BluesMan

WG: A personal sex instructor

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I've had very few sexual experiences so far. My lack of experience does make me nervous when it comes to forming more intimate relationships with women.

I would like to visit an Indi on a regular basis and get better at sex. I'm not sure how to approach the session and let the WG know of my aspirations. I really want to get taught technique and how to give pleasure to your partner. (and have lots of naughty fun)

Anyone done something similar ?

or have any advice to offer?

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Don't worry mate, we've all been there and had to learn (or are still learning!!). What you suggest sounds like a pretty good idea, although I'd recommend perhaps seeing a few girls and just being up front like you are in your post. The reason is that being good in bed for one woman isn't going to automatically translate to you being all that great for another.

Being fit, and having plenty of stamina is often something that will be useful to have in reserve when bedroom activities commence, and it will also build your confidence. All the other techniques like knowing how and when to go down on your woman, when to touch and when not to you can pick up but can vary quite a lot from person to person.

If there is one great constant I have learned is if you can get a woman's imagination on your side you are already more than half the way there. Often us guys get trapped in our own sensations and selfishly enjoy what we are experiencing in our own heads. If something about her turns you on, show her how much, touch her there make lots of eye contact and let her know how a particularly sexually charged moment is exceptional and not just run of the mill.

I hope some of that helps, but I would have to say you are already on the way to becoming something above the ordinary for the right lady as you have the aspiration to learn and to be good. Everything else is just confidence and experience. Just make sure you enjoy acquiring both!

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I've had very few sexual experiences so far. My lack of experience does make me nervous when it comes to forming more intimate relationships with women.

I would like to visit an Indi on a regular basis and get better at sex. I'm not sure how to approach the session and let the WG know of my aspirations. I really want to get taught technique and how to give pleasure to your partner. (and have lots of naughty fun)

Anyone done something similar ?

or have any advice to offer?

see :

http://www.arianachevalier.com/services.htm

This lady has moved more into the coaching / teaching area of escorting. Looks like she's taking a break at the moment tho.

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See as many different women as possible, you will learn something new from each one and also start to feel more comfortable with women in general.

You could start off with a regular though. I have found most WGs and GFs reluctant to tell you what they really like though.

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I'll let you into a secret honey. There is absolutely no need to visit many women to learn techniques simply because us girlies are all very different. What turns one on most probably wont turn another on. Its the same for you men too.

The secret of good sex is communication, it really is that simple. Ask your woman what she likes, encourage her to tell you and make sure your really listening. Also watch the eyes, often there are give aways there.

Have fun.

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I prefer doing the research :confused: But I am going to take on board what you say and make a bigger effort to get my partners to tell me what they like. Possibly the main benefit of seeing lots of different women is that it does make you relax more when confronted by a new female, they don't seem such a strange other type of being anymore, and if she won't say what she likes you have a huge repertoire of possible turn-ons to fall back on.

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not any problem in experimenting but just remember what floats one boat may sink another........

Exploring is fun;)

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I'll let you into a secret honey. There is absolutely no need to visit many women to learn techniques simply because us girlies are all very different. What turns one on most probably wont turn another on. Its the same for you men too.The secret of good sex is communication, it really is that simple. Ask your woman what she likes, encourage her to tell you and make sure your really listening. Also watch the eyes, often there are give aways there.

Have fun.

Whilst we are not cumming machines, I think girls will find the majority of men reasonably predictable in what turns them on . We may have different specific predilections but happily for WGs there are nice simple common themes which work for most men. Its not rocket science !:)

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I really want to get taught technique and how to give pleasure to your partner.

Give them a tip?

not any problem in experimenting but just remember what floats one boat may sink another........

Exploring is fun;)

Isn't this a bit pointless if you're all talking about working girls? A lot of working girls don't even try to 'get off', unless you count being paid.

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see :

http://www.arianachevalier.com/services.htm

This lady has moved more into the coaching / teaching area of escorting. Looks like she's taking a break at the moment tho.

Yes this is exactly the kind of thing I was looking for, perfect - thank you. Shame she is no longer offering this service. Will email her just in case.

The check list she mentions in Surrogate partner are the kind of things I would like to become adept and confident with

Checklist:

* Do you know how to arouse a woman so she's ready for sex?

* Can you locate basic female anatomy e.g. if you had to find her clitoris would you know what it looked like? Do you know how to locate her G-spot and how to stimulate it?

* Can you give a sensuous massage using aromatherapy oils to relax or stimulate your partner?

* Do you know how to finger your partner to give her the most pleasure, or where the most sensory receptors are in the vagina?

* Do you feel confident as a lover or would you like to improve your confidence in this area?

And thank you for other tips as well

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see :

http://www.arianachevalier.com/services.htm

This lady has moved more into the coaching / teaching area of escorting. Looks like she's taking a break at the moment tho.

Thanks for sharing the web site with us.

She is one of the most educated WG I ever seen and received the sex worker of the year in 2007!!

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Whilst we are not cumming machines, I think girls will find the majority of men reasonably predictable in what turns them on . We may have different specific predilections but happily for WGs there are nice simple common themes which work for most men. Its not rocket science !:(

If only that was true our life/job would be so much simpler. Beleive it or not there really is a great deal of difference in turn ons between you boys, in my experience you are far from predictable.

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