Dollymopp

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Tell me what you think, please?

Ex BF who found me through HH furore news and here etc..

Wants to book me in a prof situ?

:confused:

How crazy is that?

On one hand..it will be a great shag!

On other hand..this is odd!

P.S. I much prefer Dollymopping, and not looking for 'bf reunited.com'

But what do you think of that?

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Don't do it, work and RL are two different things. :confused:

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It's a situation that'll blow up in your face, Dolly, just tell him the past is the past and you've moved on.

No need to look back.

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It's a 16yr gap, we had 3-4 dates mid 90's, and he found me because of HH stuff in papers.

I'm in about 5 minds about it now, but really know the answer...NO!

Was just asking... as I wondered if anyone has ever had such an exp?

It's too crazy for sure, but I'm tempted, if truth be told...eek. Just for the fun likes...

NO! I know...

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First immediate reaction after reading your post: Don't do it! Second: I don't know.

Depending why you become EXes in the first place. Its the only the question you can answer yourself Dolly, as he never going to be "another client".

Surprised that you asking it on this forum.

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I was just asking as I thought others might have had this odd exp, X! I know it's a no no...! But it is tempting, haha.

I was thinking...has anyone else ever been in this situ?

I'm mostly good with fixing others problems..but like others opinions, when I have one of my own. It's always clearer from the outside, isn't it?

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It's a 16yr gap, we had 3-4 dates mid 90's, and he found me because of HH stuff in papers.

If you only had 3-4 dates in the past, he is not exactly an ex-boyfriend. You just had few casual encounters with him, thats all.

In that case: Go for it Dolly! (I personally would also, providing that you did not parted with him on the bitter terms)

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Well only you can make the decision and know the guy in question etc... if your comfortable with it, go for it! Always good to get a "good" shag, and unlike popular belief us WG's don't get enough of them!!!

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My 2p (for what it's worth) absolutely not. You'd be asking for this to blow up in your face and playing with fire. Let sleeping dogs lie....

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If you only had 3-4 dates in the past, he is not exactly an ex-boyfriend. You just had few casual encounters with him, thats all.

In that case: Go for it Dolly! (I personally would also, providing that you did not parted with him on the bitter terms)

You could always get that in now if you were wondering lol! I've had a casual fling tried to book me too, I told him to do one and that I would not shag him again even if he was paying... hahah I waited years to say that to someone! :confused:

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My 2p (for what it's worth) absolutely not. You'd be asking for this to blow up in your face and playing with fire. Let sleeping dogs lie....

Why it should blow up in her face? She had few casual dates with him over a decade ago, they parted. Most of us done the same. Whats wrong with meeting him again, catch up with what might was missing before and earn some quids also while she is at it? :confused:

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Hi Dolly x

If his contact over this request has been over familiar, out of amusement or whatever, then it's unlikely he'll keep the booking to a level of just being a booking. If he's got loads of questions to ask, not to renew your friendship but out of curiosity, are you OK with that ? And that's the gut reaction of my NO.

However, if you're OK with how he's conducted himself thus far, and he won't be offended when you escort him to the door when his time's up (with a spank on the bum for good effort !).... why not, you only met him a few times before years ago and you can have fun comparing advances in your books of skills :confused::);)

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Go for it. You can handle it. Just be on your best professional behaviour. Once you lock into your Wg persona you'll be fine. I think he would really enjoy it too.

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well, you think he's a great shag.

he must think you are.

provided he's not some sort of psycho and you parted on decent terms, what's the problem?

he can't be spending your sort of money just to catch up - he wants a shag, decent conversation etc.

even if you realise you still fancy him you must have other clients you fancy and deal with it, and you must have lots of clients who fancy you like mad and you deal with that.

If I were you I'd go for the great shag. No surprise there.

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A few questions spring to mind. Are there people in your life who don't know what you do, and you want to keep it that way? Is there any way he can get in contact with them, and if so, would he? Sounds like a nasty situation and I REALLY don't envy you.

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He currently has your private details, but, other than the web-site, most of which you've taken down / fuzzied since his first txt approach. If he has a professional meeting with you he has the rest. He could just be curious, but you could be putting yourself in his power.

I'd say, "Not him!"

PS - is he lurking here?

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My concern now would be that he has read all this thread as well. Meeting him again could go either way. If you don't mind me saying D you should be older and wiser now so it really has to be your decision. For what its worth I would say no unless you are desparate to try to re-live your past. Let us know your final/final decision.

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Dolly-- you know the answer yourself and it is a definite NO. As a man , take it from me this is not just another punt from another punter. There is an agenda here that has the potential to make you feel very uncomfortable.Why risk it ? If you do decide to go ahead, charge him thru the roof for the pleasure!:D

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Lady Mopp, like Cumandgo I wonder if there's a secondary agenda. Is he just going to be a bloody nuisance and more trouble than he's worth?

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can't help but think there is a degree of over-dramatisation creeping in here: if he had been the love of your life, you'd been going out for a couple of years and breaking up had been painful, then of course you'd be daft to even think about it; but 3 to 4 dates 16 years ago is nothing, surely? If he was able and wanted to he could cause trouble without seeing you - and of course he could have arranged to see you anonymously, you wouldn't have recognised his voice would you? He could have just turned up at your door under an assumed name, that would have been interesting!

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can't help but think there is a degree of over-dramatisation creeping in here

You are of course exactly right. I believe the reason for that is that this approach by an ex reminds Dollymopp (and all WGs) that boyfriend material and punter material is on the same roll of cloth, much though WGs often shout very loudly that they are not only in different warehouses but on opposite side of town. :D

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I thought the opinion generally expressed on this forum by male posters was the other way around - that girlfriend and WG material are cut from different cloth! I don't think we have much difficulty understanding how men can be.

Anyway I think it could be ok just so long as they both exercise discretion, and neither takes anything the wrong way. Could be he just fancies a friendly face and it's easier since he already knows her.

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I thought the opinion generally expressed on this forum by male posters was the other way around - that girlfriend and WG material are cut from different cloth! I don't think we have much difficulty understanding how men can be.

Anyway I think it could be ok just so long as they both exercise discretion, and neither takes anything the wrong way. Could be he just fancies a friendly face and it's easier since he already knows her.

he wants to shag somebody he knows he fancies.

simples

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Hi Honi, my advice.....go with your gut instict lol :(:D xxx

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Hi Dolly

I would go for it and look at it as a massive compliment. He hasn't rung up expecting a freebie, you must be brilliant in the sack and he is willing to pay you WOW

You go girl and take a pic of the money once he has gone....

One up to you :):D:(

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