Horny Clark

Do You Plan Your Encounter?

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Hi, I visit escorts very infrequently (last one a year ago) but every now and then I get the urge for the kind of excitement sometimes lacking at home - I'm only human - and I'm thinking of seeing one again soon. I know what I would like to happen during my encounter but was wondering to what extent others plan their visits. Do you know exactly what you want to happen or let things just happen naturally? If you know what you want to happen do you communicate this to the girl before your visit or during? And girls, do you prefer your clients to know what they want and direct you accordingly or are you happy to take control?

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Both. Sometimes I message before the meet with a wishlist of things to try, other times I just go with the flow.

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I'd say avoid over-planning. Sure, make sure you achieve all your objectives (and let the escort know what they are), but not to the minute-by-minute level. I think that way disappointment lies.

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I have received in depth emails and phone conversations of how they wish the booking to go and once a script, but these are usually role play. A brief out line of how you like things is not a bad idea as it gives a clue of what you like but any more details and I tend to think he is a fantasist or just getting off on the telling of it and would perhaps not take the booking, in fact I would end the call or bin the email.

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Communicate to her in advance via email or better on the telephone your wishes: even if you voice 1000 words on the phone, they come across better than a 1000 words email that might lead to nothing.  Just as you consider your time precious, consider hers too.

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A bit of an idea is useful. Too little info and men who mumble 'Oh anything!' when I ask them if they have anything in mind for the booking is a bit unhelpful, but so to is a long list of requirements. Firstly, those who give minute by minute to do lists and a set of dress requirements so specific you start to wonder if they think you are the BBC costume department are often timewasters, Secondly, in reality most bookings go with a flow and it's not uncommon for the man who has requested a specific outfit just ends up taking it all off in the first 5 minutes! It's fine really because it is their booking and money but you do feel a bit aggrieved if you've gone to an effort to dig something out or ages squeezing into the corset he likes from a photo on the website!

 

I also find in reality the booking does go with the flow a bit. Often a roleplay scenario that works in their heads feels a bit daft when they are actually here or they are so excited they just want to leap on you! 

 

Sooooo, in conclusion, a bit of direction helps, and also it's easier for some men to ask for something they are slightly shy about on an email than face to face but a very detailed list often just doesn't work. 

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I've just these few minutes come back from a booking with a client who planned our meet. He thought out everything and had sent quite a few emails before hand asking me about things I like and what I like to do. He sent several emails but I had a good feeling that he would be genuine and was probably nervous.

It was a bit OTT planning things such as he will stand outside two minutes before I turn up so that I'm not "hanging around" and that we will chat for 20 mins downstairs before proceeding upstairs. The poor guy was really nervous lol he said he didn't do this often.

I don't mind planning, I think it's good to plan a little bit but don't go overboard. It is fun when things just flow naturally though and I do enjoy that aswell. It depends on what you want or if you're after a relaxed GFE and want things to flow naturally or whether you're after a set of services and you want to get through each of them.

It's all up to you! X

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Thanks for your responses all. I wasn't planning on being particularly ott, just wondered what others do and this isn't the kind of thing where you can ask your mates down the pub lol. The girl I'm planning on seeing  (on aw) says if it's on her list just do it, but I guess I'm a little unsure about just going ahead and giving her a facial if she's not expecting it (it's on her list though). Am I worrying too much? 

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 And girls, do you prefer your clients to know what they want and direct you accordingly or are you happy to take control?

 

It's nice to be given an idea as to what they'd like but being 'directed' throughout would be a bit of a distraction

 

The occasonal 'roll over'  or 'suck my balls'  all well and good but if the 'directions'  are coming in thick and fast,  well, it's a bit clincial/offputting.

 

But, it is about you and what you want, so perhaps be assertive but without the precision?

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I see enough ladies to be far from hung up about every meet needing to be an opera by Shakespeare so I take a very relaxed approach and go with the flow, sometimes saying what I want to do and just accepting when it is not available or agreed to.

 

I would very much not like each meet to be some big deal like watching a cup final where every move has you holding your breath in case it goes wrong.

 

With limited means, I achieve this state by having cheap and frequent punts and having developed an impressive ability to sense what lady is going to please me with her looks in real life, her character and her escort behaviour.

 

It takes time and practice though.

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Thanks for your responses all. I wasn't planning on being particularly ott, just wondered what others do and this isn't the kind of thing where you can ask your mates down the pub lol. The girl I'm planning on seeing  (on aw) says if it's on her list just do it, but I guess I'm a little unsure about just going ahead and giving her a facial if she's not expecting it (it's on her list though). Am I worrying too much? 

If it's just this then I don't see any harm in mentioning it and whilst she says she doesn't mind if a client just does it, but she might kind of like to know in advance so she can choose to put her hair up or not wear the dry clean only top! 

 

Also, there's no harm from your side to get peace of mind she does offer the service.

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Tend to plan somethings that i'd like to do.

 

Usually within first 5 minutes of seeing her all is forgotten  :P

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Tend to plan somethings that i'd like to do.

Usually within first 5 minutes of seeing her all is forgotten :P

Haha this is so true!

Me and my regular planned some role play fun today which as supposed to commence as soon as he opened the door but I've been here 20 mins I'm In the loo readin PNET quickly about to get changed in my gear and no role play has started yet lol!!!

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1 min hello

2 to 5 min discussion of geo politics

6 to 9 min undressing

10 minute OMG I have never seen anything so big

11 minute WG faints

12 to 20 min me desperate search for something to revive WG

21st minute, WG revives

22nd minute, WG apologises

23rd minute Iask where tea and coffee is kept

26th minute i serve reviving cup of tea

35 to 60 minute DfK etc

61 minutes WG omg your relentless.

It does not matter how much I plan, its always the same experiennce from the 1st to the 61st minute

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Haha this is so true!

Me and my regular planned some role play fun today which as supposed to commence as soon as he opened the door but I've been here 20 mins I'm In the loo readin PNET quickly about to get changed in my gear and no role play has started yet lol!!!

Intrigued to know how this turned out! 

 

 

It's nice to be given an idea as to what they'd like but being 'directed' throughout would be a bit of a distraction

 

The occasonal 'roll over'  or 'suck my balls'  all well and good but if the 'directions'  are coming in thick and fast,  well, it's a bit clincial/offputting.

 

But, it is about you and what you want, so perhaps be assertive but without the precision?

Good advice. It's the girl I saw last time so I'm hoping to be relaxed enough to go with the flow but to make sure I get what I go for. It's Thursday night so not long now. 

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1 min hello

2 to 5 min discussion of geo politics

6 to 9 min undressing

10 minute OMG I have never seen anything so big

11 minute WG faints

12 to 20 min me desperate search for something to revive WG

21st minute, WG revives

22nd minute, WG apologises

23rd minute Iask where tea and coffee is kept

26th minute i serve reviving cup of tea

35 to 60 minute DfK etc

61 minutes WG omg your relentless.

It does not matter how much I plan, its always the same experiennce from the 1st to the 61st minute

LOL!

You are a funny guy enquire :D

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If it's just this then I don't see any harm in mentioning it and whilst she says she doesn't mind if a client just does it, but she might kind of like to know in advance so she can choose to put her hair up or not wear the dry clean only top!  Also, there's no harm from your side to get peace of mind she does offer the service.

"I'm a little unsure about just going ahead and giving her a facial if she's not expecting it (it's on her list though)." (Clark) Sorry, pasted the wrong post initially.

'Planning' a facial is always hit and miss (pardon the pun). I like the girl to do it rather than me and probably most of the time, when a girl has this on her list, it's not actually true. Out of the last 5 WGs I've seen in this country who had it on their list only one actually did it, the others made me come on their neck and one on her lips and a bit in her mouth. If that's your thing, Clark, better to find one who delivers and go back again to her. Another one for me is the long, slow, edging HJ - it's not really possible to explain it in an email so I leave that for the direct method when I'm there.

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