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I would like to ask for some advice please. I recently had my first meeting with an escort. Unfortunately due to me becoming unwell (it wasn't nerves) she had to leave approximately 45 minutes into our 2 hour booking. She kept the money and said she'd come back when I was better.

I'm going to see my doctor but I have a feeling it'll be a while before I'm back to 100%.

I must stress that the escort was not malicious or anything like that in any way at all.

My question is would I be wrong to ask for some of my money back (less the amount to cover her time of course)? If I am ok to, what would be the best way to phrase my request please?

I don't want to cause her any offense or upset.

Thank you in advance.

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Hi MV,

 

Sorry to hear you suddenly took ill - that's pretty bad timing. I hope everything turns out ok! I would certainly hope the escort would keep her side of the agreement and comes back when you're better, but don't hold your breath.

 

Asking for money back is generally a no no in punting world as it can cause aggravation, but it really depends on the escort. You're basically paying her for the time slot you booked and not necessarily the stuff you do during that time - even though it was cut short. Some ladies will be sympathetic and perhaps would've given you a partial refund, but I'm pretty sure a lot wouldn't.

 

To ask for a partial refund after she's left, is too late - after all you're not buying goods from a store to return; you're paying for someone's time. I think if she was more the sympathetic type, she'd have thought to give you some money back straight away, so to be honest - I doubt you will get any back.

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Respectfully she should have given you half of the money back but she must have seen you as a easy target.

 

The way i see it, an escort will never give you a free hour so why should we give them money for a free hour.

 

If i was you brush it off and learn by your mistake.

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I disagree, if you dont ask you will never know.

 

Yesterday went to see a WG paid £150 for an hour, i was having a few issues due to stress so i asked the WG if i could stay for 30mins. She replied back saying no problem and gave me £60 back.

 

I think the good one will have no issue giving money back.

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Thank you for your reply Earl Grey Man. If it makes any difference at all to the situation; I have the money to her boyfriend before the booking started (he went outside afterwards) and she has gotten in touch with me since then to see how I am.

MV

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Hi MV,

 

Sorry to hear you suddenly took ill - that's pretty bad timing. I hope everything turns out ok! I would certainly hope the escort would keep her side of the agreement and comes back when you're better, but don't hold your breath.

 

Asking for money back is generally a no no in punting world as it can cause aggravation, but it really depends on the escort. You're basically paying her for the time slot you booked and not necessarily the stuff you do during that time - even though it was cut short. Some ladies will be sympathetic and perhaps would've given you a partial refund, but I'm pretty sure a lot wouldn't.

 

To ask for a partial refund after she's left, is too late - after all you're not buying goods from a store to return; you're paying for someone's time. I think if she was more the sympathetic type, she'd have thought to give you some money back straight away, so to be honest - I doubt you will get any back.

id say your were lucky to getting the offer you did. id say dont push it.

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Yes, as above. If she was really sympathetic she would have given half back but perhaps her instinct never to return money got the better of her sense of fairness.

 

I really can't see her deciding to make an outcall for what will appear from her point of view to be for no payment when she wasn't responsible for the initial interruption. She might agree to something like a 90 minute meet and you paying for just an hour.

 

I think you have had a very unlucky start to your punting career. No one can say there won't be further hiccups but studying reviews on the two main punting sites can only help you take as much risk as possible out of the escort being a cause of a future problem.

 

Best wishes

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Thank you for your reply Earl Grey Man. If it makes any difference at all to the situation; I have the money to her boyfriend before the booking started (he went outside afterwards) and she has gotten in touch with me since then to see how I am.

MV

No problem, MV. But blimey, you definitely would be pushing your luck asking for any money back, especially in light of the fact that her boyfriend (or more likely her pimp) is dropping her off/picking her up.

 

Don't play with fire and it won't burn you.

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Don't you feel bad that you are paying him for her sexual work?

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I disagree, if you dont ask you will never know.

Yesterday went to see a WG paid £150 for an hour, i was having a few issues due to stress so i asked the WG if i could stay for 30mins. She replied back saying no problem and gave me £60 back.

I think the good one will have no issue giving money back.

The difference is you just shortened your booking there and then.

This man has come away from the booking and is now asking for money back AFTER the booking has finished.

To be honest OP I wouldn't bother asking it's pretty obvious it will be a no, if you wanted a refund you should've asked there and then not later on after the booking ended. We don't have a 28 day returns policy like the shops :D

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I completely missed that part about paying the bf.

 

I have seen more escorts than you have had hot dinners, as they say, and I have never given the money to anyone other than the escort or a parlour receptionist - and never been asked to over many decades.

 

If it happened that I was expected to do that I would have walked.

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Thank you for your reply Earl Grey Man. If it makes any difference at all to the situation; I have the money to her boyfriend before the booking started (he went outside afterwards) and she has gotten in touch with me since then to see how I am.

MV

Just seen this. So it's most likely the boyfriend is the pimp. Which means you 1000% won't get a refund.

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On a positive note I would suggest that you try for a repeat 2 hour booking and enquire whether she still feels able to make a partial refund against the cost of the booking. There is nothing in your original post to suggest that you were unhappy with the original meeting so a re-meet would be good for both of you if she is still happy to offset any refund. If not you can decide whether you still want to meet her again.

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You became ill , that is not the escorts fault im afraid , i highly doubt you will get any cash back

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Did she travel to you? If so then it might depend on the distance, and any minimum fee. She may have put aside other bookings and so might uphold her full fee.

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Hi All

I would like to ask for some advice please. I recently had my first meeting with an escort. Unfortunately due to me becoming unwell (it wasn't nerves) she had to leave approximately 45 minutes into our 2 hour booking. She kept the money and said she'd come back when I was better.

I'm going to see my doctor but I have a feeling it'll be a while before I'm back to 100%.

I must stress that the escort was not malicious or anything like that in any way at all.

My question is would I be wrong to ask for some of my money back (less the amount to cover her time of course)? If I am ok to, what would be the best way to phrase my request please?

I don't want to cause her any offense or upset.

Thank you in advance.

 

 

The optimum time to ask for a part refund has passed, (when you were in her company)  now that it has I think you're probably on the thin end of the wedge and by asking you may A/ Receive an answer you don't like and B/ Wind yourself up over the potential answer given and perhaps add to whatever illness it was that prevented you from continuing on? If the latter applies then step back, your health and well-being are infinitely more important.

 

You could always play the long game by keeping the escorts details and if/when you feel able to return to the scene and assuming you were ok with her before,  then perhaps identify yourself with a view to a further booking and ask if there anything she may be able to 'offer' to help ease the financial hit from the first time? 

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Thank you all for your advice, I really do appreciate it. Not that it makes a difference (and perhaps I should've known better but this was my first time, not that that's any excuse) but she asked me to pay her bf beforehand.

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@EnjoyEmily - you are right, stressing over this will probably only make me feel worse. Thank you

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Don't you feel bad that you are paying him for her sexual work?

That bit did annoy me 

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Thank you all for your advice, I really do appreciate it. Not that it makes a difference (and perhaps I should've known better but this was my first time, not that that's any excuse) but she asked me to pay her bf beforehand.

 

You come across as a really nice person and I am sorry to hear you had this problem.  The best would have been to ask for the money straight away and based on her response to take it from there.  At least now you have to option to ask her to come back, although many things can happen for either you or the girl.  Is a strange world where you will find lots of strange rules....... depending on a person's personality.  I sincerely wish you all the best.

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You come across as a really nice person and I am sorry to hear you had this problem.  The best would have been to ask for the money straight away and based on her response to take it from there.  At least now you have to option to ask her to come back, although many things can happen for either you or the girl.  Is a strange world where you will find lots of strange rules....... depending on a person's personality.  I sincerely wish you all the best.

But she didn't have the money, her pimp had already taken it and I expect he didn't much want to confront him! 

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Respectfully she should have given you half of the money back but she must have seen you as a easy target.

 

The way i see it, an escort will never give you a free hour so why should we give them money for a free hour.

 

If i was you brush it off and learn by your mistake.

With your attitude, no escort, not even the kindest ones, will ever give YOU a free hour.  Coincidentally, there was no free hour.  She travelled to his location.  

 

Personally, if the situation looked genuine and the client was in distress, I would voluntarily offer something back before he had to ask.  If he beat me to it and

asked, I'd give him back less than I would have offered of my own volition, just to reward him for his tackiness.  

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Thank you all for your advice, I really do appreciate it. Not that it makes a difference (and perhaps I should've known better but this was my first time, not that that's any excuse) but she asked me to pay her bf beforehand.

 

You did nothing wrong.  You were hostage to the situation.  She could have called the boy-friend/pimp and explained the situation.  But he'd probably be of the view of "tough luck", and there'd be little she could do about it.  If cash wasn't offered back to you there and then, you just accept it.  Ask her, if you don't particularly care about seeing her again.

 

I do hope you get well soon!  Your health is priceless compared to a wasted punt.

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I disagree, if you dont ask you will never know.

Yesterday went to see a WG paid £150 for an hour, i was having a few issues due to stress so i asked the WG if i could stay for 30mins. She replied back saying no problem and gave me £60 back.

I think the good one will have no issue giving money back.

You were very fortunate, and in my opinion rather cheeky for asking - the issues you had were your problem not the lady's. In my line of work if someone hires me for two hours and part way through stop me for any reason, they're still paying for two hours. I've arranged my day around their time slot, I've turned down other work that it would be too late to reschdule, so there's no way they're getting any kind of refund.

I don't see why it should be any different for an escort and if I cut short a meeting due to issues on my part, there is no way on earth I'd have the cheek to ask for any money back.

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Well said Nick 

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