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Life events that have made you punt more/less times

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My otherhalf is due to have our first baby soon and was wondering what has impacted your approach to punting?

At the moment I visit strippys and have a few favourite WGs I see.  However, when the baby arrives I know expenses will rightly be focussed on my baby.  So visiting my favourite girls/clubs will take a back seat, not just becuase of money but also I will want to spend time with the family :))

Whats been the experience of new parents on here regarding the impact on their favourite hobby?

What other life events has made you punt more or less?

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3 hours ago, Chetang1343 said:

My otherhalf is due to have our first baby soon and was wondering what has impacted your approach to punting?

At the moment I visit strippys and have a few favourite WGs I see.  However, when the baby arrives I know expenses will rightly be focussed on my baby.  So visiting my favourite girls/clubs will take a back seat, not just becuase of money but also I will want to spend time with the family :))

Whats been the experience of new parents on here regarding the impact on their favourite hobby?

What other life events has made you punt more or less?

I'm not a parent, however I have a jolly good idea that you are likely to find your OH's attention will turn to the baby. You say you are expecting the same to happen to you, you are also already punting and I think it could be hard to stop - if anything the new arrival could make you seek your own space.

I think you are very naiive.

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I'm intrigued too, Why do you feel the arrival of a baby will stop you punting when having not only a partner (Or are you not in a committed relationship?)  but a pregnant one didn't? 

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8 minutes ago, MinxyLydia said:

I'm intrigued too, Why do you feel the arrival of a baby will stop you punting when having not only a partner (Or are you not in a committed relationship?)  but a pregnant one didn't? 

i think as your girl becomes obsessed with the baby, the men feel marginalised.  And stray. seen it many times.

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No children me but a punt-routine-changing thing in my life was when, around 4 years after I started punting, Auntie herself retired. Now the windows of opportunity really are difficult to find.

Uncle Pokey

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Just now, Uncle Pokey said:

No children me but a punt-routine-changing thing in my life was when, around 4 years after I started punting, Auntie herself retired. Now the windows of opportunity really are difficult to find.

Uncle Pokey

Yes, I've heard this said before. Another three years to go before Lady Bonkers and I find ourselves sitting at home all day together. I'd better start planning for retirement now.

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20 minutes ago, Colonel Bonkers said:

Yes, I've heard this said before. Another three years to go before Lady Bonkers and I find ourselves sitting at home all day together. I'd better start planning for retirement now.

my worry is having enough cash for the occasional punt.  need to find a way of getting a stash together 

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Col B, 

Trouncer urged me to take up Golf and I did tip a toe into the water so to speak.

But I was absolutely effing useless at golf and now it's only Auntie's long lunches with the girlies plus my visits to the Northern Powerhouse to try and keep my aged parents alive that provide opportunities.

Life gets harder for us all but sometimes for the most extraordinary range of reasons.

UP

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29 minutes ago, Uncle Pokey said:

Col B, 

Trouncer urged me to take up Golf and I did tip a toe into the water so to speak.

But I was absolutely effing useless at golf and now it's only Auntie's long lunches with the girlies plus my visits to the Northern Powerhouse to try and keep my aged parents alive that provide opportunities.

Life gets harder for us all but sometimes for the most extraordinary range of reasons.

UP

Yes, I remember him saying it was the perfect excuse. But it has to look plausible...

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3 hours ago, Coventrypunter said:

i think as your girl becomes obsessed with the baby, the men feel marginalised.  And stray. seen it many times.

Sorry I don't think this is necessarily so. I unlike some here had children. My experience after the birth of each of our children was that I was not totally excluded but shared the joys of the babies and their childhood and our sex life picked up. The only "life experience" that changed that was the death of my wife following which I did eventually take up punting and I would like to thank those ladies who shared the cuddles, caresses and kisses (and nookie) into my old age.  

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Yes recent (probable) retirement and no longer working away from home has already cut into my punting routine and I worry about the budget

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The two things that would stop me punting would be reduction in income or having a serious relationship.

My sex drive dictates how often I punt, sometimes it's once a month, this month I've got 3 planned in 3 weeks. ;)

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Gambling (not the on-line kind, obviously) is the perfect cover for both time and expenditure.

"Just popping into the casino darling, back in a couple of hours."

"Oh darling, try to lose less than last time."

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Punt more; being able to pay a lady to have sex with me.

 

Less: the rise of EE ladies with no feedback and offering BB. There, I've mentioned it, remember other escorts are available...

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22 hours ago, Chetang1343 said:

My otherhalf is due to have our first baby soon and was wondering what has impacted your approach to punting?

At the moment I visit strippys and have a few favourite WGs I see.  However, when the baby arrives I know expenses will rightly be focussed on my baby.  So visiting my favourite girls/clubs will take a back seat, not just becuase of money but also I will want to spend time with the family :))

Whats been the experience of new parents on here regarding the impact on their favourite hobby?

What other life events has made you punt more or less?

Interestingly, several years ago there was a guy whose wife was about to give birth and he kept seeing different girls every single day: as soon as the wife gave birth he stopped doing this.  This story remained with me as I found the situation very curious, however I have no idea what further happened to him.  

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Useful responses, cheers.  Interesting to hear experiences from other punters as well as WGs, who themselves see another side of the story.

Maybe in the short term my life/time/money will be focused on the baby but who know's what'll happen in the future as baby grows and what the wife wants in the relationship.  I will keep u posted!

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On ‎06‎/‎03‎/‎2016 at 5:59 PM, Coventrypunter said:

my worry is having enough cash for the occasional punt.  need to find a way of getting a stash together 

Ask for cash back when shopping and put the odd tenner away. Also, when getting cash from the machine put the odd note away. In about 6 months you may have amassed £60 which should get you a quick rub from some of the ladies here!!

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11 hours ago, Annabellexoxo said:

Interestingly, several years ago there was a guy whose wife was about to give birth and he kept seeing different girls every single day: as soon as the wife gave birth he stopped doing this.  This story remained with me as I found the situation very curious, however I have no idea what further happened to him.  

Interesting. I can't remember now how long sex is off limits after birth, but I seem to remember it was possible till more or less the last week before. Of course, both men and women will react differently psychologically. I found Lady Bonkers particularly lovely in her pregnancy and was certainly not put off at all. After, of course, you're both so tired what with the baby screaming at night that sex is the last thing you're thinking of, and all you want is a good night's sleep. 

After the births of my first two children I definitely abstained from punting for a bit - for a whole year in the case of the first child, and I might even have been thinking of reforming my life. It didn't last, though. Obviously.

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7 minutes ago, Colonel Bonkers said:

Interesting. I can't remember now how long sex is off limits after birth, but I seem to remember it was possible till more or less the last week before. Of course, both men and women will react differently psychologically. I found Lady Bonkers particularly lovely in her pregnancy and was certainly not put off at all. After, of course, you're both so tired what with the baby screaming at night that sex is the last thing you're thinking of, and all you want is a good night's sleep. 

After the births of my first two children I definitely abstained from punting for a bit - for a whole year in the case of the first child, and I might even have been thinking of reforming my life. It didn't last, though. Obviously.

I believe the guideline given out by midwives is 6 weeks.. I remember a very frustrated man in our postnatal class asking when, just when would he be able to do it again :D  She left him not long after citing obsessive demands for sex. 

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28 minutes ago, Pia said:

I believe the guideline given out by midwives is 6 weeks.. I remember a very frustrated man in our postnatal class asking when, just when would he be able to do it again :D  She left him not long after citing obsessive demands for sex. 

I can remember raising that question first time round with the gynaecologist during pregnancy. He was quite an old bloke and answered rather testily along the lines of "Yes, yes, yes, but just...don't overdo it."

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Posted (edited)

A good thread at last.

 

OP - getting a baby into the world and bringing it up can be an exhausting business - if your partner can cope well and is happy to look after the child without too much input from you - and your nights sleep are not ruined for some time - you may well have the energy for a punt now and then. But if she needs a lot of your support and help - I doubt if you will have the time or energy. Mine was 6 when I finally started to recover some of my energy and that is when I began to slip away and see someone now and then.

The death of a friend of the family oddly enough put a stop to my fun - as we used to visit this old dear and I would be left to my own devices for several hours - that was my window of opportunity. But when she died the visits stopped and so did my good times. Now I am permanetly confined to barracks:(

 

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On 07/03/2016 at 10:06 AM, Annabellexoxo said:

Interestingly, several years ago there was a guy whose wife was about to give birth and he kept seeing different girls every single day: as soon as the wife gave birth he stopped doing this.  This story remained with me as I found the situation very curious, however I have no idea what further happened to him.  

I can never understand why guys who have a pregant wife would want to punt - when your wife is pregant you can shag her till the cows come home - no condom needed - and you will want to wear a condom when the child arrives and you understand you dont want that to happen again.

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On 06/03/2016 at 5:35 PM, Uncle Pokey said:

No children me but a punt-routine-changing thing in my life was when, around 4 years after I started punting, Auntie herself retired. Now the windows of opportunity really are difficult to find.

Uncle Pokey

Ha - I can just imagine how many cups of tea and scones you have devoured with the missus in the garden centre tea shop - welcome to the club and you have my commiserations.

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21 minutes ago, lancelot said:

I can never understand why guys who have a pregant wife would want to punt - when your wife is pregant you can shag her till the cows come home - no condom needed - and you will want to wear a condom when the child arrives and you understand you dont want that to happen again.

I doubt there are lots of married guys out there who shag their wives with condom, pregnant or not.  I would have thought they stop purchasing condoms so they could spend more money on themselves..... or her :D

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This also reminds me of a joke: a growing up kid kept knocking his father's head with his finger, so the guys asked the wife why the child kept doing that: maybe there is some sort of 'foetus memory', the wife said.

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