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When I am on a punt my primary concern is that the WG services me.

I like to utter the words "suck my dick" but often it sounds too direct and disrespectful, for some reason saying "suck my cock" seems less disrespectful.

What is acceptable with a WG?

I want to feel like the boss sometimes and just sit there whilst she does all the work and have her at my beck and call. I feel like a gangsta rapper or something, it's hard to articulate the feeling but if I am all nice I just don't get the same vibe.

But how far can you go without offending somebody?

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I think that you've articulated very well - you get a kick out of dominating and abusing women! It's probably a dark fantasy that many punters have, but maybe it's best to satisfy it with a porn-wank rather than actually subject a girl to it?

There's a huge difference between a girl being at your "beck and call" compared to being treated like a "gangsta rapper"'s fuck-doll. Maybe you now regret using that term, especially when you juxtapose it with "all nice"? So many escorts refuse to see black men "because of bad experiences in the past", i.e. being physically mistreated.

I would assume that reading a girl's profile (assuming she wrote it herself!) would give you a good indication of what kind of service she wishes to provide - the majority seem to advertise a GFE - nice and fluffy and safe - but on AW there are plenty that would happily satisfy you and you can often pick them out simply from their working names!

More difficult to judge with agency girls....

PS: Most girls seem to use the word "cock", so that's what I now call mine.

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Yes thanks for your help.

It's the process of the hand over of money that makes me feel like that I guess. I want to hand the money over and her then to service me after a hard day's work sort of thing.

I don't necessarily want to dominate her, I think that is a strong term for it. But a certain subservience and passiveness is required, or maybe should I say a "willingness to please".

I don't mean being nasty I just mean being sort of stoic and slightly commanding in my requests.

I like her to go to work whilst I can feel like "the boss" and relax.

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  It can work the other way around also  . When I used to visit Briony  , of Olina fame  , her first words as I got inside the door were   " get down on your fcuking knees    !   "

   I couldn't get back to her fast enough and miss her badly , as other asian fanciers will also  agree   ,

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With all due respect, I think you're going about it the wrong way. If you just go in unannounced with that 'suck my dick' attitude, I think there's a fair chance that the girl you're with will think you are just ignorant and actually a bit of a knob. However, there's nothing wrong with the basic dominant instinct that you are seeming to try and express. But you've got to frame it right. If you explain to the right girl that this is what you are after, and she agrees to it (and might even like it), then it's a completely different matter, because it then becomes consensual, and can actually be really good fun. I'm a firm believer in being respectful to just about everybody, whoever they are, whatever walk of life  : then you are starting from an even playing field, from which anything can be negotiated. Communicate what you want, see if she agrees, and then play out your fantasy, with safe and agreed boundaries  : the alternative is in danger of being disrespectful and even worse, abusive. On the other hand, if and when you get it right, that's when the fun really starts :) 

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It's just role playing.  Just talk about your preferences during your phone interview, and be respectful and polite before and after the session.

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15 minutes ago, Malmostoso said:

It's just role playing.  Just talk about your preferences during your phone interview, and be respectful and polite before and after the session.

Agreed .... but I'm not sure that I have ever done a phone interview ( maybe the subject of another thread altogether)

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2 hours ago, visconti said:

With all due respect, I think you're going about it the wrong way. If you just go in unannounced with that 'suck my dick' attitude, I think there's a fair chance that the girl you're with will think you are just ignorant and actually a bit of a knob. However, there's nothing wrong with the basic dominant instinct that you are seeming to try and express. But you've got to frame it right. If you explain to the right girl that this is what you are after, and she agrees to it (and might even like it), then it's a completely different matter, because it then becomes consensual, and can actually be really good fun. I'm a firm believer in being respectful to just about everybody, whoever they are, whatever walk of life  : then you are starting from an even playing field, from which anything can be negotiated. Communicate what you want, see if she agrees, and then play out your fantasy, with safe and agreed boundaries  : the alternative is in danger of being disrespectful and even worse, abusive. On the other hand, if and when you get it right, that's when the fun really starts :) 

Sort of what I said, but far more polite and diplomatic......

Sorry, I just get angry at some punter's attitudes but, as Visconti implies, there are girls that are happy with this kind of role-playing - just suss it out before you book?

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Yeah, if a client spoke to me like that off the cuff I'd be both offended and maybe a bit scared and I'd probably tell him not to be so bloody rude. 

For me doing this kind of booking only works with someone you already know is a genuinely decent man, maybe from previous bookings or a decent phone call, but anyone demanding I suck their cock (or dick) on arrival would be given a short thrift. TBH if someone told me that wanted to be like a 'gansta rapper' I'd laugh in his undoubtedly white face.

Saying that, with the right client it can be quite fun being a bit subby and subservient and doing what you are told!  

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17 hours ago, the legend of bent cock said:

When I am on a punt my primary concern is that the WG services me.

I like to utter the words "suck my dick" but often it sounds too direct and disrespectful, for some reason saying "suck my cock" seems less disrespectful.

What is acceptable with a WG?

I want to feel like the boss sometimes and just sit there whilst she does all the work and have her at my beck and call. I feel like a gangsta rapper or something, it's hard to articulate the feeling but if I am all nice I just don't get the same vibe.

But how far can you go without offending somebody?

I know 'top guys' who like to use these words when horny or simply feel like being naughty.  You would not hear them swearing the rest of the time due to their jobs, so, trust me you are not the only one. One guy said to me this once and I burst into laughter as he was such a gent earlier on, even removing my coat beautifully and hanging it in his wardrobe.  I got to know him so well we travelled to different locations in Europe for days sometimes.

 As long as you are respectful and polite 99% of your time, using a 'dirty expression' once in a while does not make you a bad person.

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14 hours ago, worldpunter said:

 

  It can work the other way around also  . When I used to visit Briony  , of Olina fame  , her first words as I got inside the door were   " get down on your fcuking knees    !   "

   I couldn't get back to her fast enough and miss her badly , as other asian fanciers will also  agree   ,

She was indeed crazy, in the nicest possible way...she was actually crawling down the corridor stark naked once, unbelievable!!!! But she had a way of making everything look sexy and effortless...one lady you could write a book on...

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I'm happy to drop straight to my knees and take a man in my mouth as soon as a session starts- so long as it's been mentioned before hand - it's kind of sexy when no words have been spoken, in my mind anyway.

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9 hours ago, MySecretLife said:

I'm happy to drop straight to my knees and take a man in my mouth as soon as a session starts- so long as it's been mentioned before hand - it's kind of sexy when no words have been spoken, in my mind anyway.

Your senses would go even wilder if the guy had his hands behind his back and pulled out a blindfold, cuffs and a leather belt....add ice, wine and chocolate into the mix for added eroticism...

the mind is the most powerful tool and you are able to (re)create anything you desire....

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So long as it had been pre planned and they were to be used on him then I'd be very impressed! I tend not to use a belt though as it can leave bruising quite easily - a good spanking followed by a gentle massage to disperse any potential bruising, is much more my style. A glass of wine and some chocolate can be a nice ending/come down for this kind of play.

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I think it rather obvious it should be agreed beforehand - the escorts get enough rubbish treatment from rude punters to have little chance of identifying a mock abuser.

Even if her profile mentions she will do role play incl that sort of roleplay, it is only reasonable to establish the scenario before or at the start of a meet.

I would never do it as it's not my style - escorts are not impressed by my laughable efforts to smack their bum hard when they beg me to do it. I am just too much of a sweetie pie.

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It seems to me that if when you go to see a dom they usually have a chat about likes and dislikes, boundaries and safe words - and then into role play.  I think it should be the same for submissive roles.  I arranged for a wg I see regularly to leave her door unlocked and to be waiting naked and arse in the air for me to just walk in and 'take her'. All pre-planned and an exciting bit of fun.

I did once see a youngish eastern European who appeared to have no English and enjoyed using decidedly disrespectful language which she appeared to either not understand or to which she didn't take offence, it was all terribly exciting so however rude I may have been at least she got her money fro a 'short' time!

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On 13/09/2016 at 5:44 PM, the legend of bent cock said:

 

I feel like a gangsta rapper or something, it's hard to articulate the feeling but if I am all nice I just don't get the same vibe.

But how far can you go without offending somebody?

The Wigga

Always make me snigger

What use a white wannabee gangsta rapper?

Full of more shit than a blocked crapper

So you don't wanna be nice?

You'd Rather suffer from pubic lice?

 

 

(No offence meant to any black punters or escorts, who may also dislike the professional Wigga - not seen one for a while).

 

 

 

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On 9/24/2016 at 0:41 AM, enquire said:

The Wigga

Always make me snigger

What use a white wannabee gangsta rapper?

Full of more shit than a blocked crapper

So you don't wanna be nice?

You'd Rather suffer from pubic lice?

 

 

(No offence meant to any black punters or escorts, who may also dislike the professional Wigga - not seen one for a while).

 

 

 

Last spotted in Aylesbury in the 90's I think

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On 13 September 2016 at 5:44 PM, the legend of bent cock said:

When I am on a punt my primary concern is that the WG services me.

I like to utter the words "suck my dick" but often it sounds too direct and disrespectful, for some reason saying "suck my cock" seems less disrespectful.

What is acceptable with a WG?

I want to feel like the boss sometimes and just sit there whilst she does all the work and have her at my beck and call. I feel like a gangsta rapper or something, it's hard to articulate the feeling but if I am all nice I just don't get the same vibe.

But how far can you go without offending somebody?

 

Depends on the WG.

It's not hard to articulate and I totally understood where your coming from.

You want to give direction and have it your way, but your also a nice guy.

Best advice would be to send an e-mail or text explaining what you are looking for and tell the WG in question, you don't want to dominate her in the domination sense, but you want to be bossy & demanding, while the action is happening.

It's not uncommon, and a lot of ladies in this industry would respond with a submissive demeanour as long as the request is put forward. Obviously don't ask a very dominant female for this, as you'll likely be rebuffed.

It's very common.. you want what happens in most porn, where the girl is greedy for it and compliant. in the "gangsta rapper words" "a good slut who takes it"

Doesn't make you abusive in the slightest, or any less of a nice guy. just means you have a kink, and like to be the dominant driving force in a booking.

As long as all parties consent, and are happy with it, shouldn't be a problem, just send a message before hand, otherwise you might find yourself on the end of some sharp tongues.

 

Not everyone likes slow sensual sex, some like it rough and ready.

 

Hope you find what your looking for.

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On 13/09/2016 at 5:44 PM, the legend of bent cock said:

When I am on a punt my primary concern is that the WG services me.

I like to utter the words "suck my dick" but often it sounds too direct and disrespectful, for some reason saying "suck my cock" seems less disrespectful.

What is acceptable with a WG?

I want to feel like the boss sometimes and just sit there whilst she does all the work and have her at my beck and call. I feel like a gangsta rapper or something, it's hard to articulate the feeling but if I am all nice I just don't get the same vibe.

But how far can you go without offending somebody?

I think the best way to ensure you dont offend is to mention it in coms, putting the information you did here in an email would not only mean you had a better time, but that the escort could know what you expected. If someone contacts me saying they like to call me XY or Z during a booking it not only reassures me that they understand boundaries but gives me an understanding of what they want. We try but we arent mind readers :-) ANd any escort who was uncomfortable could turn you down long before you met 

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I agree with Fanny also approach wgs that advertise a more submissive experience or a more raunchy kind of experience.

I had a guy ring the other day telling me he doesn't like GFE (so why contact a lady that advertises a GFE as her main sort of service)but likes to dominate and be abit rough.He had already booked an hour before informing me of this and seemed stunned when I cancelled the booking.

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56 minutes ago, Bibi said:

I agree with Fanny also approach wgs that advertise a more submissive experience or a more raunchy kind of experience.

I had a guy ring the other day telling me he doesn't like GFE (so why contact a lady that advertises a GFE as her main sort of service)but likes to dominate and be abit rough.He had already booked an hour before informing me of this and seemed stunned when I cancelled the booking.

You mean you're not forced to accept any sex act a client seeks to impose on you? This is dynamite!

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I know even us lowly WGs can refuse!Shocking eh?!?

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well, as a WG myself i can only say the words as they are don't really mean much.. it's more the way you are saying it that counts! and using  disrespectful language is a bit more than just "suck my..." with girls, manners make you a gent, but yes, once in a while it's acceptable to hear dirty phrases! :)

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Very interesting thread and enjoyable to read.

Im in to being dominant in the same way as the OP describes and love ordering the lady around. However I am polite and nice too so I do find it tough lol.

Rio Lee is good at this btw from my experience.

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