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Planning to stop over on a trip to Aus.

I have other stop overs planned :-) but need specific advice on Punting in India & specifically Bombay?

Long shot but thought I would ask :-)

Also this is surprisingly not a p*ss take given my profile name.

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Planning to stop over on a trip to Aus.

I have other stop overs planned :-) but need specific advice on Punting in India & specifically Bombay?

Long shot but thought I would ask :-)

Also this is surprisingly not a p*ss take given my profile name.

Heres a place to start looking. lots of crap to wade through to find good info though

http://www.worldsexguide.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=944

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You may find India more of a problem than you think.

Because of the extereme poverty that exists, there is prostitution at the lower (street) end of the scale. The big drawback is that the girls are often under age, diseased or a mix of both, and best avoided if you value your health. And would you risk going to a slum area where you will probably be mugged - or worse? Reports also suggest a growing epidemic of HIV. See: http://starcasm.net/archives/12006

And these links are sobering too:

http://www.hum-coolie.com/child-prostitution.htm

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/05/11/india.prostitution.children/

At the upper end, prostitution exists and there are some classy ladies, but prices I have seen on websites where they do publish them are on a par with UK (£150/hr), which for a third world country is scandalous. Have a Google and see what I mean. Another factor that put me off was that there was the potential for bait & switch as many websites had no photos - "just call Mr Patel" on 0xxxxx.

I think until anyone has witnessed first hand the terrible levels of poverty in India (people living in makeshift tents on the street, people with terrible disabilities, and beggars plaguing white travellers for money - many of whom are mothers with young babies), you dont fully appreciate the shock factor and how bad it really is - and why women and teens are forced into prostitution, just go get a few rupees to survive. You just have to become hardened to it, sad as it is.

Yes, some Indian girls are absolutely beautiful (and wont grow up to look like mother!), but after considerable thought, I decided that the risk factor was to great, and instead to abstain and find an Indian girl in the UK - which I have done.

Save your money for Oz.

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You may find India more of a problem than you think.

Because of the extereme poverty that exists, there is prostitution at the lower (street) end of the scale. The big drawback is that the girls are often under age, diseased or a mix of both, and best avoided if you value your health. And would you risk going to a slum area where you will probably be mugged - or worse? Reports also suggest a growing epidemic of HIV. See: http://starcasm.net/archives/12006

And these links are sobering too:

http://www.hum-coolie.com/child-prostitution.htm

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/05/11/india.prostitution.children/

At the upper end, prostitution exists and there are some classy ladies, but prices I have seen on websites where they do publish them are on a par with UK (£150/hr), which for a third world country is scandalous. Have a Google and see what I mean. Another factor that put me off was that there was the potential for bait & switch as many websites had no photos - "just call Mr Patel" on 0xxxxx.

I think until anyone has witnessed first hand the terrible levels of poverty in India (people living in makeshift tents on the street, people with terrible disabilities, and beggars plaguing white travellers for money - many of whom are mothers with young babies), you dont fully appreciate the shock factor and how bad it really is - and why women and teens are forced into prostitution, just go get a few rupees to survive. You just have to become hardened to it, sad as it is.

Yes, some Indian girls are absolutely beautiful (and wont grow up to look like mother!), but after considerable thought, I decided that the risk factor was to great, and instead to abstain and find an Indian girl in the UK - which I have done.

Save your money for Oz.

I came to the same conclusion. Too big a risk that you arrange with an agency who then deliver a street girl whom they've rounded up. But, Mr Singh I assume you're a Sikh and maybe less prone to be scammed than a tourist? Otherwsie i'd have the lay-over in Bangkok or Singapore rather than Mumbai.

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I would not bother at all. I have been to the bombay red light district, where the pimps ride around parading the girls in rickshaws. My experiance is as follows. you pay money upfront to the pimp, then taken in the rickshaw with just the girl to a slum type place, where there were many guys and girls waiting for a bed to be free, out of the two available, pure chaos. I did not hang around to find out the full experiance, just counted my loses (500 Rupees) and left. Another experiance was to sneak the girl into the hotel, did not work out, as the hotels won't allow the working girls in. Again another loss.

Never again.....

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Planning to stop over on a trip to Aus.

I have other stop overs planned :-) but need specific advice on Punting in India & specifically Bombay?

Long shot but thought I would ask :-)

Also this is surprisingly not a p*ss take given my profile name.

My info about the punting scene in Bombay or mumbai ,dates from a stopover there in late march 2004.

We stayed in hotel Faryias www.faryiashotel.com , a very good 4 star plus hotel in the centre .

As i was accompanied by family members , my movements were constrained , but managed to find my way to a very clean A/c brothel. I was taken there by the driver of the hotel . The hotel had its own taxi service ,and we booked the driver for the day .

This brothel was not far from the hotel ,and infact was on the main st,and i had the driver waiting for me . The brothel had a selection of girls , they even had some uzbek girls ,although they called them russian .

I chose one young very pretty indian girl .The cost for one hour with 2beers ,came to 4000 rupees .she was an excellent performer .

I think being a white punter they must have overcharged me at the time ,but it was worth the experience .

I was taken on a tour of the RLD area ,but i didn;t even have the balls to get out of the car ,needlees to say it didn't look very sexually appealing at all .

I wiil dig up the card for this brothel and pm it to you, or post it here.

The bar guys in your hotel or the hotel's own drivers ,should be your best for safe and clean punting .

Another useful upscale contact there for escorts including foreign girls , were the classified personal section in the papers (India Times ). There were few ads for escorts at $100 ph in Delhi.

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My info about the punting scene in Bombay or mumbai ,dates from a stopover there in late march 2004.

We stayed in hotel Faryias www.faryiashotel.com , a very good 4 star plus hotel in the centre .

As i was accompanied by family members , my movements were constrained , but managed to find my way to a very clean A/c brothel. I was taken there by the driver of the hotel . The hotel had its own taxi service ,and we booked the driver for the day .

This brothel was not far from the hotel ,and infact was on the main st,and i had the driver waiting for me . The brothel had a selection of girls , they even had some uzbek girls ,although they called them russian .

I chose one young very pretty indian girl .The cost for one hour with 2beers ,came to 4000 rupees .she was an excellent performer .

I think being a white punter they must have overcharged me at the time ,but it was worth the experience .

I was taken on a tour of the RLD area ,but i didn;t even have the balls to get out of the car ,needlees to say it didn't look very sexually appealing at all .

I wiil dig up the card for this brothel and pm it to you, or post it here.

The bar guys in your hotel or the hotel's own drivers ,should be your best for safe and clean punting .

Another useful upscale contact there for escorts including foreign girls , were the classified personal section in the papers (India Times ). There were few ads for escorts at $100 ph in Delhi.

www.faryias.com

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I would not bother at all. I have been to the bombay red light district, where the pimps ride around parading the girls in rickshaws. My experiance is as follows. you pay money upfront to the pimp, then taken in the rickshaw with just the girl to a slum type place, where there were many guys and girls waiting for a bed to be free, out of the two available, pure chaos. I did not hang around to find out the full experiance, just counted my loses (500 Rupees) and left. Another experiance was to sneak the girl into the hotel, did not work out, as the hotels won't allow the working girls in. Again another loss.

Never again.....

jesus, that sounds desperate. And in the slum the full squalor of how these people exist hits you.

As others have said, it's a risk and one I am pleased I did not take.

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You may find India more of a problem than you think.

Because of the extereme poverty that exists, there is prostitution at the lower (street) end of the scale. The big drawback is that the girls are often under age, diseased or a mix of both, and best avoided if you value your health. And would you risk going to a slum area where you will probably be mugged - or worse? Reports also suggest a growing epidemic of HIV. See: http://starcasm.net/archives/12006

And these links are sobering too:

http://www.hum-coolie.com/child-prostitution.htm

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/05/11/india.prostitution.children/

At the upper end, prostitution exists and there are some classy ladies, but prices I have seen on websites where they do publish them are on a par with UK (£150/hr), which for a third world country is scandalous. Have a Google and see what I mean. Another factor that put me off was that there was the potential for bait & switch as many websites had no photos - "just call Mr Patel" on 0xxxxx.

I think until anyone has witnessed first hand the terrible levels of poverty in India (people living in makeshift tents on the street, people with terrible disabilities, and beggars plaguing white travellers for money - many of whom are mothers with young babies), you dont fully appreciate the shock factor and how bad it really is - and why women and teens are forced into prostitution, just go get a few rupees to survive. You just have to become hardened to it, sad as it is.

Yes, some Indian girls are absolutely beautiful (and wont grow up to look like mother!), but after considerable thought, I decided that the risk factor was to great, and instead to abstain and find an Indian girl in the UK - which I have done.

Save your money for Oz.

Correct.

High end: too expensive, and too arrogant. Gold diggers, I'd say.

Lower ends: just too far removed from your (my) world to be even considered.

Best experience is (to me) with someone you can actually relate to, and you wont find a WL like that in India unless you can spend a lot more time looking.

But even if time is not an issue: Idia doesnt appeal to me at all.

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I guess the high end agencies target rich westerners and Hi-so locals.

Wonder If there Is a middle level of brothel at reasonable rates.

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My info about the punting scene in Bombay or mumbai ,dates from a stopover there in late march 2004.

We stayed in hotel Faryias www.faryiashotel.com , a very good 4 star plus hotel in the centre .

As i was accompanied by family members , my movements were constrained , but managed to find my way to a very clean A/c brothel. I was taken there by the driver of the hotel . The hotel had its own taxi service ,and we booked the driver for the day .

This brothel was not far from the hotel ,and infact was on the main st,and i had the driver waiting for me . The brothel had a selection of girls , they even had some uzbek girls ,although they called them russian .

I chose one young very pretty indian girl .The cost for one hour with 2beers ,came to 4000 rupees .she was an excellent performer .

I think being a white punter they must have overcharged me at the time ,but it was worth the experience .

I was taken on a tour of the RLD area ,but i didn;t even have the balls to get out of the car ,needlees to say it didn't look very sexually appealing at all .

I wiil dig up the card for this brothel and pm it to you, or post it here.

The bar guys in your hotel or the hotel's own drivers ,should be your best for safe and clean punting .

Another useful upscale contact there for escorts including foreign girls , were the classified personal section in the papers (India Times ). There were few ads for escorts at $100 ph in Delhi.

Found the card for this Brothel ,but apparantely they have moved to a new location .

Sent you a pm with the phone no for the manager .

Ok ,got your pm that you are not going tp punt there .

stiil a good discussion .

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Planning to stop over on a trip to Aus.

I have other stop overs planned :-) but need specific advice on Punting in India & specifically Bombay?

Long shot but thought I would ask :-)

Also this is surprisingly not a p*ss take given my profile name.

Mumbai has some really dodgy areas.

1) Do not go to the RLD.

2) If you do decide to punt there, do your research from here and decide who you want to see/which agencies you want to use.

3) The good ones will cost you a hell of a lot of money - I'm talking about £500+ an hour (about INR 37,000).

4) The top end girls are beautiful and very professional (albeit very expensive)

5) Rent an apartment, do not stay in a hotel as the good hotels are not girl friendly.

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Mumbai has some really dodgy areas.

1) Do not go to the RLD.

2) If you do decide to punt there, do your research from here and decide who you want to see/which agencies you want to use.

3) The good ones will cost you a hell of a lot of money - I'm talking about £500+ an hour (about INR 37,000).

4) The top end girls are beautiful and very professional (albeit very expensive)

5) Rent an apartment, do not stay in a hotel as the good hotels are not girl friendly.

What! 500 quid a hour In a third world country? :rolleyes:

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What! 500 quid a hour In a third world country? :rolleyes:

Visit the nice parts of Mumbai and you will see that it is not a third world city.

Property prices are sky high, yes even higher than London prices. The standard of living is sky high.

People spend money as if it is going out of fashion - very cut-throat and selfish, it is a dog-eat-dog city.

Personally, I can't hack it for more than a few days - London is where my heart is.

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Yes I know about the very few rich with to much money, shame that many In that city live In slumbs. :rolleyes:

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Been to Mumbai (Bombay) a few times over the last few years. Went twice in the space of a few weeks last year and I would not punt there for all the reasons discussed here. I was quoted about £1000 for a 2-3 session with a sexy 'air-hostess' whose picture I had not seen. The street and RLD scene I cannot stomach. And no 5 star hotel will let you bring a hooker in. Save your money and punt in London or stop over in Thailand.

HTH and good luck!

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100% agree Keep away from india keep your rupees in your pocket save it all for Thailand Phillipines ect. Indian punting is really bad i ended up paying out a shit load of cash for very little keep well away

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Like others have said here, India indeed is a tricky one....Personally (and no offence meant to anyone) but I would not go anywhere near the bottom end of the market....however the top end (which some may find expensive) is definitely worth the money spent....In my experience I cannot fault the ladies one bit, in fact it is quite refreshing and fortunately or unfortunately the old cliche rings true, you get what you pay for (in this instance anyway)

Someone did ask a similair question about contacts etc but all details were kept on a (very) old mobile I had so cant help with that but what I will say is you may well be pleasently surprised by the genuine quality (from well known media types to fashion models etc etc)...Theres a fine line between confidence and arrogance but there is a fine line...

Enjoy...

PS: Although most of the 5 star hotels have more security than Fort Knox, where there's a will, theres a way...I would highy recommend both Mumbai and Delhi....

PPS: Try the nightlife out (Non punting) superb in my opinion, a mix of electric/ambience like no other....afterall it is the Jewel in the Crown...

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Like others have said here, India indeed is a tricky one....Personally (and no offence meant to anyone) but I would not go anywhere near the bottom end of the market....however the top end (which some may find expensive) is definitely worth the money spent....In my experience I cannot fault the ladies one bit, in fact it is quite refreshing and fortunately or unfortunately the old cliche rings true, you get what you pay for (in this instance anyway)

Someone did ask a similair question about contacts etc but all details were kept on a (very) old mobile I had so cant help with that but what I will say is you may well be pleasently surprised by the genuine quality (from well known media types to fashion models etc etc)...Theres a fine line between confidence and arrogance but there is a fine line...

Enjoy...

PS: Although most of the 5 star hotels have more security than Fort Knox, where there's a will, theres a way...I would highy recommend both Mumbai and Delhi....

PPS: Try the nightlife out (Non punting) superb in my opinion, a mix of electric/ambience like no other....afterall it is the Jewel in the Crown...

So you mention the nightlife, how easy If It to meet young Indian ladies In Bombay? are you able to meet liberal girls In discos etc?

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India is quite a liberal place, especially in the cities....There are still some nice hotel bars dotted around the place in Delhi (and Mumbai) and great independent drinking holes around town...

The chicks are surprisingly easy going, sometimes even moreso then other parts of the world....but maybe my view is slightly different to others as I have lost count of the nuber of times I have ventured there...

Im not saying they will jump into bed with you straight away but you never know....

If you're going...Enjoy....and the 5 star hotels are dead cheap when booked in advance over the internet....I managed to get a King Suite for GBP 250.00 once...BARGAIN....

So you mention the nightlife, how easy If It to meet young Indian ladies In Bombay? are you able to meet liberal girls In discos etc?

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PS: Like most parts of the world....the nightlife really kicks of in the early hours...

Goa is another CRAZY place you may wish to venture if/when out there...

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PPS: Try the nightlife out (Non punting) superb in my opinion, a mix of electric/ambience like no other....afterall it is the Jewel in the Crown...

is? was, I would say

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Some human rights sources reckon that there are 15 million sw's in India with the majority in Mumbai. Officially the 2007 figure is 2.8 million for the entire country and it is conceivable that Mumbai will have the bulk. Whichever figure is correct, it illustrates that there is potentialy quite a bit of choice. Many of these will probably be working in Kamathipura which is reputed to be the largest red light district in Asia if not the world. As others have said, best avoided if you're foreign.

The Mumbai Mirror has loads of small ads for Massage Parlours some of which are subtlely worded to suggest that more is on offer. The majority are in the Greater Mumbai area rather than downtown. It also carries a greater number of escort ads than the Times of India.

There are also girlie bars in Thane area in the suburbs where for UK pub prices for drinks, ladies will sit with you and can persuaded for a small consideration to carry out sexual acts and waiters can be bribed to provide a secluded table and allow a bit of privacy. There was a police operation a couple of weeks ago which led to the arrest of many dozens of punters and hundreds of ladies.

I have no personal experience as it was simply too difficult for me to speak on the phone to obtain details from someone whose command of the English language is probably less than totally coherent and then to jump in a cab to travel to an address which may not be easy to find. Ads for outcalls which claim air hostesses and models were too much of a risk as my punting instinct was screaming rip off to me. And a pub crawl? I thought I might as well have had easy target for all manner of scams tattooed on my forehead.

You might might be a tougher person than I.

Incidentally security getting into the best hotels is the toughest I've known anywhere in the world but these hotels have restaurants and bars open to the public. In India it is very easy to differentiate by appearance the haves and have nots. If escorts look as if they are genuine customers - ie like real air hostesses and models - they shouldn't have any difficulty getting in and once in, there are no further barriers to going to the bedrooms.

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Visit the nice parts of Mumbai and you will see that it is not a third world city.

Property prices are sky high, yes even higher than London prices. The standard of living is sky high.

People spend money as if it is going out of fashion - very cut-throat and selfish, it is a dog-eat-dog city.

Personally, I can't hack it for more than a few days - London is where my heart is.

Sorry I don't agree that the nice parts of Mumbai are not third world. There is an unique juxtapositioning of extreme wealth and poverty and beggars and homeless familes (there are hundreds) abound sleeping in the streets even in the upmarket districts of Malabar Hills and Nariman Point where real estate prices as you rightly point out exceed London. Many - over 60% by some estimations of the entire population - of those lucky enough to have a roof over their heads live in the slums. Not something seen in the first world.

As in any else in the world, the punting market is a microcosm of society and there are providers in every sector ranging from less than a couple of pounds to thousands of pounds at the top

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