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Comfort And Location From Wg Perspective...incall Vs Outcall

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I'd feel more comfortable in my own apartment doing anything at all. I would care massively about the lady's experience in any event because I am not happy if my partner is not happy.

But that is just my opinion.

Do most WG's tend to prefer outcall or incall? Why? Examples below that I would love ladies' opinions on:

 

1. Incall with an experienced WG - surely she has had quite actually >100 guys in that apartment...would that diminish the experience because it makes everything feel so samey?

2. Outcall at a client's apartment, assuming client is wealthy and has a nice place...would a lady feel uncomfortable doing that, especially if it was the first time with that client (after speaking on phone or meeting in public of course)

3. Outcall at a 5* hotel in London...uncomfortable, too weirdly uniform and inhuman?

 

;p

 

FM

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Obviously this is principally one for the ladies to answer but I suspect that the independents with their own place will almost all prefer that place. From my perspective the number of blokes that have visited there is of no consequence and again I suspect that that has no influence on the lady either - she's a working girl for goodness sake.

When I've had incall meetings (at my place) they were with women I've come to know well over time and where there is mutual trust. I think that trust thing is very important and you will note many, many girls not taking outcalls with men they haven't met before or who have no positive feedback from other girls.

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Hey Fayre....word from the foolish...stop over thinking, be yourself, try and relax, take a deep breath, lie back and enjoy  - trust me you'll have a fantastic time! :)

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ffs honestly fayre yes she would have had over 100 men in the room.. and??  i expect the hotel room would have seen as much action !

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I think the OP is onto something there: in my incall location I'm in work mode, at his place he has "home advantage" (and the possibility of hiding cameras). If a gentleman is really splurging, and with that I mean if he's treating both of us to some erotic escapism instead of just himself, I'd love to have a rendezvous on luxurious neutral ground. Any of the suites at Blakes or the Portobello Hotel would make it feel more like a sexy date than a job. Win, win - nothing wrong with that if a guy has the means, the time, and a sense of occasion.

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a room is just a room to me no matter how glitzy and posh it is but i guess we are different

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I'd feel more comfortable in my own apartment doing anything at all. I would care massively about the lady's experience in any event because I am not happy if my partner is not happy.

But that is just my opinion.

Do most WG's tend to prefer outcall or incall? Why? Examples below that I would love ladies' opinions on:

 

1. Incall with an experienced WG - surely she has had quite actually >100 guys in that apartment...would that diminish the experience because it makes everything feel so samey?

2. Outcall at a client's apartment, assuming client is wealthy and has a nice place...would a lady feel uncomfortable doing that, especially if it was the first time with that client (after speaking on phone or meeting in public of course)

3. Outcall at a 5* hotel in London...uncomfortable, too weirdly uniform and inhuman?

 

;p

 

FM

I don't have a preference, I worked incall along with outcalls for many years and actually had my most violent experience at my incall place. No violence outcall, and I think that is partly because of the screening I required for outcalls, as well as them being fewer in number and also to a potential robber the idea that you must be stashing the proceeds of numerous visitors each day at your incall place is probably far more tempting than trying it on with someone who has travelled soley to see you.

 

I don't give a stuff where the outcall is, so long as it's in a home or hotel which is warm, cleanish, has warm water, clean towels, soap, and somewhere comfy to have sex.

 

Some very expensive hotels can be very austere and difficult to relax in, I've also had some really great bookings in budget chains. The only thing I try to avoid are key carded corridors and overly nosy staff.

 

Oh and parking/transport links are also very important to me, and I will ask for information about parking when accepting the booking. No use me arriving (despite me asking this has happened), to find it's residents only area or time limited to less than the booking time for the nearest 800m.

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I just wanted to add that I have turned up to properties where the man forgot to put the storage heaters on the previous evening, also someone who in the middle of a freezing December decided to open windows for ventilation. I've also turned up a couple of times to find the person has downed a bottle or two of wine, is rambling on, and or chain smoking in a cloud. I did survive and I do now add that on to my list of requirements - not to be drunk, or chain smoking. Ok snuggling is nice, but cold, bobbled, not washed for 2 weeks bedding with a person who's mouth is sour with wine and cigarettes(and associated smells) is not nice to snuggle up with.

 

Luckily most people realise this from reading my profile, or once we've spoken.

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MY favourite is incalls at an apartment I have booked (not a working flat) its work, so its separate from home, and it has a little bit more luxury than being at home, and who doesnt like luxury?

 

Second would be outcalls to a nice hotel, it doesnt have to be the most expensive, and some boutique hotels are the nicest, with real style. When you meet at a hotel, it is as someone else said, neutral ground. I think there is also an element of "when the cats away" naughtiness to hotel meets, which adds a certain something to proceedings. When I am in London its also a bit of a thrill to see inside famous places like the Savoy or Dorchester. Not sure why the OP feels this is wierd or impersonal, I love the way you get treated in posh hotels!

 

My least favourite, for a number of reasons would be an incall to a clients home, its hard to relax, even with screening, and you are more on the alert for things turning nasty. I only do outcalls to houses if everything "feels" right, and the client meets all of my screening requirements.

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I won't even do outcalls to client's homes because the idea fills me with horror- but plenty of women do and indeed they have told you of their views!

 

I do incalls at home and I can assure you I make the experience lovely for all clients, it doesn't matter how many men I have entertained it isn't samey- each client is different and I still make the effort to make it nice, clean and tidy for them. I think you need to lose the misconception that long term or full time escorts are jaded or less health conscious- I get the impression you feel like this, I may be wrong but...

 

I love outcalls to hotels though. I feel safe because I know the clients full name prior to check in and the chance of him being a nutter is much much less. I also don't mind what kind of hotel it is, but a luxury or unusual one is always a treat. 

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Most WGs I know wouldn't meet at a client's home for the first booking. They will usually do an outcall to a hotel for a first booking but will want your name and the hotel room number, and will call you in your room to ensure you are on the level.

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ffs honestly fayre yes she would have had over 100 men in the room.. and??  i expect the hotel room would have seen as much action !

 

I think we should pass both under these fancy blue lights to check for bodily fluid! Somehow I would think the hotel room will show more just because the cleaning staff has a set amount of time to clean around!

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I much prefer in calls as I have spent a lot of time and thought into making my bedroom a lovely place to be - it's not 5* luxury but it's my home, clean and cosy - I will always have nice music in the background, lots of fairy lights, a few candles and all my toys :) and I feel safe here - I have plans for if anything goes wrong, I don't when I'm visiting a strange place because I don't know the lay out so I rarely meet people I don't know for out calls.

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I much prefer in calls as I have spent a lot of time and thought into making my bedroom a lovely place to be - it's not 5* luxury but it's my home, clean and cosy - I will always have nice music in the background, lots of fairy lights, a few candles and all my toys :) and I feel safe here - I have plans for if anything goes wrong, I don't when I'm visiting a strange place because I don't know the lay out so I rarely meet people I don't know for out calls.

simply quoting cos I love your signature  :wub:

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While incalls are mostly good (there are some dives. Had one incall in a room with a bike stored there) there is something inheritantly norty about fucking in hotels. I especially like the lady to come mid evening, about 9 or 10, then when she goes I can do the man thing and sleepthat lovely post sex sleep with her scent stil lingering.

Mmmmm

Then the real icing is to get another girl to come for a pre brekfast shag.

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Then the real icing is to get another girl to come for a pre brekfast shag.

 

You Brits and your big breakfast, I bet you even have a cuppa with that also!

 

And yes Cov has put it, a post-shag bed smells great.

 

-W

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simply quoting cos I love your signature  :wub:

 

Aw why thank you! :)

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