Sam Cassel

How do I start?

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I am a Chinese who is single and has just got into his thirties. In a fortnight or so I will start doing a taught master's program in the southwest of England. 

It will be my first time in UK, so there would be a lot of uncertainties,  but one thing that I am pretty sure about is that punting would be a necessity for me, as it has been for the past 11 years, ever since I lost my virginity to a brothel.

I'll probably prefer to be in the lower end of the price range because I am not a typical second generation rich from my country. Or, to be more exact, I am rather budget conscious. I may not regret paying a fat sum to an escort but it should be on the basis that the service is really worth it. I have been working hard to earn approximately 12 pounds an hour in China and I would not like to spend money like water in UK.

Accordingly, I do not have high expectations for the escorts and their services. I do not expect GFE or whatsoever. I am also quite tolerant of escorts who are rude, silent, unfriendly or hurrying.  I do not ask much of their figure, I would happily embrace an escort whose breasts are as flat as the airport(I really like this slang in Chinese).  However, a slim escort with an attractive face does appeal to me.

I prefer escorts of African or Asian origins, mostly because European escorts would offer a higher price (or is it often so in UK? I am not sure). Another reason is that I was somehow born without a racial discrimination in my aesthetic standards.

So how do I start? Can I luck out and be enlightened by some "old drivers"(A lovely, respective slang we Chinese use to address the experienced local punters)?

Specifically, I have some questions as follows:

1. On this forum there are abbreviations like GFE and SEA, and also some slang, which I struggled to understand. Do you have some links that provide the definition of them?

2. Is it so that there are not so many Africans, Asians and eastern Europeans in the southeast of England, and there are many rich old English people there? Is it so that price of escorts and brothels are relatively high there? If so, what is the best place for a budget conscious person to punt in UK, especially England? or maybe in Europe?

3. I saw some pics of escorts on AW. Are they usually real, modified, or fake?

4. As a punter, I am well-mannered, polite and considerate, I never tried to bargain for a better price or to get more service. On the other hand, I am not confident, nor I am physically attractive because I am overweight in an unpleasant and unhealthy way (Which is exactly why I resort to punting, I guess. I think I lack the charisma). In UK, am I a kind of welcomed punter? Will some escorts hold a discrimination against my looks?

I would appreciate an answer to any questions above~ Many thanks.

By the way, I am an "old driver" in Shanghai. According to my punting experience in Shanghai, Bangkok, Pattaya, Taiwan and Viet Nam, Shanghai is actually the best place for punting, concerning the price, the service and the health(maybe it is because I am a native Chinese and I am more familiar with Shanghai and I can get a better price or something). Anyway, if you have questions about punting in China, especially in Shanghai, I would be happy to answer them.

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The south of England is generally more expensive yes. Just as a heads up. Street prostitution in the UK is illegal and isn't supported on this forum, however prostitution itself is legal provided it is conducted discreet. I suggest you should read up on prostitution in the UK so you stay on thd right side of the law. 

GFE means (girlfriend experience) and is probably the most common service in the UK. 

It's generally considered that looks are not important to UK escorts, what is important however is that you are very clean. Showered and groomed. They like you to have the correct money. The average cost of an escort here is £100 to £150 for an hour. It can be less or much more. Depends if she considers herself high class. Never negotiate the price. Ultimately though they are at descretion as to whether they want to see you. The best course of action is to be honest with them, then they can make an informed decision.

There is an eye watering amount of escorts in the UK of all shapes, sizes, services.

Don't know what else to tell you but I've given you a basic outline.

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Dear Sam,

First of all welcome to the UK and congratulations on the start of your Masters :)

I'm a lady who can mostly be described as an escort however I do indulge in booking other ladies from time to time.

I must admit, I have no idea about the sex industry outside the UK but I'd like to think that we're very lucky to have several comprehensive review sites and you've already found the best one!

If I were you I'd narrow your search in your local area once you get here and then ask for advice  on this forum. As a respectful punter you deserve a good experience and hopefully people here will help you find one/many.

For me, research is key to finding the right lady.

Have fun :)

C x

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4 hours ago, Sam Cassel said:

I am a Chinese who is single and has just got into his thirties. In a fortnight or so I will start doing a taught master's program in the southwest of England. 

 

Ni-Hao ;)

 

4 hours ago, Sam Cassel said:

Accordingly, I do not have high expectations for the escorts and their services. I do not expect GFE or whatsoever. I am also quite tolerant of escorts who are rude, silent, unfriendly or hurrying.  I do not ask much of their figure, I would happily embrace an escort whose breasts are as flat as the airport(I really like this slang in Chinese).  However, a slim escort with an attractive face does appeal to me.

I think you should be a little more assertive... be honest about some of the things that you are interested in. Also bear in mind, the less "typically" attractive escorts aren't necessarily cheaper than the model types. Remember, you are the one paying for a service, so think honestly about how you'd like to be treated in the rendezvous (unless you've got some fetish for being treated like sh1t lol). There are a hell of a lot of escorts, so you'll be selling yourself short if you do put up with someone rude or hurrying, so don't sell yourself short.

If it's an independent escort, chances are the first encounter you'll have will be a phone call. See the vibe you get from her and decide if that's someone you'd like to see.

4 hours ago, Sam Cassel said:

I prefer escorts of African or Asian origins, mostly because European escorts would offer a higher price (or is it often so in UK? I am not sure). Another reason is that I was somehow born without a racial discrimination in my aesthetic standards.

I've seen very little truth in that from my experience, I think a lot of them realise how much money they can make over here. If anything, the lower price tends to come from Eastern European escorts; however, check carefully what you want cause you can find that a lot of things are extras with them. A lot of people here aren't keen on them as they say they lack intimacy, but you said earlier warmness and intimacy, so maybe this is something you should consider.

It is nice that you don't discriminate against colour... especially as you're coming to England. I like to think I'm the same, I say it's because "I like to date beauty, not skin colour" :)

 

5 hours ago, Sam Cassel said:

1. On this forum there are abbreviations like GFE and SEA, and also some slang, which I struggled to understand. Do you have some links that provide the definition of them?

I'll list a few of the more common abbreviations for you:-

GFE= Girlfriend experience This is a package deal where the girl acts like your girlfriend for the duration. She takes an interest in your like and can make you feel like you're the only guy in the world. The sex may be more like making love (if you get what I mean) and they may also involve French kissing (so don't forget your toothbrush ;) ). Just a warning, remember it's just an "act" so be careful not to fall for an escort with GFE.

PSE:- Pornstar experience. The polar opposite to GFE. As the name implies, much more like the movies your mother wouldn't like. Probably be a lot more vocal, and may well include kinkier / dirtier services such as anal sex, deep throat etc. (although many of these may only be offered "at discretion") Expect the sex to be much more like "fucking".

CIM:- Cum in mouth (she will allow you to come in her mouth after oral sex)

COB:- Cum on body (you can come on her body parts; e.g. tits, ass, face (not the eyes or hair though)

"O" levels:- oral sex

"A" levels:- anal sex

DFK:- Deep French kissing

DIY:- Jerking off.

BDSM:- Bondage and Sado mascochism (Fancy being whipped and tied up?)

5 hours ago, Sam Cassel said:

2. Is it so that there are not so many Africans, Asians and eastern Europeans in the southeast of England, and there are many rich old English people there? Is it so that price of escorts and brothels are relatively high there? If so, what is the best place for a budget conscious person to punt in UK, especially England? or maybe in Europe?

In general, when you go more west than Bristol / Bath, there does tend to be much less people of ethnic origin in general. However, in a University environment, you will probably meet plenty of people of all different background. Don't worry, you won't be the only "stranger" there. There will also be various societies and international students events there.

I don't think the price varies that much from other areas (although I've not been there, so perhaps not the best person to comment). I have seen both black and Asian escort profiles in Devon / Cornwall, although I don't think they will be cheaper than their Anglo-Saxon counterparts

5 hours ago, Sam Cassel said:

3. I saw some pics of escorts on AW. Are they usually real, modified, or fake?

If there's a green "verified" message under the photo on the main profile page, then the photo is almost certainly real and a reasonable representation of them (although some photos  may be a few years old). Furthermore, some on their gallery may be tweaked with Photoshop (OSLT) but will not be a million miles away from what they look like.

Ones to be careful of, are those that have a red "alert" message at the top of their profile.

5 hours ago, Sam Cassel said:

4. As a punter, I am well-mannered, polite and considerate, I never tried to bargain for a better price or to get more service. On the other hand, I am not confident, nor I am physically attractive because I am overweight in an unpleasant and unhealthy way (Which is exactly why I resort to punting, I guess. I think I lack the charisma). In UK, am I a kind of welcomed punter? Will some escorts hold a discrimination against my looks?

Most escorts are less concerned with how a punter looks, they are more concerned with things like politeness, discretion and hygiene. Best advice I can give on this front is to look at the users profile carefully, as some do have restrictions on age, weight and ethnic origin (although I've not seen a restriction on men of Chinese origin). If it's not listed, you can take it as red it will be fine... However, for your own piece of mind, I would recommend raising any issues in the initial phone call to save a wasted trip.

Hope that helps, if I do have questions about China, I'll definitely let you know.:)

 

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9 hours ago, audioguy said:

The average cost of an escort here is £100 to £150 for an hour. It can be less or much more. Depends if she considers herself high class. Never negotiate the price. Ultimately though they are at descretion as to whether they want to see you. The best course of action is to be honest with them, then they can make an informed decision.

Thanks a lot for the information. Especially the price range.

I have never tried to negotiate on the price of anything though. In my country this is often regarded as a deficiency in communication. It is good news that in UK this might be more like a virtue.

I always respect the ladies I visit. I believe that by respecting them I am actually respecting the sex industry and in turn, justifying and respecting myself as a punter. I guess it is especially so in UK, where buying and selling sex is legal under certain regulations. 

7 hours ago, MySecretLife said:

 

Dear Sam,

First of all welcome to the UK and congratulations on the start of your Masters :)

I'm a lady who can mostly be described as an escort however I do indulge in booking other ladies from time to time.

I must admit, I have no idea about the sex industry outside the UK but I'd like to think that we're very lucky to have several comprehensive review sites and you've already found the best one!

If I were you I'd narrow your search in your local area once you get here and then ask for advice  on this forum. As a respectful punter you deserve a good experience and hopefully people here will help you find one/many.

For me, research is key to finding the right lady.

Have fun :)

C x

 

Thanks~~~ I also love researching.

 

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7 hours ago, DirtyGit said:

Ni-Hao ;)

Thank you for your generous and informative reply. I REALLY learned a lot, especially your hearty advices and the explanation about the abbreviations.

The reminder about the way I talk about the nationality of the ladies is extremely useful to me. I know this would be a sensitive issue in speech in western countries. I should have learned more about how I can convey it in an euphemistic and appropriate way in your language before I mentioned it. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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How to begin? Lets keep it simple, The birds and the bees, and the cigarette trees, The lemonade springs....................

Sorry.

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Sam 你好, 欢迎到英国来!

You could also look at acemassage.net, they have information about Working Girls (WGs) in the South West. As you have a limited budget, some girls offer a half-hour service for around £60-£70.

Prostitution is not illegal in England and Wales. Buying sexual services is illegal in Northern Ireland, since a new law was introduced there a year ago, but so far, this is hardly ever enforced.

In the mainland, it is illegal, for both the girl and the customer, to solicit sexual services in a public place so street prostitution is illegal and this applied to pubs, stations etc. This forum does not support street prostitution and you also need to be aware of the risks of robery etc. as you would be carrying cash. The police sometimes run 'sting' operations.

It is illegal to visit a WG who is under the age of 18. So if you visit a WG and she looks under age then leave immediately. It is illegal to visit, or even to agree to visit, a girl who is trafficked or coerced. In my experience this is very rare but if you have any doubts about a girl then again you should leave. (You can report such cases, anonymously, to Crime Stoppers 0800 555 111, but it would be unwise to go to the police directly with your concerns).

Good luck and do let us know how you get on. I am going to China soon so so any advice would be welcome.

 

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