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Yesterday I was having a quick scan through the A/W mature escort categories and found a lady that looks remarkably like someone I had a conversation with in a pub two or three months ago, and I'm about 90% sure it's her.

I remember we had a friendly chat (no more than 30 or 40 mins) before parting our separate ways she did give me her phone number but made no promises,I texted her a few days later but didn't get a reply so just put it down as a non starter and forgot all about it until seeing her profile pictures yesterday.

 

Me making a appointment with her for her services as a customer and not revealing to her or letting on that I already met briefly several months before?....THE RIGHT OR WRONG THING TO DO?

 

I'd appreciate your honest feedback and advice ladies and gents

 

 

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Why do you feel the need to say anything at all based on a 30/40 minute casual chat a few months ago?

You 'may' come over a bit stalkerish and she may rain off and steer clear of an appt?

Just make the booking ( if thats what you are intending to do ). and when you make it across the doorstep or she your room ... well then it could be a simple ' well I never' and on you go with the appt?

There you go, no drama.

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I am learning about life though Emily's postings.

 

I think she is right but I do like the idea of discovering the lady worked - or even her telling me after an initial acquaintance as it would retain the hint of a civvie 'conquest' in my feeble mind.

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You could also be very wrong. I remember a client telling me he was sure he'd seen a local lady in the supermarket, he explained that if you screwed up your eyes, you could see her features through the blurring on her photos. I later found out that the photos she used were not of herself. So that blew that out of the water.

My own self, I've been 'spotted' in all sorts of places where I have not been.

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It's probably best you don't say anything as it could scare her off or make her feel uncomfortable since it was a few months back. Just book her and have fun, if she recognised you she may say. If not, oh well!

I had a client once who also said he had saw me at a certain place, he was wrong lol. Easy mistake to make!

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You could also be very wrong. I remember a client telling me he was sure he'd seen a local lady in the supermarket, he explained that if you screwed up your eyes, you could see her features through the blurring on her photos. I later found out that the photos she used were not of herself. So that blew that out of the water.

My own self, I've been 'spotted' in all sorts of places where I have not been.

 

 

I've spotted you a fair bit this year,  in a local fruit farm and a couple of times in a Punnet in Sainsburys,  there was no denying it was you :D

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Yesterday I was having a quick scan through the A/W mature escort categories and found a lady that looks remarkably like someone I had a conversation with in a pub two or three months ago, and I'm about 90% sure it's her.

I remember we had a friendly chat (no more than 30 or 40 mins) before parting our separate ways she did give me her phone number but made no promises,I texted her a few days later but didn't get a reply so just put it down as a non starter and forgot all about it until seeing her profile pictures yesterday.

 

Me making a appointment with her for her services as a customer and not revealing to her or letting on that I already met briefly several months before?....THE RIGHT OR WRONG THING TO DO?

 

I'd appreciate your honest feedback and advice ladies and gents

So you assume she wont recognise you as you recognised her? Not crediting her with much intelligence there. Personally I wouldnt want to see a guy at my door that I had met socially.

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I wouldn't be at all comfortable with that.  The anonymity is important and I'm sure it works both ways.

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I'd be freaked out if it was someone I had met socially. I'd personally not book her, but then I'm a woman and not in male shoes! 

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Try something like...

 

'Hi. I think that we met for half an hour in a pub some months ago and if I'd known then that you were an escort I'd have asked for your phone number. Love your profile and I'd like to make a  x-hour booking. If you feel that would be awkward for you just say so and I'll move on and forget it all. If it's ok, then can you manage an x-hr incall booking on 17 Octember at 3pm?'

 

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I wouldn't be at all comfortable with that.  The anonymity is important and I'm sure it works both ways.

100% agree with this.

If you do choose to go ahead with arranging to see her I'd say don't tell her in your contact prior to meeting that you are sure you may have met before. If I were her I'd be freaked out and worry who you were, and every time someone so much as looked at me when I was out I'd be thinking is that him. She'll feel like she's got a spooky ghost. At least if you're there in person and you mention you've met before then she can put a face to you, and that way you're both in the same boat of knowing who each other are.

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Yesterday I was having a quick scan through the A/W mature escort categories and found a lady that looks remarkably like someone I had a conversation with in a pub two or three months ago, and I'm about 90% sure it's her.

I remember we had a friendly chat (no more than 30 or 40 mins) before parting our separate ways she did give me her phone number but made no promises,I texted her a few days later but didn't get a reply so just put it down as a non starter and forgot all about it until seeing her profile pictures yesterday.

 

Me making a appointment with her for her services as a customer and not revealing to her or letting on that I already met briefly several months before?....THE RIGHT OR WRONG THING TO DO?

 

I'd appreciate your honest feedback and advice ladies and gents

 

And if it proves not to be the girl you will be booking, promise to enjoy your time with her?

 

Lots of people look alike and even assuming it was that girl, giving you her number (when maybe she was drunk or just gave you a fake number - some girls do that apparently) doesn't mean the earth.  Imagine you getting a knock at your office door and a girl wanting some free services (either treating a tooth if you were a dentist or free furniture if you were a furniture seller) purely because you met her in the pub and you thought you had a moment.

 

Maybe she has a busy life and she is just happy as she is with no aggravation.

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So you assume she wont recognise you as you recognised her? Not crediting her with much intelligence there. Personally I wouldnt want to see a guy at my door that I had met socially.

Exactly this.If she does recognise you i have a feeling that could make for a rather akward time

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Try something like...

 

'Hi. I think that we met for half an hour in a pub some months ago and if I'd known then that you were an escort I'd have asked for your phone number. Love your profile and I'd like to make a  x-hour booking. If you feel that would be awkward for you just say so and I'll move on and forget it all. If it's ok, then can you manage an x-hr incall booking on 17 Octember at 3pm?'

 

;)

 

I cringed at the intro here, as my first thought would be, freebie hunter who assumes he could have bagged me socially and doesn't really want to pay.  But I like how you concluded it.  Made it clear that you were respecting the professional boundaries and not expecting any preferential treatment.  Nor implying subtle "be nice to me, or else".

 

I'd rather that someone that knows me from real life doesn't book me, but am mature enough to know it can still work professionally provided he isn't a tosser.  Fortunately, I met very few tossers socially.

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And if it proves not to be the girl you will be booking, promise to enjoy your time with her?

 

Lots of people look alike and even assuming it was that girl, giving you her number (when maybe she was drunk or just gave you a fake number - some girls do that apparently) doesn't mean the earth.  Imagine you getting a knock at your office door and a girl wanting some free services (either treating a tooth if you were a dentist or free furniture if you were a furniture seller) purely because you met her in the pub and you thought you had a moment.

 

Maybe she has a busy life and she is just happy as she is with no aggravation.

 

It never crossed my mind for a second that I could be in the running for a  freebee nor did I assume anything when she gave me her number,...My topic is about booking a escort that you may have already met socially and I was just merely outlining the (when and where and how) we briefly met so that all readers would be on the same page. 

 

Anyway it turned out not to be her.....I came, I saw, I came.

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I cringed at the intro here, as my first thought would be, freebie hunter who assumes he could have bagged me socially and doesn't really want to pay.  But I like how you concluded it.  Made it clear that you were respecting the professional boundaries and not expecting any preferential treatment.  Nor implying subtle "be nice to me, or else".

 

I'd rather that someone that knows me from real life doesn't book me, but am mature enough to know it can still work professionally provided he isn't a tosser.  Fortunately, I met very few tossers socially.

 I'm pleased you didn't get the wrong freebee hunter thread,...My post is about meeting a escort that you have already briefly met socially and the best way to approach the booking or meeting....Anyway I decided that I'd play it dumb and not say anything unless she say's something first but it turned out not to be her.

Good time had I must say :P

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Try something like...

 

'Hi. I think that we met for half an hour in a pub some months ago and if I'd known then that you were an escort I'd have asked for your phone number. Love your profile and I'd like to make a  x-hour booking. If you feel that would be awkward for you just say so and I'll move on and forget it all. If it's ok, then can you manage an x-hr incall booking on 17 Octember at 3pm?'

 

;)

Thank's but I decided to play it dumb and not say anything unless she does first........turned out it wasn't her after all but good time had all the same :cool:

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So you assume she wont recognise you as you recognised her? Not crediting her with much intelligence there. Personally I wouldnt want to see a guy at my door that I had met socially.

No you misunderstood my statement completely,...if it's her she may recognise me or she may not ... I was asking advice on how to proceed with a booking or not to book at all.....some people have wrote "come clean up front when booking"...others have said "don't place any importance on it, visit her as normal and unless she says something keep business as normal".

 

It wasn't her after all but I'm sure glad I went :D

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It's probably best you don't say anything as it could scare her off or make her feel uncomfortable since it was a few months back. Just book her and have fun, if she recognised you she may say. If not, oh well!

I had a client once who also said he had saw me at a certain place, he was wrong lol. Easy mistake to make!

Short sweet sound advice Tight E !!,..exactly what I was thinking...I just wanted to hear how others would tackle it or want a customer to tackle it if in the ladies shoes,..a couple of readers have taken my statement completely the wrong way but that can always happen  in written talk as apposed to verbal.

I met her and it turned out not to be her but I had a great time,

thanks again for your words of wisdom x 

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No you misunderstood my statement completely,...if it's her she may recognise me or she may not ... I was asking advice on how to proceed with a booking or not to book at all.....some people have wrote "come clean up front when booking"...others have said "don't place any importance on it, visit her as normal and unless she says something keep business as normal".

 

It wasn't her after all but I'm sure glad I went :D

So you went anyway even though it may have been her and it may have completley freaked her out should it have bee her and should she have recognised  you, despite the escorts saying they wouldnt want someone they know to show up. Nothing like considering the other persons feelings above your own is there :ph34r:

 

Oh and I did perfectly understand the question, I was just commenting on a comment you made within that question. Its not like you posed a question that was hard to understand x

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No you misunderstood my statement completely,...if it's her she may recognise me or she may not ... I was asking advice on how to proceed with a booking or not to book at all.....some people have wrote "come clean up front when booking"...others have said "don't place any importance on it, visit her as normal and unless she says something keep business as normal".

 

It wasn't her after all but I'm sure glad I went :D

Do you see what I mean about getting it wrong? If you'd told her upfront it could have made her feel you were trying to manipulate the situation.

In the meantime you've had a little fantasy and it's a lesson learned.

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 I'm pleased you didn't get the wrong freebee hunter thread,...My post is about meeting a escort that you have already briefly met socially and the best way to approach the booking or meeting....Anyway I decided that I'd play it dumb and not say anything unless she say's something first but it turned out not to be her.

Good time had I must say :P

I actually have had the "gosh, it's you!" freebie hunter emails, really pleased to have found me as an escort and assuming they'd pick up where they'd left off on civvie steet.  even it it had been years since their last contact.   Never sure if it's arrogance, stupidity or sheer naivety.  

 

Glad you had a good time and that it wasn't her.

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Do you see what I mean about getting it wrong? If you'd told her upfront it could have made her feel you were trying to manipulate the situation.

In the meantime you've had a little fantasy and it's a lesson learned.

 

Someone phoned me, asked questions about my services, hung up, then sent me a text asking "Is this <<Insert name here>>?"  I wasn't the person he was thinking, but it did earn him a spot on my blocked list and I ignored his future calls.  It told me he's the "can't leave well enough alone! type.  Even worse, by texting me someone else's possibly non-working name, he was risking exposing someone else if I recognised her real name.

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So you went anyway even though it may have been her and it may have completley freaked her out should it have bee her and should she have recognised  you, despite the escorts saying they wouldnt want someone they know to show up. Nothing like considering the other persons feelings above your own is there :ph34r:

 

Oh and I did perfectly understand the question, I was just commenting on a comment you made within that question. Its not like you posed a question that was hard to understand x

:ph34r: no harm no foul x

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:ph34r: no harm no foul x

only by sheer luck not by you making sure to avoid a potentially distressing situation for her

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