robert49

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I understand that many ladies don't much like this but feel forced to accept it by popular demand.

I've always liked the concept but maybe ONSE (One night stand experience would be a better idea).  So many punts are once only and in my experience that first (because you don't know at the time it will be the last) night is so fucking exciting.

A better fantasy surely.

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I really enjoy GFE - I can honestly say I've had the best sex in my life since I chose to do this.... and I've had some terrible one night stands :(

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Better wording.
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Do many women not like doing GFE? I didn't realise this. Surely it's pretty much standard- the stuff people tend to feel more strongly about not doing are the less 'GFE' things such as anal, domination or watersports. 

I also doubt most women would want to push the One Night Stand Experience because we want clients to come back and become regular customers! 

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I'm also a lover of GFE, it comes natural to me so I really enjoy those kind of bookings. I also enjoy the more extreme aswell though! 

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I'll come clean,  I read this in a thread on the pink site where I often go for a reality check.  Many there don't seem to like their bread and butter much.

I'm glad to hear a different view.

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I think 'the pink site' is a place for escorts to have a whinge and share experiences. I'm sure if you went looking at a forum for dentists or shop staff or estate agents they would all talk about the annoying things their clients do and say things that they don't much like doing. Also it is a place to go to have a moan or a laugh about the job with those who understand. Kind of annoys me that clients go nosing there tbh. 

Incidentally I don't think there is much in the way of complaining about GFE on there specifically- just acts of it they don't like doing with certain types of clients. 

 

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1 hour ago, MinxyLydia said:

I think 'the pink site' is a place for escorts to have a whinge and share experiences. I'm sure if you went looking at a forum for dentists or shop staff or estate agents they would all talk about the annoying things their clients do and say things that they don't much like doing. Also it is a place to go to have a moan or a laugh about the job with those who understand. Kind of annoys me that clients go nosing there tbh. 

Incidentally I don't think there is much in the way of complaining about GFE on there specifically- just acts of it they don't like doing with certain types of clients. 

 

Absolutely agree!

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10 hours ago, MinxyLydia said:

I think 'the pink site' is a place for escorts to have a whinge and share experiences. I'm sure if you went looking at a forum for dentists or shop staff or estate agents they would all talk about the annoying things their clients do and say things that they don't much like doing. Also it is a place to go to have a moan or a laugh about the job with those who understand. Kind of annoys me that clients go nosing there tbh. 

Incidentally I don't think there is much in the way of complaining about GFE on there specifically- just acts of it they don't like doing with certain types of clients. 

 

It's like being the eunuch in the harem, which I kind of like as a fantasy. Seeing you all chatting away and not being able to intervene. I've always thought a job of that kind would be fun: a hair stylist, say, who can listen to women chatting among themselves all day.

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Eh? It's what I do, there wasn't any pressure - I just did what I do, that's it!

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Is there a problem with GFE ? I would have thought it would of been the least stressful and onerous of all the different scenarios that I could imagine. Just a vanilla service surely. 

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Is there a good GFE/DFK (with large natural boobs) in London? Not a one-off but looking for a regular GFE as I think the experience could improve as we progress with subsequent visits. PM me if necessary ;)

Also looking for similar that would do outcalls to me in SE London. Anybody know of one? Thx.

 

 

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1 hour ago, ronn said:

Is there a good GFE/DFK (with large natural boobs) in London? Not a one-off but looking for a regular GFE as I think the experience could improve as we progress with subsequent visits. PM me if necessary ;)

Also looking for similar that would do outcalls to me in SE London. Anybody know of one? Thx.

 

 

Try the London forum and maybe be a little more specific

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What makes you say that we don't like GFE much?I personally would not offer a GFE which is very much what my service is if I didn't like it.I much prefer a sensual,passionate booking with lots of kissing,stroking and cuddling than something cold mechanical and possibly rough.

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17 hours ago, robert49 said:

I'll come clean,  I read this in a thread on the pink site where I often go for a reality check.  Many there don't seem to like their bread and butter much.

I'm glad to hear a different view.

And I should imagine nosying on a site which is aimed for sex workers NOT punters you will read posts out of context and about the wankers that book us not decent clients who we do enjoy seeing.It actually quite annoys me when non sex workers go reading this site and take posts on there which are nothing to do with them and usually out of context and decide it must apply to all clients and all sex workers.As lydia mentioned there are forums for different types of service would you feel so sensitive if you read those and indeed so interested in reading them?

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1 minute ago, Bibi said:

And I should imagine nosying on a site which is aimed for sex workers NOT punters you will read posts out of context and about the wankers that book us not decent clients who we do enjoy seeing.It actually quite annoys me when non sex workers go reading this site and take posts on there which are nothing to do with them and usually out of context and decide it must apply to all clients and all sex workers.

I agree. It's a place we go to moan and report any warnings, so of course the majority of posts are going to be less than positive. 

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I imagine that people who go seeking negative things on 'the pink site' will find them.Threads such as 'Describe your most pleasant client' or 'What makes you happy about escorting' never get referred to or cause quite the same stir do they?

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3 hours ago, Bibi said:

I imagine that people who go seeking negative things on 'the pink site' will find them.Threads such as 'Describe your most pleasant client' or 'What makes you happy about escorting' never get referred to or cause quite the same stir do they?

I do read the positive threads as well but stand by my assertion that it's a good reality check for punters.  I imagine the problem for some girls with GFE is that some punters can't understand the difference between their fantasy and reality. 

I find the Saafe site very interesting, and not as nasty to punters as the other punter site is to WG's.   I don't know but I imagine that this site was started for the benefit of punters and is now a happy mix. 

Anyway, I'm quite happy to have my kuckles rapped if anyone feels the need but I will carry on looking in. 

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If an escort was not enjoying my company, believe me I'd know it! I don't expect the lady to pretend to be my girlfriend for the hour just because I asked for a gfe. It should just be natural. Friendly chit chat, petting etc. That's a gfe. I'd call it more accurately a FWBE or " friends with benefits experience " if you want to get technical. 

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Please excuse my ignorance but what is the 'pink site'?

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I would assume the pink site is SAAFE, it has a pink background.

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15 hours ago, Strawberry said:

I would assume the pink site is SAAFE, it has a pink background.

Now that you are telling... Until now I thought people meant AdultWork and confused pink with purple... I already wonder why people talked about the pink site.

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I hate gfe. Its such a slack term and it tends to mean whatever the person saying it means.

Guys. We are seeing wg's. The experience is nothing like civvie sex. So I look for a WGE.

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I would bet that the ladies who complain about GFE would be happy to provide it if clients were more aware/respectful of boundaries.  I can't believe how many experiences i read where clients clearly mistake performance for reality.

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1 hour ago, Malmostoso said:

I would bet that the ladies who complain about GFE would be happy to provide it if clients were more aware/respectful of boundaries.  I can't believe how many experiences i read where clients clearly mistake performance for reality.

I don't complain about GFE but I would agree with this. 

Many clients seem to think they're the special one and the only one getting good treatment and that it must be more than it is. It's really annoying how many believe just because you are nice to them and you provide a great service that all of a sudden there is some attraction involved, what they need to realise is we are the same with every other punter who walks through the door, it's called good service! :) 

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36 minutes ago, TightYoungEbony said:

I don't complain about GFE but I would agree with this. 

Many clients seem to think they're the special one and the only one getting good treatment and that it must be more than it is. It's really annoying how many believe just because you are nice to them and you provide a great service that all of a sudden there is some attraction involved, what they need to realise is we are the same with every other punter who walks through the door, it's called good service! :) 

And don't we all like a good service!  :)

 

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