Malmostoso

Leaving fees on furniture

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Ladies, do you find it distasteful -- or even offensive -- when clients leave the money on furniture instead of directly into your hands?  For I have read elsewhere a comment by an escort that directly criticized this practice. As you will infer, this is something that I do (and I had never given it a second thought).  Thanks for your feedback.

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Is this for incalls or outcalls, out of curiosity?

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Malmostoso, a good question and I hope it prompts some interesting feedback  as its something I often do; especially with regulars and normally at the end of the session. It just seems more discrete than shoving a load of notes in her hand and leaving; which I think is quite demeaning especially with someone you have known intimately many many times.

I know the meeting has been a business transaction and needs to be considered as one by keeping any personal involvement very distant. Maybe it says more about me than anything, but I want to leave feeling good about the meet and not a little sullied by shoving cash at her and thinking "thanks love, but you only saw me because I paid you" ( I know that's the reality of it, but this is meant to be my GFE fantasy  and I don't want to destroy that illusion).

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I always ask for it upfront, so you wouldn't have the option anyway.

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I personally don't like it, it's not happened to me many times though. But when it does I don't like it as I've forgotten it once (outcall) and it makes me feel as though they're ashamed of paying. 

 

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I've only ever done this with a regular because after a few visits she told me to leave it on the bedside table and it became the norm.

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8 hours ago, SweetSummers said:

Is this for incalls or outcalls, out of curiosity?

Incalls.  Anyway, I meant that I leave the money somewhere  before we start.

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5 hours ago, KayHerts said:

I always ask for it upfront, so you wouldn't have the option anyway.

It goes both ways: if an escort asked for payment as soon as I arrived, then I would leave immediately. I never part with my money before she has confirmed what we agreed upon by phone.

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I've only done this once - after an overnight when I had to wake early and go to a meeting and the girl was still fast asleep and I didn't have the heart to wake her. We'd forgotten about the money the night before, so I left it on top of one of her items of discarded clothing (with I, like to think, a charming note) where I knew she'd be sure to find it.we spoke later in the day and had a bit of a chuckle about it, so all was well.

Normally, I just give the cash straight into the hand of whoever I am seeing at the earliest opportunity and don't give it another thought.

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For what it's worth, I nearly always put the money on the side counter (or whatever other piece of furniture), and point out that is where I have left it : it just seems more discreet and less in your face. I've never had any complaints (except when a regular left my place having completely forgotten about the money, I think because we'd both had such a good time).

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7 minutes ago, visconti said:

For what it's worth, I nearly always put the money on the side counter (or whatever other piece of furniture), and point out that is where I have left it : it just seems more discreet and less in your face.

That is exactly what I do, and for the same reason.

I've never had any complaints

Never have I, but then maybe escorts just decided to say nothing.  I doubt that the escort that wrote that disapproving comment reproached her clients for engaging in such behaviour.

(except when a regular left my place having completely forgotten about the money, I think because we'd both had such a good time).

Unfortunately, I am a lousy lover, hence nothing like that has ever happened to me.  The closest I got was when I forgot to pay a regular upfront, and she reminded me before I left.

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Depends.  sometimes I leave it on the side and tell her where it is. maybe when she is busy undressing or something.  sometimes i tuck it in her bra or pants.

I am seeing a WG and paying is part of it.  its not a date.

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I prefer it when someone gives it directly to me. I only have to pick it up and count it so what's the point of being coy about it? With long term regs I trust they may just leave it somewhere and I won't even check it, but it takes time to build up to that level of trust.

I find with outcalls American clients especially often just leave it on the side so I have to say 'Ooh is that for me?' because just picking up a pile of someones money unprompted is weird, but I know it's how the Americans do it (due to differences in law) so I go along with it.

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I don't care, so long as it's upfront, and the correct amount.

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It's usually put directly into my hand, so I don't have a ton of experience with the latter. That said, long as it was put out before I went to get drinks so I could take it with me, I wouldn't be bothered. 

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Only punting with my regular lady these days, I put it in an envelope and hand it to her, together with a small gift, as we kiss hello.

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Envelope or just the cash given to me directly please 

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I realize this was addressed to the girls, but I cannot help repeating that, for me, paying is part of the pleasure. When a girl has a thick wad of twenties in one hand and my cock in the other and we have our tongues down each others' throats... the world is perfect.

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I still prefer to enclose the cash in a (usually) humorous card and hand it over at the start. With regulars it's a pleasant task to try to find the 'right' joke, or to trawl places like 'New Yorker' and make the cards up from scratch. The the lady can count, or wait until I'm in the loo, or whatever she prefers.

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I have no problem with this, however I do prefer to count it at some point. The only clients I'd be not thinking "Hope it's the right amount" would be those I've seen so many times that it would outweigh the chance that it isn't.

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8 hours ago, pabulum said:

I still prefer to enclose the cash in a (usually) humorous card and hand it over at the start. With regulars it's a pleasant task to try to find the 'right' joke, or to trawl places like 'New Yorker' and make the cards up from scratch. The the lady can count, or wait until I'm in the loo, or whatever she prefers.

Wow! I'm impressed. You really know how to treat a girl!

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Oh yes indeed! There are many uses for the giant-sized Pritt Stick :cool:

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With regulars, it is never asked for upfront we are too busy catching up (or getting on with it) and in those cases I leave it in a prominent place while we are both getting dressed afterwards. With new girls- always up front

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I only do this with my regulars when handing over the cash becomes a bit of a embarrassment. However I always make sure its all there.

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You could go into full fun mode and slip it down the side of the sofa. When she asks for it be all cute and cheeky and tell her so see if she can find it whilst playfully pulling on your knob with a twinkle in your eye, I hear that goes down especially well in the run up to new year

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