stubbcat

Offering to give a lift to and from the station?

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 I'm hoping to have a response from both WG and punters on this one, because I guess the situation can apply both ways.

I have taken to booking ladies for outcalls to my place. Recently I made an booking for 90mins at 1pm.

The lady says that she is traveling by train. This would mean a ten minute or so taxi journey for her after she gets the train, so I offer to pick her up from the station. On the day I ask what time train arrives, she replies 1pm. Whilst I don't know train timetables inside out I'm not sure I believe her.

Would you count travel time? You are after all paying for time with a girl. By offering a lift, have I just shaved 10 mins off my booking? I would feel a little mean not offering a lift in future, but at same time I feel that she has seen it as opportunity to waste a little time, as if I had not offered a lift she would have had been expected to be at my place for 1pm.

Is it rude to raise the subject in future as 10 minutes is not a great deal of time, and I did a really good time otherwise?

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She is 'playing' the businesswoman with you: the time starts from the moment she enters the premises and you can start removing your clothes or do whatever you want.  She is not going to remove her clothes in the train station is she?  She is clearly greedy.

There are hundreds of girls who would not dream of behaving like that, you might want to check with other girls if they are agreeing with YOUR terms or not and then make your choice.

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What makes you think that she will start the clock at 1pm when she's not at your place? I don't understand. 

You should communicate with her and mention that the booking you made was for 1pm not later. She may well have been genuine and give you the full 90 mins from when she is in your place and in the bedroom. And she may well be a clock watcher, from your post I'm getting that the booking already took place? So did you get the full 90 mins? 

I have been late for an outcall before and turned up later than the booking time, have apologised and he got his full two hours and then some. I think most genuine service providers wouldn't be starting the booking when they are at the train station..

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I'm new here, I've only been escorting since March, and I only do outcalls, but I assumed it was universally understood the time starts from the moment I arrive at the booking! It's up to me how I get there (I do usually travel by train and taxi) and I wouldn't dream of charging the client for normal travel time (unless it's massively out of my area.)

Relying on trains also makes it difficult to be accurate with timekeeping, so I'll usually arrange an appointment for "about 7pm", for example. It's not usually a problem as I only work evenings, and the client knows the arrival time might not be exact, but I always stay for at least the full time of the booking. 

I might sound really naive and inexperienced by saying this, but it's important to me that my client enjoys himself, and that's not gonna happen if we've already pissed each other off before the start of the encounter!

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Welcome Emma,

You don't sound at all naive. I am sure that all escorts who post here would totally agree with you. Unfortunately not everybody out in the big punting world behaves ethically.You however will build up a satisfied clientele and get the repeat business and prosper. I wish you well. 

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I'd just not accept the lift. Keeps everything clean and simple. 

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Would you count travel time? You are after all paying for time with a girl. By offering a lift, have I just shaved 10 mins off my booking? I would feel a little mean not offering a lift in future, but at same time I feel that she has seen it as opportunity to waste a little time, as if I had not offered a lift she would have had been expected to be at my place for 1pm.

Is it rude to raise the subject in future as 10 minutes is not a great deal of time, and I did a really good time otherwise?

Personally, I would have thought that if you were kind enough to offer  a  lift, it'd be polite to exclude that from the official appointment time.

I'm not an expert on how escorts operate, but I'd imagine it's the same as any other business.... therefore you rely on the regulars to keep them going... and any client who's made a booking is a potential "regular". Even if it wasn't discussed, it would have been a nice "good-will" gesture to exclude that from the time; after all, you've already saved her £10 or so from the cab fare. If I offered a lift and she then decided that this was included in the official booking time, I would be less likely to book that escort in future.

Having said that, underneath all the lingerie, uniforms, "little-black-dresses" etc. lies an individual human being... and each capable of deciding whether a cab fare should be included in the time. I would say check their website for FAQ's etc. on the matter. If nothing's mentioned on that front, I don't think there's any harm in asking for clarification.

 

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No one has picked up on the fact that the punt took place and the OP doesn't say whether the punt ended at 2.30 or 2.40pm.

That would take things forward and we could suggest that if it irks him if he lost 10 mins, did having her in his car make up for it and if so no problem. If losing 10mins irked him, up to him to say so or just accept the the fact or see wjat happens if he doesn't offer a lift.

I don't think it great to try to generalise as it can all depend on the connection between the two of them.

If I get on well with someone, I might spend the time correcting her profile typing if she would like that and scarcely do anything intimate at all. But I'm odd.

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If her train gets in at 1 and she told you so then she woul t be expected at 1 at your place as she informed you of this and you know in advance that it'll take her ten mins to get to you. 

 

I I would assume the booking would start when she walks in your house and I would assume that walking out exactly 90 minutes later wouldn't be seen as clock watching as you are clock watching her before the booking has even started

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I'd just not accept the lift. Keeps everything clean and simple. 

I agree I would prefer my own steam and to have a taxi prebooked for the end of the booking. 

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I personally wouldn't accept a lift from a new client, though I guess if an escort does outcalls to private addresses she is already confident the client isn't a nutter or is willing to take a risk!

However if a known client was to pick me up somewhere to take me to the booking location then no it wouldn't be part of the booking time. How can it be? If I got public transport to the location that would be in *my* time and the booking start when I arrived so same would go if a client picked me up. 

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I personally wouldn't accept a lift from a new client, though I guess if an escort does outcalls to private addresses she is already confident the client isn't a nutter or is willing to take a risk!

However if a known client was to pick me up somewhere to take me to the booking location then no it wouldn't be part of the booking time. How can it be? If I got public transport to the location that would be in *my* time and the booking start when I arrived so same would go if a client picked me up. 

There are literally a tiny handful of clients I'd take a lift from and it would be same rules as you

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