Uncle Pokey

The older I get ....

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The older I get (in my 70th year now) the more 'fit' women I spy in the town. I can rarely go shopping without a stirring in the trouser area.

Am I desperate? Or am I now less choosy? Or is it a matter of mathematics that, relative to my age, there are more and more fuckable women around the older I get.

I think the answer (to the last question) must be 'yes' but comments from other late 60's blokes would be interesting.

Uncle Pokey

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The older I get (in my 70th year now) the more 'fit' women I spy in the town. I can rarely go shopping without a stirring in the trouser area.

Am I desperate? Or am I now less choosy? Or is it a matter of mathematics that, relative to my age, there are more and more fuckable women around the older I get.

I think the answer (to the last question) must be 'yes' but comments from other late 60's blokes would be interesting.

Uncle Pokey

I'm in my sixties and I've noticed this phenomenon.  Relative to our age must come into it but I'm sure there is more to it than that.  Maybe the mind plays tricks on us now that the actual possibilities are less.

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I think that with maturity ones tastes evolve and we realise there are a lot of different attractive things about people and thus we are attracted to a larger range of people. I also think men who punt are more likely to realise this if they have been adventurous with their punting in terms of the types of women they see. Maybe your subconscious is reminded of sexy encounters by small things such as a style of dress or a certain look, a cheeky smile or even the waft of perfume. You know how a piece of music or a certain smell can take you back to a place, perhaps it's like that and with more years there are more memories!

Or maybe it's primeval urges that make a man want to sow his seed as far as possible and once you get into later years the urgency picks up...

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Very perceptive Lydia. I feel sure you explain what I experience day to day very well indeed. Thank you

UP xx

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I'm 40, I was saying to a friend on a night out how there was an eye watering amount of fit girls everywhere! When I was 20 I don't remember there being so many. But when I was in my late teens to early 20's I had a terrible case of 'oneitis' over a girl. So I'm thinking they've always been there I just didn't notice them. Or maybe it's because I'm older you want what you can't have as many of them are much younger, too younger.

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The older I get (in my 70th year now) the more 'fit' women I spy in the town. I can rarely go shopping without a stirring in the trouser area.

Am I desperate? Or am I now less choosy? Or is it a matter of mathematics that, relative to my age, there are more and more fuckable women around the older I get.

I think the answer (to the last question) must be 'yes' but comments from other late 60's blokes would be interesting.

Uncle Pokey

How you make me laugh dearest Uncle Pokey, glad to hear there is plenty of life in you still.

Olivia xx

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I'm 52 and yes you are right - as an older guy I do now look at much older women and indeed different shapes too than when I was 30. In fact I consider anything remotely reasonable that I could get off on.

 

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How you make me laugh dearest Uncle Pokey, glad to hear there is plenty of life in you still.

Olivia xx

 A fine example of reverse fluffy posting    , 

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 A fine example of reverse fluffy posting    , 

Oh give over, I rarely post on here these days and Pokey is an old friend. It's nice to be nice in my book. 

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Well, naturally, relative to your age, Uncle P, there are more women available, but I really don’t think that most men of our age – I’m well into my 69th year – think like that, but then most of them haven’t been punting for the last 14 years! And here Lydia is spot on, as you also admit.

I, too, look at women from 20 to 70 and find them attractive and often ‘fuckable,' but to a large part that is because I know that within that range there are plenty of women who, for a fee, I can fuck. I’m absolutely sure that most of my friends and contemporaries do not think like that!

However, whilst an occasional dalliance with a 20-something is still fun, I do find that I get most pleasure from more mature ladies – probably from 40 upwards. (I’m taking account of the usual occupational age ‘discrepancy’ here!) Certainly that is where most of my encounters lie nowadays.

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Nice to hear from the youngsters like Uncle and Calynx B)

Lydia, I also think that you've hit the mark. However, I have to admit that I try to sow my seed on stony ground, what with the way that the world's going.

When I wander our (un)fair city I actually see only a few women with whom I'd like to end up in bed. Too many seem to be overpainted, have voices suitable for trimming glass, appear to be concerned only with themselves and trivia or have no dress sense. It just makes me happy that I can choose to see (and pay) others who don't exhibit these traits.

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It's good to read some of these posts by some of the older board members, as it demonstrates how one can still be sexually active in later years. As a mere spring chicken still in my mid fifties, I find my urges are undiminished and still going strong. I love the idea of growing old disgracefully, countering all the social norms of how one is supposed to be as one gets older. Plenty to look forward to in my books :) 

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as I said before - seem to be less choosy as an older male now - at least in theory.

There's a very plain looking lady in the post office where I live - plump woman with a decent pair of knockers - someone I never would have looked at twice in my thirties as I always went for slim women. but I've been thinking recently - she would do if the opportunity was there. but yesterday when I went in she had to go out the back and get some parcels so I got a rear view - when I saw the size of her arse I thought - christ I could never fuck that. quite funny really as she was complaining to me the other day the company gave her a shop uniform that is size 16 and she was saying she's size 12 - total bull - she's more like size 18 with a beam as broad as that

It's most likely the same with women over 60 - go to a swimming pool if you want to see what over 60s really look like - it might sober up your desires a bit.

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Thanks god its not just me then I was beginning to worry !!

 Its so true Uncle Pokey, there seems to be so many lovely women of all ages about these days

 I'm so envious when I see a young guy with an amazingly fit bird and they don't even seem to appreciate them these days 

 

 

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Personally I noticed that if an older guy, smashing looking, maybe with good skin from training in the gym hits on me it leaves me a bit tingling.  If an older guy does the same from his Zimmer frame I feel 'funny': there is a guy in my area who tends to sit near a supermarket with his Zimmer frame trying to make contact with young women.  Apparently he says the same things including lots of rubbish and even that he owns several building locally: initially I felt sorry for him but after having a brief discussion (even thinking to bring him some cup cakes) I felt sorrier for myself.  No one deserves to be spoken the way he spoke to me - too many sexual connotations.

 

 

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Personally I noticed that if an older guy, smashing looking, maybe with good skin from training in the gym hits on me it leaves me a bit tingling.  If an older guy does the same from his Zimmer frame I feel 'funny': there is a guy in my area who tends to sit near a supermarket with his Zimmer frame trying to make contact with young women.  Apparently he says the same things including lots of rubbish and even that he owns several building locally: initially I felt sorry for him but after having a brief discussion (even thinking to bring him some cup cakes) I felt sorrier for myself.  No one deserves to be spoken the way he spoke to me - too many sexual connotations.

 

 

Agreed on that, there's nothing worse than a dirty old man acting out in public. But that's the joy of punting, that you can be as liberated as you like behind closed doors. The first is an unwelcome intrusion, it's impolite and actually out of order in my books, whereas the second is purely by consensual agreement and therefore absolutely fine.

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I am 60 but they still look good to me, and as I get older than are more and more comparatively younger women. One of the many great things about punting is that in my own mind I don't seem so old and very nice wgs in their 20's are kind enough not to remind me, so when I am with them in a deluded way I feel so much younger.  Civilians would treat me like the dirty old man I may well be.

 

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Although not old enough to answer the questions raised, I've always found beauty in most, but that doesn't stop me being choosy in terms of deciding who to spend time with (and nope, it's not always down to looks either)...

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At 75 i totally agree with Uncle Pokey. And the hot weather doesn't make it any easier with so much bare flesh. I've gone down the Whats My Price/Seeking Arrangement route recently and am pleasantly surprised at the number of offers I get despite my pictures showing my beer belly. Maybe it makes me look cuddly.

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I feel comfortable in my old skin.

I notice pretty girls but also attractive older women and don't lust after them as I have had (in 4 figures) as good and better and am more likely to make a judgement on her clothes, hair, make up etc than imagine what she looks like underneath.

I even fancy getting on the council's day trips but not just because the coach scarcely ever has any males on it.

One person I'm often on the normal bus with makes advancing comments (when her hubby not there) but I deflect her without a second thought.

I occasionally have new wishes, the most recent being seeing a bbw and letting her smother me in various ways.

But it passed and I appreciated the £70 saved as a consequence.

I will say that I am astonished and really appreciative how well escorts I meet deal with an older punter and I thank them all.

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Personally I noticed that if an older guy, smashing looking, maybe with good skin from training in the gym hits on me it leaves me a bit tingling.  If an older guy does the same from his Zimmer frame I feel 'funny': there is a guy in my area who tends to sit near a supermarket with his Zimmer frame trying to make contact with young women.  Apparently he says the same things including lots of rubbish and even that he owns several building locally: initially I felt sorry for him but after having a brief discussion (even thinking to bring him some cup cakes) I felt sorrier for myself.  No one deserves to be spoken the way he spoke to me - too many sexual connotations.

 

 

That is an old fool who in his younger days mucked up all his chances, was too shy or just useless with women - and has finally realised he is on the home straight so might as well make the most of the few years he has left by talking creepy to young women.

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How you make me laugh dearest Uncle Pokey, glad to hear there is plenty of life in you still.

Olivia xx

Hello gorgeous, it's really nice to see you on here again. Mwah xx

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Hello gorgeous, it's really nice to see you on here again. Mwah xx

Thanks

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Harking back to Uncle Pokey's first post a fact that might be contributing is the greater number of women in their forties, fifties and sixties that don't dress or have the image of my Granny.  When I was a young man there was a tendency to graduate to crimplene and a perm as soon as possible and it has to be said it's not a look that stirs me in any way.   

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Certainly, your sexual feelings change when you're in your sixties - for the better, in my view. Who wants to be tormented by raging stiffies all the time? Far better that insidious, seductive semi-arousal that tells you "we can save this up for a bit longer, can't we?"

When I was 18 I couldn't imagine how people in their thirties could fancy each other. Now, I have managed to extend my boundaries at least to women in their forties, and, in one very rare case, in their fifities, though I still tend to go for young.

But there's another more general change that's relevant here. When you're young, your unique individuality is everything and your sexual response is basically "I want to fuck that woman". An older man is less interested in (and less impressed by) his individual uniqueness, and is more aware of himself as part of a species, and sniffs appreciatively the females of that species that he sees (pretty well all of them, really), is aware of their fuckableness, and stores that sense up awhile for when, some time in the future (no hurry), one of them will be fucked.

So, while desire isn't a goad in the way it was when I was young, I'm sure my thoughts and my whole being are steeped in desire more than ever.

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