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I get asked if I do CIM probably more than anything!

 

I'm just wondering from a guys perspective what's the appeal? Is it due to seeing it in porn or is it because of not having to worry about having to pull out before you cum......or is it something else entirely?

 

Just curious! 

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OWO in itself is a fabulous feeling, lovely warm and tender and relaxing and i suppose a bit easy for the bloke without the effort of vaginal penetration. So to finish with cumming as the OWO continues is sublime, the feeling after cumming is mind blowing..sorry can't explain it further

I suppose sometimes there is a visual factor too, especially if the ejaculation is onto the tongue, but that's not special for me personally

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Maybe also from a psychological view there's an interesting shift from power to submission when you come. Having oral on you can feel very dominant, especially in deep throat and the lady gagging, but when you come and she wants to keep going you are totally at her mercy!

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CIM has a very strong effect on men - there is a sub/dom aspect to it - also a very intimate moment - sometimes more so than vaginal intercourse. For a woman to take a mans load into her mouth, it's very trusting and loving as she's truly tasting him (and what he's had for dinner last night lol).

 

I think facials are more dominant from a man's perspective - quite animalistic; kinda like marking your territory. When a woman accepts a face full, I guess it could mean she's his.

 

All very Freudian i think!

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Maybe also from a psychological view there's an interesting shift from power to submission when you come. Having oral on you can feel very dominant, especially in deep throat and the lady gagging, but when you come and she wants to keep going you are totally at her mercy!

Interesting take on it. Ive always done CIM and NEVER seen or felt it as a power game at all in a gfe type booking.

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CIM has a very strong effect on men - there is a sub/dom aspect to it - also a very intimate moment - sometimes more so than vaginal intercourse. For a woman to take a mans load into her mouth, it's very trusting and loving as she's truly tasting him (and what he's had for dinner last night lol).

 

I think facials are more dominant from a man's perspective - quite animalistic; kinda like marking your territory. When a woman accepts a face full, I guess it could mean she's his.

 

All very Freudian i think!

...and some men don't like doing it at all.

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i just like the feeling of her sucking the cum out of my cock as im climaxing.

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OWO in itself is a fabulous feeling, lovely warm and tender and relaxing and i suppose a bit easy for the bloke without the effort of vaginal penetration. So to finish with cumming as the OWO continues is sublime, the feeling after cumming is mind blowing..sorry can't explain it further

 

 

I agree.  The feeling is amazing.  It's even better if the lady continues to suck for a short while after you've cum.

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I agree.  The feeling is amazing.  It's even better if the lady continues to suck for a short while after you've cum.

It is amazing, I had a fantastic CIM finalé to a punt earlier today, where she carried on very gently after I'd cum, then cleaned me up afterwards. Lovely!

It might be more to do with my imagination, but a couple of agency girls I saw offered OWO but not CIM, and I found it made me a little bit on edge as I sensed they might have been a little nervous that I wouldn't tell them if I was going to cum. Knowing the escort offers CIM allowed me to relax and enjoy it more.

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Interesting take on it. Ive always done CIM and NEVER seen or felt it as a power game at all in a gfe type booking.

I agree it's never come across as a power thing in my bookings either and like you I've always done CIM.

I think for many of my clients (regulars have said this to me) it's a visual thing and they like to see a girl taking it and enjoying it rather than having the client cum in their mouth and the girl run off to the bathroom instantly, that's a passion killer!

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For me, CIM is the nearest I can get to the sensations of “real” sex.

 

Putting a condom on immediately removes up to 90% (depending my mood and the anatomy of the girl) of my cock’s sensitivity and turns it into “virtual” sex – on occasion (e.g. yesterday!) I’ve struggled to maintain a full erection despite being with a real hottie. And cuming into that grotesque rubber sac often strikes me as an exercise in total futility, and often leaves me feeling mentally unsatisfied.

 

On the other hand, OWO from a skilful girl culminating in CIM is the closest that I can get to the feeling of “real” (i.e. unprotected) sex. Having said that, a few girls have completely ruined the afterglow by jumping up too quickly and/or disposing of my essence in a crude or off-hand manner – so much nicer to swallow, but so few do that!

 

No CIM on offer is generally a deal breaker for me.

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...and some men don't like doing it at all.

I'm sure! Perhaps they are in a minority? Everyone's different, but in my own opinion it's a very nice part of the whole experience.

 

Women who don't like receiving cum (orally) are far more in the majority, it seems - that's why it's nice to be with a woman who does actually enjoy it.

 

I wonder how many wives out there in married land would actually do that for their husbands? If they don't, maybe that could be a reason for why a man might seek a WG.

 

Hmm.

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Because people are different, people like sex differently and I know that from the many serial encounters I have had. That includes men telling me their girlfriends liked this that and the other so I must like it.

Some men cannot stand their testicles being touched, others want them twisted hard.

We are human beings with many different desires and tastes.

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I agree it's never come across as a power thing in my bookings either and like you I've always done CIM.

I think for many of my clients (regulars have said this to me) it's a visual thing and they like to see a girl taking it and enjoying it rather than having the client cum in their mouth and the girl run off to the bathroom instantly, that's a passion killer!

 

Spot on!

 

I can understand that it might be a power thing for some men, but it definitely isn't for me; aside from the sensation, it's the trust, anticipation and excitement that the girl shows when encouraging CIM that heightens the experience for me. With facials, which I also love giving, it's most definitely a visual thing for me.   

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Interesting take on it. Ive always done CIM and NEVER seen or felt it as a power game at all in a gfe type booking.

Intrigued myself, to be honest one of the reasons I love making a man come with my mouth is the control...and making them lose it! I can see the sub aspect to face fucking but not to CIM. I wonder if people are confusing the naughty aspect (since women for some reason arent meant to like CIM) with submission?

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CIM is one of those once a year activities with my GF and she has only swallowed once, like most men I punt to get something different so CIM is a biggie for me and even better if she gulps it down !

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CIM is one of those once a year activities with my GF and she has only swallowed once, like most men I punt to get something different so CIM is a biggie for me and even better if she gulps it down !

 

 

 

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I'm sure! Perhaps they are in a minority? Everyone's different, but in my own opinion it's a very nice part of the whole experience.

 

Women who don't like receiving cum (orally) are far more in the majority, it seems - that's why it's nice to be with a woman who does actually enjoy it.

 

I wonder how many wives out there in married land would actually do that for their husbands? If they don't, maybe that could be a reason for why a man might seek a WG.

 

Hmm.

 

CIM is the nearest one can get to bareback sex but is not in the same league as bareback sex with your partner where you have a mutual simultaneous orgasm.

 

I wonder how many husbands have learnt enough to achieve that for their wives. If there were more I guarantee their wives would be putting out more.

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I've never offered CIM, rarely been asked for it and has never been an issue with a client who has asked and I have turned down so clearly not the be all and end all. 

 

Mind you, I suggest they come on my face and that seems to please them. Someone once told me that more escorts off CIM than offer COF so maybe that's why.... thoughts?! 

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Like all sex everyone's a bit different. I don't go in for CIM. I prefer CIF or COB and as someone said, coming in a condom during a punt is definitely no fun. With me I think it's a potency thing. Watching my cum spurt out is kind of reassuring for me - that I've still 'got it' I prefer it when the girl is in charge and makes me come on her from a distance of about a foot or maybe less.

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....so glad were all different - I have never had CIM with a WG - it doesn't really do it for me - compared to say fucking in doggie, or cowgirl - condoms don't ruin the pleasure for me sensitivity wise - I would feel I would have settled for a less pleasurable option if I CIM.

 

Plus isn't there this whole thing about does the lady spit or swallow - I would find a lady spitting me out, say by rushing to the bathroom awful - whereas swallowing or seemingly to enjoy the moment seems very sexy - I don't know why I feel this way but I just love the feeling of fucking - so for me CIM is no deal breaker.  

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Agreed on us all being different. I find the condom does tend to desensitise but I still like to orgasm while actually shagging. CIM is a preferred second option, preferably followed by swallowing, snowballing or even dribbling over me. Her jumping up and rushing off to the bathroom would be a little off putting and fortunately hasn't happened yet, the escorts I've seen who offered CIM also swallowed.

COF, breasts etc. does nothing for me at all.

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CIM means that I can concentrate on my climax and not have to think about pulling out just before

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Do wgs mind offering facials? There are so many sex workers about now that there must be pressure on them to offer services even if they are not completely comfortable doing them in order to be competitive. Call me old-fashioned but it just doesn't seem like a nice thing to do to someone. I know that porn clips often end this way but so what? When you see a wg you're face-to-face with a real human being.

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Do wgs mind offering facials? There are so many sex workers about now that there must be pressure on them to offer services even if they are not completely comfortable doing them in order to be competitive. Call me old-fashioned but it just doesn't seem like a nice thing to do to someone. I know that porn clips often end this way but so what? When you see a wg you're face-to-face with a real human being.

I can only speak for myself. I do not offer any services I do not genuinely enjoy and I would never offer any services just for the sake of the pressure. I think that's wrong.

I have always offered facials, because I genuinely enjoy them, they are a turn on for me and I am enthusiastic when it comes to a facial just as I am when it comes to CIM!

I don't see what's "not nice" about it? Is cumming in a girls mouth not nice as well then? Or what about cumming on the body? Is that not nice as well?

Some may consider anal, not nice, or hair pulling and spanking not nice where as there are some of us who enjoy those services. If the two people taking part have consented and it's all fun and games, who has the right to judge?

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