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Escort Wearing Wedding Ring

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As a punter I've always found it an extra turn on when I meet a married escort who is wearing her wedding ring,

How do you married escorts feel about wearing your wedding ring while on the job?...or do you remove it while at work?

Any other punters out there who get an extra buzz when they meet an escort that is married or does it turn you off? I suspect most of you couldn't give a hoot and it's the last thing your noticing or looking for :-)

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I wore a wedding style ring many years before I became involved with the person who is now my husband. I found the ring made no difference to most men either paid for, or in private life. I stopped wearing the ring for a few years, and have worn my actual wedding ring ever since getting married.

I'm very happy and very proud to wear it, some clients notice it, some don't, some will ask am I in a relationship, some presume I'm single and are a bit gobsmacked when I say I'm not only in one, I'm married to that person.

A few clients have asked will my husband be coming around to beat them up, not sure where that comes from - I suspect it's because many men are used to 'possessive' relationships?Why on earth I'd be with someone who would ruin my business is a bit of an insult to me! My marriage doesn't affect service provided and stays in my private life.

 

One or two clients have jokingly said "I should have married you then we could do away with the condom". I have corrected these, because marriage hasn't changed the fact that I don't have unprotected intercourse with any sexual partner, paid or unpaid.

Others ask is he ok with me seeing other men, answer is when working of course he is, I come with the job. What can be interesting is when a client asks these types of questions mid BJ, or mid shag. Seems a bit daft if the answer isn't one which turns you on.

Then there are the few clients who think I'm advertising as an Escort because I 'need' to find a partner, and that I'm on the market so to speak - well in truth I am, for a fee, but outside of that zilch.

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Forgot to include the old "I bet you provide this service you don't provide to me to your husband". Err no, and that sort of conversation when repeated several times becomes very tedious. The reality is that when on duty I tend to do a lot more than in my personal life, I'm in 'this man is paying me well, he's going to get my full enthusiastic attention, great service' mode.

If a client finds my ring and status a turn on, I can hardly argue with that, however I dislike having my life poked and pried into during bookings - so all depends how he behaves with that.

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If you watch porn it is surprising how many performers wear a wedding ring and not just in cuckold movies.  I do occasionally wonder when I see blokes with wedding rings doing over some girl  what reaction their wives have to see them appear to very much enjoy themselves and balls deep in every orifice going?  This must be especially difficult when the guys are older (and presumably their wives) and they are doing a 19 year old.

I cant say it bothers me if a wg has a wedding ring (although I have enjoyed partners joining in), I only oce recall having a lovely time with a girl who said' if your wife could see you now!', luckily she couldn't!

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I've never been married whilst doing this, and I'm wondering if I would wear my wedding ring or not if I were married... I'm not sure, there's part of me that would want to keep Lydia and *realname* separate, but then I might also feel weird about removing ring... hmmm...

I would also have to consider the clients who would do the 'does your husband know?' 'How does he feel?' questions which would be a bit annoying, but I do get them now if they ask if I am attached and i say yes which is as annoying as the sad looking faces who say 'I don't suppose you have a boyfriend doing this' which I get currently! 

It's not really relevant to the booking, but do sort of understand why clients are intrigued so I don't let it bother me. 

incidentally, I know escorts who pretend to be single because it fits with their brand better and some who pretend to be attached to put off those hunting for a hooker girlfriend or to imply a man lives with them for safety reasons, so you don't really know if the wedding ring is real or not! 

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I do not like it at all. I like the fantasy of a gfe, I don't want to know I'm shagging someone else's girlfriend or wife. I don't expect them all to be single but I don't want to know about it. I saw a WG the other day who advertised dfk only to be denied. Fair enough it's discretionary but she didn't need to add 'I only kiss my boyfriend'. Major turn off. I don't want to know!

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an escort wearing her wedding ring in a booking is no different to a punter wearing his. A wedding ring isnt going to ruin a fantasy when you have to hand over a wad of cash for the fantasy to start

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12 hours ago, Chloe Kisses said:

an escort wearing her wedding ring in a booking is no different to a punter wearing his. A wedding ring isnt going to ruin a fantasy when you have to hand over a wad of cash for the fantasy to start

So true, when i started I used to take mine off and now I keep mine on and now no longer even notice if the SP is wearing one unless it's particularly attractive and has unusual gems in it. 

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16 hours ago, audioguy said:

I do not like it at all. I like the fantasy of a gfe, I don't want to know I'm shagging someone else's girlfriend or wife. I don't expect them all to be single but I don't want to know about it. I saw a WG the other day who advertised dfk only to be denied. Fair enough it's discretionary but she didn't need to add 'I only kiss my boyfriend'. Major turn off. I don't want to know!

This was totally insensitive, and she shouldn't be listing it as at discretionary because it's obvious it's not on offer!

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5 hours ago, Tenacity said:

So true, when i started I used to take mine off and now I keep mine on and now no longer even notice if the SP is wearing one unless it's particularly attractive and has unusual gems in it. 

I don't mind a wedding ring so much I'd be too busy looking at her other bits. As a punter I'm expected not to ask personal questions, but neither do I want them to volunteer anything. 

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21 hours ago, Chloe Kisses said:

an escort wearing her wedding ring in a booking is no different to a punter wearing his. A wedding ring isnt going to ruin a fantasy when you have to hand over a wad of cash for the fantasy to start

Absolutely agree. 

We all know it's a fantasy, from the moment you hand over the cash so I'm not sure why a WG wearing her wedding ring would bother any punter unless he's seeking more than a "fantasy". 

 

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A working girl's fingers are just about the last part of her body I'd expect to notice - mainly because I'd expect her to be doing things with them. The obvious exception, I suppose, is if she let me suck them after she'd masturbated.

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The marital and relationship status of an escort is not my business. I probably would not notice if she wore a ring or not. 

The only thing that gives me a buzz is the skill of the wg. Oh and the anticipation of a booking with someone I either know, or an escort on my wishlist. I also get a buzz from the memory of a good booking, and I get a thrill from the actual booking. Oh bloody hell, there are two correspondents on this thread I hope to see in the  future. I now have a buzz of anticipation I better sign out and do some cleaning and gardening. Hard labour for me.

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I've found that if I leave my nose ring in (think fresian) it gives a client something to hang on to when approaching the vineagar stroke :D

Only ring I would ever notice is.....well. let's not go there, it's a family board after all :D

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11 minutes ago, EnjoyEmily said:

I've found that if I leave my nose ring in (think fresian) it gives a client something to hang on to when approaching the vineagar stroke :D

Only ring I would ever notice is.....well. let's not go there, it's a family board after all :D

What is a vinegar stroke?

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I always thought it's the last stoke before a male cums, the point of no return. Some say it's called vinegar stroke because of the face expression you pull at orgasm is the same as if you'd taken a swig of vinegar. The latter don't make much sense to me tho.

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I remember a while back having a bizarre conversation with a client. I actually blogged about the encounter which involved me being blindfolded and tied up and not seeing the client beforehand. I must add that I had references and plenty of info to know he wasn't a nutter and don't usually do this kind of scenario but was in the mood for something different and security wise I was safe.

Anyway, I had been abroad a month before and had bought myself a beautiful solitaire diamond ring to myself but on returning back to the UK with colder weather my fingers shrinked and the ring was too big so I put a plain band on top of it and kept telling myself to get it resized. So in effect it looked like a wedding band and engagement ring. Before the client arrived I took it off and put it on my dressing table as I never wear rings in a booking, who knows where the might end up! 

The role play scenario was amazing and as we got chatting afterwards the client who was around late 20's asked me if I was married. I told him I wasn't and asked him why. He said he didn't believe me because he saw my wedding ring on the dressing table. I laughed and explained it needed resizing hence the two rings together and then asked even if I was would it be a problem and he said that in all honesty it probably would be for him. At least he was honest but I could tell he thought I was maybe lying. If I was married I wouldn't leave my wedding ring and engagement ring on the table but it goes to show never mind noticing it on my finger, he noticed it full stop! I also wore it on my right not left hand but then in some countries that is the correct wedding hand I think.

Anyway, I have seen him numerous times since and guess what.... we are getting married! No no I am only joking! We are not! But clearly he is over the view I am unmarried but funnily enough I did get a marriage proposal from a client last week but not the same client. Maybe I should have told him I was already married! 

Incidentally, I have lots of escort friends who are married or in a long term relationship as are most of our clients! 

God, you can't win. Open to offers and diamonds though! ha ha! :P

Sofia xx

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5 minutes ago, sofialondon said:

I remember a while back having a bizarre conversation with a client. I actually blogged about the encounter which involved me being blindfolded and tied up and not seeing the client beforehand. I must add that I had references and plenty of info to know he wasn't a nutter and don't usually do this kind of scenario but was in the mood for something different and security wise I was safe.

Anyway, I had been abroad a month before and had bought myself a beautiful solitaire diamond ring to myself but on returning back to the UK with colder weather my fingers shrinked and the ring was too big so I put a plain band on top of it and kept telling myself to get it resized. So in effect it looked like a wedding band and engagement ring. Before the client arrived I took it off and put it on my dressing table as I never wear rings in a booking, who knows where the might end up! 

The role play scenario was amazing and as we got chatting afterwards the client who was around late 20's asked me if I was married. I told him I wasn't and asked him why. He said he didn't believe me because he saw my wedding ring on the dressing table. I laughed and explained it needed resizing hence the two rings together and then asked even if I was would it be a problem and he said that in all honesty it probably would be for him. At least he was honest but I could tell he thought I was maybe lying. If I was married I wouldn't leave my wedding ring and engagement ring on the table but it goes to show never mind noticing it on my finger, he noticed it full stop! I also wore it on my right not left hand but then in some countries that is the correct wedding hand I think.

Anyway, I have seen him numerous times since and guess what.... we are getting married! No no I am only joking! We are not! But clearly he is over the view I am indeed married but funnily enough I did get a marriage proposal from a client last week but not the same client. Maybe I should have told him I was already married! 

Incidentally, I have lots of escort friends who are married or in a long term relationship as are most of our clients! 

God, you can't win. Open to offers and diamonds though! ha ha! :P

Sofia xx

 

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On ‎03‎/‎06‎/‎2016 at 9:31 AM, Ace ventura punt detective said:

As a punter I've always found it an extra turn on when I meet a married escort who is wearing her wedding ring,

How do you married escorts feel about wearing your wedding ring while on the job?...or do you remove it while at work?

Any other punters out there who get an extra buzz when they meet an escort that is married or does it turn you off? I suspect most of you couldn't give a hoot and it's the last thing your noticing or looking for :-)

As long as she 'doesn't' hold back in the bedroom in any way because she's married!  So if she has zero mental ties, then I've absolutely no problem with her wearing a wedding ring, or seeing any married escort whether she wears her wedding ring or not. 

 

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On 6/3/2016 at 10:37 AM, Strawberry said:

Forgot to include the old "I bet you provide this service you don't provide to me to your husband". Err no, and that sort of conversation when repeated several times becomes very tedious. The reality is that when on duty I tend to do a lot more than in my personal life, I'm in 'this man is paying me well, he's going to get my full enthusiastic attention, great service' mode.

If a client finds my ring and status a turn on, I can hardly argue with that, however I dislike having my life poked and pried into during bookings - so all depends how he behaves with that.

It's amazing how many men are dumb enough to think they'd get the same level of enthusiasm in the bedroom if they could persuade the escort to stop seeing them as a client and see them as a (and I use the term loosely here) boy-friend.  Another thread here suggested that an escort has no excuse to refuse sex to her partner if she's offering it to all her clients.  But the clients are paying.  Everyone gets out of bed for a pay check.  And hardly any one on here would turn up at work if they knew they would not be getting paid.

Clients that pry and poke are fed a lot of bull-shit answers.  Kinder than telling them to mind their own business.

 

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On 04/06/2016 at 9:23 AM, Strawberry said:

This was totally insensitive, and she shouldn't be listing it as at discretionary because it's obvious it's not on offer!

Yeah, discretionary french kiss is only discretionary if it might possibly be on offer.  Otherwise, what in that actual fuck are you on about?  Discretionary isn't the same as imaginary but is never giong to happen.  C'mon girls.... be honest.

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