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I just noticed here..

 

http://www.hot-collection.co.uk/escort/tess

 

..that it says "party girl only alcohol" - does that imply the phrase 'party girl' means, by standard, drugs and alcohol?

 

I'm sure there are some parties where escorts get hired, and the party thing is if they're down for it or not - but does it also mean they participate?

 

I've never understood the fascination of cocaine and hookers - the two seem like polar opposites to me.

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I've always thought that the 'party' term refers to only drugs. It'd be acceptable for escorts to talk about enjoying a drink in their profiles, but they wouldn't make reference to drugs so candidly. I assume 'party girls' are comfortable in participating with snorting cocaine random persons dandruff, dog worming tablets, baking soda as that's what a lot of the clients who use expect.

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Complete stupidity. I am a total anti drugs nut at the best of times but getting whacked out of your gourd with a complete stranger throws safety and being safe right out of the window.

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I think there's misinformation about what drugs do what. I've done every drug under the sun and the most common/popular drugs like cocaine will not leave you 'whacked out of your gourd' with a complete stranger. If anything, alcohol is the more damaging drug in that scenario.

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Complete stupidity. I am a total anti drugs nut at the best of times but getting whacked out of your gourd with a complete stranger throws safety and being safe right out of the window.

 

And that is the best way!!!!!  Yet I assume the guys who are into this do not bother to participate in forums, or write reviews or doing things most stable guys do: they prefer to party, cut their loses and move on to something else.

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Complete stupidity. I am a total anti drugs nut at the best of times but getting whacked out of your gourd with a complete stranger throws safety and being safe right out of the window.

Such an uninformed view.

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Totally agree about alcohol in punts too. I know "black widows" are probably urban myths but that is s consideration.

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I think there's misinformation about what drugs do what. I've done every drug under the sun and the most common/popular drugs like cocaine will not leave you 'whacked out of your gourd' with a complete stranger. If anything, alcohol is the more damaging drug in that scenario.

Agree. Alcohol is far more dangerous in putting you off guard than most recreational drugs like coke.

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I have never taken illegal Class A drugs but I have smoked spliffs with an escort. I also like to drink. Several escorts and I have got thoroughly well-lubricated in each other's company, but always on overnights and that has happened only with girls that I know well, and know me. Also I am not the type of bloke who becomes aggressive or unpredictable when I'm drunk- some men (and indeed some women) are, so for them alcohol is probably best avoided.

 

Cocaine is rife in this hobby- I have never taken it nor seen it taken by escorts myself, but I have heard many stories from escorts that I've seen over the past decade. I've met girls that I've known have a habit, and one or two others that I suspected. I've met lots more that aren't addicted, but have certainly tried it, at least once. There will be clients- rich Arabs, City Boy Wolf of Wall Street wannabes, or just regular guys - who will want to snort coke with escorts. The fact is: it's fun, it's very naughty and it makes you horny, so people do it. It's not for me but I perfectly understand why it happens.

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Complete stupidity. I am a total anti drugs nut at the best of times but getting whacked out of your gourd with a complete stranger throws safety and being safe right out of the window.

I absolutely agree. I've never understood the need to take drugs to have more fun or have a "party". I hate it with a passion and would never knowingly see anybody who took them, I also don't get people who get drunk when with clients, it just seems crazy and careless to me.
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I think there's misinformation about what drugs do what. I've done every drug under the sun and the most common/popular drugs like cocaine will not leave you 'whacked out of your gourd' with a complete stranger. If anything, alcohol is the more damaging drug in that scenario.

With illicit drugs being an unregulated substance, unlike alcohol, I would definitely believe that drugs are more likely to result in a dodgy scenario. I'd feel comfortable with a client enjoying a couple of drinks in my company. Alcohol slows down reactions too, so he wouldn't be likely to impulsively flip out on me. Whereas cocaine is notorious for causing hearts irregularities. I am medically trained, but I don't wish to ever put that to (preventable) practice in my escorting work.

I welcome anyone to suggest that I am uninformed. My credentials would suggest otherwise. I agree to disagree on the perceived safety belief of substance abuse as I know it's a sensitive topic for users and former users. I'm aware many of my friends dabble in drug use, namely cocaine, so I know it doesn't make people inherently bad. We're all grown ups, and they probably think I overeat and have an unhealthy coronation street addiction. The beauty of escorting/seeing an escort is that there is enough of a variety available to cater to all needs and desires. If clients want to do drugs with an escort they are easily able to seek one, and those of us who are transparent in our disapproval of drug use will be avoided. And then we all lived happily ever after :)

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I also don't get people who get drunk when with clients, it just seems crazy and careless to me.

 

From the escort's point of view, it depends where you are and who the client is. From the client's point of view, I wouldn't want to get into any uncomfortable situation either. I was just relating a handful of times when drinking alcohol took place on my bookings, and it was with escorts that I knew well already, and they knew me well.

 

But to back up what you say I've also once experienced the negative side of drinking during an escort/client booking. This was quite a few years ago when I was a more inexperienced punter. I took her to a bar/nightclub after a meal. The escort got too drunk, she randomly became aggressive and she dumped her glass over my head. Both of us got thrown out of the club. Hence my veiled reference in my earlier post to people who can become aggressive when they're drunk. In the morning she was as nice as pie and apologetic to me. That was a first time booking though and I learned my lesson.

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From the escort's point of view, it depends where you are and who the client is. From the client's point of view, I wouldn't want to get into any uncomfortable situation either. I was just relating a handful of times when drinking alcohol took place on my bookings, and it was with escorts that I knew well already, and they knew me well.

But to back up what you say I've also once experienced the negative side of drinking during an escort/client booking. This was quite a few years ago when I was a more inexperienced punter. I took her to a bar/nightclub after a meal. The escort got too drunk, she randomly became aggressive and she dumped her glass over my head. Both of us got thrown out of the club. Hence my veiled reference in my earlier post to people who can become aggressive when they're drunk. In the morning she was as nice as pie and apologetic to me. That was a first time booking though and I learned my lesson.

Don't worry it wasn't aimed at you!

I just wouldn't personally get to the state of drunkness where j am vulnerable because I know when I am drunk I talk to anyone and think they're amazing lol. I also personally find it slightly unprofessional as it's unpredictable, and I've had my drink spiked three times in my life so it gives me slight paranoia especially when it comes to new clients.

But I do enjoy glasses of wine with my clients many of times but will always limit myself to when I feel I'm getting tipsy. I've had drunk clients who had drank before seeing me and they haven't been able to get it up so they get angry, not at me just in general, or they end up falling asleep. It's just not worth it lol!

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I thought 'party' only referred to drugs tbh.

 

I'd definitely feel safer with a coked up client than a very drunk one to be honest, but both are a pain in the neck because both tends to raise their expectations on what they can do but lower their ability to do it! 

 

I'm not bothered if a client wants to take coke- it happens rarely, and only on outcalls- I choose not to allow them to do in my home but they are a nuisance because they tend not to able to get it up, however they are more likely to keep chucking money at you because they are under the impression they are close to coming! I can put up with them until they run out of money! :) 

 

I don't think a coke user any more likely to keel over than someone with some sort of other medical condition. 

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I thought 'party' only referred to drugs tbh.

 

I'd definitely feel safer with a coked up client than a very drunk one to be honest, but both are a pain in the neck because both tends to raise their expectations on what they can do but lower their ability to do it! 

 

I'm not bothered if a client wants to take coke- it happens rarely, and only on outcalls- I choose not to allow them to do in my home but they are a nuisance because they tend not to able to get it up, however they are more likely to keep chucking money at you because they are under the impression they are close to coming! I can put up with them until they run out of money! :)

 

I don't think a coke user any more likely to keel over than someone with some sort of other medical condition. 

 

Yes I always thought it meant open-minded about doing drugs as well.

 

I met one escort who told me about a rich Arab client who books her, and other girls. He pays them all, he just sits in his penthouse and just does coke while the escort girls are present around him- he doesn't actually have sex with them as he can't perform, he just sits there and talks incessantly while they're there with him, or makes them do stuff while he watches.

 

Its probably not the best stuff to touch if you have a heart condition or high blood pressure.

 

 

I'm aware many of my friends dabble in drug use, namely cocaine, so I know it doesn't make people inherently bad. 

 

I met a really lovely Irish escort, a very charming lady in her early 30s a few years ago. She was very good-looking, a blue-eyed brunette- attractive, intelligent and well-dressed for the booking. She had a very nice personality and was great fun to chat to. Anyway, randomly in conversation it came up that she had lost her sense of smell. I asked her how, and she cheerfully informed me that she'd "snorted so much coke" in her 20s that she'd "permanently damaged her nose". I was quite taken aback! Well she certainly didn't fit my stereotype of a (former) drug user at the time.

 

On another occasion I met a stunning young English blonde who was escorting. She was very posh and obviously from a privileged background but I found she was really charming and sweet too. She'd been educated at a Swiss finishing school, and seemed very classy and well brought up. I'd seen her a few times, and the bookings always had gone well. On one occasion she kept sniffing while she was in my company, and I wondered why (in my naivety). Casually, I asked her if she had a cold. "No", she says to me. "I have sinus issues- to be honest it's from doing too much coke. But I'm not on it at the moment though!" I was rendered momentarily speechless yet again...

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I always thought that party girls just meant that they were willing to visit a group of guys and other girls. A party.

 

I didn't think it was necessarily about drugs or alcohol, but I could be wrong.

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I thought 'party' only referred to drugs tbh.

 

I'd definitely feel safer with a coked up client than a very drunk one to be honest, but both are a pain in the neck because both tends to raise their expectations on what they can do but lower their ability to do it! 

 

I'm not bothered if a client wants to take coke- it happens rarely, and only on outcalls- I choose not to allow them to do in my home but they are a nuisance because they tend not to able to get it up, however they are more likely to keep chucking money at you because they are under the impression they are close to coming! I can put up with them until they run out of money! :)

 

I don't think a coke user any more likely to keel over than someone with some sort of other medical condition. 

 

a refreshing, realistic and well informed attitude to take ML. 

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I always thought that party girls just meant that they were willing to visit a group of guys and other girls. A party.

 

I didn't think it was necessarily about drugs or alcohol, but I could be wrong.

 

The definition can vary from agency to agency, and individual profile to individual profile. It can be 'sex party girl' or simply... 'party girl'. Some when they advertise mean that...or the other. Or the meanings can overlap which means they are happy to partake of whatever substances might be at your party. To be honest I think it's usually more the latter meaning.

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I know my opinion is totally uninformed and in this day and age, old fashioned. But in my humble experience of being with people on drugs, the party going on inside your head is not half as scintillating to others watching and listening to you.

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I know my opinion is totally uninformed and in this day and age, old fashioned. But in my humble experience of being with people on drugs, the party going on inside your head is not half as scintillating to others watching and listening to you.

that is very true...100 %

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I assume  ''party'' is an euphemism for using recreational  drugs (cocaine etc)  

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Wow, great response on this thread! Do you think when it may imply 'sex party girl' that means if I have me and a couple of mates, and we hire some girls for a couple of hours, that the assumption is that the girl is there to participate in sexual activities with more than one guy (not necessarily at the same time) ?

 

I do think, especially given from the above, that 'party girl' means it could and does imply everything from clubbing, drinking, going out, group type things (sex or party) and being ok with and/or participating in substance use.

 

Personally, I've never understood this whole thing about cocaine and hookers. Some of the best orgasms I've had are while sober. You are more present, can connect more, stay harder, go for longer, have more control, remember it to the finest detail, and it's just way more fun. So the idea of doing a couple of lines, then having trouble with my little guy, having to drop a viagra, then fucking for hours in the hope to orgasm - where's the fun in that?

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Wow, great response on this thread! Do you think when it may imply 'sex party girl' that means if I have me and a couple of mates, and we hire some girls for a couple of hours, that the assumption is that the girl is there to participate in sexual activities with more than one guy (not necessarily at the same time) ?

 

I do think, especially given from the above, that 'party girl' means it could and does imply everything from clubbing, drinking, going out, group type things (sex or party) and being ok with and/or participating in substance use.

 

Personally, I've never understood this whole thing about cocaine and hookers. Some of the best orgasms I've had are while sober. You are more present, can connect more, stay harder, go for longer, have more control, remember it to the finest detail, and it's just way more fun. So the idea of doing a couple of lines, then having trouble with my little guy, having to drop a viagra, then fucking for hours in the hope to orgasm - where's the fun in that?

 

Whenever you want to book a girl for a specific event or when it's not just going to be you involved- it's always best to check with the independent herself or the agency as to what the 'party girl' definition entails and whether the girl is comfortable with that. Bear in mind it's probably best not to openly mention drugs if that's what you have in mind! (I'm talking not just to you, but to anyone reading this thread) Ask whether the girl is open-minded and likes to party, or if they still don't get it and you want to be subtle/cheeky, if she likes to 'powder her nose'. If you're in to all that of course- personally though, I'm like you umimu and I don't care for it at all.

 

One of my favourite girls of the past- a lovely young blonde girl I used to see frequently- she got ruined by cocaine.

 

I guess just as people get drunk, they like to get high too. They like to party, and like to do it with sexy girls- hence cocaine and hookers. I also think some seedy guys like to try and corrupt girls further too- particularly the younger and more impressionable ones like my blonde favourite.

 

There's a dark side to this hobby too.

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There's politics in poverty, of course there is a dark side to this hobby - just as there is a dark side to drug use. Every coin has two sides and all that jazz.

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Always assumed party meant swingers/group sex etc. in that context.

 

'Party' as a euphamism for drugs is usually an American thing IME.

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