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How long can you go without masturbating?

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Aimed primarily at the guys on this forum but girls feel free to comment too, also aimed at guys not in active sexual relationships. I find I generally can't go more than about four days without wanking ....and that is usually with some will power..! I'm sure I'm quite normal in most respects but can anyone on here say they can go two /three weeks .. Maybe a month or even more with out a shuffle. I honestly don't know how to resist the urge to wank...but if anyone had any tips I'd love to know as the best sexual releases are always at the end of a period of abstinence!

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4 or 5 days at best.

 

Don't think I've ever lasted a whole week.
 

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3/4 days at the most, but when Mother Nature comes along I have to go without for the 5 days.. But once she's gone it can be daily!

I don't know if it's just me, but just before Mother Nature and just after is usually the hornlest times for me! :D

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used to be 2x a for 20 years now once a day sometimes 2 thought everyone did bt apparently thats not normal.

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I do not have to do it :D

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It's not for everyone, but I have to admit that I LOVE seeing a gent when he hasn't had release for a while.... always seems to make things hotter and more explosive. But maybe that's just the Domme in me talking. ;)

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has to be done:-

 

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If you rub it three times do you get a wish...

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Nearly every day, sometimes I try and hold off for a couple of days before a punt, but it is very hard!

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I'm trying to pace myself and go at it twice a week. I think that is ideal for me. There are days when I've done it several days in a row, but after a while it becomes sort of meaningless. In fact, a couple of times I've actually stopped mid-wank because it actually felt quite rubbish, as if I was just going through the motions. On the other hand, if I wait a few days, I can actually blow a pretty decent load. Naturally I'd never wank on the day of a punt, but I can still stroke off the night before and still turn out a very decent performance.

 

 

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7 hours ago, Beast said:

Nearly every day, sometimes I try and hold off for a couple of days before a punt, but it is very hard!

thats the point, surely?

 

or do you have a referendum to decide on a hard wank or a soft wank :)

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Oh only about a week. One needs to empty the tank y'know.

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Interesting subject, because nearly everybody does it, though it's always been such a social taboo until fairly recently. So to add to the thread, I'll say that it's something that I have learned to build around punting. As in, I refrain in the two to three days before a punt .... refrain from coming, that is. Edging just makes the whole thing more fun and intense, especially when the build up finally lets go in a good meeting. And to add to the mix, my latest regular is unashamedly exhibitionist in her masturbation ... it's such good fun to watch her getting off !

"Orgasm control, also referred to as edging, peaking, or surfing,[1] is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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1 hour ago, visconti said:

Interesting subject, because nearly everybody does it, though it's always been such a social taboo until fairly recently. So to add to the thread, I'll say that it's something that I have learned to build around punting. As in, I refrain in the two to three days before a punt .... refrain from coming, that is. Edging just makes the whole thing more fun and intense, especially when the build up finally lets go in a good meeting. And to add to the mix, my latest regular is unashamedly exhibitionist in her masturbation ... it's such good fun to watch her getting off !

"Orgasm control, also referred to as edging, peaking, or surfing,[1] is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally."

 

 

 

 

 

That just about sums me up (& I am an old guy!). The thought that I will be seeing an escort the following day makes me want to masturbate  & I have to exert all my will power not to do so. If I did it would be very difficult for me to have a "happy ending" when I saw the escort (as I am an old guy it is still often difficult for me to do so whether or not I refrain.) O.K. you young guys can laugh; just wait until you are my age:D

 

 

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Under the age of 23 I used to be 2-3 times a day.

After 23 my libido settled down below teenage levels and now I can go for up to two weeks. The first 3-4 days are the hardest but after that it becomes easier.

My last two punts I have gone for a week leading up to which has lead to two waste of money punts on Romanians because I couldn't wait any longer.

Normally as soon as I have the money every decent prospect seems to disappear off adultwork which is annoying timing.

I only started punting when I was 25 so opposite to most folks I had been at it for about 10 years before touching a female human so I would rather save it up for a punt.

Once I went 11 days without one and then had my best punt yet. Unfortunately I can only punt once every few months.

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once went a month. first week and a half was hard but after that it got easier. I just chose to focus on productive things in that period and avoid anything to do with sex. I found my gym sessions were way more intense and my recovery from each session was alot faster

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On 9/25/2016 at 0:07 AM, TightYoungEbony said:

3/4 days at the most, but when Mother Nature comes along I have to go without for the 5 days.. But once she's gone it can be daily!

I don't know if it's just me, but just before Mother Nature and just after is usually the hornlest times for me! :D

An orgasm is good for period pains and I find I am horny during my period, but then I tend to be more into clitoral masturbation than penetration so it's not messy!

 

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On 10/3/2016 at 8:01 AM, tonybenz said:

once went a month. first week and a half was hard but after that it got easier. I just chose to focus on productive things in that period and avoid anything to do with sex. I found my gym sessions were way more intense and my recovery from each session was alot faster

That's quite odd because for me it works the other way around. If I don't wank or have sex I can't stop thinking about it, it distracts me from being productive and I can't focus at all.

I don't think it would make any difference in terms of how hard you push at sports either, that's called a placebo effect matey;)

Normally if I have something important coming up, like a job interview I like to have a wank before hand so that I am cool, calm and collected.

 

 

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8 hours ago, the legend of bent cock said:

That's quite odd because for me it works the other way around. If I don't wank or have sex I can't stop thinking about it, it distracts me from being productive and I can't focus at all.

I don't think it would make any difference in terms of how hard you push at sports either, that's called a placebo effect matey;)

Normally if I have something important coming up, like a job interview I like to have a wank before hand so that I am cool, calm and collected.

 

 

my attention to detail grows when I dont wank. so if I have a big event coming up I do the exact opposite. however if you have things like alerts or tv shows you watch with sex or lots of sexy women they can bring on the hunger really strong.  all you do is consciously avoid sex images and anytime I felt the desire I put that extra energy I felt into something productive like preparing better, gym or solving any outstanding issues In my life.  it really worked.

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Late at night when I can't sleep.

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On 26/09/2016 at 11:10 AM, Beast said:

Nearly every day, sometimes I try and hold off for a couple of days before a punt, but it is very hard!

I have a punt planned with a fantastic looking girl from IK services in Leeds, a 5'11" redhead called Georgia.  I am very very much looking forward to fucking her and have promised myself a wank free four days prior to the meet.  I am finding this is enhancing the expectation, in effect extending the run-up to the event to four days.  Oh, I am so looking forward to the explosion!

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I usually do it every couple of days but I always go 5-7 days before seeing an escort.

Once I had done this a few times it got easier and I really enjoy the anticipation.

The longest I ever went without a wank was 2 months but that was because my Mistress put me in a chastity device!

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Most days I wank at least once. Can hold off for a week, especially if I am busy. It is definately more explosive when I do, but not proportionally to the amount of abstinence.

When planning on seeing a WG the anticipation usually gets me so horny that i have to knock one out the night before or i cannot sleep. Even then i still wake up early and with my cock twitching.

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On 04/10/2016 at 0:27 AM, MinxyLydia said:

An orgasm is good for period pains and I find I am horny during my period, but then I tend to be more into clitoral masturbation than penetration so it's not messy!

 

Interesting. Do mumsnet know this?

 

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