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What's Your Favourite Welcome?

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Personally I lead my lovers straight to the bedroom, probably because I am a little shy as a person but not at all in bed and my nerves are dealt with quickly by getting naughty - but I know that others prefer to lead/be led into seduction with perhaps a cup of tea or a glass of wine and a chat on the sofa first...

Ladies & Gentlemen - what's your preference?

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Me personally being a shy girl, I prefer a little chat and a drink first. This is to make me feel comfortable and at ease my heart is always racing and my nerves are through the roof when seeing a new client, isn't it strange how we are both shy but do the opposite thing at the start of a booking? Lol!

After that I am raring to go, this is probably why I stopped doing 30 minutes, I just didn't like the wham bam thank you mam kind of booking where there isn't any chat! I like to have a little chat and some banter. I had a guy see me for the second time last week and he mentioned how he had the most fun booking with me because I gave him time to chat at the start on both occasions and we had a drink and a laugh and that other escorts he had seen had not been like that or as friendly. He said that made the whole booking much better and more "natural" for him.

Was nice of him to say!

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A smile and a kiss then lead to the bedroom unless they have specifically requested the booking to NOT take place in the bedroom. If a guy is only booked in for an hour or less he doesnt want to waste time sitting having a cup of tea and a chat usually, maybe a little on on the side of the bed while he drinks his drink but thats it. Some guys do want to have a little chatter and cuppa first but I think they are in the minority, most of my chats happen AFTER the nookie

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A love a welcome hug and kiss and then being led hand in hand to the bedroom. I then like a nice glass of wine to relax nerves and then get to know her a little.

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A BIG smile :)

The best welcome is when you're 'made to feel' the girl is genuinely pleased to see you.

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It sounds so obvious but warm welcomes mean such a lot: all the usual suspects: warm smile, kiss, embrace, care (drink, shown where the bathroom is) - if the lady wants me to the bedroom straight away then that is fine and I am cool with that but often I like a little chat/banter time to have a drink/sit on the sofa, and then do some light touching, caressing - rarely straight into the bedroom as its off to the shower before the action begins! :)

 

I rarely book less than an hour and 90 mins or two hours builds this in as I enjoy this - I am not a wam bam thank you mam kind of fella - weird I know but conversation is important to me.

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I definitely like to be made to feel that the lady is pleased to see me, and a nice hello, smile and kiss are key to that.

For the moment I've found myself settled on seeing two ladies who are quite different. Both give a friendly welcome, one I tend to see for an hour seems to like getting stuck in straight away, with no offer of a drink although I'm sure she'd get something if I asked.

The other I've tended to book for 2 hours so it's all a little more relaxed with a few minutes chat, drink and kiss and cuddle on the sofa first. Last time after round one we both mentioned how hungry we were and she ended up ordering a takeaway, and had another round while we waited for it to arrive! Not a welcome exactly, but a welcome surprise! :)

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I have in the past - and probably will in future - asked to be greeted in a manner that re-creates a scene that has always stuck in my mind from Anthony Powell's 'Dance to the music of time' series of books - in which the narrator's mistress opens the door to him naked except for a pair of long boots.

A fantastic sight that never fails in the arousal department.

Even thinking about it has me wondering who I might suggest it to next!

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New guys never get invited into the living room, only when I know and are comfortable with them would I take them there first. Straight to the bedroom after a warm welcome at the door, which does not involve a kiss. Once in the bedroom I will offer a drink, kiss, chat or straight to it, depends on the feedback I feel from them. I would never open the door in underwear, partially dressed or nude. Not even for a regular. I had a reg due once and was waiting for him to text or ring he had arrived but instead there was the knock on the door. I ran down all excited, he was one of my favourites, opened the door with a big grin and boobs bursting out only to find it was one of the shop owners to tell me he was blocking me in for a while, whilst he unloaded some stuff. Imagine had I been starkers.

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I only have access to a bedroom/bathroom, so theoretically there is no other option but to head to the bedroom, but I always greet my visitors with a big smile and some sort of reassuring touch. If it is someone I have seen before, without a doubt there is a big hug and kiss right when they're in the door!

 

If they are new, I will show them the bathroom before heading to the bedroom, and will always go to fetch a drink while they freshen up. Depending on the individual we may jump straight into things, but usually not. I like having a little sit and drink and chat/cuddle before things get filthier. It seems many of my clients like this as well, as I am often told that I am very good at making them feel relaxed and at ease. :)

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one of the best welcomes i've received was from a girl a parlour in MK, first time meeting and as she gave me a kiss her hand went to the front of my trousers, giving my cock a rub/squeeze

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Being new to this realm of experience it's hard to say but I'm definitely someone who is more chilled out and keen to create some sort of rapport.  I know a lot of stuff that happens is as much a delusion as reality but I hope that there's a bit of both in there and that means that creating some sort of connection strikes me as being vital.  I've so far struggled to imagine myself doing just an hour because it'd all be very much surface stuff (which is why, on the other hand, it's much more affordable) and I imagine time would run out before you've even really got into it.  I'm inclined to prefer the GFE line and, by its very nature, that means an interest in a more genteel and relaxed beginning.  I don't drink wine, tea or coffee so I'm not showing up to get freebies but some gentle physical contact (kissing, holding hands, cuddling, etc) and conversation would be my style.  Out of interest, as somewhat of a novice, does etiquette suggest that the lady should take the lead (whichever way she prefers) or is the gent also able to make first moves with the kind of relaxed behaviours that I alluded to (obviously you don't want guys just jumping all over you straightaway ... that's just disrespectful and potentially dangerous).

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With my regular my favourite welcome is being greeted at the door naked, DFK as the door slams shut then I drop to my knees and eat her out.

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I think people have to remember practicalities, someone on tis thread suggested a welcome that was so hot I did a little moan, however I am not sure I want the whole neighbourhood to see me naked except for thigh high boots! For people who work from home there may also be the issue of wanting to keep certain spaces private, as in the living room may have childrens pictures etc.

 

For me what matters is a genuine welcome, everything else is just window dressing.

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big smile and a lingering kiss - usually leading to pash DFK - sets the tone of a good punt.

 

I hate the walk in and peck on the cheek, hand out for the readies, and being ordered in to the shower approach - that is all too prevalent nowadays (certainly is where I live most of the time anyway)

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Being new to this realm of experience it's hard to say but I'm definitely someone who is more chilled out and keen to create some sort of rapport.  I know a lot of stuff that happens is as much a delusion as reality but I hope that there's a bit of both in there and that means that creating some sort of connection strikes me as being vital.  I've so far struggled to imagine myself doing just an hour because it'd all be very much surface stuff (which is why, on the other hand, it's much more affordable) and I imagine time would run out before you've even really got into it.  I'm inclined to prefer the GFE line and, by its very nature, that means an interest in a more genteel and relaxed beginning.  I don't drink wine, tea or coffee so I'm not showing up to get freebies but some gentle physical contact (kissing, holding hands, cuddling, etc) and conversation would be my style.  Out of interest, as somewhat of a novice, does etiquette suggest that the lady should take the lead (whichever way she prefers) or is the gent also able to make first moves with the kind of relaxed behaviours that I alluded to (obviously you don't want guys just jumping all over you straightaway ... that's just disrespectful and potentially dangerous).

 

It is usually a good idea to indicate your preferences beforehand as that reduces the scope for misunderstandings.  Don't wait indefinitely for the WG to take the lead, most will initiate things after a bit, but there is the odd tale of a WG talking through the booking and doing nothing!

 

A chat moving onto cuddling is a good way to start imo, but experimenting by varying things is also worthwhile especially on repeat visits.  It is surprising how much you can do in an hour, but consider opting for 90 minutes if you feel that an hour would feel rushed.  Booking longer than 90 mins for a first visit can feel like a bad gamble if you don't click and things don't work out.  It also leaves you saving for a longer time before you can afford to visit elsewhere.

 

For the adventurous I did once arrange to meet an escort at hers by letting myself in.  We had met before and everything was arranged by text so we didn't even speak until well into the session.  I texted when I arrived, she acknowledged it.  I then let myself in and locked the door.  I went to her bedroom where as arranged she was waiting for me naked on the bed.  She could not see me as she was on all fours facing away from me.  I will never forget that moment, awesome. Without speaking or looking at each other the fun then commenced ;) before some way into the booking we spoke.  The silence added an extra twist. This is not something that I would expect to repeat as it requires a great deal of trust between the participants.  I have read elsewhere on here of punters placing a similar degree of trust when being visited on outcalls, waiting blindfolded for the WG to let herself in and commence.  Not something to do unless you feel the increased excitement exceeds the risk.

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Nice story, Vicar.

And the general point is worth repeating: of course, with repeat visits unorthodox ways of getting things moving are much more possible.

My favourite memory of this kind concerns Sasha of Bath (alas, no longer working). I asked her in advance to leave her knickers off as I wanted to grope her under her skirt as we were going upstairs. I'll never forget the joy of slipping my hand between her legs and rubbing my fingers against her puss - nor her smile as I did it.

Obviously, this sort of approach would not go down well unprepared.

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A box of Jaffacakes and a copy of CraftyCarper does it for me.

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If anyone ever wonders why we are seemingly paid a lot of money it is for our telepathy skills!

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A box of Jaffacakes and a copy of CraftyCarper does it for me.

Jaffa cakes I understand, but Crafty Carper... Is this about craft to make using carps (create your own mittens using carp heads) or Crafting for carps? (How to make your riverbank look special with our feature on Shabby Chic)

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Nice story, Vicar.

And the general point is worth repeating: of course, with repeat visits unorthodox ways of getting things moving are much more possible.

My favourite memory of this kind concerns Sasha of Bath (alas, no longer working). I asked her in advance to leave her knickers off as I wanted to grope her under her skirt as we were going upstairs. I'll never forget the joy of slipping my hand between her legs and rubbing my fingers against her puss - nor her smile as I did it.

Obviously, this sort of approach would not go down well unprepared.

 

That reminds of another visit elsewhere.  The meeting had all been arranged and I then sent her some suggestions about my preferences on what I'd like her to wear and also mentioned that no knickers was an option that I would appreciate if she was ok with it.  As an aside I always suggest a couple of alternatives so that there remains an element of surprise for me and some choice for her.

 

She hadn't replied to say what she would wear, but just after I'd arrived as we walked across to sit down and have a chat to break the ice she ever so casually mentioned that she had liked the suggestions in my email.  A few minutes later in the bedroom my wandering hands and fingers confirmed what a mischievous minx she was.  It went on to be one of my all time best meetings.

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No knickers is a bit - well, OK, but what about...

 

 

Apparently no knickers but then going upstairs you spot a fragment of material tucked away and you draw it out and are allowed to put it in your pocket for a keepsake...

 

I can have very effective titillating ideas but not many clients wanting to allow me - and pay me - to try them out on them.

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Not asking for the money as the door shuts.

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Not asking for the money as the door shuts.

oh no, a woman you are paying for sex dares to ask for payment!

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