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Bringing your own condoms to a session.

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Hi all,

 

Right, without wanting to sound big-headed, (erm...how can I put this...) it would appear that God was kind to me in the trousers department :P but, it's not without its fair share of problems and / or inconvenience.  One of them is that I find wearing standard size condoms very uncomfortable, it's to the point that I can't stay hard and in the end I have to settle for non penetrative sex (e.g. spooning). I would have thought that an WG would have an array of sizes but you'd be surprised how many never have ones that fit.

One idea I had was to bring my own, but I wasn't sure if this was acceptable, I mean would it be something considered rude and likely to offend? Or just request she has some larger sizes available (but that would make me sound conceited)

Any suggestions anyone can offer would be appreciated.

 

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I would have thought that most ladies would be equipped for everything (I literally have four different sizes of condoms from small all the way up to huge), but I suppose some may not have thought of it! I cannot imagine a SP taking issue with you bringing your own rubbers, if anything it shows that you take sexual health seriously! :) And I cannot think of a SP alive who wouldn't be chuffed about that!

I honestly don't think you have a thing to worry about. If you have a brand you love, than bringing your own is sure to lead to a better time. If you are truly concerned, then run it by the SP in an email; but I'm sure it'll be fine!

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1 hour ago, DirtyGit said:

Hi all,

 

Right, without wanting to sound big-headed, (erm...how can I put this...) it would appear that God was kind to me in the trousers department :P but, it's not without its fair share of problems and / or inconvenience.  One of them is that I find wearing standard size condoms very uncomfortable, it's to the point that I can't stay hard and in the end I have to settle for non penetrative sex (e.g. spooning). I would have thought that an WG would have an array of sizes but you'd be surprised how many never have ones that fit.

One idea I had was to bring my own, but I wasn't sure if this was acceptable, I mean would it be something considered rude and likely to offend? Or just request she has some larger sizes available (but that would make me sound conceited)

Any suggestions anyone can offer would be appreciated.

 

I 'always' bring condoms with me.  I do this just in case she (very unlikely of course) forgets to bring condoms with her.  I also do this because she might bring a type of condom I have a problem with.  In this case, I have already brought condoms that are suitable for me.

With your size scenario, it might be a good idea to bring condoms that you know are the 'correct' size for you.  Or you could ask her to bring a few different larger sizes for you.

 

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Any good service provider should have a range of condoms both brand and size! 

Personally I'm not keen on the idea of clients bringing their own condoms unless they are completely sealed, there's an escort I became friends with last year when we met and she told me about a client of hers who brought is own condoms and they weren't in the box, she had a niggling feeling he was up to something and when he was in the shower she checked the condoms and there was loads of pin holes in them. Put me off instantly! 

I've only ever come across one client want to bring his own condoms and that was down to allergy, I had latex free myself but he bought his own anyway which were sealed. So if you are going to take your own make sure they are brand new and still in the seal, just in case the escort is paranoid like me haha. X

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I never use clients condoms but only because i get incredibly paranoid, I don't mind using brand new boxed condoms where I can see him take the plastic off. I worry that they have injected them with something (silly, I know) but because if that, I make sure I have several makes and sizes, after all this is our business and they are business essentials. All girls should be in good stock of condoms. I would say ask first, you aren't going to sound conceited unless you talk about how big you are and how you are going to stretch her so wide "do you think you can handle my big cock baby" blah blah blah. Just put I am a bit larger then average, do you have any large condoms available or do you want me to bring some. If she answers yes but you are still worried, just in case take some with you, ask what she has, explain your situation. Our job is too be understanding, so don't worry about her getting annoyed, if she does then you need to move on to another girl x

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It's simple for me, prior to the appt I'll contact the upcoming client and ask for his preferred choice along with back up and once known I'll

make sure I supply them at the appt.  What I don't and wont do is use a clients own supply

Mind you, Tescos 'bags for life' at 10p are a bargain.

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I have a selection, and rarely if ever run out. I prefer to use the ones I bring, but I have used clients condoms from sealed boxes on a couple of occasions - I broke a rule and tried Trojans which were already out of the box, for the first time not too long ago after taking an educated gutfeeling decision, however I've almost always stuck to the sealed box rule.

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Yes, like others I keep a selection of sizes in stock as well as latex free ones because I wouldn't feel comfortable in using condoms a client had bought unless they were in a still sealed box. 

If the OP wants to bring his own then I suggest a brand new unopened box.

 

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I purchase the condoms 'just' before each meet, so the condoms I bring with me are new, unopened and sealed in the box.  I also check the dates before I buy, to make sure they're well in date.

I'm always happy to use the condoms the girls bring, 'if' they're suitable for me, sealed, well in date, and look as though they have been stored correctly.

Both of us should feel 'safe', but there has to be enough trust from both sides also.

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Whilst we're on the subject I wanted ask. Since BB is a big no for both parties, some of us punters go years without the feel and sensations of unprotected sex, I know I do, whilst owo is very welcome it's still not the same. How do WGs in general feel about Skyn and Reel feel condoms? Obviously they less protection I suppose but you'd know better than me. So far the girls I've seen the condoms they've provided are half an inch thick.

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Heh, maybe you shouldn't listen to me after all! The girls on this thread have brought up some very good points and on reflection, I totally agree! Damn those bad apples ruining the bunch!

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1 hour ago, audioguy said:

Whilst we're on the subject I wanted ask. Since BB is a big no for both parties, some of us punters go years without the feel and sensations of unprotected sex, I know I do, whilst owo is very welcome it's still not the same. How do WGs in general feel about Skyn and Reel feel condoms? Obviously they less protection I suppose but you'd know better than me. So far the girls I've seen the condoms they've provided are half an inch thick.

I use Skyn myself and think they're great, most clients prefer them.

No they are not less protection they offer the same protection as standard condoms. :)

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Thanks TYE. I'll consider it as a request next time. I heard reviews from men on Amazon say they exchange heat much better and not far off unprotected. I've not bought condoms since my teens they never had such things then.

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4 minutes ago, audioguy said:

Thanks TYE. I'll consider it as a request next time. I heard reviews from men on Amazon say they exchange heat much better and not far off unprotected. I've not bought condoms since my teens they never had such things then.

They are 100% safe I wouldn't use them otherwise and I've never had an issue. My regular says they do feel much better than standard condoms but still aren't quite like bareback. 

I made him try the Skyn ones in a booking with me and he hasn't turned back since haha. X

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I carry Mates Skyns however response from clients has been mixed. Combine that with their very odd odour means I prefer Mates natural, especially if oral is to follow. 

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i carry mates skyns as i'm super allergic to latex. they now do a larger size too :)

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I have mentioned before that I find 'Pasante Unique' the thinnest condoms on the market but they won't fit a large size as the OP. 

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On 3/3/2016 at 11:36 PM, 30GGRedhead said:

i carry mates skyns as i'm super allergic to latex. they now do a larger size too :)

Show off!  :P

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While discussing condoms some ladies change the condom after ow before shagging. Any thoughts? And why?

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4 hours ago, Coventrypunter said:

While discussing condoms some ladies change the condom after ow before shagging. Any thoughts? And why?

Because they degrade. Latex is a natural material that decomposes.

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5 hours ago, Coventrypunter said:

While discussing condoms some ladies change the condom after ow before shagging. Any thoughts? And why?

The mouth abrades the condom, especially teeth all of which can make it weaker. It's therefore recommended to change the condom after OW and before intercourse. 

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11 hours ago, audioguy said:

Because they degrade. Latex is a natural material that decomposes.

No, they not made from 100% latex and they not decompose. Most of the condoms mainly made from Polyisoprene, which synthetic form of latex, ie they are not biodegradable!

Of course they can disintegrate, especially if they out of date, or with a rather prolong sex marathon of days....not hours, or God forbid- minutes! (which is usually the case). 

TBH: I've no idea, why some girls change the condoms between acts. I can understand, why they do after penetrative sex, and then to oral. (they might not like the taste of theirs own juices on it with combination of the condom lubricant). But I can't understand why its from oral to penetration? Strawberry's explanation seems plausible: but only if somebody using theirs teeth, (Who Does?!) and even then I can't see that that abrasion from them will be sufficient enough to weaken them.

My own theory: Its wasting the time. Sometime to remove condom, then get another one to replace can take upto 3 min. They rather do that, then performing more tedious parts of the booking. :-p

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On 3/6/2016 at 0:40 AM, Ebonypru said:

Show off!  :P

I am pretty sure that 30GGredhead is a female, not a guy. ;-)

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10 hours ago, Xenia said:

No, they not made from 100% latex and they not decompose. Most of the condoms mainly made from Polyisoprene, which synthetic form of latex, ie they are not biodegradable!

Of course they can disintegrate, especially if they out of date, or with a rather prolong sex marathon of days....not hours, or God forbid- minutes! (which is usually the case). 

TBH: I've no idea, why some girls change the condoms between acts. I can understand, why they do after penetrative sex, and then to oral. (they might not like the taste of theirs own juices on it with combination of the condom lubricant). But I can't understand why its from oral to penetration? Strawberry's explanation seems plausible: but only if somebody using theirs teeth, (Who Does?!) and even then I can't see that that abrasion from them will be sufficient enough to weaken them.

My own theory: Its wasting the time. Sometime to remove condom, then get another one to replace can take upto 3 min. They rather do that, then performing more tedious parts of the booking. :-p

Oh ok I didn't know that. So why then do many men claim they can't wear condoms due to latex allergy? Or are they just bullshitting their girlfriends into barebacking.

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I've never heard that 'excuse'. I am aware that latex allergy exists and those that have it find latex free types. 

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