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Escorts And Porn Have Broken Me Through Showing Me Unrealistic Expectations.

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In my case, I agree with my topic title and as such am reduced to wanking and/or visiting escorts.

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Well, thats nothing wring with that whatsoever   :D

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Agree, but why "reduced, surely it's "elevated".

 

It sounds like a balanced, satsifying and hassle-free sex life to me! What more could you wish for?

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That's one way of looking at it. The way I look at it, this lifestyle enables me to spend time with and have sex with some incredibly beautiful horny young women who wouldn't give me a second glance out in civvie land, and I've upped my game considerably with all the things I've tried in the past year or so, things my prudish girlfriends over the years would never consider. But yes, most women in civvie land are likely to be a little too vanilla for me now, so I guess there is no going back. Never mind eh!

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I think you will find girls as adventourous as you.

Its just they wouldn't advertise the fact

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In my case, I agree with my topic title and as such am reduced to wanking and/or visiting escorts.

This is so me, I feel like I have been on this inevitable path for the last 20 years when I first discovered porn. The problem is I feel I've now reached the top so will spend the rest of my time moving sideways trying to find different and more fulfilling highs but with real life experiences.

I only stated punting back in June yet I've tried and experienced more in 4 months than I have in all the years before and I know there is so much more to come and I can't wait to find it.

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It is one of the darkest secrets of sex that most women are crapp at it. We blokes are so grateful to get laid we rarely quibble at the quality. Escorts are professionals and are bloody good at what they offer.

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It is one of the darkest secrets of sex that most women are crapp at it. We blokes are so grateful to get laid we rarely quibble at the quality. Escorts are professionals and are bloody good at what they offer.

Umm I'd argue that applies to both sexes. Assuming every partner is the same, thinking that porn is representative of enjoyable for most sex, and lack of communication could be culprits.

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In my case, I agree with my topic title and as such am reduced to wanking and/or visiting escorts.

While this happens with a lot of people - seems people are scared of porn or that it leads to a negative way of life of guilt and frustration.

 

For me the single life, having no GF and visiting WG's makes life much simpler. Variety is the spice of life, I guess, but I just haven't met the right lady in life. I have no kids either, which leaves me with some financial freedom. Porn is a means to an end and certainly cheaper than visiting a WG lol but no way near the same level of physical satisfaction. You can beat an egg, but.....

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Shouldnt the title be "I have broken myself" as no one is forced to watch porn or forced to visit escorts x

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It is one of the darkest secrets of sex that most women are crapp at it. We blokes are so grateful to get laid we rarely quibble at the quality. Escorts are professionals and are bloody good at what they offer.

Is that going on the assumption that the men having sex with the women who are crap at it are actually good at it? Whats that saying about a bad workman...

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In my case, I agree with my topic title and as such am reduced to wanking and/or visiting escorts.

 

The alternative, for most men anyway, is infrequent and poor quality sex with a long-term partner who you are no longer attracted to. Your life ain't so bad, polly.

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I am more than happy to admit men are crap at sex, just that women are too.

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In my case, I agree with my topic title and as such am reduced to wanking and/or visiting escorts.

 

I've heard that a lot of lads under 25 think the correct way to have sex is to pull out just before you cum and finish all over their girlfriend's face. 

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I've heard that a lot of lads under 25 think the correct way to have sex is to pull out just before you cum and finish all over their girlfriend's face. 

 

Yes and it is such a problem that nurses are now going to sixth forms explaining to the boys that Porn is not real life as far as sex goes. 

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I've heard that a lot of lads under 25 think the correct way to have sex is to pull out just before you cum and finish all over their girlfriend's face.

That's not a new phenomenon, I came across a man ten years ago, 2 decades older than myself who thought the same.

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Is that going on the assumption that the men having sex with the women who are crap at it are actually good at it? Whats that saying about a bad workman...

I have learned a lot from escorts. Some WG can be very helpful in teaching new trickz. I may even be a better workman after having seen you Chloe. I certainly didnt know about the back of knees until you told me.

I have used the lessons to good effect.

Porn is a different matter, cant say i have learnt anything.

Porn is subject to the laws of diminishing returns. That has not been my experience of escorts.

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I've heard that a lot of lads under 25 think the correct way to have sex is to pull out just before you cum and finish all over their girlfriend's face.

This isn't an under 25 thing, I've seen more men double my age who think that's how it works!

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Is that going on the assumption that the men having sex with the women who are crap at it are actually good at it? Whats that saying about a bad workman...

always blames his "tool"  :D

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I have learned a lot from escorts. Some WG can be very helpful in teaching new trickz. I may even be a better workman after having seen you Chloe. I certainly didnt know about the back of knees until you told me.

I have used the lessons to good effect.

As an utterly boring vanilla bloke with an oh-so predictable focus on the usual orifices, I've never even heard of the perversion to which you refer.

 

Do you rate it as one of those things you should try before you peg out?

 

Perhaps you, or better still Chloe, would care to elaborate further? With diagrams if necessary.

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Yes and it is such a problem that nurses are now going to sixth forms explaining to the boys that Porn is not real life as far as sex goes. 

 

Well no........ unless you book an escort that offers a PSE  ;) ;)

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In my case, I agree with my topic title and as such am reduced to wanking and/or visiting escorts.

Nope they havent, though your use of "reduced" speaks volumes. Your attitude towards sex is yours, a wank can be glorious, visiting a sex worker sublime. That you see it otherwise is about your issues, nothing else. 

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I've heard that a lot of lads under 25 think the correct way to have sex is to pull out just before you cum and finish all over their girlfriend's face. 

 

and the problem is?  :P

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It is one of the darkest secrets of sex that most women are crapp at it. We blokes are so grateful to get laid we rarely quibble at the quality. Escorts are professionals and are bloody good at what they offer.

 

It's a thought worth considering that escorts are likely to be women who enjoy sex. There may be those who grit their teeth, spread their legs and think about something else for the duration but I'd guess that they wouldn't stick it for long. Professional escorts surely enjoy the money but if it were really such a horrible experience for them, there are other ways of making a living.

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"Escorts And Porn Have Broken Me Through Showing Me Unrealistic Expectations." Really?

 

I've seen Maseratis and Lamborghinis but I drive around in my old Ford and I don't worry about it. I don't cry myself to sleep over not flying first class or eating at Michelin-starred restaurants. I have enough and that's...well, enough for me!

 

Maybe it's the "Unrealistic Expectations" that are your problem, not escorts and porn. I know which I'd ditch first!

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