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I haven't had a punt for ages, not through choice, I just can't afford it at the moment, and unless the economy has a serious up-turn, I don't expect the situation to improve.

The thing is, despite the fact that I am not punting, I am still looking at escorting websites and forums. Is it just me? Or is there something about this community, the non-judgemental acceptance of pay to play, that acts as a sort of release?

I think that I will have to stop looking though, there are some seriously gorgeous sexy escorts out there, not being in a position to book any of them is sending me a bit crazy, along with the lack of sex.

So this could be my last thread for a good while. :)

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I understand where you're coming from - I don't really punt all that often (last time was end of October, although I intend my next one to be very soon), yet I still look at sites when I have no intention of booking anyone any time soon. It's as if searching for escorts is equivalent to "the thrill of the chase".

Plus I just like finding out if any new hot girls have started escorting in my areas.

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If you are after a sympathy shag I think you could be out of luck. I wish you a bit more luck on the money side of things.

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Looking without intending to purchase is called window shopping. We all look at things we cant afford and hope one day we can.

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I understand where you're coming from - I don't really punt all that often (last time was end of October, although I intend my next one to be very soon), yet I still look at sites when I have no intention of booking anyone any time soon. It's as if searching for escorts is equivalent to "the thrill of the chase".

Plus I just like finding out if any new hot girls have started escorting in my areas.

I haven't had a punt for ages, not through choice, I just can't afford it at the moment, and unless the economy has a serious up-turn, I don't expect the situation to improve.

The thing is, despite the fact that I am not punting, I am still looking at escorting websites and forums. Is it just me? Or is there something about this community, the non-judgemental acceptance of pay to play, that acts as a sort of release?

I think that I will have to stop looking though, there are some seriously gorgeous sexy escorts out there, not being in a position to book any of them is sending me a bit crazy, along with the lack of sex.

So this could be my last thread for a good while. :)

Oh yeah, sure, you're 'looking at escorts' even though you don't have any money and have a world of porn at your fingertips.

Deal with it guys. You've got a punter fetish and you're in denial.

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Oh yeah, sure, you're 'looking at escorts' even though you don't have any money and have a world of porn at your fingertips.

Deal with it guys. You've got a punter fetish and you're in denial.

:):D Many a true word is spoken in jest! I think you just diagnosed your own problem there MrM, and you are now on the true path to enlightenment glasshoppel! :):D

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I haven't had a punt for ages, not through choice, I just can't afford it at the moment, and unless the economy has a serious up-turn, I don't expect the situation to improve.

The thing is, despite the fact that I am not punting, I am still looking at escorting websites and forums. Is it just me? Or is there something about this community, the non-judgemental acceptance of pay to play, that acts as a sort of release?

I think that I will have to stop looking though, there are some seriously gorgeous sexy escorts out there, not being in a position to book any of them is sending me a bit crazy, along with the lack of sex.

So this could be my last thread for a good while. :)

A bit like just looking at the menus from your fav restaurants and then walking away.

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Deal with it guys. You've got a punter fetish and you're in denial.

Assuming that your statement "You've got a punter fetish and you're in denial" is correct, do you have any practical suggestions as to how to deal with it?

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I stopped punting for seven months last year when money was tight, but stayed active on here. I all but stopped reading Field Reports and looking at Escort Sites though. I wouldn't worry about it :)

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Assuming that your statement "You've got a punter fetish and you're in denial" is correct, do you have any practical suggestions as to how to deal with it?

Just go back to using porn. :)

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Assuming that your statement "You've got a punter fetish and you're in denial" is correct, do you have any practical suggestions as to how to deal with it?

I don't believe there's a cure for a man with a punter fetish (or 'PF' as it's known on the scene). Though I was the first guy with a PF to come out of the closet, I reckon at least half the guys on here only come on to check out punters.

How else could you explain the continuous stream of ridiculous views on women and the world? Most of the men on here don't even seem to like women very much, so it's reasonable to conclude they're only here to check out other desperate dudes.

As for a cure, SaSfan, I'm not sure. I tried to explain it before on another thread but it's hard to articulate the dark and deep carnal passion a person with PF experiences when he spots a punter waddling down the street, leering at women half his age while massaging his withered old cock through is trouser pocket.

Perhaps it's the egg-stained beards, the look of defeat and resignation on your faces, or the brown sauce stain snaking its way down your cum-encrusted mac.

Or perhaps it's the thought of you standing there with nothing on but your sensible shoes and your Pringle golf socks, lifting up your drooping beer belly, releasing the musky scent of your sweaty balls into my face?

I'm afraid that that's the best I can explain it. A punter fetish is one of those almost spiritual experiences that you can't quite put into words. It's not quite love. It's not quite magic. But somewhere in between.

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Thank you so much not for sharing that with us MrM, now when do you plan on having your next vacation? We need some time to rid our minds of those images. :)

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Is it one of those addictions where an increasing amount of dopamine has to be released each time to get the same high?

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As for a cure, SaSfan, I'm not sure. I tried to explain it before on another thread but it's hard to articulate the dark and deep carnal passion a person with PF experiences when he spots a punter waddling down the street, leering at women half his age while massaging his withered old cock through is trouser pocket.

Perhaps it's the egg-stained beards, the look of defeat and resignation on your faces, or the brown sauce stain snaking its way down your cum-encrusted mac.

Or perhaps it's the thought of you standing there with nothing on but your sensible shoes and your Pringle golf socks, lifting up your drooping beer belly, releasing the musky scent of your sweaty balls into my face?

Well apart from the "sensible shoes", "Pringle golf socks" and "drooping beer belly"

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Your still here looking, and wondering, because you cant make millions playing golf like Tiger Woods....now that is someone with a sexual addiction.

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I stopped punting for seven months last year when money was tight, but stayed active on here. I all but stopped reading Field Reports and looking at Escort Sites though. I wouldn't worry about it :rolleyes:

My punting fluctuates with my finances. Throughout I keep reading the fr's and looking at the sites, but in my case it's the frequency of my postings on this mb that diminish when I'm not punting

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Yes, I suppose you could call it "window shopping", the problem is the itch you can't scratch. You see, punting is the only sex I get, i.e. none.

I wasn't looking for a sympathy shag, but....there is room in my PM inbox :rolleyes:

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Totally agree that money is tight all round and probably none of us punt as much as we'd like or even we used to.

Some girls have lowered their prices and that seems to have helped a bit, but it's still a lot of money for an hour or 2 of fun. Money wise, I was better off 10 years ago than I am today.

This forum is a great place to check out what others feel about the punting game. Admittedly some of the posts are a little strange, but hey that's all part of the entertainment.

Going very slightly off topic for a second: I emailed 5 girls for a possible booking last night, only one has had the decency to reply although all 5 emails have been read. How bloody rude not to reply.

Perhaps the recession is not effecting those.

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I bet that if you stop looking at the said websites you won't feel so much like punting. You are torturing yourself.

Funny, but true. It's stopping yourself from looking at the sites in the first place thats the real "problem".

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Going very slightly off topic for a second: I emailed 5 girls for a possible booking last night, only one has had the decency to reply although all 5 emails have been read. How bloody rude not to reply.

Perhaps the recession is not effecting those.

I hate that. Of the last 15 girls I've emailed who read their mail, seven of them never bothered to reply. I would usually take the stance "well, if you can't be bothered replying, then you obviously don't want my custom", but two of them are girls I would very much like to have a booking with. In fact, I'm pretty much gagging to shag one of them in particular. As a result, I'll just have to try them again. But yes, rather rude.

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Deal with it guys. You've got a punter fetish and you're in denial.
Nope. The punters do nothing for me. It's the puntees and the punting that gets me going. :rolleyes:

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The thing is, despite the fact that I am not punting, I am still looking at escorting websites and forums. Is it just me? Or is there something about this community, the non-judgemental acceptance of pay to play, that acts as a sort of release?:rolleyes:

it's a basic need for acceptance and recognition, which is what a good percentage of blokes go to wg's for (not just sex), so if that need isn't being filled from actual punting, then forums like this, which are a community, are the next best solution to get that sense of acceptance & recognition.

i look at escort sites as a habit, just in case i miss something and for entertainment, its a bit like reading & reading single topic magazines, force of habit, got to keep up to date

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I don't believe there's a cure for a man with a punter fetish (or 'PF' as it's known on the scene). Though I was the first guy with a PF to come out of the closet, I reckon at least half the guys on here only come on to check out punters.

How else could you explain the continuous stream of ridiculous views on women and the world? Most of the men on here don't even seem to like women very much, so it's reasonable to conclude they're only here to check out other desperate dudes.

As for a cure, SaSfan, I'm not sure. I tried to explain it before on another thread but it's hard to articulate the dark and deep carnal passion a person with PF experiences when he spots a punter waddling down the street, leering at women half his age while massaging his withered old cock through is trouser pocket.

Perhaps it's the egg-stained beards, the look of defeat and resignation on your faces, or the brown sauce stain snaking its way down your cum-encrusted mac.

Or perhaps it's the thought of you standing there with nothing on but your sensible shoes and your Pringle golf socks, lifting up your drooping beer belly, releasing the musky scent of your sweaty balls into my face?

I'm afraid that that's the best I can explain it. A punter fetish is one of those almost spiritual experiences that you can't quite put into words. It's not quite love. It's not quite magic. But somewhere in between.

As a man of straw to a man of piss and wind, can I recommend you consider the words of William Congreve (look him up): "I confess freely to you, I could never look long upon a monkey, without very mortifying reflections." :rolleyes:

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Looking at porn is not the same thing. Part of the fascination of scanning for escorts is you know you can have sex with them if you have the money. They are available to you. Not like some American porn star. And every so often if you are on a budget you find someone who you simply have to see regardless and then its so much sweeter. Having an unlimited amount of money for punting must get pretty boring and de-value the experience.

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Totally agree that money is tight all round and probably none of us punt as much as we'd like or even we used to.

Some girls have lowered their prices and that seems to have helped a bit, but it's still a lot of money for an hour or 2 of fun. Money wise, I was better off 10 years ago than I am today.

This forum is a great place to check out what others feel about the punting game. Admittedly some of the posts are a little strange, but hey that's all part of the entertainment.

Going very slightly off topic for a second: I emailed 5 girls for a possible booking last night, only one has had the decency to reply although all 5 emails have been read. How bloody rude not to reply.

Perhaps the recession is not effecting those.

I reckon that's a useful response to the OP.

It's to be expected that some punters will feel the cold wind of recession more than others, and a little economising may be essential, but sunny days will be back and in the meantime it makes sense to stay in touch with the scene, albeit if only as a 'bit player'.:rolleyes:

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