lancelot

Premature Ejaculation

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How do you guys with PE deal with this when it come to paid sex? wank before?

I've met one or two providers who have said some guys cum when they put the condom on - now that really is PremEjac.

and do you consider there is a difference between not lasting long and premature ejaculation?

 

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Amongst its other fine attributes, isn't sildenafil, in its many guises, meant to help with PE?

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how long from the moment you slip on the condom, would you define premature ejeculation?

I've read guys have a wank the day before or something, try that and if not, wank in the morning before the meet lol.

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3 hours ago, Calynx said:

Amongst its other fine attributes, isn't sildenafil, in its many guises, meant to help with PE?

Helps all too well sometimes.

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4 hours ago, Calynx said:

Amongst its other fine attributes, isn't sildenafil, in its many guises, meant to help with PE?

I didnt know about that one.

I tried durex delay - or whatever its called - and it just numbed my prick - felt like a blob of senseless rubber - dreadful sensation.

but part of the reason for my post is I always thought I had PE - mainly because once inside I feel like racing to the finish line - then I watched some action

on the porn chanels and started to understand that with PE it leaves you frustrated - but it was clear to me that some of those guys in those clips are like me - fast finishers - but satisfied with their 1 minute or less - just like me andin fact dont have PE at all.

then there were those dribblers - if you know what I mean - through nervousness or some other fucked up psychoiogical hang up shit cant get any kind of satisfaction because they start dribbling out of a limp dick at the sight of a half decent pair of tits or the touch of a masseuse's lube primed fingers. Now that's PE in my view. Not sure what others think.

It has taken me quite some time to embrace my wham bam sex performance but there it is - that's what I do and I make the best of it. To be honest - it's a much better minute spent than 20 or 30 minutes hanging on and waiting until the time is "right"

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Escorts don't really care about PE, it's about your sexual satisfaction not theirs so surely it's better to enjoy a quick happy shag than fret about coming too soon and feeling rubbish when you do come rather than enjoying the moment (which I think is what Lancelot is saying at the end of his last post).

I guess if you are the sort of man who comes merely at the sight of a pair of tits then someone else can best advise, 

Incidentally, one of the most annoying things is clients who can't come at all and you're doing everything possible to make it happen and then tell you they had a wank earlier or have taken Viagra or similar... 

 

 

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Book a longer session and get the first pop out of the way as early as is polite to do so. You can then take more time easing into things, maybe a massage on your or on the WG and unless you suffer from erectile troubles too you should be able to rise for a second go and hopefully not have a hair trigger. I love a cum twice session and it is usually possible within an hour as long as there is a decent gap between pops.

Not tried any delay stuff or pills yet but as I get older these are starting to appeal a lot more so I am not going to bad mouth them at least until I've tried for myself.

 

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On 5/9/2016 at 0:54 AM, MinxyLydia said:

Escorts don't really care about PE, it's about your sexual satisfaction not theirs so surely it's better to enjoy a quick happy shag than fret about coming too soon and feeling rubbish when you do come rather than enjoying the moment (which I think is what Lancelot is saying at the end of his last post).

I guess if you are the sort of man who comes merely at the sight of a pair of tits then someone else can best advise, 

Incidentally, one of the most annoying things is clients who can't come at all and you're doing everything possible to make it happen and then tell you they had a wank earlier or have taken Viagra or similar... 

 

 

I care about PE but only because in its purest form, and not because the guy is a fast finisher, the guy feels gutted and looks devastated.  Like he's taken his neighbour's puppy for a walk and let it get run over.  

I always wish the guy had told me beforehand.  It makes a difference if I know as we approach it differently.

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On 5/10/2016 at 3:58 PM, Iron Duke said:

Book a longer session and get the first pop out of the way as early as is polite to do so. You can then take more time easing into things, maybe a massage on your or on the WG and unless you suffer from erectile troubles too you should be able to rise for a second go and hopefully not have a hair trigger. I love a cum twice session and it is usually possible within an hour as long as there is a decent gap between pops.

Not tried any delay stuff or pills yet but as I get older these are starting to appeal a lot more so I am not going to bad mouth them at least until I've tried for myself.

 

Popping the first one out works for a fast finisher.  But not for PE, not for real PE.  It's like a penile panic attack.

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On 23/06/2016 at 2:01 AM, Ebonypru said:

I care about PE but only because in its purest form, and not because the guy is a fast finisher, the guy feels gutted and looks devastated.  Like he's taken his neighbour's puppy for a walk and let it get run over.  

I always wish the guy had told me beforehand.  It makes a difference if I know as we approach it differently.

@Ebonypru, that puppy allegory was so spot on I nearly spat my drink on my laptop.  Not because I'm laughing at anyone that suffers ED or is a fast finisher, but because I can't possibly think of a better way to illustrate the point than the way you did so very eloquently.  You're a true wordsmith, you are.

Guys, if you feel (in your own mind) that you finish too quickly, or indeed not quickly enough - we're all good with that.  Seriously!  Variety is the spice of life, and most of us rather like rising to the challenge (pun not intended). If you're feeling all stressed about your "performance" when visiting us... well that's just crazy talk. now isn't it?  ;):P

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