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We know how knackering cumming is for blokes. 

 

but I dont really know how knackering cumming for a lady is.

 

a few WG's have complained of being tired but most seem to be invigorated by an orgasm.

 

so ladies.  tiring or does it wake you up or no real effect?

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I am having an O right now..................

 

will let you know when it is finished....................

 

;)

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Both. The more intense the more tiring they can be. I usually orgasm through oral so go on to sex after and all is fine!

If I have multiple they can really take it out of me if they're intense. Sometimes I have multiple and become even more horny and raring to go so I guess it's different every time. Funny old things orgasms are! :D

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There is a new blog called: howtomakemecom.tumblr.com/ - its a new blog where women write anonymously about sex and its has gone viral  - I have to say, it is well written and offers some interesting takes on one of my favourite (if not my favourite subject) the female orgasm - reading it was both refreshing and affirming (I am doing some things right, yeah!) but also informative and enlightening (lots to learn and get my teeth, sorry I meant,  tongue into!).

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I'm the same on TYE; it can really vary! Sometimes I just feel hungrier for more and end out going for a while before feeling spent, other times it's one big one and I feel like I might konk out! Our bodies are so fascinating!

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Are you saying there is orgasm lite that doesnt really satisfy andleaves you wanting more and there is orgasm forte that leaves you feeling wrecked?

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Nope it doesnt make me tired. No idea why it does guys, always wondered about that. Surely way back down our evolutionary past it really wasnt a clever idea to randomly fall asleep after you had sex, perhaps thats why women often dont, we had to stand guard over our snoozing mates, who knows.

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Nope it doesnt make me tired. No idea why it does guys, always wondered about that. Surely way back down our evolutionary past it really wasnt a clever idea to randomly fall asleep after you had sex, perhaps thats why women often dont, we had to stand guard over our snoozing mates, who knows.

but a bloke can impregnate many females, but a female can only get pregnant once per cycle,   many species the male has a harem of females.

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Just brings out what bollocks all this "isn't mature wonderful" stuff is. Blokes just conk out completely when they're done, while women are like a nuclear reactors. The whole thing needs completely reorganizing.

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but a bloke can impregnate many females, but a female can only get pregnant once per cycle,   many species the male has a harem of females.

and?? still doesnt answer as to why he falls asleep after ONE x

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and?? still doesnt answer as to why he falls asleep after ONE x

sweetsummers made a point about there are different levels of orgasm.

 

maybe a male servicing a harem will have a series of low level cums, and stays awake, while an intense sex session with 1cum he goes the full monty and falls asleep.

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Ok I think I can have a stab at why we fall asleep after orgasm.

 

During ejaculation we release a cocktail of brain chemicals (lovely irony isn't there in the word cocktail): , serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide,  prolactin.

 

Prolactin is it appears linked to sexual satisfaction and is a mediator in the 'refractory period' (recovery time) - men deficient in prolactin take longer to recover (hence Round One, Two etc).

 

Here's the interesting thing though prolactin levels are higher during sleep - again interestingly - animals injected with prolactin sleep immediately - also and this is a 'God I didn't know that but for reasons unknown to science men release four times more prolactin during intercourse than when they masturbate.

 

We also release Oxytocin and Vasopressin, two other chemicals associated with sleep. Once they are released they are quickly followed by the release of melatonin, the primary hormone that regulates our body clocks.

 

So that's the hormone angle (when I was a kid a joke at school was: Question: what's a hormone: Answer: A familiar sound heard in a brothel. Sorry couldn't resist that one).  

 

What about the evolutionary angle: Our evolutionary goal is to produce as many offspring as possible, and although sleeping doesn’t exactly help this -energizing ourselves with sleep may be the best use of our time.

 

I do realize I should get out more but I make no secret of my life long fascination with the mysterious and fascinating study of the human orgasm - especially, I have to say, less my own, and more the female orgasm which I think much more elusive, intriguing and mysterious than the male - and although part of me doesn't like to admit it - I do think that women have more intense orgasms and have a clitoris, means at the level of 'orgasm war' they win hands down: more pleasurable, longer, less tiring etc!.

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Interesting.......

 

Never tiring for me, cannot wait to start all over again, ha ha

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Are you saying there is orgasm lite that doesnt really satisfy andleaves you wanting more and there is orgasm forte that leaves you feeling wrecked?

 

I wouldn't say that it doesn't satisfy exactly, more than it doesn't seem to zap all my energy and hunger? I don't know that I view one orgasm as inherently better than the others, more that they are all different. Like different flavours of ice cream. ;) Except, I don't get to choose. lol

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Makes me want to sleep, pretty annoying when a client makes me cum and I have to carry on and not nod off! The best thing about unpaid for sex is that I can have a little doze once I'm done! 

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It deffo makes me want to have a snooze.In fact if I ever suffer from insomnia I find a little bit of a play down below helps!

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Well for me, no it's not tiring, if I have come to orgasm with a skilled praticioner. Unless of course it's late and I am with some one I want to drift off to slumber with. What is tiring is some body banging, pounding, rubbing, slurping away with no clue what so ever in an attempt to bring me to climax. Now that is very wearying.

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As for men nearly all feeling like sleep after a climax

 

it's supposed to give you a feeling of euphoria - if it's good

 

just shows how poor our sex lives are

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Varies. Some girls can come 7 or 8 times, one girl only once, but very dramatically, before she's about to pass out.

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One thing that hasn't been mentioned here is the subject of some women being multi-orgasmic. With my late wife she found that foreplay could give her an orgasm and I would help her have a second almost immediately and when I could feel the big one building I would join in and we would have a simultaneous third which was fantastic. And no I didn't, like quite a few (but not all) men,want to fall asleep - shared post-orgasmic bliss took over. 

 

Interesting about Happy Punter's info about more Prolactin being released in intercourse than masturbation. I guess that's why I have always felt that masturbation a vastly over-rated past time. You can't beat the real thing!

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Varies. Some girls can come 7 or 8 times, one girl only once, but very dramatically, before she's about to pass out.

 

Indeed.  I wonder if this is genetic or due to exercise-healthy eating lifestyle?  Or maybe a combination....

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One thing that hasn't been mentioned here is the subject of some women being multi-orgasmic. With my late wife she found that foreplay could give her an orgasm and I would help her have a second almost immediately and when I could feel the big one building I would join in and we would have a simultaneous third which was fantastic. And no I didn't, like quite a few (but not all) men,want to fall asleep - shared post-orgasmic bliss took over. 

 

Interesting about Happy Punter's info about more Prolactin being released in intercourse than masturbation. I guess that's why I have always felt that masturbation a vastly over-rated past time. You can't beat the real thing!

...yeah me too on the masturbation being rather over rated activity - as compared to the real thing - I feel that about porn and masturbation to be honest - its like why settle for a beefburger when you can have a steak (I guess some people just like burgers) whereas I know I much prefer a steak! :)

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One thing that hasn't been mentioned here is the subject of some women being multi-orgasmic. With my late wife she found that foreplay could give her an orgasm and I would help her have a second almost immediately and when I could feel the big one building I would join in and we would have a simultaneous third which was fantastic. And no I didn't, like quite a few (but not all) men,want to fall asleep - shared post-orgasmic bliss took over. 

 

Interesting about Happy Punter's info about more Prolactin being released in intercourse than masturbation. I guess that's why I have always felt that masturbation a vastly over-rated past time. You can't beat the real thing!

 

Not sure if my partner has ever had even one orgasm with me !

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I hate to tell you young sir but it really is down to you to make sure she does!

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