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1. Would an escort be put off by a booking or booking enquiry if it were made early at say 1am? Or does it not matter?

 

2. Would an escort take any offence if I asked her to stop making those "ah ah ah" etc sounds? To be honest they do absolutely nothing for me sexually and I actually find them a little irritating.

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1. I think many would say no, especially if they'd never seen you before - I'd be wary because of my neighbours.

 

2. I only do them genuinely, but I wouldn't be offended, no.

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1. Yes, that's when most time wasters come out to play. Also dangerous in my opinion.

2. Not necessarily. I moan genuinely when I'm turned on, if I'm not, I hardly will.

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1. I would only see a trusted regular at this time. Though I'd respond to an enquiry sent at this time for a later date, as the client may be a night owl or in a different time zone.

2. With regards to the animal noises it may come across as condescending if the lady were to genuinely make such noises when turned on, then she may adopt a wet fish stance during play time for fear of seeming fake. Perhaps when having a chat at the beginning of the session say you've seen a couple of escorts who were obviously making fake groans and that you found it to be a turn off. Make it light hearted rather than a 'do this don't do that' kind of vibe.

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2. Would an escort take any offence if I asked her to stop making those "ah ah ah" etc sounds? To be honest they do absolutely nothing for me sexually and I actually find them a little irritating.

While you're at it, you couldn't get the women tennis players to pack it in as well could you?

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While you're at it, you couldn't get the women tennis players to pack it in as well could you?

 

What's the chances they can't? Maybe that long racket handle they are gripping is overwhelmingly redolent of the night before .....  ;)  Just a passing  thought! :lol:

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1. Would an escort be put off by a booking or booking enquiry if it were made early at say 1am? Or does it not matter?

 

2. Would an escort take any offence if I asked her to stop making those "ah ah ah" etc sounds? To be honest they do absolutely nothing for me sexually and I actually find them a little irritating.

You could try the following if they can't

 

1. Go to boots and buy some disposable ear plugs. Reduces noise levels by up to 50%. Works great at gigs too.

 

2. Listen to your favourite rock music really loud.

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1. Would an escort be put off by a booking or booking enquiry if it were made early at say 1am? Or does it not matter?

 

2. Would an escort take any offence if I asked her to stop making those "ah ah ah" etc sounds? To be honest they do absolutely nothing for me sexually and I actually find them a little irritating.

 

1.  There are lots of girls who wake up late afternoon purely because they chose to take bookings up to 3 or 4am.  I also know lots of girls who would not do that

 

2.  If the sounds are that fake, you can always ask the girl in a polite way.  Some girls who are naturally noisy might get offended though.  We are all different

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1. I mean make a booking AT that time, not FOR that time. I was going to make a booking at 1am before I went to bed but then I thought it might look better if I sent the message during daytime.

 

2. I thought every escort I've seen so far was faking those noises, but I really can't tell.

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1. I mean make a booking AT that time, not FOR that time. I was going to make a booking at 1am before I went to bed but then I thought it might look better if I sent the message during daytime.

 

2. I thought every escort I've seen so far was faking those noises, but I really can't tell.

 

 

Shouldn't make the slightest bit of difference as to what time you make the booking, I doubt anyone actually checks what time the prospective booking is being made in 99.9% of all cases. 

 

Maybe you're just a good fuck and they're being genuine :D .....and then, maybe not ;)

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I find that many who make contact between the hours of 11pm-6am do not follow up replies to their enquiry.

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Well it depends on how you go about it.If a girl stipulates that she works between 10am and 9pm and you then try and ring or text at 1am to sort out a booking then there is a good chance of her phone being off or not answered.I'd find it annoying someone contacting me so late and I assume 'timewaster' or plonker when people ring or text in the middle of the night.An email that can be answered in the morning might be ok though.I don't know many ladies that want to be dealing with enquiries 24 hours a day.Same as anyone else really at that time of night most would be asleep.

As for your 2nd question its a no win for us girls if we lay there in silence we are unenthusiastic if we make noise we are faking.I once had a bloke go down on me and it was nice so I made pleasurable noises only for him to tell me not to bother.It made me feel quite uncomfortable and made me feel like why bother getting into it?I wouldn't really like to see him again.I don't do mechanical,silent bookings.

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My initial contact is always a message to their online profile anyway.

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I find most messages or calls made at 1am for a future booking tend not to actually happen, probably because they are tipsy and feeling brave- however, if I happened to be up at 1am and answered the phone then I would accept it- with usual processes in place- asking them to confirm the next day or whenever before the booking time. No different to making a booking at any time to be honest, I've had some great clients who have contacted me at odd hours as well as the timewasters to be fair. 

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I will go with what Strawberry posted and avoid sending messages between 11pm and 6am. That sounds a good rule to go by.

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1. Would an escort be put off by a booking or booking enquiry if it were made early at say 1am? Or does it not matter?

 

2. Would an escort take any offence if I asked her to stop making those "ah ah ah" etc sounds? To be honest they do absolutely nothing for me sexually and I actually find them a little irritating.

For point 1,i've made enquireis at all hours before.Those who are going to reply will do so at whatever time they normally answer such queries.Those who don't,won't.I think most people nowdays know that people work all hours so are free,or up and about at all different hours.

For point two.i'll leave it to the ladies to answer as personally i don't see an "excuse me love,would you mind keeping it down a bit as your noise is putting me off being conducive to a good atmosphere no matter how well put.

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Good questions. I can't comment on the first. As for the second, to each his (her) own, I think. I can understand why it would put you off, OP. I don't mind it. Anyway, I can't complain; I make quite a few noises, especially at the end. I just like to let myself go.

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I have booked an agency outcall at 1am but can't imagine contacting an independent at that time unless she said it was OK to contact her during these times - I am a planner aheader punter by and large - although I would love to find a lady who enjoyed early morning bookings (weird but I can be very horny in the early morning - say 7am!!).

 

As for noises - interesting one....I never torture myself whether noises are for real or false or pretend - never had to ask a lady to turn it down before - if anything I am the noisy one, ha, ha ha.

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I think if it is an email or message of some sort, and not likely to disturb them, it doesn't matter what time you send it. I don't care what time the email is sent, and expecting an instant response at any time of day isn't likely to get you on my good side! 

 

If you are contacting someone for more real time chat, then middle of the night might not be best!

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For point 1,i've made enquireis at all hours before.Those who are going to reply will do so at whatever time they normally answer such queries.Those who don't,won't.I think most people nowdays know that people work all hours so are free,or up and about at all different hours.

For point two.i'll leave it to the ladies to answer as personally i don't see an "excuse me love,would you mind keeping it down a bit as your noise is putting me off being conducive to a good atmosphere no matter how well put.

So long as he responds to the reply no problem.

 

The only issue could be if he wished to exchange emails, discuss times and dates and can only do so in the small hours - woman replies during the day, he doesn't send his next reply until 1am again.............and he wants a booking in the next 24/48 hours. By the time they've got stuff agreed the proposed time has passed and/or she's been booked by someone who had a conversation by whatever method, during the day time when both were awake and able to respond much quicker.

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When the escort responds isn't too important, next day or even day after is fine.

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If a provider advertises working hours till say 10pm and you contacted them at 1am for a booking I'm going to guess most would count you off as a TW. I would, assuming that if you weren't' able to adhere to my requests re something as simple as contact you could do the same in other areas.

 

If it were an email with a request for a time I was available that would be fine. It's not my issue if you are a night owl!

 

In terms of noise during sexy time, the aim is to make sure you have an amazing time. If loud noises are a put off then I'd politely mention it in initial contact.

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1. Would an escort be put off by a booking or booking enquiry if it were made early at say 1am? Or does it not matter?

 

2. Would an escort take any offence if I asked her to stop making those "ah ah ah" etc sounds? To be honest they do absolutely nothing for me sexually and I actually find them a little irritating.

As others have said, late night usually means timewaster, and if you dont want me to be sexually aroused, asking might work...tbh it would be a total turn off, so would work 

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If a provider advertises working hours till say 10pm and you contacted them at 1am for a booking I'm going to guess most would count you off as a TW. I would, assuming that if you weren't' able to adhere to my requests re something as simple as contact you could do the same in other areas.

 

If it were an email with a request for a time I was available that would be fine. It's not my issue if you are a night owl!

 

In terms of noise during sexy time, the aim is to make sure you have an amazing time. If loud noises are a put off then I'd politely mention it in initial contact.

Loud I understand, in hotels etc I am always aware of the need for discretion, but thats not what the OP said, they seem to dislike the sounds a women makes when aroused.

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In terms of noise during sexy time, the aim is to make sure you have an amazing time. If loud noises are a put off then I'd politely mention it in initial contact.

Amber: but if potential client will mention to you, that he dislikes vocal responses during sex, would it put you off to see him?  (even if you not exactly "loud" at all, and it would not be a problem for you). 

 

It definitely would put me off! I can VERY EASILY constrain myself. The only noise which will come out, is the screeching my teeth.  

The point is: why the client should dictate, ask and try to take control on my natural responses, even if he is paying for it.

 

If I want to sing during sex, then I will! If I want to recite the poetry during the action- I will do that too!

If I feel like to tell HC Anderson fairly tales while he is down on me- I will certainly do that also!

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