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If your favourite WG asked to date and then marry you?

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

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If the WG can also accept her man being an ex punter, assuming he stops punting then there should be no problem.

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If the WG can also accept her man being an ex punter, assuming he stops punting then there should be no problem.

True. But if its a numbers game, I'd hazard a guess the average WG has seen more punters than the average guy has had punts?

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True. But if its a numbers game, I'd hazard a guess the average WG has seen more punters than the average guy has had punts?

Why are you assuming that both parties would have to give it up? Monogamy is surely not the only requirement for a successful relationship. Why couldnt it work with her continuing to be a WG and him continuing to be a punter?

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Funnily enough It has happeaned to me, a Thai WG asked me to marry her once, I did a runner, wasn't even a leap year lol. :D

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If the WG can also accept her man being an ex punter, assuming he stops punting then there should be no problem.

That's an amusing thought. In my opinion, a leopard will never change it's spots.

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

:D

The beauty of the punter-WG relationship is that it is a simple paid-for sexual encounter with no strings attached. If a WG asked to date me, then she's crossed over the line. I'd never book her again.

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That's an amusing thought. In my opinion, a leopard will never change it's spots.

you are right so I admit I would find it difficult to only have sex with one woman for the rest of my life. I wonder if the working girls could go back to one v one? for ever,

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

:D

Jealousy would always ruin it.

Each and every time you read a Field Report telling what she did with her clients, you'd become more and more jealous.

Also there'd be that nagging feeling, is she still seeing men ?

It would never, ever work.

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I'd call a psychiatrist

why?...........

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

:(

Why?

Have you been asked recently :D

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Jealousy would always ruin it.

Each and every time you read a Field Report telling what she did with her clients, you'd become more and more jealous.

Also there'd be that nagging feeling, is she still seeing men ?

It would never, ever work.

I wouldn,t thats all a game. Sex is sex and is not the foundation stone for me.

So I think if attractions are strong enough it could work even with both parties having sex elsewhere.

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you are right so I admit I would find it difficult to only have sex with one woman for the rest of my life. I wonder if the working girls could go back to one v one? for ever,

I think it's perhaps ever so slightly different. Perhaps not.

But most girls will escort when young(er) - paying off loans, raising a child as a single mom, earning enough to pay the rent, feed a drug habit or whatever. However.....most of them at some stage are likely to marry - when they no longer have to earn that easy money for whatever purpose. And can rely on the man to provide. Well, mostly...

Seriously in all honestly, I'm absolutely sure that 90% would not be WG's if they didn't have to be. Yes, the great and successful ones love sex and their jobs and that's why they excel.

But when it comes to raw sex, women are just not the same as men. And when in a long term "monogamous" relationship, simply don't crave it as much as we do love, reassurance, protection and affection (don't we all know this too well). Yes there are exceptions but I'm talking about "on the whole/in general/more often than not".

So unless a woman has to, she's unlikely to return to being paid for sex just for the thrill of it :D

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Jealousy would always ruin it.

Spot on! It's extremely rare you would ever hope to find two individuals so emotionally secure & mature that it wouldn't bother them and can simply rise above it all.

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

:(

As I'm already (happily) married, not to mention not being every young girl's ideal catch (:D), it's not something ever likely to happen to me.

There have however been a couple of stories on here from either WGs or punters who have tried and made a real success (so far) of it. I guess it can work.

Nowever, I do agree with most other posters that the probable jealousy from the man (if the girl carries on working) and the knowledge of the girl that she met this man having sex with strangers for money (leading perhaps to a reduced level of trust) will probably make it an uphill struggle for many relationships that start this way.

Which is why it's nice to hear of those that do work :).

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

:(

Fictitious perhaps. But I'll be honest and say (as most women probably do instinctively) that I'll naturally size up anyone for "suitable material" (despite my conviction that I'll remain unmarried forever - through choice). Entirely irrespective of whether or not they'd find me suitable!

And over time when really building up a (albeit "working") relationship, and a real chemistry exist (yes you pessimists: it can happen in the real world) - it's not all that impossible to imagine a real dating/relationship scenario.

Back to the real world - in my experience it's doomed and will never work. Call me a pessimist now :D

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Funnily enough It has happeaned to me, a Thai WG asked me to marry her once, I did a runner, wasn't even a leap year lol. :o

Funny enough, I have had that as well and I ran like the wind. :D

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I had a date with a client just before christmas where he told me he had an engagement ring waiting for me "when I'm ready". NO NO NO!!!!

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

:o

Not necessarily fictitious, an employee of mine married a WG 12 years ago and they are still together and quite happy.

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Completely fictitious scenario.

As per the thread title above - would you seriously contemplate it? And if you did, how would her past / her job sit with you? Could you really bury it?

Just curious what people's responses would be on this.

:o

If both parties were broad minded enough and in total agreement about what they did, then I suppose it could work. But it would never work for me, I'd be way too jealous if she was still working.

I would also have to give up punting as I would not cheat on the person to whom I was committed. In my upbringing that is the whole purpose of marriage - total commitment to the person you love and vice versa. Commitment involves sacrifice which in turn requires self-restraint. What are marriage vows for after all? All sounds good on paper I know, and that's another reason, I'm not sure I could deal with marriage to any woman let alone a prostitute.

But if the chemistry done its thing you may not have much say in it. I've heard many a friend say they'd never marry again yet they eventually do when the right person comes along.

However, having a platonic type of friendship with one would do no harm IMO.

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If I felt she could be the right person for me, I would certainly be interested in seeing her socially to see if it could work.

I would know about her work, which must always be something that a girl worries about when starting a new relationship, and it would be hypocritical of me to hold it against her.

I am fairly certain I could "cope" mentally with her carrying on working if she wanted to. I would always remember if she hadn't done it I never would have found her.

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I could do it for the right girl, but I know she would know I'd punt again in the future before she'd ever start working again.

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Myself, I can compentalise pretty well. I only punt due to being single I would have no problem having a relationship with an escort & when I have been in relationships have had no desire or inclination to punt.

For me sex/business and love are totally separate things & I have a relatively low sex drive so would not necessirly get peed off if my partner came home and wasn't interested in nookie due to a busy day at work.

Having said that if you were to ask the same question of me 10-15 years ago the answer would be totally different and being less chilled out and worldly wise I would probably never entertain the idea.

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Seriously in all honestly, I'm absolutely sure that 90% would not be WG's if they didn't have to be.

That is probably the most ridiculous thing I have ever read on here, most girls are prostitutes because it is bloody good money --- not because they HAVE to be. :o:rolleyes:

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