic mode. It's very rare you'll find a lady to look 99% like their photos. You know if a picture looks more like a cartoon/barbie doll with ultra smooth plastic looking legs/arms you know it ain't like that in real life. Instead try to imagine a flaws, skin pores, the odd zit or even stretch marks; after all they're only human! :P

 

Speaking of which, did anyone see that channel 4 series 'Humans', recently - with actress Gemma Chan (who is perfect btw)? No doubt we'd all love humanoid robot sex dolls like that in the not too distant future, especially if they're a bit naughty ;) lol Would suit you down to the ground, Sir!

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I have the photos I am willing to post on line on my web site and any adds or profiles. I had a guy this weekend text asking me for a normal pic, I took that to mean one that showed my face. He also asked my prices which I told him. He then text back saying he would need to know what he was getting for that amount of money. Fair enough your perogotive, now jog on.

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The pics I have are the pics I want to show, they do, I believe, present me accurately, of course they are flattering, but then so is make up, you wouldn't expect me to turn up without looking my best would you? They aren't however retouched or photoshopped, there is I think a huge difference between chosing a nice angle and deliberate deception. 

 

I, as others have said, do get requests for face pics, in one sense I can understand this, but I still never send them. Once you send of that pic you never know what might happen to it.

 

The OP can ask for whatever he wants, however he has to respect that if someone doesnt show those kind of pictures, they are unlikely to send them privately unles they explicitly say that face pictures are available upon request. 

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You are living in a dream world, as Rebecca said no escort is going to send anyone pictures they don't have published.

Some of us have experienced stalkers and guys plastering our pictures online, so in your dreams sunshine.

 

We do not care what you look like as long as you meet our requirements and are clean, your appearance is of no interest. You will never get a booking with the attitude you currently have to escorting you will just get every single escort who you contact to block you, blacklist you and probably post your number on another forum and to other girls informing them you are a timewaster.

 

If you are uncertain about a girl picture and appearance, don't book her. 

TYE, I'd say what you've said above is the 'best' advice to minimise the possibility of booking a girl who looks too different from her photos.  ;)

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Turning up looking like Hattie Jaques no good then?

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TYE, I'd say what you've said above is the 'best' advice to minimise the possibility of booking a girl who looks too different from her photos. ;)

Ha sure is!

I've always gone by if you are not 100% sure of something, don't do it!

And escorting is a risky business on both sides, I've never understood girls who have pictures on their profile that are years old, and then when the punter gets to the door and walks, they're angry or upset!

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I feel bad for posting this question. Unfortunately, I need to ask.

 

I place an enormous value on physical appearances. I cannot help it. It is the main reason that I am now looking at this world.

 

I am happy to accept heavy screening as a client, including photos of me etc.

 

How much screening will an escort accept? What if I wanted photos proving that she looked as she advertised that she looked? What if I wanted photos of her in ways which were not advertised openly? A girl would need to look good everywhere to make me donate >£600 per hour. Escorts keep commenting that in the end this is a business arrangement: time for money. I agree with that, more or less.

 

How would most escorts react to that kind of request? I would never want to be seen as some guy who wants free photos before going away, but fear that I might end up being seen that way...

 

Regards,

 

Fayre Merry

£600 seems to be your lucky number.Its also the price you are quoting as willing to pay per night for hotels elsewhere.

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I think that as a punter if you dont like the profile as it is with the pictures offered - you should move on.

 

AW has private galleries - I have now and then paid to see those extra pictures (if the rate was low enough) where I was thinking of booking and the profile pics were promising but not entirely convincing - and in all those cases I was disappointed and did not book. But I now stick to the principle stated above.

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