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Had a question regarding whether the manner of dressing for escorts has caused any embarrassment (minor or major) when wgs do outcalls? I normally arrange for outcalls to my house at around 11pm or midnight. I live alone in a mid-terrace, so the wg coming to my abode is not really a problem. However, I do value discretion and sometimes, the way they are dressed leaves me wincing slightly. These are pleasant girls and of a decent standard, but my god, I just hope my neighbours are ensconced in bed and not happen to be near the window when the ladies arrive, because the way some of them dress, it would be as plain as day that these are working girls. The clearly audible clacking of their highs heels on the concrete forecourt leading up to the door, doesn't help either. The last one who came last week, if her "mini" skirt was any shorter, it would have to be termed a micro skirt. That and the towering heels even in very cold weather. Is that necessary? I tried speaking to the agency a while ago and asked if the girls I had requested could ratchet it down a bit; hasn't really worked though.

A while ago, I made the 'mistake' of requesting a wg during the day. I thought it a little bit risqué, but thought what the hell, I was quite attracted to this particular one. I did clearly ask the agency to request her to tone it down as she would be coming in light of day. Alas, when she arrived, she had jeans so tight they looked like they were painted on, as the saying goes, the lower part of her midriff was quite exposed and of course, the obligatory high heels. Suffice it to say that she it didn't looking like a female friend stopping by for a chat and a coffee.

I know some men like the whole prozzy get-up, but clearly to some punters, discretion is important, at least up till the outside of the front door. Have you had to deal with this before and how did you resolve it?

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It can be difficult to reach a happy medium on a daytime appointment,  armed with a clipboard, pair of glasses and looking a bit market research may not altogether work as an appeitizer to the clent (ok, it might, but it's surely not to everyones liking) 

Nightime with heels, if it's as late as you state then heels should be dispensed with, i certainly wouldn't wear them so late on.

If you're using the same agency it may be that they don't communicate your requests to the girl attending your home to tone it down a little dress wise, may be worth your while making your specific requests with the agency just that little bit clearer like.

I guess for a daytime, pair of ladders, chamois and a bucket might pass for a girl to visit you incognito of sorts  :D

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I think it is a fairly normal request for escorts to dress down if they are visiting your house due to the neighbours. Not great that the agency is not instructing the girls of your request on this. Would it be worth trying another agency?

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I wear clothes which are smart and attractive, without being indiscrete. This means I will refuse to wear tiny skirts/low cut tops for outcalls. 

 

My vehicle is also quite ordinary, or I use public transport. 

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I'm always dressed smart casual, I'm an outcall girl so fully understand the need for discretion when turning up at a clients home.

i carry my big "escort bag" with the real outfit and equipment in there for once I get inside! ;)

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Thanks for the replies. These women always use a car/driver, so it's all door to door. That may explain the reason they dress the way they do. As some have suggested, I'll try and make my demands more explicit on booking.

 

I suppose it's us truly a case of different strokes for different strokes as to people want their escorts to dress for a 'date'. For me I'm a simple guy; a gal in a pair of wedges and jeans and a simple short leather jacket would certainly do it for me, plus it's something a girl can wear on the street and not really attract adverse attention. :)

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It doesn't matter if it's door to door, which if I use a driver isn't the case, I still dress the same. Similar for incalls. 

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17 hours ago, EnjoyEmily said:

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I guess for a daytime, pair of ladders, chamois and a bucket might pass for a girl to visit you incognito of sorts  :D

Don't get me started! Can you just imagine all the extra costs the wg would tag onto the bill for having to haul all that extra equipment to the 'date'??? :D:D

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When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG so my clients get black business type trousers and a normalish top- unless is winter and I can wear a coat over something more low cut. I wear plain black boots with not much of a heel- also so I can walk and if need be run away (or run for the bus on my way home!).

I have stockings and suspenders on underneath and a short skirt and heels in my bag and ask the client if he'd like me to change into them- some do and some don't. I always tell them that I shall be dressed very conservatively and I think most men appreciate this.

I think being well made up, hair looking lovely and a nice smile and a naughty glint in the eye is enough for most men to appreciate a woman on arrival. It doesn't take overtly sexual dressing to make a promising first impression.

I don't know what is so hard for women not to do this, seems blindingly obvious! 

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49 minutes ago, MinxyLydia said:

When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG so my clients get black business type trousers and a normalish top- unless is winter and I can wear a coat over something more low cut. I wear plain black boots with not much of a heel- also so I can walk and if need be run away (or run for the bus on my way home!).

I have stockings and suspenders on underneath and a short skirt and heels in my bag and ask the client if he'd like me to change into them- some do and some don't. I always tell them that I shall be dressed very conservatively and I think most men appreciate this.

I think being well made up, hair looking lovely and a nice smile and a naughty glint in the eye is enough for most men to appreciate a woman on arrival. It doesn't take overtly sexual dressing to make a promising first impression.

I don't know what is so hard for women not to do this, seems blindingly obvious! 

Now you've spoilt it!

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Some of my Heathrow bookings are right by a bus stop that takes me almost home and run 24/7. I just can't bring myself to pay for a cab that I'd have to wait longer for and cost 10x as much! 

I do get cabs to bookings so am not grubby and dishevelled though! :)

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3 hours ago, MinxyLydia said:

When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG so my clients get black business type trousers and a normalish top- unless is winter and I can wear a coat over something more low cut. I wear plain black boots with not much of a heel- also so I can walk and if need be run away (or run for the bus on my way home!).

I have stockings and suspenders on underneath and a short skirt and heels in my bag and ask the client if he'd like me to change into them- some do and some don't. I always tell them that I shall be dressed very conservatively and I think most men appreciate this.

I think being well made up, hair looking lovely and a nice smile and a naughty glint in the eye is enough for most men to appreciate a woman on arrival. It doesn't take overtly sexual dressing to make a promising first impression.

I don't know what is so hard for women not to do this, seems blindingly obvious! 

True. The paradox less is more comes to mind.

I could be wrong, but I think when a WG looks more like an escort than a hooker, clients will automatically have a higher regard for her and treat her with more respect.

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On 23/02/2016 at 7:51 PM, EnjoyEmily said:

It can be difficult to reach a happy medium on a daytime appointment,  armed with a clipboard, pair of glasses and looking a bit market research may not altogether work as an appeitizer to the clent (ok, it might, but it's surely not to everyones liking) 

Nightime with heels, if it's as late as you state then heels should be dispensed with, i certainly wouldn't wear them so late on.

If you're using the same agency it may be that they don't communicate your requests to the girl attending your home to tone it down a little dress wise, may be worth your while making your specific requests with the agency just that little bit clearer like.

I guess for a daytime, pair of ladders, chamois and a bucket might pass for a girl to visit you incognito of sorts  :D

I'm now thinking wet chamois covering ample bodywork.  :ph34r:

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On 26/02/2016 at 0:10 PM, MinxyLydia said:

When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG

Hang on, what do working girls look like then?   Is there a particular 'look' I should be trying to avoid? achieve?

 

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16 hours ago, EnjoyEmily said:

Hang on, what do working girls look like then?   Is there a particular 'look' I should be trying to avoid? achieve?

 

Well I meant the stereotype of an escort- very short skirt, stockings showing, high heels, low top etc. Not that that look is limited to escorts, but this is about being discreet not a debate on what a working girl looks like! 

I just explained why and how I choose to dress in a low key way when I go to an outcall because it works best for me and I believe my clients appreciate it. If you don't want to that's your call! You're bright enough to decided for yourself without me explaining! 

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I recall in the mid-90s, when I used to travel to Manchester periodically, I saw a girl several times who arrived wearing a business type trouser suit and carrying one of those metal box style brief cases. She just looked like a business type guest or someone visiting the hotel for a meeting.  This struck me as a very sensible approach.

My other thought is making snap judgements can get you into trouble. Readers may recall the BBC series some years ago about the Liverpool Adelphi hotel. It had this famously objectionable battleaxe manageress.

In one episode she chucked out of the hotel a woman who was wearing a very short dress, thinking she was one of the local fille de join.  It transpired the lady just liked wearing 60's gear and she successfully sued the hotel for the humiliation and damage to her reputation.

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On 26/02/2016 at 0:10 PM, MinxyLydia said:

When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG 

11 hours ago, MinxyLydia said:

 Well I meant the stereotype of an escort- very short skirt, stockings showing, high heels, low top etc

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How nice, in a few short strokes of your keyboard and with such a sweeping comment as

When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG 

you've lumped all other working girls into one catergory and one you then expand when pressed as being

Well I meant the stereotype of an escort- very short skirt, stockings showing, high heels, low top etc

That isn't a stereotypical escort, it's more your own dated perception most likely borne from you watching too many re-runs of Pretty Woman :D  

I'm reasonably sure things have moved on just a tad since the days of glitz on splitz with the modern working girl of today having the nouse to be able to dress to mingle without standing out like a proverbial p***k at a wedding. Of course it's not always the case but thats probably exceptions that prove the rule.

 

 

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10 hours ago, EnjoyEmily said:

 

How nice, in a few short strokes of your keyboard and with such a sweeping comment as

When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG 

you've lumped all other working girls into one catergory and one you then expand when pressed as being

Well I meant the stereotype of an escort- very short skirt, stockings showing, high heels, low top etc

That isn't a stereotypical escort, it's more your own dated perception most likely borne from you watching too many re-runs of Pretty Woman :D  

I'm reasonably sure things have moved on just a tad since the days of glitz on splitz with the modern working girl of today having the nouse to be able to dress to mingle without standing out like a proverbial p***k at a wedding. Of course it's not always the case but thats probably exceptions that prove the rule.

 

 

Emily, I thought with your previous post you were just making a joke.

Lydia was talking about wanting to avoid attracting unwelcome attention when she walks into a hotel and so not adopting any blatantly provocative look. I'm sure lots of us have moved on from thinking that's what a working girl will look like, but we're all insiders, aren't we? Many people out there still have that sterotypical idea (though those working in hotels may well be a bit more savvy). Just look at the kind of standard stereotype photo that the papers will use to illustrate any article on prostitution. It's an image that goes on being reinforced in the general public's mind all the time.

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On Friday, February 26, 2016 at 3:19 PM, MinxyLydia said:

Some of my Heathrow bookings are right by a bus stop that takes me almost home and run 24/7. I just can't bring myself to pay for a cab that I'd have to wait longer for and cost 10x as much! 

I do get cabs to bookings so am not grubby and dishevelled though! :)

I think that's a great look! I shall request  it for my next punt

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5 hours ago, Colonel Bonkers said:

Many people out there still have that sterotypical idea (though those working in hotels may well be a bit more savvy). Just look at the kind of standard stereotype photo that the papers will use to illustrate any article on prostitution. It's an image that goes on being reinforced in the general public's mind all the time.

Who are the many?  but in any case,  when I read a comment from an 'insider'  such as the one from Lydia 'When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG'  then I'll always stand my corner,  blinkered perceptions are for the ignorant/intolerant but for me I'll never catergorise/stereotype a WG in such a disrespectful manner.

You say  'It's an image that goes on being reinforced in the general public's mind all the time  which may once have been the case but with a diminshing high street presence from the redtops being replaced with the internet in every corner of our homes, then the ability for us to see things from a different angle, one without the media slant is here, for every 'insider' viewing girls website/ escort forums there are probably a dozen more outsiders looking in/observing and in doing so will see something a little different to what the redtop media usually try to portray the working girl as. 

Things move on, peoples perceptions will and do change,It's a brave new world :D

 

 

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9 minutes ago, EnjoyEmily said:

Who are the many?  but in any case,  when I read a comment from an 'insider'  such as the one from Lydia 'When I do outcalls to hotels, the last thing I want is to look like a WG'  then I'll always stand my corner,  blinkered perceptions are for the ignorant/intolerant but for me I'll never catergorise/stereotype a WG in such a disrespectful manner.

You say  'It's an image that goes on being reinforced in the general public's mind all the time  which may once have been the case but with a diminshing high street presence from the redtops being replaced with the internet in every corner of our homes, then the ability for us to see things from a different angle, one without the media slant is here, for every 'insider' viewing girls website/ escort forums there are probably a dozen more outsiders looking in/observing and in doing so will see something a little different to what the redtop media usually try to portray the working girl as. 

Things move on, peoples perceptions will and do change,It's a brave new world :D

 

 

It's not just the red-tops, and it's not just the old-fashioned printed press. If The Economist does an article on prostitution, however progressive its line, you can be sure that the online version of it too will be illustrated by a photo of a girl leaning into a parked car, speaking to the driver, or a close-up of a fishnet-stockinged thigh, and so on.That is the default image that is still there in most people's minds, and the assumptions behind it will quickly emerge if the conversation at a dinner party happens to turn to this topic.

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5 hours ago, Colonel Bonkers said:

It's not just the red-tops, and it's not just the old-fashioned printed press. If The Economist does an article on prostitution, however progressive its line, you can be sure that the online version of it too will be illustrated by a photo of a girl leaning into a parked car, speaking to the driver, or a close-up of a fishnet-stockinged thigh, and so on.That is the default image that is still there in most people's minds, and the assumptions behind it will quickly emerge if the conversation at a dinner party happens to turn to this topic.

I agree with what you say.  I think Emily's frustration, without wanting to put words in her mouth, stems from a frustration of knowing that the reality is so different from the standard media caricature.

I can recall posting a long way back about going out for a meal with a WG and how imo we were both almost certainly invisible to others present in terms of our status as WG and punter.  The problem is that in the public's absence of knowledge of the normality of appearance of WGs and punters they continue to believe the caricature version.

 

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20 minutes ago, TheVicar said:

I agree with what you say.  I think Emily's frustration, without wanting to put words in her mouth, stems from a frustration of knowing that the reality is so different from the standard media caricature.

I can recall posting a long way back about going out for a meal with a WG and how imo we were both almost certainly invisible to others present in terms of our status as WG and punter.  The problem is that in the public's absence of knowledge of the normality of appearance of WGs and punters they continue to believe the caricature version.

 

Yes, I have a very pleasant memory of a lunch some years ago with some names from the past: Trouncer, Uncle Pokey (not from the past), Biggus Dickus, Genghis and myself for the chaps, and Tiny, the late Stella Cane and Mrs Smith for the ladies. Now, it must be admitted that Mrs Smith had a glass or two too many, but really no one else in the room could have imagined who we all were. The punters were as far removed from the popular image as the wgs.

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1 hour ago, enquire said:

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