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MMFs, straight or bi, advice and experiences

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I first experimented with this nearly 10 years ago and have had some excellent experiences along the way, most often with MF couples who are an item in real life rather than playing together for business reasons.

As with the pitfalls of MFFs threesomes of any type present more scope for things to go wrong, but when it goes right it is worth the effort imo.

This isn't something that appeals to everyone, but for those that are thinking of trying it the first requirement is that you will have to be comfortable with the idea of being naked in front of another man and vice versa, the same as you would at a swinging club or at an organised bukkake party etc.  If that is a deal breaker then there is no point in reading further, stick with doing what you already enjoy.

My first time was arranged through a WG I had already met, during the chat I mentioned that I'd like to try an MMF and she responded that she had another client who had expressed a similar interest.  A week or so later a meeting was arranged.  I was a little nervous, but excited more than anything and the meeting went past in what seemed like the blink of an eye. There was no pre-planning or discussion other than an agreement that it was to be a straight MMF.  There is something particularly naughty about spitroasting an eager participant.  it was at this moment that I acquired one of my most vivid punting memories of all time as the WG briefly paused from giving the other guy oral to inform him that "The Vicar is fucking my arse".  Well that well and truly tipped me over the edge and I completely lost any capacity to hold back.  For intensity it rated the full 10 out of 10.

That was my first time and it gave me a desire to pursue such experiences further which I continue to do from time to time ;)

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I was interested just for a chance to experience the feeling of dp. I am too long in the tooth to have concerns about another bloke seeing me naked though I wouldn't fancy a bukkake, gangbang or party scenario.

My first attempt from an AW entry ended up with me wandering round a Birmingham suburb on a very hot day waiting for the phone call to give me the address. It didn't arrive and it turned out the couple were out shopping.

The second attempt got as far as a meeting after I had explained the main purpose. Happy chat beforehand but in the event no penetrative sex at all - I sent a dissatisfied email afterwards and got the reply they don't have a set pattern and prefer to 'go with the flow'.

The third attempt was in a parlour which included a woman and man that would work together. Inexpensive and a very nice couple. Things were fine but when it came to anal on the lady I wilted for some reason. Don't know why - I was feeling perfectly at ease with everything.

So I may give up on that tick on the wishlist...or perhaps not.

But the parlour situation, while obviously rare, was easily the most convenient and relaxed.

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I'm still a newbie to threesomes but find them incredibly fun! I actually remember my first one which was in November last year and the one guy kept giving the other guy funny looks, I think he was uncomfortable being around him whilst he was naked, funny to see though!

It's a fantastic experience when everyone is fully involved! :D

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8 hours ago, TightYoungEbony said:

I'm still a newbie to threesomes but find them incredibly fun! I actually remember my first one which was in November last year and the one guy kept giving the other guy funny looks, I think he was uncomfortable being around him whilst he was naked, funny to see though!

It's a fantastic experience when everyone is fully involved! :D

I think that is the advantage of meeting a genuine couple, it cuts down on the risk of misunderstandings as there is only one new person in the arrangement.

Having said that I've found that the male half of the MF couple behave in varying ways.  IMO the least appealing is the type who wants to demonstrate what a stud he is :rolleyes: TBH I'm not that impressed if he is better endowed than me, I'm there to have a good time not compare sizes.  Apart from that, some couples like to be all involved from the off, in others the guy will often wait until things have warmed up a bit before getting involved which is usually a good way to start imo.  There is something deliciously kinky about undressing another man's wife and getting naughty with her while her husband watchesB).  That can go a stage further if they are into cuckolding which is also worth a try if the dynamics are right.

 

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31 minutes ago, TheVicar said:

  There is something deliciously kinky about undressing another man's wife and getting naughty with her while her husband watchesB).  That can go a stage further if they are into cuckolding which is also worth a try if the dynamics are right.

 

What's the difference between having sex with someone's wife and cuckolding, which my Shakespeare studies reminds me is having sex with someone's wife?

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11 minutes ago, vivluvsme said:

What's the difference between having sex with someone's wife and cuckolding, which my Shakespeare studies reminds me is having sex with someone's wife?

In Shakespearean terms they both count as cuckolding, but I guess that in this scene the difference would be that the husband plays a passive or even a submissive role, usually watching rather than getting involved.  There isn't a rulebook afaik, so as long as everyone is comfortable, you can play the scenario however you wish.

 

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Agreed

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My very limited experience of MMF backs up the Vicar's comment that visiting a couple who are a "real life" couple rather than a couple of friends just in it for the cash is the best way to go. I shall continue to look for more experiences in this area of recreational sex

 

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2 hours ago, erictheidol said:

My very limited experience of MMF backs up the Vicar's comment that visiting a couple who are a "real life" couple rather than a couple of friends just in it for the cash is the best way to go. I shall continue to look for more experiences in this area of recreational sex

 

As I mentioned before about the second couple I engaged with, they happily provided a meagre performance with no penetration as if it was a regular performance they had rehearsed before and perhaps some secret sign or wording from one alerted the other (presumably woman to man) to what was to be offered.

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Out of curiosity, do any guys ever find themselves being matched up with other blokes at the behest of the SP? I know I have a gent who is desperate for some MMF/cuckolding, but only if it's with another client type; no interest in hiring a male escort. I can't help but feel like this is something that isn't often done?

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16 minutes ago, SweetSummers said:

Out of curiosity, do any guys ever find themselves being matched up with other blokes at the behest of the SP? I know I have a gent who is desperate for some MMF/cuckolding, but only if it's with another client type; no interest in hiring a male escort. I can't help but feel like this is something that isn't often done?

If you look back at my initial post I did something close to this in my first MMF experience, where the SP already had another client who had expressed an interest in an MMF, and when I did likewise she went ahead and organised an MMF meet.

These days I tend to search for a genuine MF couple, but the above arrangement can work too.

 

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51 minutes ago, TheVicar said:

If you look back at my initial post I did something close to this in my first MMF experience, where the SP already had another client who had expressed an interest in an MMF, and when I did likewise she went ahead and organised an MMF meet.

These days I tend to search for a genuine MF couple, but the above arrangement can work too.

 

Apologies, I missed that! It's good to know it can work out! Unfortunately for this chap, I've yet to find another client (who has come to see me independently) also interested in this sort of thing!

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  With the opening of this section of the forum , can we now post guidance to fellow punters who are booking post op thai girls unknown to them in London .   

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I do have some experience of the party scene and don't have a problem banging girls in front of other men (and in case you are wondering I sadly am not the bloke at the party with the extra large cock eager to show off!).  Early experiences were just watching and bukake and then sessions with a girl and a partner, and yes it is very much better if the other guy is a genuine partner of the girl.  

I did have some very interesting experiences with a mistress who was pegging me whilst tied to her whipping stool which ended up with an older guy who was watching taking my arse.  This was so different to a bit of strap-on play that I had other sessions with them, and a four way with two ghirls and another bloke (and we ALL fucked each other) that any embarrassment about other blokes was removed.  Most recently I had a couple of very good sessions with a a young friend on this forum enjoying DP with a working girl in Harrogate.  You have to try everything once (or maybe a few times).

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2 hours ago, Beast said:

You have to try everything once (or maybe a few times).

Indisputably NO!!

There are things one shouldn't do and, more pertinent to this thread, things it may be very sensible for you not to do...

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On ‎16‎/‎05‎/‎2016 at 5:51 PM, vivluvsme said:
On ‎16‎/‎05‎/‎2016 at 5:51 PM, vivluvsme said:

Indisputably NO!!

There are things one shouldn't do and, more pertinent to this thread, things it may be very sensible for you not to do...

 

I never had VLM down as a spoil sport!!

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On 5/20/2016 at 7:25 PM, erictheidol said:

I never had VLM down as a spoil sport!!

Well I am more of a stick in the ... than you could possibly guess.

But I wouldn't recommend (from zilch experience) booking one's first TS or TV, choosing someone of big proportions with active preference and saying do your worst, big boy.

In addition, another site mentions a propensity for a number of service providers preferring bareback.

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Definition of wishful thinking: TS has arrived in Northampton asking a rate of £150 for 30 minutes.

Best of luck but may be a short visit.

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5 hours ago, vivluvsme said:

Definition of wishful thinking: TS has arrived in Northampton asking a rate of £150 for 30 minutes.

Best of luck but may be a short visit.

 With or without cock  ?

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4 hours ago, worldpunter said:

 With or without cock  ?

Eh?

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I think MMFs are great. That is, as long as the other male is cool and basically not a twat. My experiences have all been good. I also think there's no point doing it unless you're comfortable being naked around other guys.

For me it's a great power dynamic being one half of two guys fucking a female, doing DP or spit roast is great and or and cumming in a girl's mouth while she's being fucked is awesome. I also love the feeling of a girl riding on top of me and then getting anally penetrated by another person.

I've also been at a few parties where there's been like 4 or 5 blokes all over a girl and that isn't as fun in my opinion but only because it's too many people trying to get off, and guys do get more larey in those situations when hogging becomes an issue.

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I've had a quite a few mmf experiences with couples from AW most of which have been pretty good.

Experienced my first ever cream-pie cleanup recently that was pretty hot but my fave is watching the girl getting cum in her mouth then kissing her.

I'd do this more regularly but no decent couples around the Heathrow area, plenty of single girls who are up for mmf sessions so if anyone wants to go halves on a booking please pm me.

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The biggest problems with MMF's is that escorts often aren't keen to see two strange men together for safety. I won't meet two men who want to book me together for this reason.  I have discussed MMF's with some of my regulars and they have always been keen to see me with my male partner rather than another punter. Not sure of this is because they don't want to meet another punter or if the idea of seeing me with a regular civvy partner is more of a turn on. I have done a few MMF's with said partner and clients over the years and they have been great fun, but the main issue seems to be getting three people's diaries to match!

I think meeting an escort with her partner means the service can be what YOU want rather than trying to find a mate/other punter whose needs and wants are matched. If the male partner is part of the escort's service then he  will (or should) have the same desire as she does to please the client. I would also advise when doing this to makes sure you do discuss what you want and check what his boundaries are.  As discussed everyone as different ideas about a threesome. As The Vicar said, his MMF was a 'straight' one, had that not been agreed some poor bloke may have ended up with an unwanted cock in his mouth!

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I think meeting an escort with her partner means the service can be what YOU want rather than trying to find a mate/other punter whose needs and wants are matched. If the male partner is part of the escort's service then he  will (or should) have the same desire as she does to please the client. I would also advise when doing this to makes sure you do discuss what you want and check what his boundaries are.  As discussed everyone as different ideas about a threesome. As The Vicar said, his MMF was a 'straight' one, had that not been agreed some poor bloke may have ended up with an unwanted cock in his mouth!

Or worse...

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I was looking back at my spreadsheet and noticed that I had a couple of visits to 'Maggie and Eric' in June 2009.

I can't for the life of me recall where these took place but I believe they 'ceased trading' shortly after.

Can anyone remember this couple, please? and remind me where they operated. It's driving me mad that I can't recall this. I had made a note of two seriously good DVP sessions with them. It would have been not more that 50 miles from St Albans.

 

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