Ebonypru

Body To Body Massage Question

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I may sound a bit naive but ... here goes!

What's involved in a Body To Body Massage?

I very naively, when asked about it recently said, yes, not a problem.  Then towards the end of the call, he repeated again, was I sure about the body to body massage? And I'm thinking, why is this a big deal?  But it bothered me enough to start to wonder, what's the deal with a body to body massage?  What have I agreed to.  It sounds simple.  

I'm realising that it must be a very messy, oily service.  Which means 1. more mess than I'm happy to clear up after, compared to a usual GFE meet.  He wants anal also.  so 2. I can see us having to pause to go clean up before the condoms come into contact with the oil and get compromised.  No way am I using a whole bottle of lube at £12 for a body to body massage.

Going through the forums here, I see body to body seems to be only offered in massage parlours with or without a hand job happy ending.  But not with full sex.

And I'm beginning to suspect this was why he wanted reassurance that he could have B2B and anal in the same session.

Now I think need to back track when next he calls (we almost would have met today) and explain the impracticalities of B2B and penetration and apologise that I misunderstood.  I'm definitelly not keen on the extra mess.  And he won't be keen about us having to jump into the shower to take it to the next level.

Oops!  Better though than for him to arrive and then I seem to move the goal posts!

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I think you've hit the nail on the head Pru.  He's been watching too much porn.

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Drat and double drat!  Making me wonder if what he was asking, without asking, was for bare back.  I'll grill him next time he phones and tell him it's either or, but my preference is for the Anal.  Less exhausting!

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Preference for anal.  Now that's interesting!

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7 hours ago, robert49 said:

Preference for anal.  Now that's interesting!

Even if I didn't love anal, which I do with a passion, I don't think I've got the stamina for sustaining writhing my body against someone else for longer than 2 minutes!

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My regular lady has always given me five or so minutes of body to body and does not find it necessary to use any lubricant. It is something I enjoy massively as incredibly erotic.

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A good massage performed by someone trained is extremely relaxing and renewing

The body to body massages I got at Ego, were a bit half hearted. Probably because they were neither one thing or another. The few gilrs I saw offered a decent massage, followed by a few up and down rubs of the masseuses body against mine while I lay on my front, followed by hand relief. From my experience of Ego, Charlize was the only one who got the whole body to body thing right. But she is also an escort. 

Either have a massage. Or see an escort who  is skilled massuese and can offer a good massage either pre or post bonk.

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29 minutes ago, enquire said:

A good massage performed by someone trained is extremely relaxing and renewing

The body to body massages I got at Ego, were a bit half hearted. Probably because they were neither one thing or another. The few gilrs I saw offered a decent massage, followed by a few up and down rubs of the masseuses body against mine while I lay on my front, followed by hand relief. From my experience of Ego, Charlize was the only one who got the whole body to body thing right. But she is also an escort. 

Either have a massage. Or see an escort who  is skilled massuese and can offer a good massage either pre or post bonk.

Nowt wrong with rubbing bodies together!  Just depends on how messy he expects it to be, and I may be jumping to conclusions here about that.   Will ask him if he calls back.  

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Body to body massages are easy. I use coconut oil but you can use other things, I wouldnt personally ever use lube as it will go sticky before too long, warm oil is good, olive oil is good also or just got standard baby oil or baby oil gel if you dont want to get some sweet almond base oil.

Ill email you pru xxx

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10 hours ago, enquire said:

A good massage performed by someone trained is extremely relaxing and renewing

The body to body massages I got at Ego, were a bit half hearted. Probably because they were neither one thing or another. The few gilrs I saw offered a decent massage, followed by a few up and down rubs of the masseuses body against mine while I lay on my front, followed by hand relief. From my experience of Ego, Charlize was the only one who got the whole body to body thing right. But she is also an escort. 

Either have a massage. Or see an escort who  is skilled massuese and can offer a good massage either pre or post bonk.

Thats because there is no training for a body to body, its not a professional massage, its an erotic one, you cant go somewhere to learn it and gain a qualification like the other sorts of massage there are no specific muscle groups targeted or ways to do it, you have to come up with it yourself or watch someone else give one to know. Its just using your whole body to slide slowly and sensualy across and around the other persons whole body, front and back.  Seeing someone for a massage wont show pru how to give a body to body unless she goes for a body to body and gets someone who knows how to do it properly unfortunatley. Ive pmd her how I do mine anyhow so I hope it helps. I did a little stint at ego three years ago where I did double bookings with a couple of the girls, I think Charlize may have been one of them, so the showed me how to do it. Plus, remember, Charlize is WAAAAY more flexible than the average woman, or girl even so she can probably do a few moves that are hard for others.

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14 minutes ago, Chloe Kisses said:

Thats because there is no training for a body to body, its not a professional massage, its an erotic one, you cant go somewhere to learn it and gain a qualification like the other sorts of massage there are no specific muscle groups targeted or ways to do it, you have to come up with it yourself or watch someone else give one to know. Its just using your whole body to slide slowly and sensualy across and around the other persons whole body, front and back.  Seeing someone for a massage wont show pru how to give a body to body unless she goes for a body to body and gets someone who knows how to do it properly unfortunatley. Ive pmd her how I do mine anyhow so I hope it helps. I did a little stint at ego three years ago where I did double bookings with a couple of the girls, I think Charlize may have been one of them, so the showed me how to do it. Plus, remember, Charlize is WAAAAY more flexible than the average woman, or girl even so she can probably do a few moves that are hard for others.

Thanks for your email, Chloe!

Talking about flexibility, that's my number one concern about body to body.  It needs more stamina than people give it credit for, and flexibility.  It's easier done when standing up, like rubbing soapy bodies together in the shower.  But lying down, I think I'd collapse in a necrophillic heap after 5 minutes!  I may need to take up pilates!

Got sweet almond oil for general massages.  I've never been trained in massage, but I massage the way I would want to be massaged and that seems to work very well.  The lube I use doesn't get sticky.  It's pjur.  

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2 minutes ago, Ebonypru said:

Thanks for your email, Chloe!

Talking about flexibility, that's my number one concern about body to body.  It needs more stamina than people give it credit for, and flexibility.  It's easier done when standing up, like rubbing soapy bodies together in the shower.  But lying down, I think I'd collapse in a necrophillic heap after 5 minutes!  I may need to take up pilates!

Got sweet almond oil for general massages.  I've never been trained in massage, but I massage the way I would want to be massaged and that seems to work very well.  The lube I use doesn't get sticky.  It's pjur.  

No dont be silly, you will be fine, if my arms get tired then I put them forward over his shoulder and just lay flat on the guy and carry on sliding, its another feeling for them and to be honest, done really slowly, they love it. I wouldnt use all that pjur for a body to body, its not cheap at . Dont worry about flexibility either, so long as you can get your legs to either side of him all will be good xx

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10 hours ago, Chloe Kisses said:

. I did a little stint at ego three years ago where I did double bookings with a couple of the girls, I think Charlize may have been one of them, so the showed me how to do it. Plus, remember, Charlize is WAAAAY more flexible than the average woman, or girl even so she can probably do a few moves that are hard for others.

Yay for Charlize! If she showed you how, you had a good teacher.

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