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Ok so I have been doing this for a while. But I am still learning.

Today's question, an agency has stated on an escort's profile that the escort'sservices include "sub". what does this involve? 

If she was an indie , I would just message or phone and ask. Please note, there is no.mention of Bdsm or spanking on the profile. 

So what should i expect? That she wants the client to take the lead? Likes to be told what to do?

I ask because I would like to  book her, but dont want to start the booking off on the wrong note. My experience is the tone of the bookking is set in the first few minutes, start well and the next 30 or 60 minutes fly by in a flurry of great sex .

Advise from more experienced punters or sex providers would be welcome

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Having sub on her profile would mean she is of a submissive disposition and would welcome you to be the dominant party (within limits) during part or all the the time spent together...

thats my take on it but sure more experienced and knowledgable peeps will enlighten us...

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In the spirit of replying in under the 12 hour punternet time frame, I would first of all treat what any agency says about a girl with a fairly large pinch of salt, as she probably has only a limited amount of control over what is written about her. But, if such a description was to be taken at face value, then you might expect her to allow you to take the lead, for you to be confident in saying what you want and for her to allow you to be commanding in the heat of the moment. The trouble is, that if taken too literally, with many guys that could lead to an abusive encounter, where the man thinks he can do whatever the hell he likes, without being sensitive to any consensual boundaries. Maybe the answer is to go in without any particular expectations but to test the waters as you go along, and to make it clear from the outset, that she is to tell you if there is anything that she doesn't want you to do, which you should then respect. Though, I must admit that this is unlikely to come up with the notoriously open-minded gorgeous young sub that I am meeting tomorrow evening :P

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14 minutes ago, visconti said:

In the spirit of replying in under the 12 hour punternet time frame, I would first of all treat what any agency says about a girl with a fairly large pinch of salt, as she probably has only a limited amount of control over what is written about her. But, if such a description was to be taken at face value, then you might expect her to allow you to take the lead, for you to be confident in saying what you want and for her to allow you to be commanding in the heat of the moment. The trouble is, that if taken too literally, with many guys that could lead to an abusive encounter, where the man thinks he can do whatever the hell he likes, without being sensitive to any consensual boundaries. Maybe the answer is to go in without any particular expectations but to test the waters as you go along, and to make it clear from the outset, that she is to tell you if there is anything that she doesn't want you to do, which you should then respect. Though, I must admit that this is unlikely to come up with the notoriously open-minded gorgeous young sub that I am meeting tomorrow evening :P

"Testing the waters" . Excellent advice, thanks. 

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12 hours ago, enquire said:

"Testing the waters" . Excellent advice, thanks. 

It may seem a strange thing to say, but if you meet a sub, the person truly in control should always be the sub.  By that I mean that she should always have the option to say no at any point and for that to be immediately respected.

It is always best to chat about preferences and limits no later than the beginning of the meeting, before the fun starts, if for no other reason than it reassures the sub that you will respect her limits.  If she has confidence that you will respect those limits then she will be able to relax more which should make for a better session all round.

 

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1 hour ago, TheVicar said:

It may seem a strange thing to say, but if you meet a sub, the person truly in control should always be the sub. By that I mean that she should always have the option to say no at any point and for that to be immediately respected.

It is always best to chat about preferences and limits no later than the beginning of the meeting, before the fun starts, if for no other reason than it reassures the sub that you will respect her limits.  If she has confidence that you will respect those limits then she will be able to relax more which should make for a better session all round.

 

This is absolutely right. 

I usually ask the client to discuss all details a few days before our booking and discuss safewords so there is no mix up. 

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I took on board your collective advise. As a result, I just came back from one of the best bookings ever. Not so much a happy ending, more an esctastic ending. I feel so good. Second punt in two dwys, won't need another tomorrow, I  can live off this expereince  for a fortnight.

 

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2 minutes ago, enquire said:

I took on board your collective advise. As a result, I just came back from one of the best bookings ever. Not so much a happy ending, more an esctastic ending. I feel so good. Second punt in two dwys, won't need another tomorrow, I  can live off this expereince  for a fortnight.

 

That's great! :D xx

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On 10/14/2016 at 5:31 PM, enquire said:

I took on board your collective advise. As a result, I just came back from one of the best bookings ever. Not so much a happy ending, more an esctastic ending. I feel so good. Second punt in two dwys, won't need another tomorrow, I  can live off this expereince  for a fortnight.

 

Glad to hear it all ended ecstatically !

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