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Attributes to a good 'punt' .........

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Guy's, what would you say attributes to a good punt for you ?

be it punctuality, overall attitude, rate of service, detail to attention on an individual service etc,...chemistry, hitting the high note etc,,,

what does this for you ? xxx

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Guy's, what would you say attributes to a good punt for you ?

be it punctuality, overall attitude, rate of service, detail to attention on an individual service etc,...chemistry, hitting the high note etc,,,

what does this for you ? xxx

Chemistry ------- plus it helps if the girl has a six inch tongue. :):P

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great thread! Can't wait to read the replies xx

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Guy's, what would you say attributes to a good punt for you ?

be it punctuality, overall attitude, rate of service, detail to attention on an individual service etc,...chemistry, hitting the high note etc,,,

what does this for you ? xxx

Hi Tash and a belated but very Happy New Year to you xxx.

Chemistry and overall attitude are tops for me but I appreciate that that's a two way thing.

As for hitting the high notes, I would only expect that to happen if you squeezed my balls too hard :):)

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Guy's, what would you say attributes to a good punt for you ?

be it punctuality, overall attitude, rate of service, detail to attention on an individual service etc,...chemistry, hitting the high note etc,,,

what does this for you ? xxx

Well it's funny, I'd say that when you click with a girl and there's great chemistry it makes for a fantastic session. As I found out early in 2009...:) Punctuality and that sort of thing help of course but hopefully that all goes without saying, on both sides.

Trying something new with someone you get on well with can also make for an amazing time :) As well as having a laugh and being able to be on the same wavelength conversationally.

Having said that, I revisited a lady a month or so back whose oral skills blew my mind - literally had me clawing the sheets - but after the "main event" :) I found the conversation very stilted, almost like she wanted me out of the door. We got on fine but I thought, "does she think I'm an idiot?" That's not unknown of course :)

A very nice lady but, I don't know, I got the impression I was boring her - an odd feeling.

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Proper kissing, cuddling and body to body contact with no holding back. In other words like a proper girlfriend.

I say proper kissing because there is kissing and kissing!

I also love to give oral and prefer to receive OWO.

It is also vital that she shows some enthusiam and responsiveness, even if it is only an act. If she's convincing the punter shouldn't usually be able to tell anyway. Friendly attitude is also vital.

Sex in various positions is important too!

Other kinkier services such as rimming both ways, w/s and anal are always a bonus.

Oh, and in my vast experience the best ones never ask for the money before they've done anything. I know this isn't always feasible, especially with a new client, and if I was a wg I'd want the money up front with a new client, but as I say in my experience the best ones never ask for the money before they've done anything to earn it. :)

Now a bad punt, when the money has invariably been handed over, is no kissing, or kissing that barely counts as kissing. No body to body contact. No friendliness, responsiveness or enthusiasm. No receiving oral or the 'don't do this, don't do that attitude.'

In other words the obviously 'she's not cut out for this, is blatantly only in it for the money (all are, but good ones don't show it) and ought to be doing something else' type wg. :)

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Guy's, what would you say attributes to a good punt for you ?

be it punctuality, overall attitude, rate of service, detail to attention on an individual service etc,...chemistry, hitting the high note etc,,,

what does this for you ? xxx

At least a passing resemblance to published pictures and vital statistics.

Provision of agreed and paid-for services in a manner that at least masks revulsion etc.

To put the Oscar winning performance on hold and act in as "natural" a way as possible given the circumstances.

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Chemistry and quality of service are the only things that matter! And ultimately it is just the former.

Punctuality and quality of location are nice, but I can forgive anything if the wg is skilled and, more importantly, establishes a chemistry or rapport with me that makes me feel that she likes me, wants to be with me and enjoys our time together.

Don't know if I would feel different if I went for PSEs rather than GFEs, but the only thing that truly matters in a GFE is that you feel the girl could be your lover for the duration of the meeting.

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'Chemistry', which for me means someone I'm attracted to on different levels with a good rapport and strong sense of mutuality, makes for a great punt - things happen seamlessly and feel spontaneous. But, for me at least, this is very rare.

On the other hand, 'attitude' makes a good punt: friendliness, attentiveness, enthusiasm, and eye contact (absolutely crucial that one, not necessarily all the time but its absence suggests to me that she is, or wishes she was, somewhere else; not exactly the hallmark of a good punt!)

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'Chemistry', which for me means someone I'm attracted to on different levels with a good rapport and strong sense of mutuality, makes for a great punt - things happen seamlessly and feel spontaneous. But, for me at least, this is very rare.

On the other hand, 'attitude' makes a good punt: friendliness, attentiveness, enthusiasm, and eye contact (absolutely crucial that one, not necessarily all the time but its absence suggests to me that she is, or wishes she was, somewhere else; not exactly the hallmark of a good punt!)

Any good whore will do all those things, but with some clients the chemistry can bowl you over so much so you can forget you are actually working and enjoy the session physically and mentally.. it is rare but brilliant when this happens...

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For me, it's being made to feel like, for the hour, that I'm the only person who matters, and getting that feeling of being genuine. I hate the type of punts where it seems mechanical, but I appreciate that most girls are hardly going to "click" with every punter they meet.

I always make an effort to be genuine, make the lady laugh, and be a bit cheeky in my demeanour. However, that's what I'm like in any case, so it's easy for me. I find that in most cases, this works very well, but not every WG is going to click with me, for whatever reason. Alot simply depends on whether personalities are compatible or not, so luck comes into play. But then again, that's because I look for a GFE. Those looking for something else would have different answers to me, I'm sure.

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I think two things mean a chap has had a good punt:

No 1. He feels happy and 'released' sexually after the appointment and,

No 2. He still thinks a week or so later he'd like to repeat the experience.

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'Chemistry', which for me means someone I'm attracted to on different levels with a good rapport and strong sense of mutuality, makes for a great punt - things happen seamlessly and feel spontaneous. But, for me at least, this is very rare.

On the other hand, 'attitude' makes a good punt: friendliness, attentiveness, enthusiasm, and eye contact (absolutely crucial that one, not necessarily all the time but its absence suggests to me that she is, or wishes she was, somewhere else; not exactly the hallmark of a good punt!)

I agree with all of this. In addition it is very pleasant if the lady makes you feel that money is not the No. 1 object (although of course it is for her). The other month my favourite lovely lady actually insisted on refunding to me £30 of her very reasonable fee because she thought that she had to rush me a bit (although she didn't and never has done). No wonder I go back to see her as often as possible.

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The key for any service provider is to do well is under promise and over delivery.

You go to an appointment expecting certain services at a given price for a set fee.

The price is set, but being given something either unexpected or your time over runs, even if it is only by 5 minutes, will always help you to remember the appointment as good.

The other important thing for me is attitude. A calm and relaxed attitude comes across. A tense or jumpy attitute always makes me feel they would rather be doing something else, with someone else and be elsewhere.

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For me its all about chemistry and how we get on, as well as been offered the services. Also, no rushing nor clock watching and nothing said when over time because of taking up the services offered.

Then after its over, feeling happy and saying to myself 'I'm going back for more'

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I want to enjoy it, and a big part of that is knowing (or being convinced!) that the woman (or women!) enjoy it too. If she seems to be having a good time, I will have a good time.

So make it seem like you WANT the guy to go down on you (for the XXth time that day!), or want him to undress you or squeeze your boobs too hard etc. It doesn't mean you can't advise or tell the punter if they do something that you don't like, but at least act like you appreciate the OK stuff :) Some women are great at this.

Not always easy I know, but ultimately, that is what it comes down to.

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Being accepted as an equal helps to get things off on the right foot.

Having the escort take notice of any requests you may have.

And if she is honest about what she does on her web-site.

If you have experianced that, you will go back for more.

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Provision of agreed and paid-for services in a manner that at least masks revulsion etc.

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Yes, I think that's the least you could ask for.

Couldn't put it better myself. :)

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Guy's, what would you say attributes to a good punt for you ?

be it punctuality, overall attitude, rate of service, detail to attention on an individual service etc,...chemistry, hitting the high note etc,,,

what does this for you ? xxx

I think sincerity is what really counts.

Once you can fake that, you've got it made.

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Here are the factors that, IMHO, determine the Quality of a date.

In order of importance, they are:

1. Mental connect. Spark.

2. Mutual enjoyment (Quality acting or real enjoyment)

3. Bedroom Mechanics, the PSE

4. Personality, Education, General background

5. Looks and physique.

Out of these factors, the first two are the most important. The 5th item, "looks", is only marginally important. To put it bluntly: I've seen several Ladies who would qualify as only marginally beautiful, but who were Top Quality Dates because they scored highly on 1, 2 and 3.

Items 2 and 3 reflect the fact that it is "only" a business transaction. I am after all first and foremost looking for a no-strings-attached moment of Fun.

I hesitated to put 4 (background, personality) before 5 (model-looks?), but decided that a "personality" is probably more of a turn-on then looks-alone. A Lady with a lot of personality is always automatically beautiful, whether she is an agile size 8 or a comfortable size 16.

Item 4 is also the most risky. I got dangerously close to some of the regulars, and despite the risk, I would not mind to stay in touch with them. They are quite interesting Personalities to talk/chat to.

Does this look familiar? has this been done before? - nay always good to re-iterate the good messages concering Quality Escort Dates (QED)

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Stuff like being accurately represented and punctuality should be a given.

I may well be in the minority on this but I like the escort to take the lead. Perhaps I will then suggest some avenues, but I wish to be taken on a journey, an experience where I don't have to make decisions. I was only just thinking about this recently, and I tend to treat the escort like a piece of bone china as I don't want her to feel uncomfortable.

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Stuff like being accurately represented and punctuality should be a given.

I may well be in the minority on this but I like the escort to take the lead. Perhaps I will then suggest some avenues, but I wish to be taken on a journey, an experience where I don't have to make decisions. I was only just thinking about this recently, and I tend to treat the escort like a piece of bone china as I don't want her to feel uncomfortable.

But, as in real life, this can lead to dis-satisfaction if you are not sufficiently assertive as you don't always get what you want.

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But, as in real life, this can lead to dis-satisfaction if you are not sufficiently assertive as you don't always get what you want.

I agree. Not 'dis-satisfaction' but I do feel like I may be being too careful and considerate.

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I agree with most of the replies, their are definately some girls who dont belong in the buisness.

A true gfe should be that , not a pop your cork and then get you out the door as quick as possible.

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a pleasant smile and a kiss at the door. offered a drink. proper kissing and the lady taking control and not always having to be asked to do this and that. something different a little out of the blue( no not a dildo in the ass:p)

I can tell within seconds if a girl is going to be something special. you just know when it will be good. a girls attitude makes a huge impact for me

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