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Returning After A Long Absence.

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After having four guys contact me this past fortnight all who came to see me over ten months ago, and making bookings. I was surprised as I never expected to see them again. Thought they were just those type that booked and moved on never to strike twice with the same girl. To those girls who have been doing this longer than me is this how it works? And to you men is this how you operate? It was lovely to see them, they were familiar but not familiar, I liked it, and maybe I won't see them again for another long period. But it was a very pleasant suprise.

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A large number of the guys I saw when I came back were guys that I had either met before, had contact but never actually seen before or who had me on their hotlist before. I just saw a guy yesterday who moved to Australia a long while ago, I saw him 5 years ago in Coventry and he came back to the UK for a couple of weeks. Not all guys are one hit wonders plus sometimes guys assume we will always be here so when we  leave then come back they make sure they see girls they want to see...just in case next time we leave its permenant

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I can only speak for myself but there aren't as many exceptional service providers as I thought there might be when I first started (I'm still very new to this). To take it further, most men have a particular type (take your pick from leggy or petite, natural or enhanced, busty, blonde or brunette or redhead etc.) which shortens the field even further. The most popular women are hard to book anyway e.g. Platinum Cindy. That means there's an inevitability that a committed punter will have to reconsider their options after a short while and that's when a very good provider earlier on in the career becomes a more tempting option. 

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That is interesting.  I thought there are plenty of 'exceptional service providers' out there, especially since they have only excellent reviews every other day. Maybe there is something I do not know. 

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I think most men- as in those who punt to scratch an itch rather than the hobbyists who tend to frequent forums- do only pay for sex once in a while. I've been doing this 6 years and have found that I have clients who only see me once every 2 years or who I have seen even longer ago who reappear. I think it's a combination of it being a special thing for them or due to funds or time. Of course there are also men who maybe only work in my area occasionally and those who do see lots of women so only get round to me as part of their long list once in a while!

 

I find more and more I am getting 'regulars' as in they are regular in 2 year cycles! It's nice. You get the excitement of a newish man but the reassurance knowing already that they are decent/clean/good men. 

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I can only speak for myself but there aren't as many exceptional service providers as I thought there might be when I first started (I'm still very new to this). 

 

I think it takes quite a lot of time and experience to be able to have a better chance of spotting the exceptional SPs so you may have some experience still to acquire in that regard.

 

But for anyone, a punt is just that and can be a let down.

 

There ARE lots of great ladies around but from week to week or month to month they are different as some disappear and others take their place.

 

Like you, I can only speak for myself but I like enjoying the range of ladies rather than sticking to one type - a picture or a brief real-life introduction can sometimes reveal a surprise realisation she is a must-see and this again might be a result of experience.

 

I am still hugely proud of finding such a lady in a parlour's dark corridor while she was looking for a pair of shoes to wear to be shown to her first-ever prospective punter. A glimpse of a lovely smile and I was smitten and she has been my best friend and sex partner for a year now..

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maybe its geography.  i was working in the e mids for a time and had 2 regulars i saw a few times.  I changed jobs and was working else where for a few years.  Then I went back to the e mids and found the old regs again.

but I have stopped going to the parlours in northampton, and have 'deserted' 2 regs in another part of the country.

 

but there again there may be other explanations...

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maybe its geography.  i was working in the e mids for a time and had 2 regulars i saw a few times.  I changed jobs and was working else where for a few years.  Then I went back to the e mids and found the old regs again.

but I have stopped going to the parlours in northampton, and have 'deserted' 2 regs in another part of the country.

 

but there again there may be other explanations...

 

Because of geography/lifestyle rather than quality of ladies?

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Viv. Geography. Its too far.

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Viv. Geography. Its too far.

 

Understood but some of the girls I've seen there could never be too far away to see.

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A large number of the guys I saw when I came back were guys that I had either met before, had contact but never actually seen before or who had me on their hotlist before. I just saw a guy yesterday who moved to Australia a long while ago, I saw him 5 years ago in Coventry and he came back to the UK for a couple of weeks. Not all guys are one hit wonders plus sometimes guys assume we will always be here so when we  leave then come back they make sure they see girls they want to see...just in case next time we leave its permenant

Sorry Chloe I may have misled, probably by the title. I have not been absent I have been working since beginning of summer last year. These guys were some I had seen through last summer.

It was nice to see them again.

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I think most men- as in those who punt to scratch an itch rather than the hobbyists who tend to frequent forums- do only pay for sex once in a while. I've been doing this 6 years and have found that I have clients who only see me once every 2 years or who I have seen even longer ago who reappear. I think it's a combination of it being a special thing for them or due to funds or time. Of course there are also men who maybe only work in my area occasionally and those who do see lots of women so only get round to me as part of their long list once in a while!

 

I find more and more I am getting 'regulars' as in they are regular in 2 year cycles! It's nice. You get the excitement of a newish man but the reassurance knowing already that they are decent/clean/good men.

That is what I found I liked about it. They were familiar but not as familiar as a weekly or monthly regular so still a bit of mystery there.

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Ive sort of been working on a 10 girl rotation. I think ive seen most of the girls in my area that i actually want to see and have now found i'm revisiting girls that i last saw 6-7 months ago.

Like OP said, theres something nice about the unfamiliar familiarity!

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I think it takes quite a lot of time and experience to be able to have a better chance of spotting the exceptional SPs so you may have some experience still to acquire in that regard.

 

But for anyone, a punt is just that and can be a let down.

 

There ARE lots of great ladies around but from week to week or month to month they are different as some disappear and others take their place.

 

Like you, I can only speak for myself but I like enjoying the range of ladies rather than sticking to one type - a picture or a brief real-life introduction can sometimes reveal a surprise realisation she is a must-see and this again might be a result of experience.

 

I am still hugely proud of finding such a lady in a parlour's dark corridor while she was looking for a pair of shoes to wear to be shown to her first-ever prospective punter. A glimpse of a lovely smile and I was smitten and she has been my best friend and sex partner for a year now..

Fair point, I am very new! I'm also very happy for you when reading about your new best friend and sex partner.

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That is interesting.  I thought there are plenty of 'exceptional service providers' out there, especially since they have only excellent reviews every other day. Maybe there is something I do not know. 

 

As I understand it there are thousands of service providers available but as I looked through review after review I realised there was a greater variability in quality and consistency than I had first thought. I initially made a long list of women I might like to see but I guess I'm thinking in probabilities i.e. that the more women I see the more likely the next punt (n+1) is a greater risk than going back to a tried and tested service provider already in the chain. 

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I first met my current regular lady about 10 years ago, she was at my furthest limit in terms of travelling and moreover I had no other reason to visit her town. So although we clicked from the moment of meeting I kept trying to find someone as good but nearer home. I kept visiting her every one or two years and eventually I decided it was a hopeless quest, although they were acceptable punts they just were not in the same league. For the last 5 years I have only visited her. So maybe some of the OP's returning punters are having the same experience as me.

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to scratch an itch

a special thing for them

due to funds or time. Of

only work in area occasionally a

only get round . as part of their long list once in a while!

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to scratch an itch

a special thing for them

due to funds or time. Of

only work in area occasionally a

only get round . as part of their long list once in a while!

All of the above, but one addition, is there a point / level of frequency when "regular" becomes too regular? Is variety good for both SP and client? Not rhetorical questions. I'd be jnterested in views

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As I understand it there are thousands of service providers available but as I looked through review after review I realised there was a greater variability in quality and consistency than I had first thought. I initially made a long list of women I might like to see but I guess I'm thinking in probabilities i.e. that the more women I see the more likely the next punt (n+1) is a greater risk than going back to a tried and tested service provider already in the chain. 

I'm begining to realise this.  I feel I'm looking for something I've already found.

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I've read some punters mix up visits and seek variety in order to avoid EAS with their regulars

This is a very good reason for not sticking with one SP. although I have a couple if regs who I feel actually want EAS. It is getting rather worrying in fact.

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I recently had someone get in touch with me after 12-13 months, but sadly the return visit hasn't materialised yet!

 

On the other hand, a complete dickhead I hadn't seen for several months turned up at my door unannounced. 

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People are unpredictable, they don't always have a regimented set of rules about this activity.

 

Personally I always have a list of favourites, and I'm frequently checking if they're still around/advertising, even if I'm not actually booking with them. Some of them I might not have seen for many months. I'm also keeping my eyes out for interesting new girls I haven't seen before, I might miss out on my dream fantasy lover if I didn't do that. As mentioned above, you can spend a while looking around, and then maybe realise that actually someone you saw 10 or 12 months ago was closest to what you were fantasising about or what you want right now.

 

Some escorts disappear- and then return, or you find them at another agency much later on, which also creates gaps between bookings.

 

Current finances and other ventures also affect how frequently and often I book. In that sense, I might visit a girl for an initial one hour incall- and think she's great. But I might fancy a dinner date or overnight with her next, rather than repeating the short incall. So it might be a few months in advance before I get round to the longer booking. I might have other potential overnights on my list too. Also sometimes I might fancy a sultry brunette; a blonde; or a rare redhead- or just have an appetite for someone new. That can create inevitable gaps between bookings.

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to scratch an itch

a special thing for them

due to funds or time. Of

only work in area occasionally a

only get round . as part of their long list once in a while!

All of the above, but one addition, is there a point / level of frequency when "regular" becomes too regular? Is variety good for both SP and client? Not rhetorical questions. I'd be jnterested in views

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to scratch an itch

a special thing for them

due to funds or time. Of

only work in area occasionally a

only get round . as part of their long list once in a while!

All of the above, but one addition, is there a point / level of frequency when "regular" becomes too regular? Is variety good for both SP and client? Not rhetorical questions. I'd be jnterested in views

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Whatever did you do with my post to quote it looking like that?! :)

 

Anyway,for me the mix of both regular, semi regular an done off clients is what keeps it interesting. As much as I am fond of my regulars I wouldn't like it if I only saw them or if it was only the same few faces i saw all the time. There's something quite sexy about a good anonymous fuck with a stranger! I'd miss that!

i think the nub of this is what is a regular. lady or punter

 

once a week? once a month? every 29th february?

what about when meets happen every 3 weeks for 6 month then stop.  then another meet is arranged 2 years later?  still a regular?

 

(To me a reg is simply someone I have seen before. but thats just me)

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