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Punting As A Last Resort

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I am currently unable to find a partner and visiting WGs is the only sexual contact available to me which does not bother me. I am curious if there are men here who dislike paying for sex and only do it as a last resort when there is no other means of sexual contact available. I would like to ask the ladies if you have clients where it is clear they are unhappy at having to pay for sex.

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Imagine a guy meeting a girl from this environment and he starts the meeting, as she laid drinks and nibbles on the table whilst preparing herself for at least one hour to meet him with showering/make up etc, by saying to her: 'I really dislike paying for this'

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Imagine a guy meeting a girl from this environment and he starts the meeting, as she laid drinks and nibbles on the table whilst preparing herself for at least one hour to meet him with showering/make up etc, by saying to her: 'I really dislike paying for this'

I'm clearly seeing the wrong girls.  I've only once been offered drinks and nibbles.  :(

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I'm clearly seeing the wrong girls.  I've only once been offered drinks and nibbles.  :(

Ooh, I get nibbles all the time, just be careful they don't leave marks, so hard to explain away.

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No I like paying money as it makes the whole process more simple and honest. Straight forward business transaction rather than two people messing around and unclear as to whether they will jump into bed together. Guaranteed sex is hard to find in normal relationships and you end up paying more in gifts and time.

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I only started seeing escorts after coming out of a LTR and am perfectly happy paying for sex. In fact at the moment I intend to stick to that rather than even trying for another relationship.

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I am currently unable to find a partner and visiting WGs is the only sexual contact available to me which does not bother me. I am curious if there are men here who dislike paying for sex and only do it as a last resort when there is no other means of sexual contact available. I would like to ask the ladies if you have clients where it is clear they are unhappy at having to pay for sex

I must only see polite people, as I could never imagine meeting someone so rude as to tell me that they were unhappy with seeing me!

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Is Blackpool not the Last resort!

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I must only see polite people, as I could never imagine meeting someone so rude as to tell me that they were unhappy with seeing me!

Same!

Never ever have I had a client say they're unhappy paying for sex to me! That would be a complete mood killer in my opinion!

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I've had the odd client who has had all the joy of a rainy weekend in Scunthorpe on his face all the way through a booking no matter what I did to please.I suppose maybe they might have resented paying for nookie or they could just be naturally miserable sods and that is partly why they are paying a wg.I've never had someone say or intimate they don't like paying if I did then they would be shown the door and I wouldn't be booking them in again.I would say all clients have made a choice to see wgs.It is never a last resort some men go through life not having sex and wanking instead.So embrace the choice you have made and if you don't like the choice then don't do it.No point making the wg feel like crap because you resent your circumstances.

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No I like paying money as it makes the whole process more simple and honest. Straight forward business transaction rather than two people messing around and unclear as to whether they will jump into bed together. Guaranteed sex is hard to find in normal relationships and you end up paying more in gifts and time.

 

 

I only started seeing escorts after coming out of a LTR and am perfectly happy paying for sex. In fact at the moment I intend to stick to that rather than even trying for another relationship.

 

 

I agree on both points  -  I was over 40 when I started playing the dating game again and most of the women I met had an air of desperation about it and seemed to be either gold diggers, looking for a meal ticket or a new father for their kids etc etc etc.  Very few if any wanted just fun and friendship without becoming overly involved.  Punting seemed the way to go.

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From a personal point of view , I started punting in earnest in early 2001, a few experiments before then spasmodically since last full on relationship which ended in 1999.

 

During this time have had the odd dalliance with "girlfriends"but to be quite honest can't be arsed with wining/dining and all the associated bullshit/expense and frequently ending up with nothing!

 

Over the last 14-15 yrs I've chosen to take "route 1" to get close to some extremely horny (younger!) women who have given me a great deal of satisfaction/fun etc and you just walk away afterwards with a smile on your face and some sexual satisfaction, until the next encounter!

 

In the long run doesn't cost you much more, if any more, than "dating" and pleasure/excitement is invariably guaranteed if you visit the right ladies!

 

Now in my early 60's and don't fancy women over 40-45 age group so applying my "research" to a younger age group until I lose the urge altogether eventually - but will have some happy memories to those gained in the days when I didn't need to pay for it!

 

You have to make your own choices in life - no point feeling bad about it/money you spend (prob abt £70-80k in my case, I always say to myself I could have had a 2nd mortgage for that but what the hell!)

 

Life's too short - just enjoy yourself! - if you feel bad about it don't go there! 

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I think most of us only resent the money when the punt is flat

 

it is great value when it is good

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I am currently unable to find a partner and visiting WGs is the only sexual contact available to me which does not bother me. I am curious if there are men here who dislike paying for sex and only do it as a last resort when there is no other means of sexual contact available. I would like to ask the ladies if you have clients where it is clear they are unhappy at having to pay for sex.

 

 

I'm sure there are some that feel unhappy in having to pay for sex but I don't seem to have encountered any of them or at least not that I'm aware.   What I would say is that there are some that 'may'  feel a bit aggrieved when they see some of the girls 'wish lists' particularly if the list is a bit extravagant/decadent and where some of what they wish for is out of reach of the client that's reading it.

 

On the other hand as is obvious in this thread, some men don't mind paying for sex (for a multitude of reasons, too many to even think about quoting from) and right at the end of it, if it's a disposable income and where punting is their hobby then why shouldn't they indulge a little and enjoy their hobby.

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I am currently unable to find a partner and visiting WGs is the only sexual contact available to me which does not bother me. I am curious if there are men here who dislike paying for sex and only do it as a last resort when there is no other means of sexual contact available. I would like to ask the ladies if you have clients where it is clear they are unhappy at having to pay for sex.

If ou look about the various punting boards you'll clearly see that there are people who pay for sex yet sorely begrudge every penny.Their normally the bitter ones harping on about the vast untaxed wealth that every sex worker has stashed under their mattressess,on the amount they must be earning because they are so expensive.Then on about how does this person or that feel they have the right to charge so much etc etc.

.Oh and I couldn't post about this without mentioning the sisterhood hell bent on destroying all mankind :)

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I think most of us only resent the money when the punt is flat

 

it is great value when it is good

 

Oh Yes  (Winston Dog Voice :D )

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If ou look about the various punting boards you'll clearly see that there are people who pay for sex yet sorely begrudge every penny.Their normally the bitter ones harping on about the vast untaxed wealth that every sex worker has stashed under their mattressess,on the amount they must be earning because they are so expensive.Then on about how does this person or that feel they have the right to charge so much etc etc.

.Oh and I couldn't post about this without mentioning the sisterhood hell bent on destroying all mankind :)

J.R.C. who used to post on here, springs to mind.

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The mood of a client does affect how I am with them. All too often men decry that better looking, or men who perform like port stars will be more popular when paying for sex. No a happy, I'm here to have a good time with another human being brings out the best in me.

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I am currently unable to find a partner and visiting WGs is the only sexual contact available to me which does not bother me. I am curious if there are men here who dislike paying for sex and only do it as a last resort when there is no other means of sexual contact available. I would like to ask the ladies if you have clients where it is clear they are unhappy at having to pay for sex.

 

All I can say, is that if you go and see a WG with that slightly resentful attitude, you are unlikely to have a good time, mainly because she is likely to pick up on your confused emotional state and want to know what is wrong with you. I think one of the keys to having a good time is to just go in with a clear and open mind and to enjoy yourself .... a smile goes a long way ( as opposed to a wet weekend in Scunthorpe lol). 

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I agree that JRC did sound like someone bitter towards WGs and I wonder if this biterness comes from having to pay for sex and hating it. If clients are unhappy having to pay for sex, clients may not directly say they are unhappy paying for sex but there may be other signs such as being moody, not saying much and being grumpy.

In the past if WGs were the only sexual contact available to you, you had a major disadvantage in that you could do not things like kissing and hugging and do the same things you do with a partner. The introduction of the GFE has changed that and you can have the same sex as with a partner when visiting WGs.

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We don't know whether you do resent paying for sex gog, in your first post you say it doesn't bother you yet you started this thread.

 

I don't resent it.  It just suddenly occurred to me that it was an uncomplicated way to enjoy what I was missing.  Up to last year my knowledge of the world of payed for sex was based on what I heard and read about in my younger years, I had no idea of concepts such as the GFE.  This is what was the decider for me, if that disappeared so would I.

 

The money doesn't figure.

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I'm clearly seeing the wrong girls.  I've only once been offered drinks and nibbles.  :(

 

Ha ha, I feed them, bathe them when they arrive and as they leave and then I ask them to do a twirl or twerk in the local pub to get some local fragrance not to make suspicious their partners 

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There are definitely guys who resent paying for sex out there, I don't understand why they would continue if they dislike it.

Reading this again made me remember a man who emailed me I think around January this year, completely rude and grumpy saying how I shouldn't think I am all that and think I can get who I want just because I'm young and good looking, and that paying for sex is nothing special I'm just a cum dumpster for wrinkly old men.... I remember those words exactly.

It actually made me laugh, as when I looked at his profile he was late 50s if I remember correctly. So I wasn't sure whether he was bitter because I was young, or because he pays for sex, or maybe because he was just a miserable prat who didn't like seeing girls with great feedback. I don't know.

If I resent doing something I won't do it, why use your hard earned on something you don't enjoy or you're completely bitter about. I do wonder if those guys who say "I don't have to pay for sex, I am good lucking and can still pull" resent it? Maybe that's the reason why they have to put so much emphasis on being good looking and being able to pull..

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I don't think people become 'bad' because they are jealous of others, is because they experience so many negative thing or are in a negative environment, maybe created by somebody else or the same negative matters they have to deal with constantly, hence is easier to spread some nastiness.  Think of the opposite and the people who live in a calm, positive environment who do not know how to be nasty and would be amused with untruthful, negative 'issues'....

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:)  Now this reminds me of just one man. He looked at me when he came in. After that he did not look at me once. Not once. He kept his eyes semi closed throughout and his head turned to the side. He spoke about 10 words throughout too...... I sensed he was uncomfortable with paying me (or any wg) but had his needs and he was full of energy and gusto.

 

I found it amusing to be honest.  It was rather over the top...... usually men love to watch a lady doing certain things and I love being watched.... eye contact is something I feel is quite important in any situation but defo when entertaining men in this way.

 

He may have just found me repulsive of course..................

 

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