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Has Punting Shaped Your Life?

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As a long term punter (25 years) it definately has for me.

Paid sex is definately engrained in my own sexual psyche these days.

I would say in a good way as well!:-)

 

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Definitely - more than forty years in my case.

 

No regrets.

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Having been a widower for more than a dozen years, it has definitely helped to fill a gap. 

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3 hours ago, Moonraker said:

Having been a widower for more than a dozen years, it has definitely helped to fill a gap

I'm not sure whether you wanted a play on words there.

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i have given me a raison d'etre again. 

And i have met some lovely ladies too. 

 

not sure how I could have got through the last 5-6 years without punting.

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I'd put it the other way round - my life has shaped my punting. 

The circumstances of my life - family, employment, location and resources - have fed into my long-standing interest in pursuing as diverse a range of sexual experiences (paid and unpaid) as possible.

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It's taught me that you cannot tell who is or isn't paying for sex. Men of all status, occupation, income, appearance, success.

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Well Ruth you're absolutely right esp.  about the blokes. You can't always tell about the providers either I've found quite by accident.

I booked a session with a woman advertising in my local paper recently and found a lovely girl from the checkout of my local supermarket. Evenings only!

Now that was a total score. Everything in my life has changed for the better. since I began punting. I'm more smiley and happy and kinder to my fellow humans.

 

Uncle Pokey

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3 hours ago, Strawberry said:

It's taught me that you cannot tell who is or isn't paying for sex. Men of all status, occupation, income, appearance, success.

 

2 hours ago, Uncle Pokey said:

Well Ruth you're absolutely right esp.  about the blokes. You can't always tell about the providers either I've found quite by accident.

I booked a session with a woman advertising in my local paper recently and found a lovely girl from the checkout of my local supermarket. Evenings only!

Now that was a total score. Everything in my life has changed for the better. since I began punting. I'm more smiley and happy and kinder to my fellow humans.

 

Uncle Pokey

Spot on, both of you. I couldn't begin to imagine the diversity among the women I was going to meet once I started on this path and how far from the casual stereotype most have been. One or two have amazed me in going above and beyond the call of duty: a lady recently got to me despite severe rail disruptions, foul weather and other distractions. She simply said she would have hated to let me down.

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It has given a new dimension to my life. The planning  has given me a focus away from work. The sheer physical joy of a good punt has been liberating.

At the beginning i felt I had entered a dodgy fair, full of a mix of exhilerating but potentially dangerous rides, some tepid and disappointing rides, and others far better than I expected.

I have also had some fascinating conversations. 

12 months on, still lots of questions to ask, and things to learn. 

 

 

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4 hours ago, Strawberry said:

It's taught me that you cannot tell who is or isn't paying for sex. Men of all status, occupation, income, appearance, success.

and women.  from quite savvy business women to girls whose life just seems to be chaos.  I saw one girl who was wearing a bail tag on her leg! 

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For the last nearly 20 years I have organised most of the rest of my life around my punting and sex life generally.

Completely changed my view of women, mainly the boring ones not the girls who are almost exclusively fantastic, and not just because I pay them to **** me. Because the women that choose the life have more going for them and give more. There are arses but not many, compared to the rest of the population

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Im so glad im not the only long term hobbiest!

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I wouldn't say 'shaped my life' as late have I loved her...but definitely enhanced my life. I mean what's not enhancing about enjoying fucking and enjoying the many pleasures of a quality WG's company!

Before I entered the naughty world of punting I read an article where a guy lamented that as a 50 year old he would never again enjoy the tight pussy of a 20 something and I thought he could [or I could] if he visited an escort and then I thought bloody hell - NSA, beautiful women, and dived in and have never looked back! :)

...my only regret....not jumping in sooner but I can live with this regret as am making up for lost time....

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I only started fairly recently; my work involves a good deal of travel with a team of folk so few chances for a punt while away. The travel is a downer as far as a permanent relationship is concerned so I punt while in the UK and it works very well for me.

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It did not shape me but as my partners told me, I learned there are not many like me: I used to call myself abnormal because of this :lol:

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Absolutely: it has set me free from the need to cater to any civilian woman's whims.  It has also let me know a world that is not as shady as the media depict it.

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I could never have stayed married and provided a stable home for my children if I hadn't been able to have a life punting.  Life with the wife would have been unbearable.  I am sure she has benefited as well, firstly because I can cope with the pressure of married life better, and especially when we were younger I brought all sorts of more innovations into our sex life home from the working girls.  Done 25 years so far and looking forward to 2016! 

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4 minutes ago, Beast said:

I could never have stayed married and provided a stable home for my children if I hadn't been able to have a life punting.  Life with the wife would have been unbearable.  I am sure she has benefited as well, firstly because I can cope with the pressure of married life better, and especially when we were younger I brought all sorts of more innovations into our sex life home from the working girls.  Done 25 years so far and looking forward to 2016! 

So you bring a new activity into your home sex life and she doesn't ask 'where did you learn to do THAT?!!'

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6 hours ago, Coventrypunter said:

So you bring a new activity into your home sex life and she doesn't ask 'where did you learn to do THAT?!!'

" Darling I was reading 'The Good Sex Guide' because you deserve more than I've been giving and there's this thing we might try......"

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After 12 years of using WG services it is now very much an established part of my lifestyle rather than just an outlet for the occasional desperate need for sex. It has greatly enhanced my post-relationships life not just by providing me with so much sexual fun and pleasure but also the opportunity to meet and enjoy the company of so many different, interesting and so often quite enchanting women. An opportunity that I would never have had otherwise. It has definitely made me a happier person than I would have been without that experience. Thank you Ladies.

I fully intend to keep following this path until the BIG ORGASM stops me.

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God only knows how some of my friends survive without punting :

The single ones who are permanently skint from paying maintenance for kids / a house the ex-wife and kids live in and a dingy flat for themselves so can't afford a punt.

The single macho ones "I would NEVER fucking pay for it" brigade who spend large sums of money and waste endless hours in bars and nightclubs trying to chat up girls in the wrong (younger) age range and end up with desperate old trouts.

The pussywhipped ones either married or in a relationship who are constantly trying to please their significant other in order to receive their monthly sex ration.

The married ones sleeping in the spare room / on the sofa for some minor  misdemeanour that has been disproportionally bigged-up by the wife. 

 

Jesus...  long may I have a small amount of disposable income for punting and the ability to get a hard on.

 

 

 

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It's not the sex you pay for but for walking away afterwards..........  best ever signature and it made my day :D

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Superb sex, superb sexual technique, humour, stamina, brilliant conversation, familiarity with the body very beautiful -

 

I hope the ladies appreciate all these qualities I have provided for them.

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Oh it most certainly *has* ... LOL.

Not only has it provided me with an interesting career for many years, it saved me from the tedium of being a legal secretary and gave my broad mind an even broader slant.

It totally changed my mind in relation to "stereotypical" Working Girls.

Certainly that not all punters are dirty old men (although I've met a fair few in me time, LOL)

AND it provided me with a wonderful best-girlfriend in the gloriously mad Katrina. I can't imagine life without her :wub:

So many things (good and bad) and so many people wouldn't have happened to me as a result of being involved in punting.

Oooo I could write a book! haha

Edited by Tina Thanet

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