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DirtyGit

Threesome (FFM) advice please?

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Hi,

Over the weekend, I had my first threesome (it was a Valentines present to myself, what can I say lol) The girls came as a package (they work together) and as it was my first one, I just let them take charge on the whole affair. Initially I was disappointed as there was no lesbian action, which I did expect as they were both listed as bi-sexual., but soon got over it. I didn't get into it that much (I wanted to get the first one out of the way) but I'm planning on going back to see them next weekend. If I'm honest, I fancied one more than the other, but feel I had better chemistry with the other one. I wanted some advice from all you lovely people to ensure I (and hopefully the girls) have a good time. In particular I'd be grateful if you could answer the following:-

1) I want to do various stuff to both of them (namely sex and rimming) This may seem obvious, but what are the rules on health and hygiene?

2) As said previously, I fancied one more but had better chemistry with the other. Are there "rules" about paying one more attention than the other, or should I aim to give 50/50 attention (pls remember they're non-interactive)

3) As said before, I wanted to see some lesbian action (to start with, before I join in). In future, are there any "tell tale" signs from a profile that says that they will interact with each other (I've seen several ads saying they're 2 girl, but nothing specific that says whether they do or do not interact with eachother.

Also, any additional advice anyone hs to offer would be appreciated.

 

 

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Your point 2 is one of the reasons I was not all that happy with the two threesomes I had.

As for 3, really I would expect it. The whiole point, surely, is everyone mucking in together.

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I'm fairly sure this subject has been discussed before, it might be worth a bit of searching.

I think your experience is not untypical, but I'd always suggest that an MFF is worth considering, even if only once, just that it should be understood that there is a greater risk that the chemistry will not work in all the directions desired given the involvement of three rather than two.

Research prior to meeting in terms of selecting who to see is important, and certainly meet one if not both prior to the MFF itself would be my principal suggestion.

I have tried MFFs a couple of times, the experience was a bit mixed, but there were one or two moments that will forever be etched in my memory :) B)

 

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This is only exciting if the participants interact.  I was lucky, one of my first experiences was with two girls (one white and one black) in a parlour in Leeds (Pusseycats), these girls were lovely and were interested in giving each other a good time as well as me.  on a subsequent occasion I spent time with two older women and just took turns fucking them - very boring.  Then a go with two dirty girls which ended up with one of them with a strap-on and one girl being DPd followed by me arse fucking one whilst being 'done' in the arse by the girl with the strap-on - very exciting.  Other threesomes have been MMF, which on the whole I would recommend!

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I would endorse the Vicar's recommendation above, that it is worthwhile seeing, if possible, both girls separately before setting up the thresome - that way you  get to know how you will gel with each.

Of course, it is difficult to know in advance how the girls will react together, especially how far they will engage with one another sexually. In my (not hugely extensive) experience of threesomes parlours and independents have been more reliable than agencies. Independents often indicate other girls they like,to work with and that can be a good starting point and quite often there is a rapport between girls who work together in a parlour. I've found agencies less reliable even when they indicate that certain girls 'like' to work together - it's probably marketing driven than real. 

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In general, I agree on the point about agencies wanting to 'market their wares' (so to speak) and therefore be liberal with 'the truth'.  However, I've done 20 or so agency duos over the years and (as someone has mentioned) if you get to know the individual girls separately, they should be able to tell you who the 'best' pairings (for lesbian action) will be.  I've certainly found one or two outstanding pairings (some no longer available).

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Thanks for the replies everyone.

I'm glad that I'm not the only one who felt a bit short-changed that there was no lesbian action. I won't bother pushing the matter with these girls, but will probably mention that this is something I want to see in future bookings.

So the general advice is to research the girls and see them separately, and see how I get on with them? It makes sense if you see it advertised in parlours that they do a lesbian show it's a safe bet? The only thing was they were advertised together, so naturally assumed they were humping each other senseless when they weren't "working". I guess it's true what they say about assumptions... to assume just makes an ass out of u and me

I'll let you know how it goes next weekend, but by the sounds of things it may be a while till the next ménage a trois lol.

P.S. Unfortunately, a threesome with another guy doesn't appeal to me (I'm a selfish mofo lol). It's a shame for me,  because I seem to get propositioned by couples for this quite a lot in the civvy world.

 

 

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That experience sounds typical to me. I was expecting the full porn experience but what I got was a lot of chatting between the girls and just taking turns on each one. Once the reality set In of what was likely I was able to have a better time on subsequent punts. You kind of have to take it as a bit of a laugh with the girls and be prepared to direct them with what you want them to do. And as already advised get to know the girls individually if you can so you have a rapport built up.

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With threesomes of any kind there are so many permutations it's definitely worth having a clear plan of action in your head, or maybe take one of those whiteboards in with you that they use in meetings, so you can tick them off as you go.

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Threesomes (MFF) have been a mixed bag for me. Only two stand out.

(1) Me in one girl's bum while the other girl licked her out.

(2) "Would you like to see me with my friend? She's 8 months pregnant and very horny." Both parts of this were an understatement.

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DG, no-one has mentioned hygiene. The girls may wish to change condoms, to limit exchange of fluids between each. I can not imagine girl A would want to be penetrated if you were wsaring a condom that you used for anal with girl B. Equaly, you may want to think about timing. Girl A may not want a snog after you have rimmed girl B.

My one experience of 3some was great, the 3rd partner was chosen by a girl i had seen before.They enjoyed each other's company, as well as mine  . At least i hope they enjoyed my efforts.  much sex and laughter.

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On 18/2/2016 at 11:43 PM, exerter said:

Threesomes (MFF) have been a mixed bag for me. Only two stand out.

(1) Me in one girl's bum while the other girl licked her out.

(2) "Would you like to see me with my friend? She's 8 months pregnant and very horny." Both parts of this were an understatement.

Oddly enough, something similar happened to me. I very much wanted to see Girl A, but there were last-minute timing issues, which meant I most uncharacteristically had to do just half an hour. She didn't want to come just for that, so she said she'd throw in her friend who was pretty much that far gone as well. Maddest punt I've ever had - a 30-minute threesome. My feet hardly touched the ground.

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