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Why do I close my eyes when I kiss?

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This year I have had bookings with beautiful escorts. So why do I close my eyes when we kiss? I love kissing. It is probably more important than anything else (for me). I also love receiving oral, but after a while of oral,  I  also close my eyes and just enjoy the sensation. 

So today, psychologists at Royal Holloway university found the brain can not cope with combination of visual and tactile data when we kiss. So it shuts down the visual, which enables us to concentrate on the physical sensation of the kiss. Which is why we close our eyes when we kiss. 

So am a I alone or do punters and escorts also close their eyes?

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I do tend to close my eyes usually. Sometimes if it's more of a PSE booking I'll open my eyes, but I think naturally it just comes to most of us to close them maybe! X

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  The escort closes her eyes and thinks about the money . Most punters know this  . 

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11 hours ago, enquire said:

This year I have had bookings with beautiful escorts. So why do I close my eyes when we kiss? I love kissing. It is probably more important than anything else (for me). I also love receiving oral, but after a while of oral,  I  also close my eyes and just enjoy the sensation. 

So today, psychologists at Royal Holloway university found the brain can not cope with combination of visual and tactile data when we kiss. So it shuts down the visual, which enables us to concentrate on the physical sensation of the kiss. Which is why we close our eyes when we kiss. 

So am a I alone or do punters and escorts also close their eyes?

I saw this article yesterday and it makes sense: just the way you concentrate better on wording when you listen to radio, for example BBC4, as opposed to watching TV, you will 'feel' your kiss better with your eyes closed rather than watching the other person's eyes.  Imagine kissing looking around you?  :D

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Well don't you think snogging away with your eyeballs open and only inches away from the other persons eyeballs abit off putting?You would probably look like a mad person with your eyes open staring at each other when your faces are that close.Can't think it would be very sensual.I'd say the majority of people close their eyes whether they are civvies or involved in a paid scene.

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Perhaps you are imagining its your wife you are snogging.:rolleyes:

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1 hour ago, Bibi said:

Well don't you think snogging away with your eyeballs open and only inches away from the other persons eyeballs abit off putting?You would probably look like a mad person with your eyes open staring at each other when your faces are that close.Can't think it would be very sensual.I'd say the majority of people close their eyes whether they are civvies or involved in a paid scene.

I had a client last week who had a go at me for not looking at him in the eyes. I said that actually it is quite normal for women not to do so and I was told that he had seen more women than me and I was wrong. 

But no, I find it strange to have my eyes open and tend to close them, with kissing and sex.. I do think men tend to have them open more often though as they are more visual. 

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3 hours ago, Bibi said:

Well don't you think snogging away with your eyeballs open and only inches away from the other persons eyeballs abit off putting?You would probably look like a mad person with your eyes open staring at each other when your faces are that close.Can't think it would be very sensual.I'd say the majority of people close their eyes whether they are civvies or involved in a paid scene.

I'd go cross-eyed I'm sure. 

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14 hours ago, robert49 said:

I'd go cross-eyed I'm sure. 

I was kissing a guy once and I briefly opened my eyes only to see him looking at me: I closed my eyes hoping he will do the same.  No surprises after and he turned out a rather great guy.  I guess he was 'experimenting' with some ideas. :lol:

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On 22/03/2016 at 4:19 PM, Bibi said:

Well don't you think snogging away with your eyeballs open and only inches away from the other persons eyeballs abit off putting?You would probably look like a mad person with your eyes open staring at each other when your faces are that close.Can't think it would be very sensual.I'd say the majority of people close their eyes whether they are civvies or involved in a paid scene.

Hundreds or thousands of hours involving various sensory conduction tests are undertaken.The tests find out that visual sense overpowers the sense of touch. So in  order to maximise our ability to focus on touch, we close our eyes and enjoy the moment. 

Think how much money could have been saved by a researcher just going on Punternet and asking the question  "why do I close my eyes when i kiss". :)

Annabelle, i can't close my eyes when listening to radio 4, but only because I am driving. 

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They say that listening to the radio is better than watching TV because the pictures are better. Perhaps we close our eyes when kissing an escort for the same reason!!

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6 hours ago, erictheidol said:

They say that listening to the radio is better than watching TV because the pictures are better. Perhaps we close our eyes when kissing an escort for the same reason!!

You're a brave man eric.  :)

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9 hours ago, erictheidol said:

They say that listening to the radio is better than watching TV because the pictures are better. Perhaps we close our eyes when kissing an escort for the same reason!!

And vice-versa :)

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naturally focusing on the feeling/touching as opposed to the looking.

 

feels better.

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They say that men cannot multi task. We close our eyes so that we can concentrate on being good kissers without any distraction

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I like keeping my eyes open and if she does seeing and looking into her eyes can be quite erotic!  I don't always I mix it up sometimes open sometimes closed!   

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