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If your escort had buck teeth would you walk away? When I was younger I used to work in a brothel and my knashers were no problem - guys thought I was cute - but now I'm in my thirties I just wonder if it will still be the same or if I'll have loads of walk outs. I'm a pretty girl but my front teeth make me so self conscious! 

I want to get back in to the industry as an independent but am hesitating... 

Honest opinions welcome :)

Sally

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I have met escorts that are either heavier or older than stated on their profile, I did't walk out because they were so warm and friendly when they greeted me. 

Conversely, if a provider does not offer the services she hasstated she will deliver, I will walk. I was annoyed with someone who said she offered kissing and on the day, told me shehad been to the dentist and could not kiss. If she had explaned before, i would have booked for another day.

So bottom line, yes I would NOT walk out if I turned up and found the escort had buck teeth.

Finally, you are not alone in being self consciius about something, some eecorts worry about ceasarian scars, one hates her feet and won't take her shoes off. Neither issue bothers me, be warm, frienely, deliver the service you state you offer and hopefully you will prosper.

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It might be a deal breaker for some, other wouldn't be bothered by it... in fact, there are probably some people who wouldn't even pick up on it. You will always be far more aware / conscious of your own imperfections than other people would (it's that subjective view of ones self (how you see yourself) rather than an objective view (other peoples perception of you))

IMHO, this whole escorting thing isn't about going for the perfect girl, but the right girl for the individual. As enquire says, it's not always about how they look, but more about that connection / vibe that emerges. In fact, I might be put off by someone who is too beautiful (if you can see where I'm coming from).

Remember that saying from that match.com

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Someone else will love your imperfections

Hope that helps

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Indeed, there is everything for everyone and lots of girls care less about bigger 'issues'.  

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Go for it Sally and let us know on here if you do. That way it is more likely that your first few clients will come to you knowing about your teeth and (like me) will be actually be turned on by the idea. If you want, you could ask any client who wants to write a positive review on Punternet to mention your teeth so that people booking you as a result of the review will know in advance what to expect.

 

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3 hours ago, enquire said:

I have met escorts that are either heavier or older than stated on their profile, I did't walk out because they were so warm and friendly when they greeted me.

And that's why we keep getting misleading advertising.  Thank you, Sir.  I wonder why honest escorts bother with posting accurate pictures, only to lose business to cunning advertisers.  Here is your take-home lesson, ladies.

To the OP: no, I wouldn't walk out, while I have walked out when the escort was heavier or older than her pictures. Now that I think about it, I met regularly an escort who had teeth like that.  Sweet gal.

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Punters can probably be divided in two categories over this:

1) Those who want to be able to feel "I'm shagging a porn-star (more or less)" and

2 ) Those who respond more to the kind of welcome they get. One of my most pleasantly memorable punts was with a decidedly unglamorous lady, but her warmth and involvement meant it didn't matter at all.

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4 minutes ago, Colonel Bonkers said:

Punters can probably be divided in two categories over this:

1) Those who want to be able to feel "I'm shagging a porn-star (more or less)" and

2 ) Those who respond more to the kind of welcome they get. One of my most pleasantly memorable punts was with a decidedly unglamorous lady, but her warmth and involvement meant it didn't matter at all.

I think the Colonel makes a good point Sally, and wording your your web site, Punternet, and AW copy to appeal specifically to his second category above will be an important part of your marketing strategy.

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Thank you so much everyone for your kind and comforting words. :)

I feel more confident now so will make a profile soon and emphasise the friendliness and warmth of the service (perhaps mentioning my teeth in there somewhere too!) I would want to be honest in my description.

Once more, thanks very much to everyone who responded with advice. 

Sally xx

 

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On 24/09/2016 at 1:51 PM, Sally said:

Thank you so much everyone for your kind and comforting words. :)

I feel more confident now so will make a profile soon and emphasise the friendliness and warmth of the service (perhaps mentioning my teeth in there somewhere too!) I would want to be honest in my description.

Once more, thanks very much to everyone who responded with advice. 

Sally xx

 

Every time I see an attractive woman with buck teeth I now think "Sally?". It is like a punting "Where's Wally" . Looking forward to seeing your profile.

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1 hour ago, enquire said:

Every time I see an attractive woman with buck teeth I now think "Sally?". It is like a punting "Where's Wally" . Looking forward to seeing your profile.

Me too Sally. Thanks for your message to which I have sent you a reply.XX

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Well, I guess some will like it and some won't, Sally, but you won't know unless you give it a try, so go for it! I don't think I'd mention your teeth in your profile though. It just draws attention to the fact that you feel self-conscious about them.

I look forward to reading your profile.

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For me the key factors are the location, accuracy of the advert and the friendliness of the escort.

Walking away occurs very rarely and only where I feel unsure/unsafe and/or the advert description is a fabrication or the escort demeanour is cold and not engaging.  I am sure that others know what I mean.

Your sensitivity in sharing your concerns Sally suggests you will be a star

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I think every one has some thing they are self conscious about. You just have to learn to love yourself and be confident.

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9 hours ago, natasha1000 said:

I think every one has some thing they are self conscious about. You just have to learn to love yourself and be confident.

Lucky you if it's only one thing  :).

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Thanks everyone, that's so reassuring! I'm just wondering whether to mention it on my profile now. Calynx makes the point that it might be off putting because it will seem too self conscious.

Should I leave it out of the description? 

Thanks again :)

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10 hours ago, Sally said:

Thanks everyone, that's so reassuring! I'm just wondering whether to mention it on my profile now. Calynx makes the point that it might be off putting because it will seem too self conscious.

Should I leave it out of the description? 

Thanks again :)

I wouldn't mention it.  OK, you might get the odd walk out but so what, you can't please everyone. You risk making it a big deal by drawing attention to it, whereas it's not really is it.

Anyway I've now got an image in my mind of an adorable girl.  You're nowhere near Llandindrod Wells by any chance are you.  :rolleyes:

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On 28/09/2016 at 10:33 PM, robert49 said:

I wouldn't mention it.  OK, you might get the odd walk out but so what, you can't please everyone. You risk making it a big deal by drawing attention to it, whereas it's not really is it.

Anyway I've now got an image in my mind of an adorable girl.  You're nowhere near Llandindrod Wells by any chance are you.  :rolleyes:

Ha ha, no! I'm in London and the South East :)

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On 28/09/2016 at 11:15 AM, Sally said:

Thanks everyone, that's so reassuring! I'm just wondering whether to mention it on my profile now. Calynx makes the point that it might be off putting because it will seem too self conscious.

Should I leave it out of the description? 

 

If you had Holywood Film Star fangs, would you mention them? Most ladies seem to think (and I won't say they are wrong) that their main bodily selling points are boobs and bum! It is also, it seems, good to assert that you really enjoy what you do!

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Sally, as the others have said it probably won't matter at all if your advertising is honest, you're friendly and do what you say you'll do. I bet your teeth aren't as 'bad' as you think either. I think we all think worse of our various body parts than anyone else!

I wouldn't mention in your profile if I were you, I don't think teeth are something clients care about or else these pages would be full of posts like Who has the best teeth in London?! Drawing attention to them might put some off. I think the rule of thumb is to focus on your best bits as is the case with advertising anything! 

I'm sure if you did fine before you'll do fine now- it's the overall package that's important, not the quirks we have! 

If you haven't already go and look at saafe.info which is an excellent site for sex workers. 

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44 minutes ago, MinxyLydia said:

...................................- it's the overall package that's important, not the quirks we have! ................. 

Speak for yourself, Lydia. They're sometimes the best bits!...........

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2 hours ago, Calynx said:

Speak for yourself, Lydia. They're sometimes the best bits!...........

Quirks can be positives imo, not least humour though it is often undefinable.

I recall a WG I knew quite well telling me about a tour she had done to London, a client had asked her how she managed living in the north when it was so cold.  She replied instantly "we all huddle together for warmth", a priceless response imo.

 

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7 hours ago, Calynx said:

Speak for yourself, Lydia. They're sometimes the best bits!...........

Well what I actually meant was the bits of ourselves we don't like or our flaws but I didn't want Sally to think she shouldn't like her teeth or that I thought they were a flaw! 

Indeed you're right, a quirk can make you stand out from the rest of the crowd! 

 

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On 24/09/2016 at 11:26 AM, Carnival said:

Go for it Sally and let us know on here if you do. That way it is more likely that your first few clients will come to you knowing about your teeth and (like me) will be actually be turned on by the idea. If you want, you could ask any client who wants to write a positive review on Punternet to mention your teeth so that people booking you as a result of the review will know in advance what to expect.

 

Hi  I may not be turned either on or off by you teeth but it's your personality and your friendship that would matter to me more than anything.

 

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12 hours ago, MinxyLydia said:

, I don't think teeth are something clients care about or else these pages would be full of posts like Who has the best teeth in London?! 

 

Thanks Lydia, you made me laugh. 

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